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shollyjoy

she has travelled to the UK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Does her absence bothers you?

Labelle

hmmn,not really

Why must you know if i like it burning?

Just check out the Nigeria NYSC website and you will know taht the guy that designed the JAMB website better


http://www.nysc-nigeria.org

jockey112

because the sight of a nude girl pisses me of

Would you like to see the picture of a nude girl?

I don't know

Why do people run mad?

hmmn,
basedrop

Because they'd like to be one

Why must everybody here gives a wrong answer?

myfinalpro:
It aint easy, I AM IN the same boat, what I have resolved to doing is going to naija almost three time every year, it aint easy , but she will comming here in december, so at last i don't have to be investing $5,000 in lufthansa every year anymore.

Lucky you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

anasbeaut:
I just have to say that the two most important things in a distant relationship is love and trust, without these two its very difficult. You all know that its takes a long to build trust but just a second to destroy. As long as these two elements are there, it wont seem that bad
I am also in a distant relationship, and sometimes you just sit and wonder if its all worth it, aint you wasting your time and other negative thoughts but what can i say the heart know what it wants.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]

WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rossy4life:
In a long distance relationship, it takes great determination from both sides, commitment and genuine love to stick together. I've been in a long distance relationship for roughly 4yrs now, anytime i feel down i keep telling myself "out of sight is not out of mind". I'm hoping at the longrun my effort will payoff with happiness, as long as i end up with someone i love, but i must admit it's not easy.

WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

gabongee:
i don't think one should cheat for revenge,if the guy hurts you and you think you can't stand simply break up and go not to cheat on him as well because its your body and not his,i have never cheated on my partner and i pray God gives me the grace never to do so,it could be very tempting but hey!what if you were married to him would you commit adultry?we are humans and are bound to be tempted but please try to overcome it.one love

Word!

lilvonz:
I can't answer that question online.
Do u want to cause trouble.
she is also a active member of the nairaland.

U've already answered it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ThiefOfHearts:
and hopefully she will find a better guy during this breakup that isnt so childish.

pinkttea:
u said u love her, do u love her because she's a VIRGIN? if yes when u get her disvirgin and find out that she's not what u want in a sex partern what happens.

teach her one good lesson by not expecting her sorry when it comes next time, if she love u, it will hurt her and pray she gets the massage.

But come oh, guy i hope your not the one getting her burning up in temper with things u do.
if that's the case try stop am oh,

WORDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One more thing,don't disvirgin her in that faith.

My sincere advice,is that you should ignore the fact that she is a virgin and be straight,don't let that be an issue in deciding,

Has she been doing this tsuffs before and you ignored it or she just started,if she just started putting up this attitude,then she might be tired of this relationship or you are doing sumfin wrong and that's the way she can revenge or something,

If she has been doing it before and you have ignored it,i think its high time you let her know that you don't like it and you will like her to stop it,

Either way,you need to talk to her about it and listen attentively before you make your decision.All the best,

Seun:
It will have no real effect on the value of your investments, but it will definitely cause a lot of confusion.

I totally agree with Seun on this issue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The truth of the matter is that your sister shouldn't av collected all those stuffs because i can't see guys giving out stuffs without expecting something in return,it makes it difficult to prove it to your real guy that you are not into the guy that has been spending on you.

Nevertheless,you've got to be firm now,let the spendthrift take its leave no matter what,let him know that you aint interested and that you are in a committed relationship,all those sh*ts that he's been saying is just to keep you,don't be decieved,by now you should know the way guys talk when they want to have you.Be wise,drop him and go back to your guy.All the best,

hmmnnn,

I am not sure if i'd be able to forgive but if i will,it can only be once,the second time,he is out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think she's ready to turn a new leaf to have confessed to you but sometimes we think we an handle some stuffs that we cannot handle in real life, do you actually think you can cope with her pasts,its one thing to forgive and its another to forget,but nevertheless try to handle this very well so that she won't think she made a mistake by confessing to you,

i don't mind in as much as he will n is willing to stop it wen we get on,
Aside that,it cannot work ooooooooooooooo

I'd rather say mine is abt 9.7 just to giv myself d benefit of doubt of 0.3,

I will think most doctors are flirts,they do it more than people in other professions,same goes with the nurses but the truth is that just very few of them are not,take it or leave it, it is the bitter truth!!!!!!!!

Not for once !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It does work actually bt there is a limit to how long it can

TRUST is very important

But LDR involves lots of committments and sacrifices and it costs you twice or more of what is needed to keep an ordinary relationship than a LDR one

But the truth is,if you're actually in love,you obviously wouldn't like to loose your partner to distance hence the reason why you move into it,

Ooops!!!!back to the question,i can keep a LDR infact am in one and it works fine,

I think if he is actually going to change after marriage,he will have to slow down before he gets married.

Going to club after marriage is not a big deal in as much as he is there with his wife but its shouldn't be a routine but for real those things can help spice up your marriage,you don't have to leave a boring life all in the name of marriage

@ Godsgirl
You  are right,the truth is that sometimes i think older guys are much more stable

@Poster,
I actually think 15years is a lot,sometimes you never knew you could find yourself in this type of situations but actually you do,my concern is just that if you aint got any problem or doubt with this,you wouldn't be posting it here,have got to be sincere with you,something in your mind tells you its not right,something in your mind tells you something is wrong and thats why you are actually here seeking people's advice,
The truth of the matter is,when it comes to relationships and you are actually in love,you don't bother about this,you ignore what people people will say and concentrate on the relationship,because you actually the one in control and you will go through the pains and enjoyments all by yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyway that was just my point of view but you are in the best position to decide,you need to know what you will like to do and stick to it,if you think it really bothers you,then don't go into it and besides,have you considered reasons why he is yet to get married at 40,has he divorced his previous wife or something,how long have you been with him and are you so sure you know him quite well because a lot of things has happened in the life of a 40year old man and i bet you know that,

All the best girl,

@ Mustay Do you really mind and does my joblessness bothers you?

Where's evrybody ?

Is there any girl who doesnt have more than one boy friend? Yeap,i stick to only one guy,

Do u know any girl who wouldnt lie to her boyfriend about who is dating?Yeap,i don't,i kip just one guy,hence no need to tell lies abt other guyz,

Do u know any girl who has made sacrifice for her boy friend before? Yeap,thats why we are together,to help each other,

Is there a girl who can befriend a guy who has no money? Yeap,money is not everything in lyf and basically,most of the guyz still leave wit dea parents n don't have dea personal money

Just wait for the ryt gurl,u sound heart broken,

Why what?

nimi-k:
thingy thingy, just feeling naughty naughty

Don't tell me that you're talking to me,