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I assumed the "madam" is your wife.

Looking at it with strictly business eyes, she brought the job. You were paid for your service by your statement "of giving her the best rate".

The only thing missing in your naration is the source of the capital. Who is the source of the capital ?

If she is the source of the capital and the contract, she deserves higher shares than you. If you are the source of the capital while she is the contract source, you can share profit equally. Sharing formula depends on your negotiation and agreement. Always firm up all agreements including sharing formula before entering into any business.

Now, looking at it with family eyes, even if you are the source of the capital, once she had returned the capital back to you, and she is offering you 30pct of the profits, you should take it with love for the sake of your family.

Hmm. This is a deep one. I hope your wife has not carried what she reads or sees on social media from feminists and redpillers to home?

Please sit her down and talk senses into her.

sisisioge:
You should actually speak to your mom and husband about either helping with chores or helping with the baby at night. If none of that is happening, when baby sleeps, just sleep too and sod all the chores that need to be done. EOD.

This is your advise. Don't come and kill yourself when you have 2 adults that can help.

First, you have to help them for the sake of the good the man did for you. That's the most important here.

Second, if you know she will reject it, then do it anonymously.

Madampauline:
She knows me well

And she knew you had an affair with her husband back then? Any other reasons?

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids. He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me. I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life. I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children. I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay. She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives. I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money. Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her. Advice me please

Why will she reject your assistance if she knows it's coming from you?

Interesting.

Nigerian politicians and their agents are now afraid many Nigerians are leaving the country for them.

They are now sponsoring social media campaigns to deter the masses from escaping the hellhole they have created while their wives, children are schooling abroad, leaving lavishly abroad and having first world countries international passports.

If the country is well run:

1. All politicians, and their agents will have their children school in Nigerian schools,

2. They will get medical treatments from Nigerian hospitals instead of going to London, America, India, UAE for medicals.

3. Their children and wives will be living in Nigeria

I am sorry to say this.

Only a decent man deserves a decent woman to marry.

If you lead a wayward life as a man, you deserve to marry a wayward woman because I don't know who you think should marry those you helped to damage.

My vote is waiting ! These democrats are crazy.

Magnoliaa:
Please, keep your hypothetical situations to yourself because nobody removes a nine-month pregnancy for the fun of it.

Mtcheeeeeewwwwwwww.

There is nothing hypothetical there. If you come to debate table with no single limit on abortion, it simply means you want to legalize abortion up unto time of birth.

And don't pass a general statement that no one is doing or will do it. If it's legal, it can be done. If you will not do it does not mean another person cannot do it.

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Magnoliaa:
- Isn't the child a part of the woman's body?

The baby is literally growing in her body.

- And what "body" does an embryo and barely formed foetus has?

Every one agrees the embryo stage can be removed.

The argument is whether aborting after 6 or 8 weeks when it has passed embryo stage is killing someone else or not?

And whether we should make that a free for all up until 9 months and 1 second even before delivery when the life of the woman is not at risk?

MasterJayJay:
You can't defend abortion without sounding dumb. It is inevitable.


Those who support evil will always make statements that are ridiculous to back their support for such evil, no matter how educated they claim to be.

Abortion activists keep saying 'A woman has rights over her body'.

1. The baby in the womb is not part of the mother's body

2. Every human being has a DNA that is unique. Two people can't have the same DNA.

3. The DNA of the baby in the womb is completely different from the DNA of the mother.


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Exactly. This is why democrats are finding it difficult to defend at debates.

Scientifically, morally etc. Their arguments to abort babies on delivery tables at 9 months are completely baseless.

Democrats are even finding it very hard to defend this their abortion arguments at election debates. They always dodge around the question during debates.

And their arguments are not being bought by the American majority.

This is why they have started changing their campaign messages recently from abortion to "threats of democracy" if republican wins.

Both the mother and her daughter are hiding something.

Don't proceed with anything court weeding until you have found out what they are hiding.

You might not even know the lady you are marrying yet.

Unfortunately you are doing this spy work late.

You are supposed to have done this work before marriage.

If the story is true, go and do DNA test first. You also don't have a wife.

This argument was started by democrat politicians in the US for sole purpose of using it to campaign for the mid-term elections coming up on November 8 and democrats are even lying so much about the whole thing.

The Supreme court did the right thing to overturn RoeVwade. The supreme court said RoeVwade judgement that stipulated abortion is human rights enshrined in the US constitution was a faulty decision, that no such rights exist in American constitution and any of its amendments. Therefore, any matter not in US constitution are decided by the state laws. Each state in the US has the authorities to make laws over such matters and not the federal government.

Based on this decision, democrats states that legalized abortion up to the last minute before birth can continue to have such laws while republican states are also free to limit abortions. However, democrats are lying about this to their base that the Supreme court decision has banned all abortions in the US. That is lie number 1 in democrats’ argument.

Lie number 2 in democrats’ argument is that Abortion rights is part of US constitution. US constitution is a public document. In fact, everyone can google the constitution and all its amendments to read. Abortion rights is not in US constitution.

Lie number 3 is that republican states banned all abortions without any exceptions. Most republican state laws allow abortion up to 6, 8 weeks, in case the mother’s life is in danger. So, the argument of rape and incest is killed here. If a woman is raped, she has up to 6 or 8 weeks to abort. The premise for this time frame is that a pregnancy has developed to a life by 6 to 8 weeks by having a child’s heartbeat. The democrats want to abort a child even up to 1 minute before birth at the delivery table but the republicans are saying that is radical, inhumane and lack all moral grounding on the rights of the child.

