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Why would I want an older woman when I can get a younger one?

It makes no sense.

Depot:
This phone issue ehh. Touching of phones has broken so many homes .

there was no home to begin with

kpankpangolo:
Believe this at your peril. The Swiss don’t care how you made money. Their job is to keep it tightly in their vaults. If this was true, they would have long frozen all of Abacha’s loot or returned them. Besides, these men have percentages of wealth which they hide under different names.

why do you think they are freezing it?

He's on trial and won't be reaching for those funds.

So any attempt to reach it most likely isn't through self will.

Also, no one else can touch it now without a long bottle neck process. So essentially they are just securing his money as they promised him.

Do something for me please.

Place one hand on your head and lift the other one up like you are pointing towards the sky.

Now say this carefully, "God, please deliver me from every spirit of stůpidity disguised as wisdom. Amen"

Merry100:
There is nothing wrong with women choosing comfort. Hiring domestic staff isn't a luxury; you don't even have to be a billionaire to afford help. Couples who are financially comfortable can easily spare 250,000 naira or more a month for household staff.

Not every woman is thinking of marrying a billionaire. Some women simply want a partner who is responsible, contributes to the household, and allows for a comfortable, balanced life.

Even middle-class couples can manage domestic staff if they budget properly. Comfort doesn't mean laziness; it means living in a way that reduces unnecessary stress and allows both partners to thrive.

As usual, these girls all think there's a special billionaire CEO waiting for them somewhere.

A billionaire who will see them, fall in love hopelessly and marry them with huge fanfare wedding.

Their wedding will be the talk of the nation and then they will jet out to some luxurious place for honeymoon.

And all this while, they have less than N50k in their personal account.

And on top of that, they can't cook or clean because in their fantasies, they just wanna "relax and be taken care of".

In their imagination, they just wanna enter Uber and say "take me home" and the Uber driver will just take them home and they will leave without paying anything.

Because, they are "queens" with standards

My question is, "where you Wan see billionaire from?"

All your life, you've not seen a billionaire before and suddenly when it's time for marriage you think one will magically appear abi?

Omo, make una dey calm down. Stop creating impossible situations in your head and reacting to it.

Even Chioma of Davido got there by cooking and cleaning.

And you wey no get urgent twokay dey talk nonsense online with your plastic wig.

Like Gehgeh always say, "most of una go marry broke guys because na wetin be una level be that"

Guys with money no just dey. The sooner you realize this and start preparing for it the better.

Peace

After the guy buy car, God decided to suspend the flood.

But isn't it selfish to abandon your friends and family and rush to buy ticket to the ark just so you'll survive.

I understand it's all about surviving and being alive.

But if it comes to the end of the world and there's only one ticket while everyone else perish, I don't think it'll be worth it.

It's easy to think once you're alive on the other side then all will be fine.

But what kind of life would you live when everyone else is gone and buried in the floods?

Assuming you're 30 years old, how long more would you live after the flood that will even make this worth it?

But it's the thing with religious selfishness, it blinds common sense and all you think about is just to get there.

You don't think beyond just getting there

Kemetian:
All the states are construction sites now.

They are even competing among themselves now.

The money is definitely being spent on infrastructure.

Do you honestly believe this or you just want to type something so all of us can think that you're educated and know what we are talking about here?

Charly68:
Honestly it was a mistake. My take is his failure to stabilize the party while it's leaders were fighting..If he couldn't organize his party how would he able to organize Nigeria as a nation. Sincerely speaking he does not have the capacity that people assumed he carries

you need someone to lay hands on you to deliver you from the spirit of stůpidity

This man was feeling like God when Buhari was in power.

He became the constitution of the country and was feeling ontop of the world.

He forgot that power, highest it's 8 years and then you're back to being a normal citizen again.

These people pushing this tax forget they will only be in power for a while and once out, the very tax law will hold them too.

By Allah, Islam will cover the whole world.

After covering the whole world, what exactly will be the gain?

You think the world will suddenly become paradise?

Very anyhow religion with terrorists all over the place.

They want to dominate. Once they dominate they pollute the place with terrorism.

Ikpeabujo:
I love the girl so much but I’m really Confused the love for a new guy in a Space of four months

if a man comes along and suddenly she switches because he does things for her.

Understand that the love is not for the person but for what the person is doing.

