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Christianity EtcRe: How To Answer The Question "Where Did Jesus Say, 'I Am God, Worship Me''? by HerXLNC(f): 11:35am On Apr 01, 2018
GOD exist in three forms: God the father, God the son, God the holyspirit.... TRINITY : The trinity is a mystery....during the water baptism of Jesus by John... There was a voice from heaven saying : Matthew 3:17 KJV
And lo a voice from heaven, saying, This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.

U can't unravel the mystery behind the TRINITY

in the old testaments...sacrifice involves blood and for the sin of the world to be forgiven and grace to abound there's a need for sacrifice of blood.... only one person blood can be shed for that cause hence God the son (Jesus) needed to come in human form to pay the price
Christianity EtcRe: Mike Bamiloye Exposes Church Instrumentalists by HerXLNC(f): 10:26am On Apr 01, 2018
THEY ARE IN CHURCH FOR BUSINESS....... SOOOOOO?
CrimeRe: Man Bathes Girlfriend With Acid After Family Rejects Marriage Proposal by HerXLNC(f): 12:37am On Mar 30, 2018
Cutehector:
I wonder where these lunatics get acid from
it's readily available in an object you see often... Buh I won't mention it publicly
RomanceRe: Ditto by HerXLNC(f): 8:46am On Mar 18, 2018
Daniwes:
Finally she has seen her period guys... Delayed by 10days... Thanks for the contributions
Don't use Postinor anyhow.... Three days after her period is d safest.... After that always use CD.... I know ure still inexperience to start withdrawal now
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is At The Brink Of Collapse Help Me by HerXLNC(f): 8:21am On Mar 18, 2018
FluidQueen:
Me thinks Marriage is All about Compromise. Reaching a healthy level of understanding. Your Wife is stubborn, a hothead even, but Well, the both of You dated for 8 Years, you knew this before marrying her.

I have no advice but FIX YOUR MARRIAGE. It won't make you any less of a man if you go Get her things from her Sister's place. In cases like this, one has to do away with pride. It won't do you any good. You'd have to make sacrifices, be the bigger person.

Then, maybe when she's back in your house. Ask her what she really wants. Engage her in a deep tête-à-tête. Tell her that marriage isn't a joke and she shouldn't always have to pull a stunt when both of you have contretemps. This is beyond her now. You guys have kids to nurture. Family to build. This isn't a joke anymore.
You spoke my mind
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is At The Brink Of Collapse Help Me by HerXLNC(f):
cheesy cheesy cheesy Ego is killing both of you...i understand your stand that so far she was d one that packed out she shd pack in herself... And she too be like if he still want me he shd subdue his ego and pack my things back.... I ll beg u as d man... Just subdue your ego even when ure right with your point...go n pack her things, laugh over it n joke with her ego, spank her for been stubborn n have a make up x the night that follow... The next day tell her aw much ure hurt n y u wanted her to pack in herself.... Tell her u did d sacrifice for love and for d child... End it in kiss n kitchen x

Thank me later cheesy wink
RomanceRe: A Guy At 26years Of Age Without A Car Is A Coward by HerXLNC(f): 6:58am On Mar 16, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
A guy at 26 or above 26 years and doesn't have a car is that one an human being?? is that laziness or cowardice? undecided


