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HonPatrick:
Why yes and No?

bro, u better leave that lady. Otherwise u would end up with a lady who wouldn't have your back when the chips are down. Whats more, she is one bold liar.


May i also point out that this lady in question may not really love you. Most ladies would only be too happy to help you out esp when you are spending on them .

midehi2:
spending on each other is not wrong my dear

from this tale, do you think she would have ever meaningfully speny on Op, dont be skewed because the offender is a lady.

GeniusDavid:
Well, Romancelanders [Especially Ladies] I need your take, help, opinion on this anyhow you'd like to Put it. Let me go straight to the point.. ( Its a bit long but worth the read)

I met this girl (We are in the same Department and both single) and we became friends, at a point, I started having feelings for her, and She on her own, Started giving me the green light, Trust me I didn't just assume, I even gave it a long time, to see if I was really getting a go ahead sign and I must say, their was nothing else to be seen again! It was blinking in full scale.

The Girl is so obsessed with me, She Practically can't go a day without communicating, or having contact with me, She has even had problem with her pals just because of the way she associate with me.

I literally have access to this girl that I could even touch her any part of her body and she wouldn't even complain, a kind of access that other lads have tried gaining but Failed Disgracefully ( I am not trying to boast, just to show how close I am to her)

Anytime I tried flirting, She just smiles and changes the topic most times, but sometimes she flirts back. Everyone sees us like a couple, and she even pairs us together, and can't stand me paying long attention to another girl. She even trusts me more than her friends..

FAST FOWARD TO A WEEK AGO.

I decided to ask her out officially, and I was REJECTED.. Her reply was "No Way Sweetheart"
I felt destroyed! As a coded guy, I decided to immediately put the "Guess we are still cool line?" while I digested the reply I got.

I am arguably what any girl would want! ( Yea I know guys, seems like i am boasting but I am not) I am just so cool, that Girls in my dept. blush at any chance of eye contact even during communications — I even heard I've a small fan-club ( I just had to put that) All her Friends even thinks we are dating!!

I don't just get it, maybe she thinks I'm a player?? With all the Flashing green light, could it be I'm in the Friendzone? ( The most populated place on earth) or she is not ready?? come on guys, help a Lad!!

you put the cart before the horse. You dont touch a girl flirtatious ly and then ask her out.

1. Start with physical contact as soon as possible.
2. If she really likes/loves u, u need to know by kissing her before asking for anything serious.
A girl who truly is into you wouldnt mind you guys kissing even before u ask her out.
3. I try to initiate sex. Its pretty easy and almost always u would get a positive answer if you ask out a girl you are presently fu#king. Its always worked for me.
My own procedure; Regardless of where our 1st date is, i would kiss or peck her defying all risks and even give a slight hint at going further and see her reaction. Most ladies would resist.
If she accepts to go out with me again, oboy! I have got myself a very likely girlfriend or fwb as, i would boldly start from where i left off the other day. And she would most likely come prepared. Thats how not to enter the friend zone.

As regards your predicament, i feel she just wants to stress you more before giving in. Ignore her for a while and let her know you want "all of her or none of her"
Scare her with the possibility of losing you, bro.
And give her a timeline, meanwhule she should see that when you are not with her you are perfectly enjoying your life, maybe through dps or friends. She will eventually come through.

hurting:
Thanks bro! I fear she will get over me if I stay clear. I know her very well. And she is also heartbroken, she cries when I call her, as for d dressing, I have a very good dress sense, I kit well n dats one of d reason she loves me.

bro, over the years i have learnt one important lesson never call an Ex. If you really want this lady back ignore her totally. Delete her off your bbm and whatsapp and ignore her on facebook.Ishock her with yiur aloofness. She will never come back or respect you if u go on calling her despite an6 cries she may givr u when you call.

I have more than 3 ex girlfriends disturbing my phones right now, stalking my social media because immediately we broke up i simply treated them like they never existed though in each case it was extremely painfull but i had to so it. Please, forget about her abd make more money. If you keeep calling her and dont make some headway financially she'ld only be happy with her decision to leave you.


P.s please stop giving her attention right now, as you are making the break up easier for her to get over. ...and even if she doesn't cone back, dont lose your respect as a man by begging. You are a Man, not a child. Learb to let things go. She would respect you more, and likely regret leavibg later on. Btw, i straff my Exs these days for the fun of it even though they did the breaking up.

