Psittacus:
Busy day

I figured. Enjoy...

Psittacus:
hallo..

Psittacus:
hallo..

Christmasdon:
. And why do u love lying like this. i had those girls started Destiny kids in 2006. by this you mean. since she was born in 1991 as you said. 2006 minus 1991 is 15years. and by this you are saying she was 15years that small gal without breast that time she sang joy joy. you love lying. that girl can't be 15 when she sang joy joy.

Lol, since you've suddenly turned to her father and you're with her birth certificate, it's fine.

Christmasdon:
This is where parenting failed so much, why allow these small kids who don't know how this world is , ,without getting ripe 4 marriage get marry so quick in life. People should get fully matured b4 getting married. no hurry in life.
remember what obj said about marry so earlier.

Uncle, you think the time got paused since those days when they were kids? She isn't Regina Daniels o, she was born in 1991 and got married last year. Are you saying a 28-year-old isn't ripe to have her own child or what (not even out of wedlock o)? Some people sha. I'm sure it's your type who call ladies in their thirties evening newspapers.You barely know her yet you're judging her and her parents.

saucecoder:
Okay caesarian section, thank God.
I was about to type 'Rest in Peace punaani'

lol

elektra:


Somebody needs to make an equivalent of War Room for men
A movie that will provide solution for all their marital problems.
Women cannot be enjoying magical movies alone

hahahaha,this just made my day. Easier said than done. BTW, I still have the movie on my phone o.

OP, patience is the key. I used to be like this. Though I still don't like crowd but I've improved.

GrossPrice:
Your the problem at this point and not your future bride.

As men we must not forget our duties are not only to provide financially, but as men and leaders we must constantly remind ourselves that our wives or wives-to-be need other things from men apart from money and the occasional "I love you's" plus the activities that come with it.

Emotional security, Stability, Congruence and Support (not financial) are important virtues. As men it is in our benefit that we nurture or at least attempt to attain all or many of these virtues.

If a child is scared of the dark, and still must pass through a dark room or corner to reach a destination; how would you encourage this child to do so?
If a woman you love, has mediocre culinary skills, how do you ensure the woman you love develops exceptional culinary skills?

Men should not recoil at a challenge because it has to many sharp bends, or because it seems like an insurmountable hurdle. For, is it not through our dogged determination we went from walking to flying, from huts to skyscrapers and from the cold hands of death to chloroquine.

I dare not say women have achieved nothing, because they have. However, I am talking to you - man to man, as such I must speak as a man!

When you go to family events do you stay close to her and hold her hands as you speak to people. You know when she is accustomed to your family members her phobia will subside.

And, when you go out with friends, do your friends come along with their wives or wives-to-be; if they do, why don't you find a way to get her well acquainted with these ladies?

You cannot plant corn and yet hope to harvest wheat. If you want corn, you plant corn, and if you want a more social wife you must plant that seed and nurture it until it grows. Whatever you desire in your soul, being or spirit (in the spiritual), you must use your hands to work for ; before it manifests in the physical.

You've said it all.

[quote author=niaralandtopuser post=83093291][/quote]yes I know. That's why I said no sane woman would do that.

nairalandposter:


Why do you folks use agbalumo (african apple) as some sort of code language?

Lol,code language bawo?

"Hustle now o, I no wan hear say tear one part for me or give me the seed."

Don't say I didn't tell you

Kenfil:
Abacha!!!

pass me some... I've missed this.

niaralandtopuser:

I am tempted to try out something like this for my first child . The lady will give birth to the kid and hand him over. She won't be in his life

lol...no sane woman would wanna do that though. E easy?

AliEsq:
have you checked the final pop time table? any clash as in 2 to 3 papers a day.

I checked briefly, and it was outta curiosity cause I'm not writing POP. Make dem no do like last semester, postponing exams anyhow. People get plans.

niaralandtopuser:

as a lady, will you go into such arrangement?

No I won't. But then,there are ladies who will. Different strokes for different folks.