at 26 every guy out there is supposed to be financially stable.. have a car etc
Attention seeking sl.ut .....ritual ingredient for yahoo boys
Christianity EtcRe: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by HerXLNC(f): 6:49pm On Mar 14, 2018
Abstinence is not easy
EducationRe: I'm Worried, I Finally Graduated With 2:2, Any Advice For Me? by HerXLNC(f): 6:36pm On Mar 14, 2018
Nothing to worry about... U myt get a job ahead of someone with 2:1 sef..... Most companies are after what u have to offer not the theory u learnt in school... Just gain skills and experience ur school degree won't be reckon with...i grad with 2:2 I have never looked for job after service... Tho it's grace buh I accepted my first job meant for a some lesser degrees just to gain experience.... Now have carved a niche for myself....i receive job invitations via my profile on Linkedin buh they can't pay me what I worth.... I advised them to go for someone lower.... It's not pride I have built a value for myself
BusinessRe: Church Member Gives Nigeria’s Old £1 Note Used Between 1907-1973 As Offering by HerXLNC(f): 11:25am On Mar 14, 2018
Abeg who is that man in d money
RomanceRe: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by HerXLNC(f): 2:01pm On Mar 09, 2018
jbaby265:
God bless you real good
Amen dear
RomanceRe: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by HerXLNC(f): 7:16am On Mar 09, 2018
jbaby265:
hello house please help a sister out.. my relationship of 6 to 7 years is about to crash..
I Love my man and he loves me too.. he stands by me in all times and I do the same for him too in fact our relationship is a typical example of grassroots relationship.. but recently I'm beginning to get frustrated at his attitude or should I say our attitude towards each other.. which is why I resorted to you guys.. this is a faceless forum so I feel comfortable to share my worries..

in recent years I found out that our quarrels, dispute, misunderstanding and bitterness has drastically increased and it bothers me alot.. he quarrel more often this days and can even stay up-to a month without communication.. he complains about everything I do and that's me angry.. AM NOT A SAINT HERE cos he complains of my non Challentless too.. but this our constant quarrels and misunderstanding is driving crazy.. I've cried and ask GOd to dissolve us if it's not his will for us to get married rather than us fighting all the time. HONESTLY AM CONFUSED PLEASE YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED. I love him and he loves me but we fight a lot.. our wedding is Sept ( still don't believe is possible though)..
Your non challant attitude is a thing of worry simply because he loves you n he get hurt when u don't care about many things he felt shd be norm

7yrs relationship is not beans.... I feel it's ego that's killing both of you, sit him down and discuss this
1.how u can resolve quarrel in less than 24hrs
2.how you both should learn to say the unpalatable sorry
3.how the second person should not get angry when the first is angry.... Meaning both shd never get angry at d same time.... Beside the second person might start his/her anger when d first get over it
4. Never give an "I don't care attitude" it hurts badly


Play this role of sitting him down he ll accord u more respect for this
Car TalkRe: 11 Types Of Passengers That Are Most Dreaded By Uber & Taxify Drivers by HerXLNC(f): 12:42am On Mar 06, 2018
biacan:
And you has to round up your article with the pics of white people when you're writing for black peoplehuh
RIP English language
TV/MoviesRe: Bbnaija: Tobi Put Cee-C Up For Eviction Because She Refused Him Sex - Fan by HerXLNC(f): 3:31pm On Feb 27, 2018
Their business






















Check my signature you know someone that need d service help them to pay less
RomanceRe: Lady Leaves Suicide Note As Her Boyfriend Ikenna Eze From Imo Dumps Her (Photos) by HerXLNC(f): 6:34pm On Feb 21, 2018
God please stop her from committing suicide
















Check my signature don't fall for Shylocks... Get it cheaper
CelebritiesRe: Fans Slam Mompha Over 150M Car Post,Call Him Senseless And Old by HerXLNC(f): 9:22am On Feb 18, 2018
All I c are idiots glorifying bigger idiots that are into illegal stuffs.... Someone even said he likes mompha than hushpuppi .....the fans ooo, mompha, hushpuppi all are fools
HealthRe: "Phone Igniting Gas Is Real, Be Warned!" - Woman As She Suffers Severe Burns by HerXLNC(f): 8:31pm On Feb 13, 2018
U don't fix a gas cylinders or things related to gas indoor....if I wanna open my burner I take everything out
BusinessRe: Photo Of Femi Otedola And His Mother Kissing On The Lips by HerXLNC(f): 11:22am On Feb 11, 2018
FEMI otedola is not any social media
PoliticsRe: Tope Adebutu Treats Olujunwo Obasanjo Like Houseboy In His Home – Taiwo Obasanjo by HerXLNC(f): 11:20am On Feb 10, 2018
Kayanmata is working if you know you know


















