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No big deal. . .

you cld try explaining it to him they way u hv on here,

tell him u cant cope at the moment with everything u hav goin on, tell him u'd hav gotten a househelp if it was possible and that all u want is just a little assistance until u find a way to manage everything. . . hopefully he isnt too Nigerian to take it the wrong way

Hi Ben,

I got ur email, thanks for ur compliments and all this attention. . . i am flattered really

but i am definately not what u r lookin for _{abi u never hear say i be psycho stalker?}

on a more serious note tho, thanx but no thanx . . .


_{me i no see any peeeshur oh}

jenny abeg cool down for d babe sha

Uche2nna:
U think we don't know that?  

What happens if one psycho decides to violate her rights

My point is, d focus shd be on whoever is doin this, rather than on sistawoman for what she has said or not said on NL

Y'all encourage sistawoman by replying all her posts. . .  and now u r d same folk saying she talks too much about her family matters. . .  if u had a problem with it, why d hell do y'all keep replying her posts then?

It is her choice to discuss whatver she feels like on d forum, that doesnt give anyone d right to disrespect her d way d dude claiming to be her husband has done

it all depends on the pple and d frame of mind their in. . . .

I'd say u can fall inlove in a sec and fall out of love just as fast! it takes longer in people who r cautious or who r distracted

@ topic

I play with my boobs or re-arrange them or both

I pick my nose

I check my make-up and fix it

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that was really good https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/41.gif. . . cant stop laughing https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/24.gif

NL is a platform for many pple to live out their fantasy lives. . .

I dont have a problem with it except where they use people in process and hurt their feelings

if u really work for such a good company, u shd hav d kind of ladies u seek in ur social circle. . . so why r u on NL?

@ poster

how old r u? 

U knw u're inlove when u hav this irrational need to make a complete fool out of urself for the one u want

grafikdon:
Cereal in a bowl of Mountain Dew. . .
White rice and peanut butter. . .
Drinking Gari with Maltina. . . well, it wasn't bad but the side effects were. . . devastating.

I shudder to think what that cld be. . .

ammamat:
@ hotness Please do what i say not what i do,

Gotcha!

It depends on the person really. . . some people hide from the truth and wld direct their anger at u if u try to show it to them.

Ideally I wld shut my trap and mind my business but there i certain people who i knw can handle it and who wld do the same for me so I feel i owe it to them to let them knw.

[quote author=davidylan* link=topic=178014.msg2886295#msg2886295 date=1222994717]The picture on Razorr's profile last week was of her on a boat. It was different from the one there a couple of weeks ago and its changed again now.
How did this "impersonator" get Razorr's pictures?  [/quote]Good point!

I still say she done it!

_{B.T.W why r u checking up on her profile so regularly?}

u wax in 7 - 8 month intervals?  https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/13.gif

Girl i want to be u. . .  I hav to wax every 4 wks 

nalijah07:
@ Souran - Okay then, two questions.

1. Why in the world did you feel the need to marry in Nigeria if you knew you did not want to go back?
2. What happens to the American children - will they not ever get to know their Nigerian Family from their father's side.

It just isn't fair.

Well it may not be fair to the likes of u and I but those women find a way to rationalise it.

one of the women i knw is actually dating someone else here, she has refused to divorce her husband abroad for the money status reasons. . .  as for the kids well u cld say they r d loosers in this situation, many of them never come home sadly

I knw a few women who have husbands in the same situation and hav chosen to turn a blind eye, afterall they r being taken care of right!

others i think r being deceived. . . in this situation tho, one of two women gets abandoned; its either d guy gets his "stay" and dumps d other woman and brings his Nigerian wife over or the reverse is the case.

I definitely wont accept that kind of behaviour from my husband tho  

Cayon:
geez,  HR i didn't know you talk like that.  And all de time i thought you are a Saint like me

But I am. . . I promise! https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/25.gif

Join d club    https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/46.gif

nuthin wrong with it!

in some ways, i'd be chuffed that he'd go thru all that trouble for me

My advise. . . jump him!

Get ur one steamy night and forget him!

kemisuga:
Marriage is defined according to oxford dictionary as "a legal relationship between a husband and wife".

Legal is connected with the Law - In other words: This can be term an agreement, a union, a promise or[b] a contract[/b] made with somebody.

Marriage is not complete with just having relationship, it goes with the agreement.

MARRIAGE IS THEREFORE A CONTRACT RELATIONSHIP.

For this reason,

why then cant there be a negotiation of terms and conditions, like every other contract?
I think this wld make everyones expectations clear and allow for everyone to take proper responsibility for their actions

The most important unspoken rule in dressing up for a wedding is avoid wearing white at all costs. . . There r different ways of wearing black. . .

I wore black to a wedding on saturday and i looked nothing like mourner. . . accessories and style plays a big role