₦airaland Forum

Wow. If you playball for this kind stadium, you go just dey get inspiration to dey score goals.

LOL, the ajebutter agbero has warned you guys. Better take heed.

Seriously though, no security around? And why does the crowd have to be so close to the stage?

ppogba:
Spot on.
You only forgot to add that Tiwa validates the age long philosophy that a fool at forty is a fool forever.

LOL

AuroraB:
You say wetin
Isn't this what they call Omotola and she was all over the place that year
Chai
Inukwa African Beyonce

. You know us Nigerians, we can hype someone to the point of getting them confused about their identity

MNDY:
She is very disturbed by the fact that people will not see her the same way again anytime she appears after her sextape leaked. Something she could have vehemently denied until the matter died down like Chidinma did

Did Chidinma really have a tape? I thought I read her saying she was a virgin?

AuroraB:
Which Beyonce are they comparing her to Are those comparing her to Beyonce Nigerians Nigerians been ruled by Buhari Lmao ���������
Nnaaa eeeehn �

Ha, you didn't hear them calling her African Beyonce that year?

The way you inserted this your Jumia discount code isn't smart at all.

You should have waited for the post to hit FP, the modify your post.

Back to topic: excuses, excuses, excuses...

AuroraB:
Be like she's needing reminders very often lately of her status and age. See as she dey hug Bella Shmurda the other day and was shining teeth copiously. Not even a side hug wey the boy go bend down small greet her
Na waa

This is why Genevieve Nnaji will always be respected. Dunno why Tiwa was ever compared to Beyonce, check out Beyonce's lifestyle. Tiwa be acting disgraceful like she's having midlife crisis.

I don't understand why you're not sure you'd make such amount again.

Are you not going to double that amount by diversifying your investments?

Anyways, back to topic, if you have been faithful in giving the little you had it would be easy to give when you have much.

Opeyemiextra:
I am. I don't have the mental energy to cope in a toxic environment. Nigeria itself is tough and rough enough.

LOL. True

I'm afraid to say what I don't want to believe. I mean, could it really be true? although I wish I could doubt it but it's becoming significantly apparent that madam Tiwa is an airhead.

I mean if at 40 and with the kind of success she's attained career wise, she still feels the need to seek validation through vain displays such as this, then she is indeed vapid.

Opeyemiextra:
I'm actually moving already.

I hope you prayerfully chose this new neighborhood.

Wishing you the best.

freddie009:
If a woman doesn't like you, she talks bad about you to whoever cares you hear. I had a first-hand experience with two ladies in my workplace. This babe just they run the other girl down.

Brothers and sisters, always listen to both sides of the stories before concluding.

Please leave Kriss216, he's on a cruise.

Opeyemiextra:
Well , I don't know how to do that and I don't want to. I just understand that there are those who you should never, no matter what, come down to their level. Once it's can't be discussed and resolved peacefully, I'm out.

Carryon babe. You're doing well.

Shows you don't belong in such neighborhood, you go soon relocate to a neighborhood of like minded people

illicit:
Yes

The point is not to fight them but make them understand that you are disappointed

I once caught my neighbor telling my girlfriend bad things about me
I joined them, I made her understand right there that I heard everything and disappointed because I won't do such to her

I joined their conversation but I changed topics

She started crying in the middle of the conversation and we started begging her to stop

LOL.

Anyways, on certain cases a confrontation expressing your disappointment is permissible. But I doubt that the scenario the OP painted is one of such. Those are small minded neighbors.

I mean, if the seller had any sense, she could have politely reminded her neighbour that she has all the goods she needs and will be saving her the stress of going to the market rather than express her grievance in hate-filled, petty gossip.

I'm pretty sure @ opeyemiextra got this hate vibe from the seller, hence her being careful to patronise her before she revealed her true self

Opeyemiextra:
Thank you. I hate exchanging words with people, knowing it could degenerate into a fight or worse.

This your action will put them in a very uncomfortable situation, they'll keep second guessing themselves around you.

People already in the pit should not be given the power to pull you down to their abode.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Lol yes

When I was serving in Oyo state, I went to fetch water opposite our lodge that day. While waiting for my turn, these two ladies started to converse in Yoruba language, insulting me and rubbishing the nice hair do I had on, they said so much you’d think we have actually quarreled in the past.
I don’t really look Yoruba(mixed) so it was easy for them to assume I am Igbo considering the fact that Igbos are mostly posted to that town.
I didn’t reply, I just smiled then immediately I saw one of my friends passing by, I called and greeted the friend in Yoruba language, also had a brief communication with the friend speaking Yoruba...the other two ladies wanted to enter the ground! The shock on their faces was just too obvious and everywhere became quiet

LOL. This is what I like... Handled maturely.

emkz:
Don't react.

What they want is for you to react. When you don't react and they know you know, they'd feel guilty, and that guilt would eat them.

I once had a colleague who spoke ill of me on the phone to someone else. I did not react. She sent me an email trying to guilt-trip me. I still did not react. I only stopped being close to her. She started feeling bad and was trying to make amends. But it was late.

