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emmanuel596:
As I said earlier I have jamed(banged) dis babe in question over a 100 times in d past six month sorry to say dis online but u know at some point sex no longer freaks a nigga there's a time u just wanna settle down and
Stick to a particular babe

good you have done that! In my own opinion, I would let the babe go. She ain't proud of you. Most likely. Its also very likely you spend quite well on her, you may want to halt and see what happens.

emmanuel596:
I have this girlfriend I have been goin out with for 6 months now she's hot and have all the necessary stuffs intact(u know what I mean) each time we step out together or attend parties or any public gathering I introduced her to my friends and others as my gf but when it's her turn she always introduces me as a friend I have cautioned her severaly but she always claims she forgets can some forget a thing like that? Tho I don't know her much I respect her privacy and don't go tru her phones but she did same thing last night again and it's getting me troubled she looks like a player tho but I don't wanna suspect anything till I catch her for hand...please I need u urgent assistance

go through her phone. Factly, you are just a friend to her. No need to play Mr. Nice guy, do your research on her phone and know what's up so you don't keep roasting your money and time.

lagtech:
@Alphaoscar-Please call Jimmy today to get your item.

@flowsamuels (ezelaptop) -Please call Jimmy tomorrow (Friday) and arrange for pick up of your item.

Other items coming up.

lagtech, you promised me one of my laptops last weekend , how far with it?

ephemm:
Turn back the hand of time, undo the reading of the text messages.

I don't know why U have to invade her privacy!

U got what U want bro!

nonsense! So she should go on cheating till he marries her? Should he play the ostrich? You never went through your girls phone? Is it wrong to know about the private life of a lady you are seeking to marry? SMH

Teyonie:
I was surprised and sad when I checked his phone and realised that he doesn't keep my text messages even the ones he sends to me but he kept one other one from another lady, what could this mean please? I'm anticipating your opinions o cos I don't want to react wrongly. Thanks.

I noticed you didn't quote people telling you you are the side chic, but as sad as that is, its the truth.

The other lady is obviously more precious, hence , he wouldn't take the risk of her seeing your text messages lest she starts asking questions, even if your messages are platonic.

I used to do same some time ago, well, some ladies just never learn. When you are a side chic you know, but most ladies keep hanging on, keep deceiving themselves, keep believing useless,unreasonable excuses thrown at them, all because they want to be in a relationship.

All the best, though.

kellyJames5:
Believe you me

If he starves her his attention as regards to replying her chats or leaving it till next day.


It will only take a matter of days or highest weeks for her to get rid of the affection she has developed for him(if any though)


Don't forget,love/feelings can be grown so also hate.

I agree. Nothing should be over done. There should be a balance. Personally, even if I ignore a particular lady, I sometimes do start up chats with them, but cut it off at my own timings.

What I think is wrong is giving the impression you can't live without her, the impression that you are not busy, rushing to reply her messages and begging her to reply like some guys do. Those IMO are counter productive.

I also think once in a while Op should find lighter /jovial/funny ways of teasing her and passing his message across. Not that serious business like mode some guys tune into when they want to pop the question.


These are my opinions tho, peace.

2dice:
For the info
She isnot your wife or sis
arE u scared because he his richer?
She also told you means She kinda like/love you alot

bro? What's the last sentence about? Common that's hogwash. I hope you aren't that naive. Anybody can make such confessions just to keep the decieved calm, build a sense of trust in their partner while still running rings around them.
That's the oldest trick in the book man!

tosyne2much:
My mom normally say, never sniff what you know you won't eat, and that's an average sizable number of our ladies normally do


She expected you to be stalking her both online and offline just to make her special, hence, making it look like she wants to do you a favour by dating you

Now is the time to do shakara

Exactly! Op.

BTW, what's waiting for 2 minutes before replying? You should either ignore her chats occasionally or reply the next day even when you are online. If you want to get half a shot at getting this lady, starve her of your attention. 2mins is a mad rush!

Also, I do not think its about answering her harshly rather its by having your own opinions, and expressing your self without seeking her endorsement.

Cc: Holyfield1

Just fnck the girl and let's get to the next case.







By the way, I must add, nothing is absolutely right or wrong in this world, if you are ready to bear the responsibility in the aftermath.

kannymoore:
what the hell is wrong with you man!?
A simple question was asked about one's PAST relationship and you had to spew all this sanctimonous diatribe!!!?? Who the flying heck do you think you are and what are you trying to prove here

That you're above making silly mistakes in a relationship too?

Or that you've never lied to curry favors before

Or that you've never disappointed someone you loved before

Man... Your comment is sickening, no offence.

