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Did you hear me say you look bothered?

Am luvin this,infact you re guyz are doing a good job!!!!!!!!!!!

@Tola
Am quite happy that you have figured somethings out that can help and you have taken a bold step.LDR has alwayz been headache but i pray that Almighty God will see you through.

What if i am.Does that bothers you?

Nevertheless,it is a bad thing to date a married woman,am sure no man wants to see his fiancee dating another man not to talk of his wife.A married woman belongs to her husband and her husband alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cool ad:
A guy that claims he know a tin or two bout a girl, does not know jack s*it. because them gals av d camouflage of a chameleon,d mind of a super computer and the heart of a lucifer. They change, that is their nature.

You already know something.

Is normal for you to feel insecure, just take your time and hopefully u will be able to build the trust again.

Yes She can!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If i may ask,whom is this question meant for?

I think you need to ask her why she lies n let her know that u aint comfortable with it.Who knows she might change.

@ CoolDave

CoolDave:
where do you guys think you are?

Do you need to know where we are?

You just relax,try to keep your mind off th girl,its never to late to find a girl you love,just try to keep that issue of your mind,a lady will eventually cross your mind and you find yourself in love again,it may not necessarily be from your church,there are good girls in other places,forget about that girl and be yourself.

What am saying is that why do you want to go for a married woman when there are loads of single girls out there for you to date._{Save someone's marriage.}.Hope you got that.

Have i asked you to do that?

He aint worthless,he's worth sumfin but he shouldn't just sit at home,he shld be tryin to get a job.

You siad rape and u are associating the word love with it, hmmn can't believe that

Probably it would have been better if you said he lured you to bed

Please and please go and dumb ass now in case you haven't and move on wit lyf.

I think she needs to ask the American guy why he ignored her for 24mnths and during those 24 months,didn't you have his number or you didn't bother asking about his where about.

Anyway the fact that the guy is based abroad and is richer than the other guy is not a factor to consider here,are you getting married to the guy in Nigeria because you love him or because you think you are getting old and needs to get married very soon,there are loads of stuffs to consider here,and you need not deceive yourself and let money dictate for you,remember marriage aint all about money.

How can you think like that, a married woman when there are loads of single gurls out there,i really don't think that's a gud idea.

I think its wise for you to leave her for your younger brother,i think you have had the gurl in my for a while now without voicing out,let your brother try his luck and in case she turns her down,don't make the mistake of going after her again.The fact is if you advise your brother to leave her,its not wise for you to go for her because he will know that you advised him cuz of your selfish interest,try as much as possible to get your mind off her,i can c another gurl out there for you.

And who are you asking that question?

to be candid,there's no big deal in that,it all depends on the motive behind it,at least u aint into because she's rich.

@ Maleeq

Ole Ole(Thief,thief)lol

actually am not into dem,am in2 LDR but thats not always very easy and you can't trust guys with all your heart but the ones over here ain't better,so i think its better to saty with the old love and kinda unfair to dump a guy after travelling just because u're outa the country.

debosky:
first name gini??

My wife must call me "His Excellency, the one whose Abunna I adore"

U're making me laugh oooooooooooooo,

fromuk:
my sister hot-chic if u d fear nigerians why not try jamaicans or somalians i think they might be beter than nigerians. To be truthfull both guys and gyls are victims of this issue. what can we do? can we stop jigijigi because of HIV,NO. My advice is before going into it seek devine guidiance, He must surely give you the one for you and your paper. Ka Chineke mezie owu.

My bro,i think thats worse,i haven't been into one but at least i have been studying dem guys,when you really want to get them,just pretend that you ain't from Nigeria and you will hear dem talking to their friends,deceiving themselves,thinking u can't understand what they are saying.

Seun:
designplus, your approach to male superioritty is old school. Men these days are more clever and subtle about it!

Thank you ooooooooooo

If he continues like that i don't think any girl will be ready to go out with you, _{only the ones with low self esteem that feels their whole existence depends on you.}

@ Topic,
i see no big deal in calling my boo his real name,sometimes,it shows how close couples are and not lack of respect.

The earlier you do something,the better it is for you,you have planned how to break up with this gurls before marriage,there is no point keepin them till you're married,tnk God u are now learning your lesson.When you want to stick to a gurl why don't u just stick to her and not playing around,i really pity your wife cuz i believe you must have it in ur mind that u're going to marry her n break up wit all dem gurls.

Anyway that aside,tell the gurls that u're married and your wife aint comfortable about all those sh*t,tell them off,change your number,ignore them,if they keep running after you,let them know that u are not bothered,none of dem is goin 2 kill hersef cuz of you,dey are just bragging, all d best.

I think it is essential!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OlowoTee:
Someone once said: "the stay at home mom is over, not just because of women's liberation, but because of men's liberation from wanting to be breadwinners." Therma.
both sides are fautly, because everyone is seeking for liberation.
I guess the moment men rise up to their responsibilities(full-time breadwinners), women'd do likewise.

word!,=

Nevertheless,ladies shld learn how to cook,