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SlayerForever:
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Ode, do you know me? What do you know about my imaginery success or indeed failure? Do you know where I schooled or what I graduated with? Stupid little girl common gerrout.

First, I cant know you because chances that I'll ever know someone as moronic as you, are non existent. I have never seen such excited display of buffonery.

You need to deflate some of the excess air in your bubblehead.

Internet access has given you, a feeble minded adolesent in desperate need of charity the effrontery to yapp at people who can turn your destiny around Legit!

You lucky I'm working at renewing my mind, would have chained your wild Jaws to a sewer.

SlayerForever:
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Shut up.

You're being a nuisance! Aggressively defending your poor performance tells a lot about your imaginary success!

Not only do you lack basic comprehension skills, you are also pathetically uncouth!

Excellent grades gives one a good start. But you cant know this obviously.

Seniorwriter:
What kind of topics are these gracing FP?
@OP or anyone(undergraduate/student) reading now what is more expedient is how to convert whatever knowledge you are getting or have learnt to monetary or life standard increase practically.
Remember life is far more tasking after studies.
The earlier you brace up towards the aforementioned the better and brighter your future!

Noted....my point isn't in anyway a downgrade of good grades but in furtherance towards achieving with it.
I'm sure you are preview to knowing some persons with good grades but achieving so little in life and status.

@SeniorWriter

Thanks for clarifying.

bukxy:
Same here,me thinking schooling isn't worth the stress.
but won't graduate with anyhow degree sha.

Better don't let the ignorant talks dissuade you from the right path!

Quality education is worth every stress.

Missyajoke:
They've turned it to a national anthem that grades doesn't matter and its not true.

Of course they know it's not true. Living in denial.

Excellent grades gives a platform to access opportunities reserved for a limited few.

6lam:
After NYSC , you and your course mates will come to realize it counts for little.
Too many factors determines one's success in life and CGPA has an infinitesimal effect on the subject matter. out here, third-class graduate dey make mad ass money while first class degree holders are struggling and vice versa.

This is ignorant and self consolatory talk!

Missyajoke:
Grades matters a lot so please stopthis nonesense that grades don't matters, they fact you didn't come out with one you shouldn't discourage people who wants to grade with a good grade.

Grade+Grace+Hardwork=Success

Thank you very much. That is purely ignorant talk from those who make excuses for their inadequacies.

Seniorwriter:
What kind of topics are these gracing FP?
@OP or anyone(undergraduate/student) reading now what is more expedient is how to convert whatever knowledge you are getting or have learnt to monetary or life standard increase practically.
Remember life is far more tasking after studies.
The earlier you brace up towards the aforementioned the better and brighter your future!


@SeniorWriter

Please do not subtly downplay the importance of excellent grades!

Graduating with excellent grades just makes things easier for you. It grants you access to incredible opportunities. It provides the platform you need to explore limited opportunities.

So please by all means, go for excellent grades.

Cutehector:
customer service/fintech

Really? Interesting. So you're in HR?

Cutehector:
For once in my life I hired competence over familiarity and it paid off . my first gaze at him, I saw responsibility and trust . I already hired him in my mind before the conversation started.

What industry?

Jeromejnr:
Well, it was during a time I wasn't a follower of God. So I wanted to experiment with a hard drug. I took it not knowing I will feel the effect later on. I was expecting to get high in an instant like alcohol.

So, when I saw I wasn't getting high, I felt I wasn't taken enough...so I kept taken it..thinking I need to take more to get high. Well eventually I stopped and gave up.

I went to buy food to eat. Then all of a sudden, I felt a dryness in my chest and I tried drinking water. It kept getting worse. My body was becoming numb. And I was getting dizzy.

I thought my food was poisoned. Then I ran in fear as the conditions became worse..tried running to the clinic...but couldn't make it. I just ran to my room and locked myself and was praying.

The fear I had that day was crazy...that was the trigger.

Now the next day or so...

I was going to class with a course mate. I felt heavily dizzy and I couldn't walk..and I told my mate, I feel like fainting...so I stopped in my track Nd eventually walked slowly back to my hall.

