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Ceeno E vu:
I don tire for this hypocrisy self. I wonder what goes on in people's mind when they leave all the "edifying, saint-worthy" threads and read through all the "devilish, saint-corrupting" threads like this just so that they can cuss out preach to the sinners. It's like a journalist paying a slut and fhucking her so that he can confirm that she's really into the business before interviewing her.

Wetin self una no dey tire? Small time them don change the flow of the thread. na so some useless pastors go come to the sexaul diary thread only to start running their mouth after them don jerk off finish.

Seun osewa did a good job of classfying this forum into sections based on general topics. If you nor wan talk about sex why don't you just stay on the religion thread. How will you guys/babes feel if someone comes to a religious thread and starts talking about sexuality or why it's not so ideal to stand up for your faith?

biko, leave these babes alone.

YOU CAN NOT CHANGE THE WORLD and that goes for the outspoken babes as well as their antagonists

FYI, I be christian o. but if I nor like any thread I go move on. afterall, them nor force me come the thread and them nor carry am enter my house. let's exercise some decorum here. let people be. We can disagree with opinions without calling people names.

Thank you jare

all these people that just come and spoil an enjoyable debate for people all the name of having fun

selfish twats, the lot of them

Ofcourse you'll see the good in Nigeria

you dont have to wake up in the morning not knowing where your next meal will come from even though you graduted with honours over 5 yrs ago and havent been able to work a day since graduation.

that is what people complain about when they nigeria isnt good,
next time you vist i will advise u visit the slums of lagos with no water or electricity
or the communities in the niger delta who even tho the county's wealth is drawn form their land have nothing to show for it and live in abject poverty

buzyDiva:
   
haha . . una wan kill the guy
lol . . wetin he do una?

he'll be another statistic,
a casualty in the war between nations  

vivaladiva:
abeg nubian Q no appologise to that treoo witch na so her mouth they run like bust pipe, that her bobo wey she dey take pose when we see am we go mess am senseless put Love Machine for him yash ( u know now)

lol
ouch!

tRoOE:
HR.hotness
Haba save your speech not interested, and have a good day
Moving to another fun thread

good riddance

tRoOE:
LOL am not making personal dear, just having fun

Insult ahahah really , well you don't expect me to sit and watch her run her dirty mouth like a fucking tap water.

and what has it got to do with you

its an open forum, everyone is free to express thier opinions, if you dont like her thread why not move on

i really dont get why people think its their place to judge, thats just an abuse of the forum as far as i'm concerned

u call that fun> calling people u dont know names, doesnt say much about ur level of maturity really  

tRoOE:
AHAHAH my face is ugly

At least my pretty face dey for my profile, why don't you show us your ;D3

you just dey jealous me no be small
your head way be like basket head, with that umbrella nose you got
Your ass is flat like my fucking flat screen tv, your oversize breast with stretch mark on it, bitch let me not talk about your disfigure forehead

I don’t need your respect from a whole like you
Dumb ass fucker

whats with all the insults now?

how will u just come and make it all personal?

na wa oh

Pennywise:
I will (have a cyber) drink to that.

Cheers. . . . . lol

I guess thats why i'm addicted to Nairaland. . . . beer parlour withdrawal

Pennywise:
Romance section is hardly a place to seek logic. If I was keen on matching wits or doing some form of word combat I would probably go to politics or current affairs where I don't mind my ass getting thrashed. Romance section to me is like a beer parlour without the beer.

Most of the issues here are contrived. It doesnt mean it happened to poster as some alleged. If every thread title was goody goody there will be nothing to talk about and it will be sooo boring. I love to see you create your own scenario and start your own thread. It had better be snazzy or daring or both. Otherwise its a no show (for me that is).
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LOL
You knw I totally agree. . . .  LOL

mamaput:
well it will be hard to find me in the sexuallity section.
old women and mothers should not don't have sex

More people shd try this
rather than become nuisances

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=136373.msg2291223#msg2291223 date=1211558389]HR I just wish you luck.[/quote]what for?

4 Him:
What more can i say madame! Good point!

you have your invitation already.

Cool name the place and time and I'll be there 

I don't always have to close my ears if i don't want to listen especially if you're in the minority.
Iran is not a democracy, will you go there expecting the mullah's to close their ears if they don't want to hear about your sexuality? You'd be receiving 38 lashes before you know it.
Freedom of expression is good but your freedom ends where that of others begin. Being expressive should also go hand in hand with having the wisdom to know when to speak and when to be quiet

We are not in Iran, I wouldn't even go there (i probably wont survive )

Right
In relation to the topic, If "we" respond to threads that invite you to talk about sex, sexual preferences or sexual experiences,
"some people" who have read the topic and know what to expect, still take it upon themselves to act as moral judges. . . . those are the people I have a problem with
If I go on a non-sex related topic and start blabbing about sex, then by all means call me names, I personally can't stand people who do this as well.