I think you're young. Maybe when you're older, you'll understand that life is not all about black and white but is actually different hues of gray.
She's made her error and has paid for it. Whether she's learnt form it or not is neither of us or anyone's business @ the moment so just chill and let her live her life and learn from her own mistakes.

Have a lovely day ahead bro.

You didn't have to write an epistle pal, my point was that she made an error but doesn't seem to think its a mistake at all. She still called her Ex silly or something like that because he left.

2. I do not think i am above mistakes, however, I do not blame or insult people I love because they reacted to mistakes I made, which is in anyways, natural. Action and reactions!

3. A plethora of ladies do this for sport, I haven't been a victim, but its not fair to all involved even the so called "MUGU" he's got emotions too. That's a reason I came down hard so any other lady doing same has a rethink, though it doesn't mean my harsh words would make her or any other change, nor am i a moral referee ,but its worth the shot.

4. Thanks for the brief lecture about the neutrals black,white ,and shades of color grey. But that doesn't means there arent territories that are just black and white. This in my OWN OPINION falls in that sphere bereft of light,of a concern for others...about my age?! I would let it slide.

I am not God but those are my opinions about what she did, and her stance thereafter.

Epistle already, Peace, bro.

tinziemaine:
What should I do now, please? When we took an oath, we were blinded by love. I wanted to restrict but if I didn't take the oath with her, she won't believe every word I said before. Now I found out she is possessed by an evil spirit, how can I take it back?

you don buy market!












Who takes oaths these days?!

papiforreal:
There is this girl I met like 3 months back. I collected her number when she brought her phone to my friend to repair it for her. We started talking on WhatsApp like normal friends and within few weeks one thing lead to another, we started dating.

We got into each other within short time, she calls almost everyday and I also call her back.

She said we won't have sex until marriage and I agreed. Well, I don't care about sex too much. I'm introvert type of a guy. I am 22 and was still virgin until last week when I had sex with her.

Last week she called and she said she just wants us to be together in a room , she wants sleep in my arm. I booked a hotel room for us and we went to there. We sat down in the room for a while ,then she started pulling out her cloth. I asked her why she said she just want test me if I can hold my self seeing her naked.

To cut the long story, we started romancing and I find my way with her help.

To my utter surprise, when I entered her she wasn't virgin. She's wide as Bleep. I didnt feel anything when i entered her. I asked her am in and she said yes. And this is the girl that lied to me she is virgin.

I confronted her and she confessed to me she used to have sex with her ex.

I told my friend and he said she must have sampled more than 1000 diiiicks if what I described is true.

Now I am really worried because I'm seriously in love with this girl. I enrolled her to nursing school this year. Paid a school fees and everything. I'm in my final year now but already started making arrangements for our wedding immediately after my graduation.

Im really hurting mentally now. Is my friend right that this girl is LovePeddler? Do I really deserved such type of a girl being a good guy myself?

Nairalanders I need your advice please. Should I run for my life or i should continue dating her. I just don't want be regretting my some of my decisions later in my life.

She promised me she would be whatever I want her to be, as in she can change her life for me. She even asked me to seize her phones if I don't trust her.

But should I really trust her? I heard from many guys that once a LovePeddler always a LovePeddler.

bro , when You lie, u need a good nemory to back up your lies Something's just don't add up.

1.You are in your finalyear(still a student yourself) yet you enrolled her into nursing school. Really!? Are your parents that rich? And your friend is a phone repairer?
2. You are 22years , yet you are planning marriage immediately after school, say around 23 ,for incontinencies let's say 24 years. What dude gets married at that age? Who would sponsor your marriage? Your parents or friends too?
3. You booked an hotel, because you most likely couldn't meet her at your place yet you want to gt married? Who books an hotel room to meet up with his girlfriend.
4. How old is this girl ,please?
5.how do you finance yourself and this babe? From your parents too? And if you are into such a business that could comfortably finance you and this lady, you should be mature enough to know that because shes slack doesnt mean shes a love peddler, neither does her initial rejection of sex mean shes a virgin. You should also have known that people lie, and ladies, more about maters such as this.
6. If all the above are answered in the affirmative, then you are a disaster waiting to happen.
Coming here to ask such a childish question tells any thinker you are too young and immature to make any serious relationship such as marriage work.

talcum:
Good am all. Am so bittered about dis. my fiance always scroll through my phone buh never allows me to touch his. He said I might not understand some tins dia . D oda day,he snapped me with his phone and I wanted to send it to mine,he started dragging d phone saying dias is a pix dia dat I won't understand. I was so shocked and gav him his phone. Ever since then,I find it so hard to believe any tin he says and my mind has started deviating from marrying him gradually.
Note: he is currently training me in a university and I don't want d story of: he finished training her and she left for another man. I have been faithful to him since I met him but his character is making me not to trust him so how can I marry someone I don't trust. am totally confused frnds.ur advices will go a long way. Thank u alk