Decent ass and some good legs

He needs to be admitted to a psychiatric ward asap.

refiner:
I don't lie....I am working OK....will be writin an exam dis yr....I am nt a lazy ass...

even if you are working that does not justify endorsing that lady's careless, unthinking, and most likely pretenceous utterance. Would you say same to a dude who took you out? Or would you board a bike with 500 and tell the rider to keep the change? Or you think he should forget the change cause he's a dude?

I earn very good 6 figures monthly but i still wont except he needs it really.

My point? You have no right to call that dude broke, thats just crass!

refiner:
broke niggas can rant......mtsheeew

imagine! You dont work to earn a living, yet you can lift those heavy, itchy fingers to type that nonsense up there.

Do you feed yourself? If you cannot spew a Yes to this question please modify your post.

Ps: dont bother lieing, i have gone through your child threads and posts.

sickstars:
M nt claiming tough stop saying dat to me

I cant get all crios nd giv advise to sumone matured enof to tink on his own!

U tink its normal but its not to b sincere it doesnt make sense

Ow wud d girl in question feel wen she told her man d truth only for him to publish it world wide if she was ur sister wat will u do?

Cos u fink its good to expose in d public wat a girl in tears secretly told u smh

you are typing gibberish with glee. Did he mention namez? Do you even know the Op. This is a strictly anonymous forum. Stop thinking and typing like a child.

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Ujoan:
Honestly, you may just be paranoid. Nothing says a woman cannot work with her ex . . . I imagine the ex now has a family of his own. The most important thing will be to draw the line, what is and is not allowed!

You wife is alone now with the kids in school . . . she probably thinks now is the time to return to the career she once sacrificed for them.

People gossip a lot down here in the east, especially when they know a woman is not living with her husband.

You should have asked the caller why he was calling you, did he catch your wife with the politician? or he just wanted to be an amebo!

another proof that not every lady is born with a brain. This is an example of one lady you shouldn't touch with a 2 mile pole not to mention marrying. If you are married, i can only imagine what your husband might be going through. Justifying glaring adultery. If you aint married yet, please change.

EgunMogaji:
It can't be a Cosworth.

what makes you so sure its not a cosworth?

naughtynaughty:
I don't do it ooo. Dey say it is painful

they say, maybe there wasnt enough lub, Try before going with the bandwagon. , thats how to truly live

adelee777:
pls i'm new in d house. Please who knows the price of a tokunboh engine of a volks wagen bora?

in other words you dont even know the size of the engine you are about to replace? Sad. mehn! You should head to an auto market and not come here to show the depth of your ignorance.

And 6 feet, thats all he got.

whirlwind7:


Somebody is yet to tell us what the beef really is between these two.
Did one snatch the others woman?

basket mouth fired the first shot when he joked about freeze been at the OLIC2 because his wife wasnt around to beat him. Twas very insensitive of him imo.

Limbo on my phone. Just finished tho. And Pes 2011 on system

ritababe:
okay i will go and date another person and use his money to buy u tab.

why dont you just get useful by working and pul your own weight.

kelvyn7:
what is the most expensive thing u have ever bought for ur guy?

selfish ke? why dnt u buy him instead, because u are very generous

ladies that buy handkerchiefs, boxers and singlets in return for an iPhone are not selfish

imagine! As if the guy is an atilogu dancer

JealousPrince:
am at the game store now and someone just told me that, there is something that will be removed and replaced in the ps2 fat that can make it work with low current, how true is that?

how much is the ps2 slim?

mira4u:
How does her refusal to buy cutleries portray her as a bad wife or one who isn't ready for marriage?


He is so narrow minded. He reasons on a thin line.

after reading this post and other posts from most ladies on nl i am now fully convinced , most nigerian ladies are just thoughtless. Immature. Narrow minded, simpletons always looking for who to leech on. So its wronwrong for a lady to have her own glasswares? Or have the decency to serve her fiance and his friend with such. I hope you make such gaffe with your sharp fiance since you are even attacking the dude for using his head.

[quote author=wwwkaycom post=41320972]He met his fiancee in their school, she's one of the choir sisters in their fellowship choir. They started their love affairs in 2014 and would like to get married mid-2016. The big issue according to him is that the lady don't seem to be prepared for marriage, even though she's working, she hasn't gotten anything to show that she's working towards marriage in 2 years not to talk of the next 6 months.