AliEsq:
this morning,i dont understand exam starts 21 oct, and tma2 for 22 days,meaning we will start exam before tma3.workload.

me sef dey wonder. I don't even understand NOUN anymore.

jaszplus12:
Matt 19:9
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
This is the only ground given in the Bible.
Suppose John marries Betty and John after few years begin to feel Betty is no longer his "kind of lady, not shapely, is annoying, nags too much etc etc" I'm leaving her! God forbids it! If he does, he then commits adultery. And his new partner is a fornicator. But if he remains unmarried then no cause for alarm. But God hates divorce, therefore they should reconcile. Then if his wife decides to go on with her life she's free to marry as she's the offended party. And vice versa. But in the case of fear of being harmed or killed a couple can separate until peace can be sort!
Brothers and sisters God instituted marriage so NO ONE can or should adjust or Amend it's natural God given law...else face the consequences...
Comments are welcome by genuine seekers of Truth. Thanks

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jaszplus12:
Matt 19:9
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
This is the only ground given in the Bible.
Suppose John marries Betty and John after few years begin to feel Betty is no longer his "kind of lady, not shapely, is annoying, nags too much etc etc" I'm leaving her! God forbids it! If he does, he then commits adultery. And his new partner is a fornicator. But if he remains unmarried then no cause for alarm. But God hates divorce, therefore they should reconcile. Then if his wife decides to go on with her life she's free to marry as she's the offended party. And vice versa. But in the case of fear of being harmed or killed a couple can separate until peace can be sort!
Brothers and sisters God instituted marriage so NO ONE can or should adjust or Amend it's natural God given law...else face the consequences...
Comments are welcome by genuine seekers of Truth. Thanks

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jaszplus12:
Matt 19:9
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
This is the only ground given in the Bible.
Suppose John marries Betty and John after few years begin to feel Betty is no longer his "kind of lady, not shapely, is annoying, nags too much etc etc" I'm leaving her! God forbids it! If he does, he then commits adultery. And his new partner is a fornicator. But if he remains unmarried then no cause for alarm. But God hates divorce, therefore they should reconcile. Then if his wife decides to go on with her life she's free to marry as she's the offended party. And vice versa. But in the case of fear of being harmed or killed a couple can separate until peace can be sort!
Brothers and sisters God instituted marriage so NO ONE can or should adjust or Amend it's natural God given law...else face the consequences...
Comments are welcome by genuine seekers of Truth. Thanks

I don't understand the aspect where you said if the husband or wife feels offended, they're free to marry. Please explain.

XploreLife:
Will it have to be an agreement kind of?

Of course. I know of someone who wanted it so badly then, the main issue was, he didn't feel the ladies around him were worthy enough. Get a sensible lady and you guys should reach a concrete agreement. Save yourself the whole drama.

missjo:

I was beginning to think I'm weird for having this same thought

no you're not. That's why she's called a "married woman",not some girlfriend. That's what marriage is all about. Communication matters.

lilwetdick:
your friend is acting like a girl. he is a gold digger

very desperate man that he sold his dignity and manhood for gifts

he isn't acting like a girl. Gold digging isn't gender based. If the story was about a lady now, I know most boys would be here calling her all sorts of names.

XploreLife:


Exactly my view. But I still want to have kids? When it is time to have kids how do I go about it?

Get a baby mama.

Post all here before we decide, lol.

mushystuff:
I do not know the circumstances surrounding this particular incident but there are times when a woman though married, may have to abort a pregnancy. For instance, it could be a careless conception and any pregnancy would jeopardize her health; it could be that it's too soon after a birth and she's not ready for another pregnancy; it could be that she n her hubby are AS, they do an a test and determine that a fetus is SS so they elect to terminate than bring a sickly child into the world. Perhaps she senses that her husband is not ready to Father another child or there is a domestic situation where she'd rather not be vulnerable with a pregnancy or bring a child into such toxicity.

You never really know so it's not best to judge.