RUN, In marriage it would be worse. Don't come back here crying about how your husband beats deadly you when you touch up his phone. A Juno of women saw crazy, obvious, unacceptable, behaviors in their spouse before marrying them, but decided to turn a blind eye to them. Later, that blind eye would turn black ,swollen eyes.

akksplendor:
The funny part was when she came to our table and said 'hi thanks for coming' and then blew us all a big kiss from the distance! My guys were like, lol.

"she came to your table ,then blew you all a big kiss "[b]from the distance" is she a giant or something ? Or you just lied as is common with y'all blog owners Cause the bolded statements are contradictory.

OlufemiOAP:
You see D thin is Am 19 u get (old snuff)
But its not even up to 2 weeks since we started dating
Y shud she say yes when she knew shd isn't interested?

you probably pestered her seriously or she said yes after feeling guilty about the money you sent her.
Years ago in the University, I had this church girl I was head over hills with. She was my fellowship member, so I started pestering her, sending texts, despite her telling me sh wants no commitment as she had a boy friend tho they weren't on good terms. I took her out every Sunday after fellowship and bought her gifts from my meagre pocket money. On the long run she agreed, but that was my worst relationship ever.

1. She never ever got jealous seeing me with other ladies(bad sign)
2. We couldn't hold hands in public, she would complain and take hers away.
3. We only kissed once.
4. I often begged her to send me love text messages throughout the 6months charade.
5. There wasn't WhatsApp or bbm then, so we never really chatted.
6. I had to beg her severely anytime I wanted to see her. More, I foolishly sent her credit every two days.

From that relationship, I learnt, its always a bad idea to start spending too much early on in a relationship. She has to prove self worth and commitment before you let your pockets open.(you can still take her out tho, but to low cost outings). Be sure she loves you, not your money, or the fact you are pestering.
Bro, give her time. Ignore her like she doesn't exist. Do not break off the relationship, however, disconnect all communication. In a few weeks she might still check on you, you should ignore that as well. Do not bother sending any cash again even credit. Don't try to buy her love,man. She would just eat you for fun.

Addendum: Need I mention that my ex of yester years came to stay over last weekend?, though engaged, she didn't lemme know until she was about leaving. Fact is, free her she might still come running back to you or not, doesn't matter. Just focus on life and get other ladies. Don't over spend too early bro. Toodles.

Sorry for the Epistle.

mikkyangel:
Clemente, dis ya laptop na very very bad machine ohhhhh, i have tested it as u intructed..+ plus its bluetooth speaker

http://www.ebay.com/itm/321813665120?_trksid=p2057872.m2749.l2649&ssPageName=STRK%3AMEBIDX%3AIT

I want to order a home theatre from Ebay, how long before I receive it in Nigeria

OlufemiOAP:
Hey Guys
Pls there is This girl I have been crushing on for a very
Long time .Due to my shyness I kept crushing on for about a year .But as time went by ,I summoned Courage to Ask her outTo my amazement, She told me she already has her guy .
I still kept on persuading her .But to cut the story short. She later said Yes to me .But ever since then she has been acting really funny .Anytime I cal,l her all she will say on phone is just "ok" "nothing" To Proof to you check our chat below

lmao

First off, How old are you Op?

Second: sorry to break it to you this way, you are in a relationship with yourself.

Thirdl: you must be extremely wasteful, or a dependant. You sent such an ingrate money, she didn't thank you for it, acted like she did you a favour receiving your money, yet you are planning to spend more to her. I won't you any harsh words to night, but you areare

Like I earlier said, you are in no relationship, hence its time you move to find a decent girl for yourself. if you are old enough that is. Rather, if you are moture enough, cause those screen shots tell tales of an immature mind searching desperately for love, regardless of your age.

infgost234:
Shuuuooooooooo. See this niccur o. The lady in question is beautiful in my eyes. She's gat a lovely face and a charming pair of eyes, and that is way above average to me. And mind u, I didn't give her those comments because I wanted her to fall for me. I only said my mind. So u and ur real men can rest.

all the best, bro

infgost234:
What a wonderful pair of lovely eyes u've got there.. U're very beautiful.
I'm in love girl!

excessively patronizing a lady with average looks doesn't make hr fall for you, it simply puts you below her station and makes it hard for you and your ilk to have her. #teaseplay# realmen%# lordBryonmode#cassanovasmouod#%

foriz4u:
I just read a comment on a trend on NL of a lady confirming how many of her married female friends are lesbians without the concept of their husband. One can even imagine how difficult it is to even suspect such act going on with b/w that best friend of ur wife. U know how close women can be. you will never suspect they r lesbians and having an affair even when u c text, bbm, whatsapp and other social messages but its very easy to so easy to suspect ur wife is cheating if she gets too attach to an opposite sex. So the question is, would you prefer your wife a cheating lesbian or a cheating wife with another man?
Share ur view and give us instances or example of couples u know or have heard about who r either lesbians or gay.