The thing is when we are discussing sex, why d hell is wrong for me to contribute? why should I pretend?

stillwater:
They are already doing so long before I was even born.
In Nigeria, some of us weren't brought up by weaklings. My mother for example has never used words like if you behave like this you won't get married bla bla (except my aunt who is not even married ) but instilled in her daughters that you can't leave your life for a man. She herself was stigmatised for actually taking part in beer commercials by her extended family that even when my dad wanted to marry her, a so called elder brought out the magazine she was in to ask my father if this is the woman he wants to really marry.
That's by the way , the point I'm trying to make is that being liberated doesn't revolve around sex, sex, sex. There are more issues that are of tantamount interests to me when it comes to womanhood. My disagreement on certain issues concerning morality doesn't mean I'm in chains or bondage as people would like to make it seem.

And I dont think anyone says liberation revolves around sex

Its ok to disagree, we all have rights to our opinions but when people decide its their right to judge and call you names, then there is a problem.
i personally dont expect everyone to automatically approve the way I live my life and I dont go around judging people on the way they decide to live theirs.
If i disagree with someones life choices, thats my problem, cuz its not my life and it has nothing to do with me. . . .  
I keep saying on this forum
we are our own person, we shd all make our choices based on what makes up happy
no one has the right to dictate how another lives their life

disagree - yes
name calling - no

4 Him:
You're welcome to try and "feel" the blood flowing in my veins.

I dont do "trying". you either want me to or you dont. dont have patience for games  

This is not a straight forward case of people attacking you for being a woman. Nigeria is a country that has woefully failed to enforce her laws, its just a pity women fall into the category of being too easy to kick about no thanks to a social environment that encourages them to bear pain in silence.

the first steps in law enforcement i think is to actually have the laws in place?  


@ topic

Like a friend used to say
"If they dont want to listen they shd close thier ear"
I am who I am, and I make no apologies,
If the fact that I am open about my sexuality makes me a bad girl then I wear the hat with pride
If it bothers you please go somehwere else. Who gave anyone the right to judge?

mamaput:
women are brainwashed to see themselves as second class.

And its their mothers, women who let this happen. . . . my mother wasnt raised that way and so i wasnt raised that way!
its the women wo can actually change things

mamaput:
as long as the woman is not married to the father the father has no claim. not even in Nigeria.
that dose not mean they cannot put pressure on the woman. and the only pressure is the finical one.
of cause Nigeria is not ready and it cannot be my battle.

the whose battle is it?
are you not a woman?

Women are the reason why there isnt gender equality in Nigeria
with talk like this it is wonder we are even allowed an eductaion

RampantT:
That's the blind truth. . .Nigeria is not ready. We all know that. . .saying it's ready bla bla, is not going to change anything.
Yes, some women are acting equal to men. . .as you said, the law needs to recognize it. . .but who takes the consequence at the end?
If a woman wants to keep her baby, but the father's baby want the baby, who do you think gets the baby at last?
The law itself needs to be revised/reform. Truth be told, most of Nigeria law is nonsense

abegi, get back to topic jare

Women rights are for women,
If the women don't fight for it, they wont get it. . .Its that simple, sit down there and keep saying nigeria is not ready.
Are you not next generation of mothers, you can undo all that brain washing by showing your children the truth, rather than raising them according to what society dictates

Its your right to make Nigeria ready

4 Him:
@ HR
Thanks. But i think i have the most important tricks already.   Those who prefer a bit of privacy arent always ignorant eh.

so theres a heart and blood flowing in your veins under all that coldness? i'm impressed

4 Him:
The law is not necessary here. Its not as if women are oppressed in Nigeria, we have had female speakers in the houses of assembly.
Do you want to enact a law that recognises your right to kiss your boyfriend in public?

oh I kiss and do whatever i please to my boyfriend in public  

Its just protection from people who attack you for being a woman (no sexual reference here)
guys do whatever and say whatever they please about women and the law allows them to
when you look at rape cases (how many of the perpetrators actually get punished), verbal and physical assaults. . . don't get me started. I'm in a good mood today

RampantT:
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The country is in turmoil, right now there are bigger problem than equality for the women.
Some things will have to be done first before they reach that level

Its because woman are still making excuses like this that we are still where we are
what does it take to recognise a woman as an individual rather than a walking vagina? we require no infrastructure for that to happen
all that is needed is recognition by the law
if everyone keeps shouting Nigeria is not ready, it will never actually happen
the only way women will atcually get recognition they deserve is if they stand up and ask for it,
but y'all are sitting at home saying nigeria is not ready. . . . . .

RampantT:
No one is slamming anyone. . .
Just diff opinions

oh he knows what she means

@ 4Him

whenever u are willing to explore those fantasies. . . . I'll be more than willing to teach you a trick or two

4 Him:
False. Mad men talk freely, it hasnt made them strong independent people just yet. Its not just about "talking" but about the quality of what you have to say.

Point!

but I'm assuming we are all sane adults who have a point to make

just because some people don't feel comfortable talking about their sex lives, doesnt give them the right to sit in judgment over others who have no problem doing so.

4 Him:
true.

False. They probably have more of a life than you would think.

Not always true. Many have absolutely no desire for such.

Ever wondered why the romance and sexuality section is so popular?

there a more people with the desire to talk about it than you think, give them an anonymous forum and what will themost popular subject be

its human nature, we are secretly attracted to anything that is taboo

even you must hav a sexual fantasy