...and nothing should stop her from informing her husband if she has a good reason for that. About the domestic situation... well. Hmmm, people get mind.

Biko, who are the women marrying the broke guys? Cause I am not understanding. Does it mean only rich men are having girlfriends or getting married?

Obiaksnews:
Getting married to the love of one's life is one of the best things to happen to a person and Bilkisu Kabir Mado is grateful to be spending the rest of her life with her lover.
Mado, who is a beautiful disability advocate, shared the good news on her social media page. Excited about the new phase of
her life, Mado noted that she tied the knot with the love of her life on her birthday, on Saturday, October 5. The beautiful woman who describes herself as a wheelchair queen clocked 24 on the day of her wedding ceremony. According to her, she got married to the most amazing man in the world. Being in a wheelchair did not stop Mado from dancing with the love of her life. The new bride noted that her husband was so happy on their big day as he was grinning from ear to ear.

For more pictures check here: http://news.obiaks.com/191007101406/Love-at-it's-finest--Beautiful-disability-advocate-gets-married-on-her-birthday.html

Wow...this is beautiful

Adriel3:
The key to any deep, passionate relationship understand how you participate. for so many of us, the focus is on what we are getting out of the relationship – and not on what we are giving. but when you put your partner’s needs before your own, and are truly present with each other, you experience love on an entirely different level.


Learning how to be present in a relationship takes time, energy and a willingness to look inside yourself. What happened the last time you got into an argument with your partner? You probably wondered, “Why doesn’t he just understand?” or “Why isn’t she listening to me?” It is easy to think they are the one at fault, rather than you.
Being fully present in a relationship requires more than just sitting and listening to your spouse when they want something. It requires knowing that while there are two of you, the only person you can change is yourself. The changes you make in yourself will reflect in how you see your partner and how you understand them, and understanding is the first step to a stronger relationship. Stop telling yourself “It takes two” or “They have to meet me halfway.” Instead of focusing so much on your own needs, look at a situation through their eyes. Hone in on their needs – and put their needs before your own.


Next time you speak to your significant other, take stock of your situation. Are you really there? Are you really hearing them? Many of us hang on to prior disagreements, spats and differences – and we hang on to them for a long time. This detritus builds up, creating a steady negative force that leans on our relationships even during the good moments. And when your subconscious mind is so focused on the past, it becomes impossible to even think about the present, much less focus on being there.
When you let go of that emotional debris and commit to simply being in the moment with another person, and making their needs your own, you are freeing yourself to show up fully for them. Forget the past – what matters is the present moment and the future that is to come. Focus on understanding your partner. What they need from you right now – whatever it may be – is your immediate priority. Put aside everything else. Listen to them – and more importantly, understand them. Don’t just assume you are absorbing what they are saying; instead, ask clarifying questions. Share your feelings with one another. Take on their burdens and let them shoulder yours. Only when you are expressing yourself and communicating openly can you truly be present. As you commit to this new mindset, you’ll build trust between yourself and your partner. As you make their needs your needs, they will make your needs their needs. This is how you pave a path to extraordinary passion.
Learning how to be more present in a relationship also means pushing aside other distractions. For example, technology has become a persistent third wheel in many relationships. We have trained ourselves to always have our phone, laptop or other electronic device close at hand. Can you really devote your full attention to your spouse when you’re itching to check your social media feed or wondering if your boss emailed you the latest update? Put the tech aside, even if it’s just for an hour a night. Treat other distractions similarly.
By changing your own limiting beliefsand habits, you will teach yourself how to be fully present in a relationship – and in life.

lovely post.

It's very possible, but it shouldn't be so. I really don't know how some do that, before going into another relationship... try to heal first. Purge yourself of every feeling you have for an ex. An ex is an ex. Ex stands for excluded. An ex is excluded from your current life. They had their times and it failed. When someone is excluded, it means no way for them. Several marriages have been broken today because of this. How can someone marry another man/woman and still feel something for an ex? It is well o.