Didn't know wat was happening so I bought meatpie. thinking maybe it's hunger. It subsided but late came strongly again with more symptoms.

This was close to exams.

The symptoms were..

Heart palpitations...dizziness....anxiety...chest pain...shortness of breathe, narrow vision..heat flashes...the worse of it all was the mind torment. I csnt explain. You feel like you are losing your mind. And everyone is against you.

I ran to a doctor. He said its all In my mind..that's its too much worry...

I was like what is he talking about, I am suffering here in daily torment. I was even afraid I might kill myself. That maybe this how how people feel before committing suicide.

Anyways...he gave me a drug...but I couldn't take it anyhow...can't remember the name. The don't give it to people and can't sell it like that to people.

I took it...slept...(before I could hardly sleep because my heart rate can be intense and wake me up).

Now when I woke up early the next morning. I discovered the drug had its own madness on its own. Now I don't feel the symptoms..but I was numb all over and felt like a zombie with narrow vision. That's the only way I can say it. Even my Mom has to come visit me.

It was like this till I left school. I had to endure it.

At a point at home I went to a pharmacy to try get the drug..the guy said he couldn't give me. So he did a heart monitor rate Check...it was off the charts..the guys expression made me even more afraid.

Can't remember if he gave me d drug sha.

But eventually..I had started praying and deciding to follow God at that period and find out His call for me.

So two things happened.

So eventually I was in a Church meeting and they called out those with spirit of fear...I went and was prayed for..also had a vision of Jesus coming to lay hands on me and cast out a spirit. I heard the growl in my ears as it left.

Well, the rest is histroy.

I also discovered the spirit had been there since primary school. But was triggered by the drug event. The spirit came when in primary school when someone made me scared that it was the end of the world..so I remembered I was numb for like a whole week and couldn't function or think straight.

Well, that's the summary sha...the whole tale is longer.

As for the drug..I was listening to a song called "Lithium" by Evanescence one time. In the comments on YouTube I leant its a drug given to people with serious depression but it makes them lifeless and numb when they take it. I was like ..that's kind of the drug I took. But the name wasn't Lithium tho.

It doesn't cure it only numbs all the craziness.

Wow. What an experience. Thanks alot for sharing.

At the boldened paragraph, this is why they say sin opens doors for negative attacks and manifestation.

Thank God for the timely help. Please stay focused.

All the best.

dancewith:
These are symptoms of mental illness. You need therapy. Panic attacks and Depressions account for over 40% of suicide cases. These should not be taken lightly and you need all the help you can get

Nobody should make you feel low and you must not be shy of seeking the vital help you need. Often these cases degenerates cos the patients are worried about how others would view them if they speak out

There are various support groups online that you can join. These social interactions where you meet others with similar and potentially more worrying cases would help your psyche a great deal

Finally, note that, as in most cases as this, you are physiologically ok. There are no underlying illnesses. The issue is with your mind and a psychologist would be in the best position to tune your mind to accept this

Good luck

Thank you very much for this input. The majority of Nigerians are ignorant of mental health and its associated illnesses. Little to no attention is paid to their mental health and this often degenerates to a more chronic illness that could have been avoided.

Jeromejnr:
I understand what you're going through. Used to have it bro.

In fact it was extreme during my final year papers (2011 in CU). As I was writing a paper the attack came, I thought I was going to vomit blood, faint, and maybe have a heart attack. But I scaled through. (Thank God).

I also had serious narrow vision. And people were Iike my eye have gone deep in my sockets. It was crazy.

Heart palpitations. Hearing your heart in your ears.

One time reading for a paper in the night, I couldn't, I just lay on the bare floor in front of my friends looking up, because I felt like I was gonna lose my mind. I started having suspicion of everyone around me like they are all ganging up and are responsible for my predicament. I even had to tell my roomie to lock me up in the room one time cause I taught I was gonna jump from the top floor of the balcony where I was.

Well, the Doctor advised I had to try to have peace of mind and also gave me a drug that I had to be careful in taking if not I could become addicted.

It was a long year of suffering.

But there is no cure..per say....its your mind and nerves.

But I got delivered sha...(spiritually). That's another talk.

