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Your type is rare no doubt. I love your sincerity too. What is done can't be undone. my advice is let go and move on my dear. Moreover, your colleague took advantage of your fragile emotional state; weird indeed. I hope you are a strong, focused and ambitious lady now, pursuing your lofty dreams? Cheers!

Stiffer punishment should be meted out to ritualists and their likes. You kill a living being for a mere 15000 naira. Poverty is an epidemic and the government should find a solution ASAP before they become victims by default. Check my blog on how you can detect ritualist. Just type the word 'ritualist' at www.securitymattersafrica.com

Some property owners think CCTV is about buying and installing only. No, it is more than that. It needs 24 hours monitoring that is: it needs constant monitoring, analysis and evaluation. Due to the limited space of the hard drive, old videos are deleted, while new ones are reviewed. We install CCTV, fire alarm, burglary alarm, acces control and electric fencing. www.securitymattersafrica.com

A very unfortunate incident indeed. The yulitide period carries a baggage of crime. In order to stay safe at home, you must hire a security guard from a competent security and safety firm. Install a fish eye or coaxial CCTV camera(s). Install an Access Controlled gadget too. We do installation of all kind (CCTV, fire alarm, burglary alarm and access control). Do a thorough background checks of all domestic staffers. Use hand-held scanner to frisk all visitors and hand-held mirror to search all vehicles both entry and exit. Install a bullet-proof or fire-proof door with a security door chain attached. Don't reveal your family details to strangers or friends alike. Get the mobile number of your DPO. The distress call of the victim to the company's CSO saved his life and the arrest of the perpetrators. May her soul Rest in Peace. Amen. Check my blog for all things security and safety at www.securitymattersafrica.com

[quote author=safarigirl post=84772769]you're her best shot because you convinced her to come and live with you in a place you knew you would be her best shot.

You Sound like a manipulative guy. She will be at your mercy for the duration of her stay in PH. You must be obsessed with the idea of being someone's lord and personal savior, preferably a woman you can be having free sex with, while blackmailing her with threats of eviction if she ever challenges your authority.

For a woman to even agree to leave Abuja that she worked and had plans to stay with an aunt, to go to PH, where she only knows you, a man she has known for how long? You should be very afraid, because it speaks poorly of her. She must have ulterior motives just like you, because no good, decent girl would put herself in such a dicey situation

I hope this decision bites you in the ass and you receive a year of fire and brimstone on your head he inviting a stranger into your space for one year.
Safarigirl is on fire today oh!

It is very simple: you seems so desperate. Slow down a little bit and know more about her. Dig deep and unravel her past history. Let her know your intentions on the get go. Don't get too intimate with her because it might be a distraction for both of you. Are you sure she is in the same pedestrian with you: your goals and aspirations per say? Remember, marriage is a marathon; not a hundred (100) metre race. Goodluck.

I have been celibate since 2008. Don't quote me; don't ask me why. Thank you.

Oturugbekeh! what a question! Piercing in any form doesn't define a person. What is done can hardly be undone; love pulls down difficult boundaries. OP, if you truly love her, please, let go of your foibles and do the needful. Is she giving you a hard time respect-wise? If no, no cause for alarm. I love women with low cuts who dye their hair as well. E dey scatter my skeroh die. Cheers!

. . . him closer. 6. If you purchase something from the store like phones, wristwatches, shoes, clothes, inform him ASAP. 7. Use social media wisely: it has destroyed homes. Don't make your home a case study, OK? 8. When in a church gathering, town's meeting, social gatherings, thread with caution please. Conduct yourself in a virtuous manner, control your tongue, don't laugh and open your wide mouth like Iya Akpos. 9. Don't bring colleagues, church members (all male) to your matrimonial home abeg. 10. This is the ice breaker: pray for him all the time (I can't pray myself ojare. E no easy) SAFARIGIRL, PRAY FOR ME PLEASE. ANGER WAN KILL ME.