None! They are both cheats cheating with different genders.so i'Would pass. Thanks

datprincess:
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are you by any shot a related to BARBIE? the doll? @dp. :-


Forgive me, but how old are you?
You are free to insult me, or ignore both questions...or do both.

Ok

Etetejake:
I luv her with the whole of my heart, yet I never take a time to trust her for once. But now she can't take it anymore and have calles it a quit.

We started like bxtfrnds and ended up as lovers. she is my everything, my inspiration, the only thing that matters to me. I truly luv her with the whole of my heart.
The trust issue started at the beginning of the relationship when she came to work and I noticed she was acting strange. I went to her bag and saw the cloth she wore to work the day before. She denied my suspection, but later told me the truth when she finally and totally fall for me. She told me she went to her ex place but the guy didn't sleep with her.
yesterday evening, she told me she was going to church. But bkx since Monday she has been behaving strange, like not calling me, I was the one doing the calling, and also the last time I told her I luv her she didn't reply, I thought maybe she has find another person ans that was the rwason I didn't blv she was truly going to church. Throughout yeaster night I didn't call her until 7:04 this morning. She told me she was on her way to work, I didn't blv bkx I wasn't hearing any background noise. I told her I kno she slept out and she didn't reply until she got to the work place. She called me out to a private place and called it a quit. That she can't stay in a relationship where there is no trust.
I don't know how to apologize this time bkx the first time this same thing happened it wasn't easy to get her back. I had to apologize like three days, that is if she even pick my call, b4 she took me back. I wrote countless messages but it didn't get into her heart. I had to ask her out in the pretense that it wasn't anything relating to her coming back to me. Just a normal get together with a friend. Wen she came, I did the unexpected and she took me back. I doubt if it will work this time. The reason am asking for help.
pls I need your help. Ladies pls tell me what to do that will unfailingly bring her back to me. And guys pls what do I say or do to bring her back. Your advice is needed urgently pls.

you don't need to apologize, those attitudes are those of a lady done and through with you, I have experienced such with ladies who eventually left. First thing a cheating partner does, esp ladies is to create a communication rift, when you get desperate trying to reach her several times, she claims to be in bondage, claims to have lost her freedom, accuses you of lack of trust, get a hold of your self dude, you are better off without her. Going back to beg her would leave you worse off as most ladies would never go back to a guy they dumped, worse if he's coming around to beg much like you are planning to do. Let this episode slide bro, you will get another.


BTW, how old are you? Try not to use so much unpopular abbreviations online, doesnt portray a serious/mature finger.

ephemm:
yes nah!

ok. I am not a simpleton though...and I pray Op isn't. Good luck to you.

Riodiao:
Nigeria a country where is ok to steal if your from the North, but if you steal and from the south its corruption. Abacha stole over 100billion dollars yet buhari said he is not corrupt but madueke has a scandal of $20billion she's corrupt . The likes of Gwarzo, al Mustapha stole over $800million dollar yet today they are free men. Atiku is wanted in the USA for the haliburton bribery scandal and corruption but today he is free man , no attempt of arrest has been made on him.madueke has been arrested but saraki is a free man. If your a son or daughter of niger delta this is a wake up call . Now its madueke, Very soon these people will come to your bed and kill you in your sleep. Keep cheering for apc and this government. abacha's govt was characterised with high scale of looting and crruption yet abdusalami came on board and never one day probed abachas administration.our own brother GEJ cane on board and for the sake of unity,prosperity and the fear of been from a minority refused to probe previous administration.To all militants in the niger delta, now its the time to show you were fighting in the interest of your people. We are not a coward tribe, we fight for our right and freedom not even britain could conquer us. Enough is enough. If madueke goes down for corruption then IBB,danjuma,abacha,atiku etc must all go to jail too for corruption. Buhari can take the position on nigeria president but he can never take our freedom!