Understand this deeply bro.

There's always going to be someone willing to do more for a girl, especially in her prime.

Most times, these demands will gently grow out of your means and as they do, so does her love grow out of your means.

Now do you want to be stuck up in such a circle where you're forever running out of breath to meet up with her ever growing list of demands?

Please pity yourself. It's painful. It'll be painful because it'll take you a while to move on. While you see her clearly settling in.

Even more so, you'll find yourself constantly worrying about what she doing with the new guy and how they could be doing it right now and stuff.

A lot of us have been there. And let me tell you, e no easy.

But it's better to let go. Even if she comes back today, it'll never be the same again.

You think it'll be the same but it'll never be the same.

I'm not going to say "just move on". There is no just move on especially when you really loved your girl.

What I'm going to say is understand that things have changed. Always tell yourself that.

Yes, she's with the bigger man now. Yes she has won and he has won. Accept that you lost. Accept that you're the loser. A sore loser.

But will you keep begging for scrumbs or will you actually try to better your life and set up yourself for the next person to come.

There's always another girl. They are all the same trust me. They will come and will always be lookin outside to see if they can get better options.

Be the better option. Start building. You can't be spending the money you should be investing at this stage to impress a girl.

She'll still just leave anyways once you're dried up.

So, at the moment, don't think revenge. Don't wish her bad. Don't wish to take her back. Don't wish to get over her. Don't wish to forget her.

Just understand that she's not the better option or the best for you even if it feels like it.

Start putting in the work to better your life.

UshaUsha:
Even if bag of 50kg rice come down to₦2000, 20 litres of oil ₦3000, fuel₦70, carton of Noodles ₦1500, transport from Adamawa to Lagos ₦5000. Still economy no go reach everybody

what's your point sir?

Tiffnubu economy no be anybody mate o.

makavalley:
If he decides to dedicate time on social media and content creation he going to make it. He has lots of influencers, star players that he can put a call across and everyone will turn up for podcast, of he decides to quit on injury level bro sympathy will set and he would climb on that too.. wait what's Fabrizio doing by the way?

If he strategies well on the media he going to gain popularity

lolz. You think friendship dey for social media eh?

makavalley:
Boy knows the future already of retirement sets in early he has the social media space. Almost everyone knows his presence on the media space, he can't start up a podcast like Mikel Obi and the rest and also work with brands

he doesn't have the social media presence to make as much money to maintain his lifestyle right now.

He's famous because of his giveaways which will stop if he start hustling content creation and football money stop coming in.

Procashtips:
Simple logic = If they could mention her being naked, they wouldn't leave out such a detail if her clothes were found inside the freezer.

Simple logical reasoning.

you lack any form of logic to begin with.

the report clearly stated there was cctv evidence showing no foul play.

she wouldn't walk from her house naked to the store. so her clothes were either in the fridge there or just outside it. either way for something which was not included in the report and you claiming the 'logic' why its not mentioned show how naive you think

GanagiBitrus:
Calm down.
So you don't know that "someone deliberately locked her in" as you suggested, constitutes foul play?

no. if you enter a walking fridge and a staff locked all the doors, it's not a foul play.

it happens all the time. same way as people spending the night in an office because they got locked in

GanagiBitrus:
Police already said CCTV footage indicated no foul play. So it's either an accident or suicide.

did i imply in anyway that it was otherwise? what's the point of this pointless mention?

Procashtips:
Did the report say her clothes were inside the freezer with her?

did it say here clothes were not in the freezer?

bewla:
Bywhat could make this beautiful soul wish to take her life

because beauty dey?

To the naive this may seem like someone raped her because she was naked.

But when you are freezing to death, your body actually tricks you to feel hotter and so, people freezing to death often pull their clothes off so they can 'relieve' themselves of the 'heat' they are feeling.

This is a well documented fact among those who get losts in cold blizzards.

The reason for the sudden feeling of 'heat' even when you are freezing to death is because the body dilates all your blood vessels at once since it has been constricting it for long to conserve heat.

when it gives up on the constriction of the blood vessels, there is a sudden rush of heat coming to the surface and you suddenly start feeling warm, become uncomfortable and want to relieve yourself by shedding off your clothes.

Most people don't know that this sudden feeling of warmth is their body giving up and they shed of their clothes, naked themselves even and since the new heat will not last for long, they die of the cold.