I have also had one church woman accuse me of asking out two girls in the church (people I hadn't spoken to sef). A friend asked me to confront her, I didn't feel the need, and just continued to maintain my quiet demeanour. She can't even look me in the face anymore. A former boss also said nasty things about me to someone else in my face. I did not react when he expected me to, but one day I had enough and I said the most nasty things to him he'd never forget and left his unit. He became afraid because he didn't know I was bidding my time. I don't regret it, but my inner peace cannot be sacrificed for insecure people.

Very good. The key is not reacting when they expect you to and not giving them the expected reaction when you do react.

illicit:
Next time tell them u heard everything and tell them that you are disappointed

They will apologise and u just let it go

Talking about people behind them is normal

It's best the way she handled it. Never let your naysayers know what you know, keep them uncomfortable and on their toes. That way, they'd never be sure what to expect from you and will be careful to execute evil towards you.

And, talking behind peoples backs, isn't normal. It is born out of idleness and small mindedness.

Opeyemiextra:
So, I have this neighbor who sells some stuff but for some reasons, I wasn't comfortable buying from her. I buy from the market. This really got her angry and I didn't even know this until recently when she would mention it.

To what really happened, I was home one day and she probably assumed I wasn't. She started saying very terrible things about me to another neighbor that it scared me that another human being would really do that. I was very angry while I was inside my room deciding what exactly to do. I thought of confronting but I decided against it. Eventually I went out, greeted both of them and she was shocked that I was at home. I could see guilt written all over her even days after.

Have you walked in on people or heard by chance people talking ill and evil about you? How did you handle it?

This is the best and most mature approach.

InvertedHammer:
/
Big deal that the OP didn't know. Do you blame him? Those are weird names for cocktails. I believe there are a million and one things right under your nose that some of you omniscient beings do not know.

Cut him a slack.
/

Not a big deal that he didn't know, but a very big deal that he didn't care to know before hastily reaching unfounded conclusions.

Focusmind:
Ignorance at its pick. Op, you are still not exposed and you are using your ignorance to insult those hard working ladies that are waitress. I don't know why most guys in this forum finds it easier to unleash their hatred on the ladies. Most of these guys are usually introvert, poor, over religious and those that have been rejected and shown pepper by the ladies.

Op, there is a cocktail called, "hot dick" as well.

LOL. Please add social misfits to the adjectives

Pappyxar:
Bro you just showed your ignorance for all to see
Wet pxssy and Mouth Action are Cocktails just like sex on the beach, miscarriage, journalist, a short trip to hell.

You need to up your social life, and stop seeing somethings as been reckless with spending.

Take this lil advice, the best deals and connections are been signed and gotten over a bottle of wine, not in a 500naira restaurant.

Thank you very much for this. Your concluding paragraph is truth.

When I was still in paid employment as a sales manager, my job required me closing large volume deals involving high net worth individuals. I do this over business lunch. Spend 200k to close a 200M transaction.

whirlwind7:
Such a dumb post.

So because you saw "wet pvssy" and "blöw job", you assumed that the waitresses are sex workers?
Why didn't you ask questions, if you don't know what they are?
You're not just an introvert, you're also not smart. Not one bit.


Those are slangs for certain drink mixes (called cocktails)

Dumbo.

OMG! What actually makes the OP come across as unintelligent is the fact that he is quick to reach unverified conclusions. Imagine him stating he'd never hang out with his colleague cos he was asked to place his order.

People like the OP are not introverted by nature. Their introvertedness comes from self induced ignorance, hasty generalization and closed mindedness. They are therefore socially awkward yet entrenched in the belief that they are introverted.

insidelife22:
you don't mean it boss


you that was sleeping on the flight from Lagos to delta and on the way back.

lai mohhamed must be learning work.

There's a difference between Nap and sleep.

chatinent:
You will not hear a pinch of anything in our private lives.

Even the most "private" celebrities make news.
It comes with the status.

What nonsense! Is this what they were sent to school to accomplish? Anyways, this has to be some media gimmicks.

chatinent:
The same internet validation madness ruining Naija celebs is the same thing doing these foreigners.

I don't know how I will understand it if my wife posted everything she did for me online!

Let's have this conversation again when you and your wife become global celebrities.

We4all:
One answer:

Curiosity killed the cat.

That was then. Now, curiosity gets the cat some nice fish.

We4all:
Sorry to disappoint you, I never voted for Buhari. I supported my dad but you and other gullible Nigerians choose ‘change’. What you didn’t ask was the type of change he had to offer.

Two questions:

1. Who is your dad?
2. Why then are you so angry?

We4all:
Her new profession is snapping pictures up and down like a woman searching for a husband.

Seriously bro, you type like someone with misplaced anger issues. She is not the one that advised you to vote Buhari.. No offense please

Kobojunkie:
Only the OP can answer that very question for us hence the reason why I call for him to spill the details that led up to that happening.

Who knows, maybe the husband and mum threatened to take the baby away from her ... Op needs to fill us in on what led up to it.

The OP will certainly not state the actual incidences that led to such outburst.

Notice how he claimed she threatened his life "just because" he said he'd still deal with her after she'd apologized.

He seems to me as the kind of man who trivailizes his actions but magnifies that of his wife.

They have frustrated that woman in her most vulnerable moments and got the worst reaction from her yet absolved themselves of any responsibility that contributed to such reaction.