OP, you know your hubby is the jealous type and you are provoking his jealousy. Jealous hubbies are unpredictable sometimes. However, are you aware about this attitude of his before you married him? Did you know if he has anger issues before you married him? Did you know if he is the violent type? Has he done anything unusual when jealous? Questions as the above can help us deduce how to go about his jealousy. Now, I will answer your question base on assumption. 1. Know his personality type: is he a melancholic, a sanguine, a phlegmatic or a choleric? I guess he is the quiet type therefore a phlematic (peaceful, thoughtful, introverted, jealous, creative). 2. Don't do things that will incite his jealous disposition. 3. Do the reverse. What do I mean? Instead of undeliberately inciting anythings that will provoke him, do things that will make him trust you the more, e.g., don't password your phone, don't padlock your baggage, use his name often when talking on the phone, when talking to a stranger, pull . . .

The Federal government is a comical and catastrophic joker. Does the government knows there are different types of revolution. 1. Emotional revolution (brainwashing of people' intelligence). 2. Radical revolution (terrorist style). 3. Tribal and Cultural revolution. 4. Revolution of change (The Sowore style and what the incumbent used to gain power). 5. Revolution of indoctrination and mind control. Check my blog on the Real Revolution at www.securitymattersafrica.com

Oh my God. Where do I start from now? See, this issue of kidnapping is getting to a dangerous cresendo. Infact, it has crawl, stood and moving towards an epidemic. Firstly, make kidnapping a criminal offense by death; not at the State level alone but at the Federal level as well. Discourage kidnapping by making it unattracting: do not pay any ransome except when it is highly expedient. Always involve the law enforcement agents. Use intel gathering; plant spies at strategic locations (for security agency). Use the 246 strategy: 2 offensive spies, 4 tough and rugged commandoes, 6 backups (strategies can change depending on the plan). Spot betrayers in the security agency. Make punishment very severe; a deterrent to any backstabbers. . . I pray they are found in one piece. Amen. Check my blog for all things security and safety at www.securitymattersafrica.com

sassysure:
Thank u.
Bond films should be more than fairly tales.

Have watched all, prefer these latest ones. Very flawed character representation of action heroes.

Exactly.

Daniel Craig brings that rugged edge to the James Bond series. I like the pain he goes through in order to rescue victims. Unlike the previous characters that are all fly, and smooth sailing. I am looking forward to this movie ASAP.

You are a melancholic and a phlegmatic personality type: creative, analytical, peaceful and introverted. OP, know your personality type. Read the book by Tim Lahaye

Feminist wanna be will bombard this thread and make a mess of it now. Emm . . . please, how do I handle feminists that are giving me migraine on this forum? I am an advisee, refused to be an adviser today. I had a serious altercation with one a few days ago and it wasn' funny at all. She is stubborn and arrogant. Her name . . . I don't want to mention. Again, there is another one: she attacks from afar, very cunnying; using aerial bombardment strategies. Her name sounds like kolo or something . . . oh I remember that cartoon character way back. There is one whose name sound like tropical or sahara desert somewhere in Kenya. She is the quiet type; I love her though. She is a darling. Then, there is the ultimate feminist . . . oh Lord I hope I ain't banned. Her name starts with a D and a ; a manly kind of name. Please and please, I am not feeling fine today with so much headach that wants to tear my brain apart. I can't shout today oh.

So, because he is a man of God, he can't protect himself physically right? God help those who help themselves. I am a blogger too but not a blogger of lies to push traffic.

This is how kidnapping, ritual killings and assasination started. The government thought it will fizzled out on its own until the masters became the victims. Now, instead of the government to tackle the injustice in the system, they are folding their hands and watching. OK oh. We must stop typing with our phones and go out and do the do. We must protest for our rights and privileges, we must be fearless, sacrificing everything for this generation and the next; for our children born and yet unborn. I will do it; even if it is one man protest. Check my blog for all things security at www.securitymattersafrica.com

@tourisman It scares me too. I pray God gives us the wisdom to choose a good wife. So sad for your friend.