So, this is probably not a rape case. there are different possibilites. Maybe she went in there late at night and got trapped in or someone deliberately locked her in or she deliberately locked herself in

Of course it's going to be a movie based on gender agenda.

It's the easiest way to win award.

If you want, create something on LGBT suffering in Africa, make it emotional, devoid of logic and the west will bath you with awards.

Spits

This tax law is wickedness in high places. It's from hell

They use this popular line " If you dey earn small money, Government no go chop your salary wella. But if your salary don big, dem go cut small higher percentage."

But what most people fail to understand is that the tax starts at 800k per year.

Not 800k per month for earners but 800k per year.

How much is 800k per year?

It's 66k per month.

Essentially, if you're earning 66k per month, the government feels you're a "big" earner and should be taxed.

The minimum wage in the country is 70k per month.

This means all minimum wage earners will fall into this tax bracket.

So, who exactly are the "small small earners" that will be exempted from this new tax that they keep pushing?

No one. Essentially, Tinubu is taxing everybody but because it's wrapped in per year, most people have no idea they will be taxed.

So I'm just coming from the thread on the new tax laws in simple English and it's funny most people are not seeing the problem.

They use this popular line " If you dey earn small money, Government no go chop your salary wella. But if your salary don big, dem go cut small higher percentage."

But what most people fail to understand is that the tax starts at 800k per year.

Not 800k per month for earners but 800k per year.

How much is 800k per year?

It's 66k per month.

Essentially, if you're earning 66k per month, the government feels you're a "big" earner and should be taxed.

The minimum wage in the country is 70k per month.

This means all minimum wage earners will fall into this tax bracket. Because according to Tinubu, y'all are big earners

So, who exactly are the "small small earners" that will be exempted from this new tax that they keep pushing?

No one. Essentially, Tinubu is taxing everybody but because it's wrapped in per year, most people have no idea they will be taxed.

So I'm just coming from the thread on the new tax laws in simple English and it's funny most people are not seeing the problem.

They use this popular line " If you dey earn small money, Government no go chop your salary wella. But if your salary don big, dem go cut small higher percentage."

But what most people fail to understand is that the tax starts at 800k per year.

Not 800k per month for earners but 800k per year.

How much is 800k per year?

It's 66k per month.

Essentially, if you're earning 66k per month, the government feels you're a "big" earner and should be taxed.

The minimum wage in the country is 70k per month.

This means all minimum wage earners will fall into this tax bracket.

So, who exactly are the "small small earners" that will be exempted from this new tax that they keep pushing?

No one. Essentially, Tinubu is taxing everybody but because it's wrapped in per year, most people have no idea they will be taxed.

If you earn more than 66k per month you'll be taxed.

This essentially capture all minimum wage earners because they earn more than 800k per year.

How's this excluding low income earners?

Was anyone arrested? No.

Was anyone killed? No.

But yes, let's reopen the schools because it's safer now even though we've not done anything against the reason why we shut them earlier.

God airpus in this country

Melagros:
COMRADES, no era wei the USA no dey dominate the list. Kudos to them, their hard work dey, their government too dey support/ subsidises their business at initial stage

if you can print your currency, you can get away with anything.

USA prints dollars. Nigeria must produce oil to get dollars

Philphoenix:
update?

Yes. Boss.

We settled sir. Thanks to @pneumaticos who lent me the money. God bless him.

I received my payment and was able to send him back the money on that 16th as promised.

I was supposed to update this thread that same day but I was preparing for exam and totally couldn't come around to it.

Pious101
stuffs2002
SixSeven

Thank you all for your support. And at telim thanks for offering to help.

I'm really grateful to everyone who commented. Thanks again

There is a reason behind this post.

Too many times some men have tried finding a good woman to settle down with but sometimes they end up with a broken relationship.

Some feel it's something they are not doing right.

And some like my friend who has only dated one girl who he's convinced is supposed to be his future wife is currently unhappy because he felt he has lost his chance of ever finding happiness.

I try to reason him that many people fall in love multiple times before they eventually settle down.

But he thinks it's not so.

So, that prompt this question. How many times were you genuinely in a loving relationship and it ended. And then you finally got to settle down?

Ladies can also contribute.

Thanks guys