I am from the south south, my name is olise, but for this bigoted, thoughtless and ethnically divisive post you posted here, PLEASE BUY YOURSELF A BRAIN! corruption is wrong regardless of ethnic origins. Our brother from the southsouth was there did he prosecute any of these northern thieves you mentioned? NO! now, a bigger , public shameless, squandering, conniving thief of a woman was arrested for questioning overseas and you are springing up the ethnicity card. Please just STOP!

ephemm:
she works as a hotel receptionist - that's a very difficult career path for even a decent lady in the first place.

then on a 2nd thought, u got what you looked for, if u sniff the privacy of anyone, u will certainly find a skeleton in their cupboard.

Most times, what you don't know, may not hurt you.

wish U best of luck with the next girl.

to calm your heartbreak, don't tell her your findings, buy a trailer load of condom, and straph her 4 times daily

so even when he got suspicious, he should still act the ostrich?

ksbusari:
Marry the lady wit d secondary schl cert and ur friends and families brand her uneducated, Half educated and all sort of names especially when she misbehaves.
Marry d educated girl and she would also receive d comment dat education does nt pass tru her when she misbehaves too. I was in situation One tym. Pray to God for guidance. Bt i would choose, i prefer the educated girl cos if u choose the other, u will av to explain to a lot of pple.

Bro, real men live their lives, they don't live it based on what other people would think, why live your life just for the sake of what other people want, meanwhile they live their own without giving a frigging thought about your opinion.

Living according to the dude I quoted here would ensure a man lies on hi death bed feeled with regrets and sorrow for having not really lived, for not doing what they really want to because of what inconsequential people would think. Bro, I just made a similar decision lately. Guess what?! I chose character over beauty and form,

BTW, what's beauty to a pig, or sloth of a woman, a woman who would prefer to feed your children from canteens, and prefer to cater to her beauty than to your children's intellectual, physical well being. Pls function over form always.all the best,bro.


Cc: tido77

anigbajumo:
poo......

Trash,It does nt justify LASG view....so,it cannot work

ok,

mohemos:
This is not an error, it is correct.

Venus actually rotates on is axis at a far slower speed than its speed of orbit around the sun. This fact is also due to its closer distance to the sun relative to earth, hence it has a shorter circumference to travel.

anigbajumo:
Shut up!!!If u dnt knw the impact of container nd trailer in lag during d day time...

Trailer always come to lag to carry goods frm lag to other region of the county.

Who will open his/her warehouse in the mid-night for carriage of goods.

Most companies tools,materials nd so on entering Nigeria through port,Imagine container nt working in day time,hw will it b successfully delivered?

24hrs working time (@port) will automatically reduce to 8hrs if dat stupid Ambode law was implemented so,
It will also reduce the FG revenue.


Can u stop air craft in the air wen plane crashes nd kill thousands of pple?Neva,it cnt work.....


Order came frm FG dat trailer nd container driver should shun rubbish ambode law nd starts their usual 24hrs work.

Trailer nd container will continue to move during the day time as far as Lag is concern.

even if you own a number of trailers ,loaders and what have you, you need to BUY SOME BRAIN " and use same.

1. Trailers can load during the day and leave at dusk.
2. Trailer owners or workers like yourself should ensure containers are secure onto the flat beds with suitable restraints.
3. Schedule your movements to avoid fire fighter deliveries which oin turn condition drivers to make daredevil maneuvers with such monstrous trucks.

See how passionately you came at me, (God forbid) if you had lost a loved one gruesomely to the carelessness, recklessness and disdain of these oafs cum drivers and owners of containers, you wouldnt have typed in such a hurry.

inestimableChic:
my ex is jxt stupid. Cme to tink of it, derz no probability dt aw ever meet dis facebuk guy o. Hw is it lyk cheatin sef, we neva saw,kiss or straff, jxt sme lie lie love. Nd den he brokeup a 3yrs relatnshp bcus of dt? Haba guyz fear God o

emotional cheating, that's the name. Whats the distance between lokoja and Lagos?, within 6hrs he'd make it and probably lodge in an hotel so you can come visit and you'd do what he's been paying you for. Iranu!

Ten Gbosa to your Ex he's got balls, am sure you lost a gem lady. You werent going to date/straff the poor idiot from lagos, yet you were exchanging love texts,and maybe pictures in exchange for money, how inglorious and lowly can you get?, a future wife.smh. Lemme guess, after your boyfriend broke up you went all out for the rich mule, right?

Golddigers! They just can't hid even in a bunker, they still stink to high heavens. Epistle already

That's how u know he's possessed dear. Live with it, or take him for some earth shattering, devil binding, neighbors-waking, door ratlling deliverance.






BTW , Avoid those in white dresses girdling assorted colors of belts . My two cents