Rest in peace gallant officer. The kind of unreasonable comments on this thread baffles me.

Mindfulness:
Don't get yourself all worked up this early in the morning.

People like you uses weave on wey your ancestors don use taya, dirty pkata wey you never wash for decades, pancake masquerade face. Smelling, ugly putrifying frustrated get-out-of-my-mention bitch. Reek!

Mindfulness:
Yes o
And I envy every woman who is married to a dumbo like you.

You see, thank God for Nairaland. At least it helps project your insecurities. You Mindfulness is unhappy. Just say it please. Your brain is entangled with so much feminist sh*t. Dirty sh*t sh*t for toilet bitch wey no dey wash hand. You reek of unintelligence!

Mindfulness:
Don't project your miserable existence on others.

Look at this otuepke Calling me miserable. I guess you are a pained, Husband-seeking-madam still searching. Pride will destroy you soon. Nonsense!

TonyeBarcanista:
Good!

You are entitled to your thought despite the fact that your thought is flawed!

Let madam simply come out plain to say I need a man of my own haven achieved my career goals than sending unsolicited cryptic message on social media.

Audio fulfilment everywhere

No mind dem. Frustrated madams.

That smile I am seeing right there is a cosmetic smile. She is not happy at all. There are guys that are overty ambitious, graduates, promising too. But because the guy is an uber driver, a security guard, a cleaner, etc, she overlooked and keeps trying to get the attention of her male colleagues who doesn't give a dame. Them plenty for Nairaland

Where in her writeup did she mentioned she was holding her mobile phone while driving, ehn? A forum where one idiot will type rubbish from her phone and whole and behold, a hundred likes. I am baffled. Very wicked, sentimental soul in this forum I swear! Nonsense will never make sense.

Where in her write up did she mentioned she was holding ther phone while driving, ehn? This is a forum where somebody will type rubbish from her mobile and she gets a hundred likes. It still baffles me I swear!. No sympathy at all; wicked selfish and sentimental soul . . .

safarigirl:
yes, because the world is getting bigger and more innovative and women won't have to sell eggs on the road, when they can sell them online and in bulk, to retail stores like shoprite and Ebeano

How many men are farming like their fathers once did these days?

Glorifiers of Sufferhead life

Will you shatap there. Feminist wanna be!

This ember period is the most dangerous to live by. So much evil and uncanny characters roaming our streets and communities as a whole. The most common of them are the unrepentant one chance armed robbers, the dubious fraudsters, the serial ritualists, the pickpockets, you named it. What do you think we can do to protect ourselves and love ones from harm? Let's go there. Share your ideas. www.securitymattersafrica.com

I had an argument with a fellow nairalander yesterday evening about an academy in Akwa Ibom State that trains Yahoo boys and I highlighted what the Economic an Financial Crime Commission (EFCC) must do to stop fraud in Nigeria and gave reasons too. However, a guy said I should have tag them 'lazy' instead of 'genius'. Now, who is a genius? Simply defined, it is someone with 'exceptional intellectual or creative power . . .' Please, what do you think nairalanders? Your inputs. www.securitymattersafrica.com

MrBrownJay1:
the above you wrote is very stoopid (excuse my French). these people are geniuses because they used their brains to create something that changed the world in such a huge manner, and you have the audacity to want to compare them with selfish lazy good for nothing greedy fraudsters who want to attain what they dont deserve?!?!?!?!?! what has these fraudsters done apart from defrauding gullible greedy people?! how did these fraudsters pictures on Instagram (with their ill gotten loot) made YOUR life any better?!



yes the momphas are in a different league but definitely aint no better than these young ones. they are all lazy fraudsters who dont give a damn about others but their selfish self... and certainly aint NO genuises... if they were, they wouldnt be caught/spend a day in jail, duh!

Now, you have resulted to insult, right? I am very vicious. Just stop it, OK. Or else, I will make you cry like a baby. Off to bed.