He said she spends her money on clothes, shoes and jewelries but recently served him and one of his friends food with the stainless plate that they use in her home, he said he felt humbled when his friend politely turned down the food.

This guy believes that his fiancee by now ought to have invested on kitchen wares, plates, cutleries etc. He said he had actually started buying these stuffs without informing her but is now of the opinion that the lady may not change in marriage. I have asked him to talk it over with his fiancee which he did but he said she told him point blank that that is his responsibility. He has already diverted the money he was saving for the wedding to landed property, saying he will begin to look out for another lady. My plea fell on his deaf ears.

My take dear nairalanders is that the issue is just too flimsy to warrant separation at this stage, what do you think about it?[/quote]you must be wicked or have got something to gain from that manipulative simpleton stsying on with your cousin. Leave the young man alone, he shouldn't have told you. You inadvertently dont mean well for him, encouraging him to continue with that thoughtless recalcitrant lady. Most decent ladies start to build their kitchen from spinster hood. Not having a breakable plate to serve your futurrfuture husband with , while acquiring clothes and jewelries is the height of irresponsibility and thoughtlessness. . Whats Worse?. , shes refused to change. If that young man goes on to marry such a woman because of your persuasion, you are worse than an enemy.

VampireeM:
Everyone has their priorities though am not saying what the lady is doing is good. Most of the time most ladies dont feel the need to buy all those gadgets.. I for example cant get a microwave and co for myself as a single lady unless I need it.. I buy what I need.. Men are different esp the ones that wants to settle down soon.. they start buying those things they will need in the home/marriage. Your friend should talk to her cause to me a lady not buying those things aint a sign she is not ready for marriage.

what gibberish are you typing happily, you agreed that she was doing something wrong yet you are giving excuses for her, you obviously do same. How can a lady not have simple glass wares? Who talked about microwave. ? Serving her fiance and his friend with stainless plate yet acquiring clothes and jewelries is totally wrong. I wont take it.stop justifying nonsense. If you visited your brotherd fiancee n she served u with flat stainless plates how would u feel? Unless thats what you use at home, there's no need justifying her action. She has even refused to change.

pomsky:
[size=14pt].......dis nairaland sef, if you want to hide things from some, just put it in a little write up.
Mrcork, pls tell me where you see in d whole write up where the Op mentioned, "sister's boyfriend"?
Yet, you have 35 likes to your comment. May God help us!
Abi seun go dey ask for proficiency in English b4 people go register for NL?
Imagine, 35 people click "like". This one no get remedy again. [/size]

Another newbie . like taking yuzedo or andyblaze seriously.

pweetychyka:
Wat I don't seem to understand is "wat is special abt mrcork?"

he's a popular clown on nairaland. Has been around for a long time,

pweetychyka:
Lol.....
I guess he's trying to earn familiarity with u or possibly trying to gain fame on nairaland

how can you not know Mr. Cork? smh

smileysmiley:
please who is he? cause I'm really dumbfounded that a human can be this senseless

you must be new on nairaland, if you don't know abt Mr cork, his love for white women,his range rover in Pekham or so and his weird/funny posts. You should have just ignored him if you don't want to derail your own thread. :

abatically:
Wrong. The Germans make beautiful, luxury, fast and expensive machines. But they are not known for being reliable. The thing is if u are rich enough to own a Mercedes Benz then reliability is the last thing u should think about.

what who you rate the Italians and the British as regards reliability. You have always been skewed towards the Japanese esp Toyota. Its what you drive after all but Stop misinforming the public man!

mrphysics:
6: DOES PLANEs FLY BEYONG THE TROPOSHERE
Negative, our planes does not fly beyond this layer of the atmosphere, perhaps because it cannot withstand the pressure of the nearest layer of the atmosphere. .[/b]

you said , and its generally known that pressure drops with Height , what do you mean by " Planes do not fly above the Troposphere because they can't withstand pressure at that height, what do you mean? Or are you referring to negative pressure?

akwara1234:
A friend jst bought somtin like dis wt AC nd alloy rim for 70k. Pls I advice u revisit ur price

you are not serious, if you don't know the value of this car just Bleep off. Its so clean too. Soon cars of this calibre as neat,as this would be more expensive to acquire than your mediocre Toyota. Don't even know why owner is selling such a car. Wish I could get this.