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RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Of 5 Years Broke Up With Me Because Of What Her Pastor Said. Help! by HerXLNC(f): 7:24am On Feb 03, 2018
Never beg someone to marry you because if you beg them to marry u, u ll keep begging them to stay in the relationship..... Feelings for marriage should be mutual if not just walk away....you won't regret it
RomanceRe: What Do Guys Invite Ladies To Their Houses On First Date by HerXLNC(f): 7:14am On Feb 03, 2018
The guy is just trying to be straight with u that he wud want sex on a first date...so he is giving u all d signs... Go if Ure cool with it
TravelRe: Taxify Driver's 8 Rules For Ladies Before Entering His Car (Photo) by HerXLNC(f): 11:22pm On Jan 31, 2018
Rule 7 make brain die
PoliticsRe: Senator Melaye Lambastes Hameed Ali For Not Coming Down To Receive Committee by HerXLNC(f): 1:45am On Jan 30, 2018
1-1
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Marcus K.O. Tibetan's Prophesy For 2018 by HerXLNC(f): 11:50pm On Jan 28, 2018
I will only add Tony Elumelu in my prayer....he's a good man with good heart
CrimeRe: Fulani Herdsmen Nabbed On Their Way To "Attack" A Community In Edo. Photos by HerXLNC(f): 11:44pm On Jan 28, 2018
Kill them all
CrimeRe: Man Caught Security Personnel Intercept Stolen Truck On Camera (Video) by HerXLNC(f): 11:34pm On Jan 28, 2018
It happened today at sagamu..... There were call out on twitter about the killing after the reporter said they were police men.... The police has responded to the call out saying they were robbers that stole the truck and no life was lost during d operation...anyway investigation is on as to be sure it's not police killing innocent citizens again


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PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Sureties Must Produce Him, Court Fumes by HerXLNC(f): 11:28am On Jan 27, 2018
We told them they didn't hear... Chai na so Kanu go go ba?
FamilyRe: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by HerXLNC(f): 10:38am On Jan 27, 2018
Rubbiish:
@bold u think so?
Yes so far she's not having extra marital affairs.... Learn to trust her with male friends... Buh d part where she's begging from neighbors is disheartening.... Find a way to make her stop buh not what u re about doing ...make her understand d ridicule she's bringing on u... Talk to someone that can scold her better
FamilyRe: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by HerXLNC(f): 1:21am On Jan 27, 2018
alfredo4u:
I will try and make it brief...few month before I got my new job that took me out of my former location. During that period, I do all I can to make sure me and my family feed well and manage the way we can.

During that period, there is this guy in my neighborhood that my wife always confide in, at times she goes to his place to collect whatsoever she want in the guys fridge to eat. Which I warned her to stop doing and always manage what we have in the house with the children.

One night around 10:30pm, I caught her carrying things in her hand coming from the guys room, with that annoyance I slapped/kick her not minding the same guy coming at her back. Although, me and this guy do help each other whenever we do need each others help.

After that incident, I seriously warned her to stop entering any single guys apartment and to stop allowing guys into my apartment whenever I'm not around.

Just last two weeks, I called her around 10pm to wish her a wonderful night rest, during that call, I heard a voice in the background, I ask her who was that, only for her to tell me is the guy I asked her to stop entering my place whenever am not around. That he is watching match in my parlour. Immediately I banged the call.

The next morning, I called her and was correcting her of what she did, I asked her just one question 'what did she think the neighbours will say if they see him coming out of my place by that time of the night?......She started nagging on the phone and said she have her life to live, and I have mine and I can't stop her from the way she live her life....I now reminded her that I'm her husband and she should live to my expectations and abide by my rules, she said never. With that annoyance, I told her I will never send her feeding allowance to her again, that whenever she needs the children food, she should go to the supermarket across and collect their food. Although I do deposit cash for the children provisions up front.

Since that day, I stopped calling her and she never calls. Right now, I'm thinking of pulling my children away from her before she will corrupt the children.

House, pls kindly advise......pls if you don't have any useful advise, pls jump and pass ohhhhh. No insults pls
Starving her of food is not the best way.... You just made matter worse.... Don't Tie her loyalty to the money you give her.... Because if she become financially independent she ll be defiant.... Rather seek counsel from those that are mature Enuf to scold her.... God bless your home.... This is too small to break your home

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