Lol she is in pain...

Marriage is not compulsory... Do not let the society and culture tell you what to do with your life. Life is too short, so live it for yourself and not for others... Do what makes "you" feel happy... And Fvck whatever people think or have to say about it!

Marriage is too stressful and doesn't worth the stress if you ask me... It's not for "everyone"

I have never for once imagined myself married even as a child... My only reason back then was that i didn't like the idea of sharing my bed every damn night with someone else for the rest of my life lol. But then I grew up and nothing changed lol except I even discovered more and more serious reasons why marriage sucks and isn't for me...

So....

As a man i started making personal plans early enough.... And working towards those plans. Right now I have two amazing children.... A boy and a girl... And the 3rd one is on the way, another boy! And guess what? I'm not even married and never had.

Tips : surrogacy is 100% percent legal in Nigeria and it's affordable.... Well sha depending on your financial status.

But...

The staggering amount of money some of Una dey spend to get married can get you at least 2 wonderful kids via surrogacy! And you get to choose your preferred "surrogate baby mama" from a long available options.... This is where you consider physique, complexion, facial features e.t.c. So that your baby no go be like Congo chimps.... Lol

Well... they say knowledge is the most valuable currency in the world... So I believe I just made a huge donation here!

But to be fair...? If you believe marriage is for you and would work for you... Then go for it without looking back... As as marriage can also be a very beautiful thing.

exstreve:
Nigerians dodged a huge fat bullet from a bazooka by voting out the pandora fraud, a mere criminal that was deported from the UK

Lol sometimes I wonder if you guys are being sarcastic. Rejecting P. O but Picking a known thug with no known educational background, family background... Source of wealth and full of criminal scandal, a member of the same party that reversed Nigeria ten years back...

My gosh! tribalism is very powerful and does a lot to the brain.

This is why we can never get it right in this country.

You can never go wrong as liberal.

This is disturbing! Westerners have lost whatever moral values they have left.

Well Atleast they are both black... Just that one is black black.

The British are evil, as in the oldest kind of evil. They are responsible for many evil things that happened or still happening around the world.

Some think it's the US... But No, it's not, it's the Brits! They are more quiet recently but they are still pressing their evil buttons.

BBC is where I go to see who are the world heroes and villains... If BBC is saying bad about any individual, just know that those individuals are doing something good for the humanity. But If they are saying otherwise? Lol just know those ones are the evil. As in the Brits don't hide their own propaganda, it's just there for everyone with IQ to see.

Cultists dey gather inside campus before?

During my school days in ESUT there was this unwritten general agreement between all major cult groups, the school VC and even the then governor... that all violence inside school campus is completely forbidden. And it's still that way till today.

One thing about cultism is that you cannot completely stop it... Na we dey call am cultism here, in other countries they are called gangs.

It's not that easy to end... Even the almighty America is still struggling with gang related murders... Especially among the Cripps, Bloods and other gangs. Sometimes even celebrity gang members over there especially rappers, end up getting killed in gang wars and dispute.

My point is... The best way to contain such things is to understand it... If Uniben VC really knows what's up... such stuff would never have happened inside his campus. Maybe only outside campus... Which would then be left for the authorities, to play their own wing to contain.

There are cultist in almost every angle of the country... But you only hear of cult killings in just some areas.... That's what happens when there are necessary intelligence on ground. Most community leaders work hand in hand with various cult leaders to maintain peace in their community... Yea you can also arrest them, that too works. But then what? How many you go arrest? They would always be other members to replace the elites... And shit continues.

So intelligence and cooperation is the best move for now, in my personal opinion.

id4sho:
BUHARI amaka

Muhammadu BUHARI bridge

Stop glorifying the government for doing their Job.

This kind of news don't even make it to social media in other countries...

They are not doing us a favor from their pocket... They are doing their duty which they were elected to do, and they are doing it with our tax money...

We need to change our mentality in this country.

Lol we don carry our own tradition here go dey spoil their way of life.

