₦airaland Forum

40% too small oooo my bro.

jhibola:
but i think age is no bareer of friendship, age or no age love does not ask why

I knw but my bro,you need to be matured enough to cope with some things, else!

@ sillyboy
For the first tym on nairaland indeed,

@poster
I really understand and feel your pain,though its cool to forgive your partner but sometimes,there are some stuffs that you will never forget,though when love issues are @ hand,we are always weak but i think its better to be realistic,from your posts,there seems to be a lot of bad stuffs between you and your gurl and i'd advice you to be very sure you can cope with this,am very sure you can't forget them.Though 15 years aint a joke but its worth moving on sometimes and don't get blinded by the number of years you two have spent together.
Nevertheless,if the gurl is willing to change and you are very sure you can cope with all those flaws,then its alright,just hope she will admit and turn a new leaf.All the best.

It all depends on so many stuffs,if you have been in the relationship for several years and you are of age and the relationship is heading towards marriage,then i think its alright but if any of those is missing,don't even think of giving it to him.Whatever the case,its still your pride and it makes hopping out of a relationship easier for you in case the guy later turns into someone else.

Am happy you are out of that relationship cuz no responsible guy will beat a lady.

Very funny!!!!!!!!!

Your gurl is a big tym cheat.Am happy you are out.

@ Gracious
Why don't you just start!!!!!!!

anabell:
monkey no fine but in mama like am

hmmn, i no dey there ooooo

@ Akintos the cool guy
Nice pix.

@ Sillyboy
Tnx for 4giving Akintos

_{rolls eyes.Wonders shall never end}.Lmfao

frankies:
I still believe that once you show a girl that you care for her and ready to be there for her, They seem to be much more faithful despite the fact they always have the tendency to date more than one Man.

Personally,I believe it is very possible because a woman that wants to hold herself, will perfectly do that no matter the negative urge.

I totally agree with you.

@ topic
Ladies can stick to just one guy if they really want to but a lot depends on the way the guy treats her sha.The truth of the matter is both ladies and guyz have the tendency to have more than one partner at a time.It takes self discipline to keep to one guy.Its very possible for ladies to keep to just one guy and there are still a few ladies out there that date just one man at a time.

@ poster
he fact that you said some girls are becoming so greedy and not all gurls.

@chuckdee4
I know its now becoming the order of the day but how about looking it from the perspective that the way you present yourself determines the type of gurls you meet and the way they treat you.Not all gurls did expect you to cater for them.

If you think you are not interested in her again,just leave her n let her go,i really don't consider what she has done as an offence , its just that she shouldn't av collected stuffs from you then,but can you just ignore her if you are not interested in her.
And if you think you're still interested,you can give her a chance and me very careful just to be sure that she's not coming back because you're already made.

And what if the question is not answered?

@ Slycks

I know we ladies can be sumtyms funny,and its now the song of most guys that we ladies are usually the first person to mess up in a relationship,but you never can tell,your gurl can be different,just try n be yourself and when you feel uncomfortable with something,talk to her about it,don't get it into your head that she's going to drop you,else its going to affect the way you treat her.I wish you the very best in your realtionship.

Thank God for that,hopefully,things will begin to take shape now.Much luv.Bless.

Do you need to know?

1.)Because they have other people to go out with on Christmas Day.

2.)Because they don't want to spend a lot on you.

Let the man be the one to fall in love,

OgaMadam:
Its tricky,

cause if you show you love a man too much he walks all over u.

Word!!!!!

fekuti:
*Quick life-saving tip* : Always wear rubbers when you bang a girl that you pulled from a club, especially if she seemed very comfortable in there. Who knows who she went home with last week, or the week before that, and before that, you get the idea. [/list]
I found this, thought I'd share

Share your experience with us because i guess,their is something behind that statement, lol

I know a woman shouldn't depend totally on her husband for finance,however guys should consider the fact that our society demands a lot from the wife (those household chores can be time consuming).

Can you guys just give it some deep thought
The husband goes to work,likewise the wife and come back to watch football and stuffs,the wife on the other hand has got to think about the kids(how they get to school and how they come back from school),prepare the meals, clean the house and yet they want her to have nice hair styles_{(because they complain that women don't pay much attention to their looks after marriage and hence the reason why some of them cheat)}
And you here them shouting after paying the rent,the kid's school fees.
If the wife is financially alright n probably better than the husband,you hear the low esteem guys out there complaining that the wife is proud and stuffs.
If the wife takes her career too seriously,they complain that she has neglected her role as a wife.

How about you guys coming back from work and moving into the kitchen with their wifes,both of you thinking of how the kids get to school and how they get back home,how they rugs are hoofed,how the cloths are washed and stuffs.Then its alright,you can as well share the rent and the kids school fees.

Y'all wants to be respected.
Some of them wants their wifes to be full house wifes and they can't provide the wife's basic need.

Anyway,to the ladies,life has been like that and women need to rise up to the responsibility.We should try to be independent.We've got to flow with the guys,women should start to take their careers seriously as aside financial issues,most guys are turning out to be irresponsible,all wanting to get married,even though they are not ready to take up the responsibility of a father and husband.And besides you can command more respect from the guy and he won't get it into his head that he his the one responsible for your livelihood.

Then you can all plan how to get the kids to school,if he doesn't mind dropping them and picking them up when he is opportuned,get the cloths to the dry cleaners ,you can both hoof the rug on Saturdays or he can be there to cheer you up when you are doing the cleaning stuffs,he can help you in the kitchen when he's back from work or at least sit down and watch you do the stuffs,and you don't have to depend on him again.

Iskwew:

But i really wonder what happens to the 5ft guys,will they marry ladies of about 4ft 7inches and give births to midgets.lmao
I would also like to remark to hotchic regarding her quote here, that actually even if one if medically deemed a dwarf,, there is still only 60% chance of birthing a dwarf as a child. It's about genetics, and dwarfs still carry genes that can provide a normal size human, altho maybe if it were a male child, of 6' would still be "short" for some? Likewise, "normal" sized people can also carry the gene that will birth a dwarf.

Just kidding though,

She just left, lmao

Olagbara


Mr rich guy! dats all dem ladies seems to b afta

Anyway open ur two eyes n The Lord will c u true,

Slycks:
I never forced her into anything, Am glad you admit you ladies could be like that sometimes anyway

Like how ooooooooooo,just a possibilityoooooooooo, _{i never said that was the case}

Slycks:
@omogenaija

can i dump her ? just like that ? , Well i love her so much

Its sumtyms like that,my bro,you don't have to drop her she might be a little bit shy,talk to her about it,you never can tell,she might change,







Another possibility,Is dea a big age difference between you guys

Why can't you just answer my question?

anywayz,am luving this,

This is so funny!!!!!

I think i have an idea ,i think i knw why this thread is created

anyway,it doesn't really matter if she luvs her ,though its not alwez the best,if they can cope,i think its alryt.

@ Omo eko


No vex now,no mind all dem guyz jare,

I know its somehow,but i think its really cool when your guy is abt 2-5 inches taller than you,

You feel secured which is what we ladies want.


But i really wonder what happens to the 5ft guyz,will they marry ladies of abt 4ft 7inches and give births to midgets.lmao

Nevertheless,if a lady dates a guy thats shorter,does that mean she's got to forget about heels,when they give her those sexy looks and steps, i dunno ooo

Really nice thread!!!!!1

Thats not really a bad thing,i think its worse when they work in thesame office,