Mine was triggered because of a fear of something. (Thought I was poisoned while eating a food..but it was a hard drug)

Wow. Thank God for His mercies and power to heal and deliver.

Can you please be gracious enough to share your experience in details.

How it started, what drugs? Was it a case of addiction? Also, what steps were taken that led to recovery and total deliverance.

You don't know who will be helped or saved by your shared experience.

Thank you as you oblige.

Face your werk.

lilyheaven:
One bank staff once asked me, why I used my husband as my next of kin?
In his words “ don’t you have a child “

LOL.

Wow wow wooow!!! Many thanks to the OP @Dagger111.

I was amongst those who had this erroneous interpretation of next of kin.

LOL I've heard some people refer to the term as"next of King".

Next post should be to enlighten us about the importance and necessity of a will.

Many have this belief that drafting a will means you're preparing for and attracting death.

luminouz:
I'm confused with the 'He and She' misuse....the picture is female but the pronouns quiver from male to female and vice versa.


On the story, I guess women also feel somehow for teenagers hovering from 16-17, like some men erroneously condone on NL. The point is, as a yansh man, no matter how big or mature you look and sound as a female, once you are less than 18, I start seeing a frog instead of a female. Nothing will make me touch an underage woman. There is this vulnerability and innocence about them that should be treasured and protected. Same goes for underaged boys..

N.B: Although my point goes for all underaged females and males but the ones I see around here are old in experience. Some as young as 14. Who spoilt them? Poverty, environment and whatever, not ME!!!

No he and she misuse. The pronouns were aptly used.

Boy, you talk too much, making no visible impact!!!

jaymichael:
Wole has never hidden the fact that he is a deeply spiritual man.

Oho! Yet you hear youths call this confraternity a social club. I laugh in the language of the Holy Ghost.

I pity those who believe there's nothing spiritual about this man and his so called confraternity.

Please, why is Destiny Etiko in a competition for anything with queen attached to its title.

She is ratchet and should be competing in stuff like, most razz, area mama etc.

Only worthy competitors on that list are: Chidinma, miss Naya and the gorgeous Adesua. Madam Tiwa can be amongst the panel of judges.

sweetMichael:
We're is Genevieve,omotala and Regina Daniel

Please, it would be an insult to include Genevieve.

meobizy:
Bloggers are trying to make this story trend. Nobody gives a Bleep. I know a guy who engaged seven women before his preferred one toasted, courted, engaged then married him. It is not every woman a man comes across that he decides to settle with.

All these girls seeking validation from Nairaland boys...

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Revere27:
A nice initiative from ICAN..

Could remember that time in secondary school when one of our teachers would be bragging with his ICAN certificate .
Saying:
I have two ICAN certificate..!
I have two ICAN certificate..!!!
If you know what it takes to have one, you wouldn't be misbehaving like this

I can't say about now sha... If they're still on to that their fame and their pride... ICAN

Is it even possible to be certified a chartered accountant twice? Maybe he meant, he has sat twice for the exams. LOL.

Interesting initiative. Can we also have a university for media, communications and performing arts? So all these quarter baked actors can become fully baked.

Mcdreamy15:
HRS Annie is that you?

Does Annie look like me? I know you don't have a complete view but from what you can see, does she?

. But this is not Karma. Are the consequences of Karma not futuristic?

This is a case of being swallowed up in the pit you dug for others.

This is heart wrenching look at the last kid.

Wish I could adopt them.

Naijagram:
Anyway, let's just say I met someone really nice while transiting on a long journey. We talked for hours. It seem like we have known each other for years. I really wanted to get to know the person more. I didn't even ask for the person's name or even phone number.

I regret not asking for her number.

Have you been in similar situation before?
Let me have your thoughts.

I always travel with my business card and offer it in exchange for yours if the conversation was worth it.

JahBwoy:
And finally through the help of the Holy Spirit I am five months free from this habit

My brother, many congrats and Glory to God!

This testimony you have shared publicly to showcase the power of the Holy Spirit will be permanent in Jesus name.

Please keep your walk with God and dependence on the Holy Spirit! Most importantly, always remember that nothing can ever separate you from the love of Christ!