I have been with several other African girls, one thing they all have in common is selflessness and they are easily satisfied. They don't try to turn you into her entire family's financial source like most Nigerian women. As in they care more about you as a person and less about your pocket!

That's exactly how it should be...

So Mek Nigerians no go spoil that beautiful lifestyle for south Africans. We are already used to impressing girls with money in this country that we no longer know their are other means to impress a girl smh...

Some go say why I carry this matter for head, bro! One of The worst feelings in this life is not knowing who's for real with you and who is coming because of what they need from you.

MrBroke:


Na the same thing i dey face too o, i just dey open my zenith bank app up and down, other banks don dey normal, i no know wetin dey worry zenith.

Lol first bank never normal bro. If I tell you the amount of my money wey still dey hang like this. So chill, no matter how messed up you think your bank is...Know that we first bank users will always have it worse than you do.

emu22:
Omo,i think say na only me ooo'dey even had to send d money again today still nothing.Mine is Ecobank.

did the previous one bounce back?

Reminderz:
I'm sorry for you.. you think you're enjoying abi? you're killing yourself slowly... ever wonder why the food and drinks we consume this days slow damages our health? have you ever wondered why we treat ailments that were not heard of from the past? the things we consume daily slowly deteriorates our health.. and when your immune system can no longer take it anymore, you begin to spend money to regain back your health...

and you might not even be working out, I'm really sorry for you bro.. you won't understand what it is now, but later when you need your health most...

Lol Nigerians are very funny set of people.

Simple question wey person ask... Just simple question... You went to China and back and still end up missing the bull's eye.

The fact that DEMS and their woke Lefties gang leans towards black people more(for the camera) is already too suspicious and does seem real. It's nothing but their own political tactics! And it's been working for them! Cos I see more and more black people getting confused and turning blind eye to the obvious evil and immortality these people stand for!

Everything these people stand for is wrong in the eyes of God and real decent men. None of their ideology matches our(black people) original way of life and way of reasoning.. But for some fvcked up reasons... More and more of our are embracing them... Or at least not condemning them! All for what? Cos they tricked us into thinking that we are special and matters to them? Brainwashing of the highest order!!!

Bro You are doing a wonderful job! I have been on this forum for some time now and I'm only coming across this beautiful thread now!

I'm already a big fan!!! Keep it up! I personally admire your commitment and consistency over the years! You deserve more recognition I swear!!!

In every case like this the children should be allowed to practice both religions simultaneously as young kids. After'all Islam and Christianity are both same Abrahamic religion... So why not? Unless you are an intolerant religion extremist!! Which wouldn't make sense considering you married a Christian and vice-versa...

So... Let them pure innocent kids joggle the two religions for now, at least until they are old enough to make a final decision for themselves.

And trust me... The children already being fully familiar with both religions will give them the upper hand in making the best possible decision for themselves when the time comes( unlike most of us that didn't get to choose) so if you ask me? It's a win win for everyone... #solved.

Ofunaofu:


But Obi flogged Tinubu blue black in lagos State

Ooops! Drop the mic bro!

That simple statement ended the entire debate and argument before it even started. It's like you don't like long fights lol.. T.K.O kind of boxer?

IpobAntidote:


Nigeria dodged a big nuclear weapon such as Peter Obi taury, Am an incompetent religious fanatical fool.

Lol whatever you say bro. #Respect

mrvitalis:
Lol this are things obi has been doing secretly for years ...now he can't even do them again without it making news


I know when you hear about obi you think in this Nigeria ? This is too good to me true there may be hidden bad thing about the man


But this is obi ...this has been his lifestyle ...there is no state in Nigeria Obi has not donated 100 million minimum in the last 15 years to hospital and schools to ... absolutely none in he 36 states

Don't waste your breath bro... We that truly know the man and who he really is know that Nigerians fvcked up big time by allowing tribalism and religion bigotry rob us this golden once in a lifetime opportunity of having the best president for this country! If Obi fails in court. Then that's it.

Nigerians really really fvcked up.

