I suspected him when he claimed himself and his child drank garri after using his last cash to pay the woman's hospital bills... who asked him? Scammers everywhere!

shuana:
I agree with u,if they find a gud one that doesn't ask from them,they'll take advantage of them which is so unfair

my thought exactly.. some set of men will even decide to help the lady and when she's not comfortable with it, they'll be like "no, I'm not doing it because I want something in return". They'll act like they've got a beautiful heart. Let them start dating the lady in question, they feel they've bought the lady in question and she should be able to cope with their shit. She runs from maltreatment and that's when they'll start wailing here and there... like they were scammed. She won't stay cuz her peace of mind is much more valuable than your "money". OP, if you meet a lady in future who doesn't demand for anything, and you want to give to remind her later how you lavished on her when she leaves cuz she can't cope with some things then don't give at all (I'm saying this because of your past experiences). Not all ladies demand from men but if you give them without them asking, so be it. If she is a leech like in your case, and she asks for the impossible, decline. It's your money, not hers. Let her work for hers too. Shikenah.

Easymoney00101:

Abi.

OP, we don hear nah. We can't be ugly in peace again? Isn't this suffering in two places, we're ugly and we're being insulted on top. Now that you've made us known,what is the solution to this? No solution yet abi? Okay, leave us with our "ugly".. is it your ugly? Hian!

PrincessB1:
A perfect example of 'an irony of life'.

I'm weak! lol.

mahal:
Awww! so sweet of her,

sweet bawo? Hahahaha

Sapphire86:
I just have one question for you: do you want to die untimely??


Leave if you want to live. I don't have much to say; it's too early in the morning

You've said it all with that simple question. Some ladies think it's till when men physically abuse them that they're prone to untimely death. It's much more.

CsRockefeller:

You mind if I send a PM?

If its certain I'm safe, lol.

We were taught that while growing up. The issue isn't believing in those young men. The question is, when they're made (or think they are made) and the other lady is still in the process of being made, will they believe in her? Will they support her to achieve her own dreams too or rub it in her face that she's worthless? I'll teach my daughters not to be materialistic, to be hardworking... but at the same time, I would tell her never to fall for someone who isn't.

Kwin1995:
@saucy banks...I will also advise u kill love for whoever u are in a relationship with..can u imagine

I can see this didnt go well with you. You're obviously dealing with a narcissist,FLEE! I repeat, FLEE!

lol. you try joor... at least you didn't accuse her of stealing your money to save.

How come this is so accurate? I'm suspecting OP...Hehehehe.

chenzen:
it s hard relating with persons who will honestly open up to u about what u need to know about urself... most of the time what u get are lies and u believe them cos u dont know who you are... and they say these things to u to unsettle u and break ur walls or defenses and attack your self-esteem so they can take advantage of u. lot of persons are finding it hard discovering who they are because they live with the impressions of what everyone has described them to be, which is not always on point.

Apt!

pryme:



You guys should stop this, sometimes what doesnt kill you scares you for life, sometimes it deforms you and leave you in a state you can never recover again,
sometimes when you bend the knee you will never stand again. All we pray is never to be caught with the wrong person.

amen

czarina:
So, this thing dey work na im their husbands dey marry plenty wives and plenty chicks on the side?

Issorait!

lol...the fact is,single ladies use this more than the married ones. They end up destroying people's homes. OP is advertising for its original purpose but it's sad many Kanya Mata sellers have upgraded to "Kanya Mata plus". Attraction oil,do as I say and many more ridiculous products. I pity our men sha, meet with those and get hooked for a very long time.

vibre:
What has she done wrong? We always say spare the rod and spoil the child so why are they arresting her for not sparing the rod? Do they want the child to spoil?

Really,this bible verse has been misused by many. The "rod" in this context is to guide, not to flog. The shepherd guides his sheep with his rod, uses the rod to direct it's sheep to the right path. It's so funny when people justify their wickedness with this bible verse! I'm not against discipline, but this is sheer wickedness.

Solomon Buchi been finding men's trouble since 1890.

Well, we men don't care... lol.

lol. some people are just terrible. "prepare children for future hardship"...who made us this way? must we face hardship? should we even pray our children face hardships not to talk of preparing them for any? Chai! I'm dumbfounded. Some people who are supposed to be a bit comfortable sef will still want to inflict suffering on themselves and people surrounding them. Life isn't this hard, habbah!

so a year plus ain't enough for her to master how to look after a child? SMH. I really can't fathom why some mothers do this. What was so important that she had to lock up her own child inside a car...with windows locked. Her brain needs to be checked! I read something like this last year. That one sef worse, she instructed d crowd not to break her window screen...i think she lost her car keys. And the poor child was dying. Imagine? Some people place material things over their own lives. Which way Nigeria? Read some comments here that maybe her hubby would beat her up if the the window screen was broken... lol. Biko let him beat me up, my child lives! That's all that matters.

Not all who grew up without their fathers exhibit this character... and not all who exhibit these characters grew up without their fathers. My point- I can't link these attributes to the above. Each individual to his/her own attribute.

SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help

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Daviddson:
I can see somebody above with a low self-esteem shouting "amaka". Disgusting. I wonder what this kind of comment brings into their pocket, and that also goes to the yorubas that shout "Yoruba akamu" .
Can we just praise this young lad without connecting his intelligence to tribe, because Efik, Igala, Edo, Hausa children are doing similar things too.

igbo amaka

Daviddson:
I can see somebody above with a low self-esteem shouting "amaka". Disgusting. I wonder what this kind of comment brings into their pocket, and that also goes to the yorubas that shout "Yoruba akamu" .
Can we just praise this young lad without connecting his intelligence to tribe, because Efik, Igala, Edo, Hausa children are doing similar things too.

igbo amaka

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