Democrats are saying a child should only have rights and be protected only 1 minutes after the child is born but they want to allow aborting the same child up to 1 minute before birth. It does not make sense. There is no difference between a child you abort 1 minute before birth and a child you protect after birth.

Once the pregnancy become a life inside the woman, breathing and kicking, that life has human rights and must be protected. We have numerous people in the world today that were born prematurely (6 month, 7month, 8 month) and living perfectly today.

My sincere advice to everyone on this abortion politics is that, please listen to both sides by watching both Foxnews (Republican controlled) and rest of American media (Democrats controlled) before you take sides so that you hear both arguments and not be fed only with one sided lies.

There is always a phase like this in almost all marriages. Some get there quickly while some get there slowly.

This is where psychologically each party can close eyes and draw the anatomy of the other person. Interest in sexual activities can drop.

This is what you need to do:

1. Psychologically focus your mind on any physical attribute of your partner that is attractive to you.

2. Rejuvenate the courtship activities, do all those things new boyfriends and girlfriends do together.

3. Remember that as your wife ages and bears children, her body will change but there are lingerie and dresses that will still package that body that you will rush her anytime you are both alone. Buy those lingerie and dresses for her. When you are both alone, she should wear those sexy lingerie around the house for you.

4. Then when it's time for the deal on the bed, she must not stay stack naked. Watch some of those adult movies of women having her type or shape of body and see how those women dress for the action.

5. 3 and 4 are to get your woman up to your fantasy. If you have other fantasies, tell your woman. Like some men love blowjobs, sucking their nipples etc.

We can all form woke and modern as we like, but the fact remains children from broken homes have more probability to turn out this way.

This is obviously one of those from broken home raised by a single mother.

Husbands and wives, both in Nigeria and abroad, consider your children before you damage your marriage or relationship. It's always the children that suffer the most of a broken home.

Who do black man this? Everything is spiritual for black man.

Same way black man believed White men that brought science and technology were witches and wizards.

Ask yourself whether the current white people in the world still advancing science and technology are also witches and wizards as our forefathers believed.

Same way, Africans were calling sickle cell anaemia, a Spirit of Abiku until Oyinbo told them it is caused by blood genotypes.

Wow! I always like this type of challenge

They should take the boy's body to that pastor oo.

If he fails to bring him back to life, na thurder go fire am.

oliviatwist:
It was hot until recently, the housing market here has really slowed and given the current mortgage interest rate, most people are not willing to buy or even sell for that matter at a 7% rate.
There is an article I saw few days back on how the flipping company "Open Door" recently lost some money flipping in the Denver area. Not a great time to buy or sell.

Sure. Not the right time to buy now. The Fed is still trying to fight the inflation for now, more rate hikes are still expected.

oliviatwist:
I did love it. Colorado is beautiful and really clean compared to so many cities I've been to/lived in the US, the people and a lot of the state laws are reasonable, their politics isn't extreme, income tax is not bad, sales taxes are average and property taxes one of the least in the country. Housing is what makes cost of living high in Colorado cause everything else is actually okay. It gets cold but not too extreme, low humidity in Colorado also mean the temperature doesn't feel as bad as it truly is on most days, hot or cold, plus they get a lot of sunshine days so snows melt fast.
I moved cause of 2 main reasons, I wanted to buy a home and home prices in Colorado are high compared to how much i was making, i found somewhere that paid me better with cheaper home prices and decided to move there. Also, it is mostly white and hispanic population so not too diverse, little diverse pockets here and there. In terms of diversity, it is way better than places like Maine but nothing compared to places like Texas.
I do miss it though, I likely wouldn't have moved if I had family there and I recently contemplated moving back there.

Good. I agree Colorado is lovely.

Everything you said is correct assessment of the state. I love the housing prices though for investment property. Investment property appreciate very fast there.

Blessedmercy8:
Who do you want me to call? Those ones that don't have respect? I'm not dragging myself in the mud by relating with any of them or calling any one to order.

After I had a fallout with one of them and threatened to lock her up for trying to be rude, all of them they avoid me and I want it that way.

By the way, bringing it here doesn't mean anything as long as I didn't mention any ones name or upload their pics.

Okay. I see. I completely agree things like these should be discussed and discouraged publicly.

Conservatives in this world have been made silent for long time and this is why immoralities are spreading like wild fire in our society these days.

oliviatwist:
I lived in the Denver area for a couple years before I moved but never visited the aquarium even though I've always wanted to visit. I'm going to take this as a sign and visit before i go back home .
Thanks!

I think you will love the aquarium. I was also there sometimes in 2019. It was a very good experience.

How did you find Denver while you lived there? Did you love it?

Nobody is forcing the women to wait for the boyfriend not ready for marriage.

Blessedmercy8:
Hmmm....

I agree with you that what those girls are doing is bad. I just feel it's better you call them, advise them as an elder sister before bringing it to online forum.

I totally agree with you that marriage is not for you.

But I also think having children is not for you either.

Please do the innocent children and the society at large a favor, don't have any child also.

Thank you very much.

oliviatwist:
Cool. Sounds like you do this a lot too.
Do you have any recommendations?

Yes. I like to see new places. Based on other people's experience and recommendations, you can consider following places around Denver, CO.

1. Downtown Aquarium
2. Denver Zoo and Botanica Garden
3. Red Rocks Amphitheater
4. Rocky Mountain National Park