Good! It's about time we teach these foreigners a lesson. They always feel like they are doing us a favor by coming to our country. So therefore they can never go wrong and can get away with anything.

Nigeria is among the remaining previously Colonized countries that still worship foreigners(especially Caucasians and Chinese) we put their safety, interests and personal values way above our own people!

Go to Dubai (U.A.E) Their citizens are the first class and golden citizens(by law oo) the rest of yall immigrants and tourists are just second class. They value their citizens to the extend that legally they are not allowed to queue for anything in the country... Na straight to the counter! (Which works cos their locals are only about 20% of the entire country's population sha)

My point is... They value their people more than anything. And it's like that in most countries around the world.

But here in Nigeria its the other way around! And that got to stop!!! Cos Outsiders will only respect and value you when they see that you respect and value your self!

N3TRAL:
It doesn't seem like the United States will alienate the government of Nigeria anytime soon.

South Africa and Nigeria are the biggest economies and most powerful countries in sub-saharan Africa. South Africa leans towards China and Russia as a strategic member of the BRICS block. It is strategically dicey to let Nigeria fall to the transnational union that is desperate for multipolarity and the reduction of America's influence across the Atlantic.

Since the autochthonous people resolved in 1960 to be independent of Britain and sealed a republican deal in '63, successive leaders of Africa's most populous country have been inclined to neutrality in international politics. During the historical cold war, we were outspoken about our "Non-alignment policy" as a country.

The best America can do for us to reciprocate our gesture of neutrality that we've maintained over the years is not to interfere in our domestic democracy. Since 1999, the USA is committed to working with any Nigerian President mandated by Nigerians to lead the country. Their position will not change in 2023 because of the opinion of an ugly masculine woman.

Chimamanda, the tribal bigot, should find a more honourable method of grieving. I recommend that she hugs a transformer 😂

Lol you were sounding really great and intelligent until that last line... I was like wow! Now this is someone to Learn from.. but then all of a sudden you started sounding like a thug.

It's called doppelganger... One of God and mother nature's way of reminding us that we are all just one big family.

Your own doppelganger is probably somewhere faraway right now, maybe way older than you are or much more younger... Maybe he or she lived centuries ago or still waiting for his or her great-great-great-great-great grand parent to get off Nairaland and get married... Yea that's you!

According to research by Dr. Esteller, he found that the 16 pairs who were “true” look-alikes shared significantly more of their genes. “ These people really look alike simply because they share important parts of the genome, or the DNA sequence,” he said.

They didn't have to come from the same tribe, ethnic group or even the same country... But yet they are still related.

The world is such a small place... Why all the tribalism and bigotry my brother? You probably only know your grandparents in person and have heard stories about your great grandparents.... Ok so what about their own parents? And their own grand parents? Their Great grand parents and the ones after them? It's a very long line bro... A very long one. And somewhere along that line, you probably shared the same ancestral parents with members of the same tribes you have grown to hate today. I will give you time to think about it.

You see...??

We are all just one big giant family... Especially we that are geographically/geopolitically close to each other. We are all literally brothers and sisters who don't know each other. So why all the hatred for one another?

Lol What a joke.... Muric is not qualified to judge anybody on religious matters.

What a hypocrite!

Nandoife:
Forgot these politicians my brother and fave your front. Their all fighting for their own warfare and nothing more

You are a very smart man!!! Until we Nigerians realize that our politicians don't care even a bit about the people but themselves. That would be the day we start getting it right.

Nigerian politicians are the worst politicians i have seen anywhere in the world. No direction, no initial agenda or fixed ideology... Everything is freestyle! getting into power is all that matters to them... Nothing else!
The way they shamelessly switch parties like Olosho just to win election will tell you everything you need to know.
Okay just try Imagining Donald Trump switching to Democrats just to win election? Like abandoning his initial goals and ideologies? Shame no go kill am? Oh and talking about shame? It's one thing our politicians have 0% of! Sadly.
And the worst part is that most Nigerians don't even see anything wrong with this Olosho politics. Their tiny brains didn't tell them that these politicians are only after their personal interests and nothing more!!

Whenever I see my fellow youths cheering and supporting these politicians I weep! Bro... Low IQ is our major problem in this country. An average Nigerian is a brain dead mugu! And the ruling class know this!

Our politicians don't care about what they look like in the eyes of the world... Cos like I said earlier... they are 100% shameless! Which is another major problem we have in this country. Cos When a man is shameless and cares little about what people think about him and his house, such man would never bother to put his house in order. It's a simple psychology!

I just wish my people can finally wake up and start using even if only 1% of their brain capacity.... Only then will our elites start regarding us.

Here we go again, I never thought I would ever see this again for the rest of my life lol... Bro? I hated my business studies teacher because of this shorthand! And she was my neighbor and a friend of my mom. I always saw those shorthand symbols whenever I looked at her and her kids.. I hated that innocent woman and her entire family because of this particular subject. Lord forgive me... Amen.

Kriss216:
Like, you took your shower, wear clothes, put on your shoe, spray perfume and enter studio go snap birthday photos

Nawao. Men are becoming feminine these days and it's bad for humanity.



Birthday blessings to you sha.

Lol the matter tire me. If you talk dem go call you old-school. Real Men are in decline worldwide... Go to tiktok and you go dey your house dey shame for some some "men" and what they have become.

RPG2020:



Who be this itj? Who know you for temple

Lol Mentioning T for here show say u no be anything. See boy.. If e hungry you to join go meet men and join. Cos Impersonating Ayes will get you killed quickly by Ayes than joining a Rival kush. No try this thing wey you try here for outside. Sincere advice.

RPG2020:



Don't say what you don't know

Everywhere for Benin Birds are rugged

Lol bird is the easiest confraternity to join anywhere in the world. I once left a barbing saloon after haircut and it was closed immediately for bird initiation ceremony hosted inside the barbing saloon lol. No background check no long trial, just meet any bird you know give am 2k him go call another bird dem go initiate you sharp sharp.... You Don become airlord be that.

I don leave this life behind long time ago... But Don't compare birds to real men that went through hell and back to become the monsters they are. Having more population(which I'm not sure you do) in Benin doesn't mean una get mouth for Bini. One aye is equivalent to 50 birds... Cos no be the same material and quality dem be.

Bini na sacred ground for all Ayes... If e start like this no be only Bini men dey do the shooting... Volunteers dey come from everywhere to defend the sacred ground. That's why Ayes can never lose in Bini.

Say no to cultism! If you never join pls don't join... Your life would be way much better as a jew or whatever they call you. It's a sincere advice.

Lol yall play toomuch.

Hmmm and this is why the Igbos will continue lagging behind in this game of politics. Working to have an Igbo representative there is the best game plan... The country is already messed up! what else can go wrong?

Fighter2029:
When they beging to excel in business 10 years from now,some tribes will increase their level of jealousy and hatred.

Calm down Comrade! We the national association of vawulence havnt endorsed this vawulence yet

Women... Ignorant set of people, especially Nigerian ones.

WhisperedNoise:
In Al-Hikman, you are mandated to wear a hijab Muslim or not.

leave them... They always cry first when they get served with their own medicine.

No religion... I repeat, no religion is more intorelant than Islam!

Go to Europe(supposed Christian region) Islam is allowed to thrive to any extent... They put mosque anywhere they want... They call for prayers as loud as they want.
But as a Christian... Go try something similar in Arab countries especially Saudi and see if you don't end up in jail.

Muslims are not qualified to complain about intorelance... Not even in the slightest way!

I'm not a Christian fanatic but I hate hypocracy more than anything. in UAE I only saw one actual church.... A catholic church, it was a bit big and magnificent. No doubt... But Only God knows the amount of political strings the pope pulled to make that happen. Outside that, other churches for there na hide and seek churches.

Fake girl looking for attention online. But still, not flushing the toilet after use says alot about a girl's hygiene.

Lol NL sabbi censorship when it comes to Islam ehn Chaiii. Elon Musk should also buy Nairaland!