Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Profile Of Hiny Umoren Who Went Missing During A Job Interview In Akwa Ibom by hstar: 10:05am On May 01, 2021 |
mmadu4:
i have no hand in it please Guy, u are being tracked know this now, because av made a report about u to some higher authority ur Ip address would soon be tracked, u will be shocked how we will locate u. if u like run 1 Like 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Do You Respond To This Kind Of Question? by hstar: 9:38am On May 01, 2021 |
ictjobber: ...
If the said person is an important person, I will rEply with the latter.. But if he's as useless as heliunes or Manama vulture grills I will reply with the former or a resounding hiss
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Career / Re: How Much Money Do You Have To Make Monthly To Be Considered Rich In Nigeria by hstar: 9:36am On May 01, 2021 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lady Goes Missing During Job Interview In Akwa Ibom (photos) by hstar: 12:21am On May 01, 2021 |
larryjonze:
it was on NL for days apparently you didnt see it, she slump in her bathroom nd died in short. happened few month ago lets just move on. r.i.p to her tho R.I.P to her I so much like her |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Profile Of Hiny Umoren Who Went Missing During A Job Interview In Akwa Ibom by hstar: 12:19am On May 01, 2021 |
mmadu4:
i have no hand in it please Forget, av made a report about u Shortly, u will be tracked Mark my words U are one of the suspects 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Profile Of Hiny Umoren Who Went Missing During A Job Interview In Akwa Ibom by hstar: 12:17am On May 01, 2021 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lady Goes Missing During Job Interview In Akwa Ibom (photos) by hstar: 11:49pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
larryjonze:
sadly she is the one, maybe the chinese are the ones that looks like her. las las everybody go die But please how? We didn't hear anything concerning her issue on Nairaland! How? How? How come? Please what is this country turning to? Is this how all of us youth will keep quiet? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lady Goes Missing During Job Interview In Akwa Ibom (photos) by hstar: 10:56pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
larryjonze:
aunty wey mu*..so guys on nairaland are aliens to twitter, i am certain 80% of peeps you are referring to on twitter that swung into action are "males' same here few months ago .. victorian death NL males saved the day, need i remind you how you were shamelessly dragging spotlight with the deceased. its women who need to learn something from the men's world, cos @ the end of the day it is men who keeps saving the world. Bros, please o No vex, Hope it's not the popular Victorian on Nairaland, the lady that looks like a Chinese? |
Family / Re: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by hstar: 7:26pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
frozen70:
Calm down, at three years, if she starts exhibiting those qualities you mention, you will be worried for her age
Start working on her at home
Seay her down and tell her how you feel about her quiet attitude
Children loves counseling
With time she will pick up Correct And they also act on what they hear I know this because I work with kids And I also mind what I say in their presence because there are some things and statements I made in their sight Before I know it, they perfected the statement and even better me at using those words |
Family / Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by hstar: 7:15pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
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Family / Re: Defilement: An Important Lesson For All Parents by hstar: 4:35pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Buzx:
You people had to quote the long write-up to to say something as short as this! If everybody quote the write-up like this, how will others read through the thread? I'm sorry |
Family / Re: Defilement: An Important Lesson For All Parents by hstar: 4:25pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Slimslimqq: Dear Parents/Guardians,
I want to believe almost all of us has read or heard about how a young girl of 14yrs old has been defiled by a popular actor. Whether *the story is true or not*, can we parents learn One or two more lessons from this pathetic story.
Firstly, We must acknowledge the fact that there are Pedophile in our society.
What is Pedophilia? Pedophiliaalternatively spelt paedophilia) is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children.
The case mentioned above is *not the first but it can be the last if we all stand up to our responsibilities as Parents, and understand what a child is.
A child is a gift from God and He expect us as earthly guardians to take proper care of each and every one of them.
One of our major duty is to keep them away from this psychiatric patients called pedophile. May God help us all Below are children care tips
CHILD MOLESTATION!
Child Molestation is also known as child sexual abuse. It is a secret crime involving a range of indecent sexual activities between an adult and a child.
According to the National Violence Against Children Survey, it established that 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 10 boys experience sexual violence before the age of 18 in one way or the other.
TYPES OF MOLESTATION: -Defilement -Rape -Fingering -Making a child watch pornography -Exposing the genital to kids -Indecent touching -handling etc
WHO COULD ABUSE YOUR CHILD? ANYBODY Studies show that over 95% of sexually abused children are abused by persons known or close to the child or the child's family.
ABUSERS ARE MOSTLY NOT STRANGERS. They are right there in your house, co-tenants, family members, lesson teachers, neighbours. Their friends in school, hostel, classmates,class/school teachers, cousins, uncles, nephew, niece, fathers, step fathers, grand fathers, imams, Arabic teachers, choir masters, pastors, confidants, security guard, maids, family /school drivers, After school teachers, teachers, mummy's friend, daddy's friend, caregivers, strangers........ the list can go on. Please, do not ask if any of the above is possible because, there is no case of any of the above that has not happened.
CAUSES OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE Parental negligence, carelessness, nonchalant attitude. It is as bad as No one can be trusted. We have a child presently carrying a baby that belongs to her father. OTHER CAUSES: Absentee parents. Parents who do not observe. When the kids are not informed..... What you watch with your kids. Indecent dressing by our children.
WHERE CAN YOUR CHILD BE SEXUALLY ABUSED? ✓On your bed ✓Right under your nose, under your roof ✓In the school environment - class, toilet etc ✓Hostel ✓Parties ✓In their room (siblings) ✓Deserted/Abandoned places ✓ When you are distracted etc.
Perpetrators look for opportunities. 5mins is enough to cause a life long damage.
HOW DO PAEDOPHILES GET THE VICTIMS? 1.Grooming 2.Baits a. Emotional bait b. Gift bait c. Financial bait d. Familiarity & Respect bait. 3. Child grooming Befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child, and sometimes the family, to lower the child's inhibitions with the objective of sexual abuse. -Wikipedia- Gaining the trust of a minor with the intention of having sex relationship with them.
HOW TO IDENTIFY A POSSIBLE ABUSER: A. Always trying to be around your child or vice versa B. Child feels uncomfortable when he/she sights the abuser or when the abuser is around. C. Easily and conveniently accept to care for your child while you are away. D. Can be hard on the child especially if the child is rejecting his moves.
If any of the above is observed, please, shine your eyes. Or sometimes, your child might feel uncomfortable/rejecting to go to the person when you send him or her Or even go for holiday.
Sexual abuse happens among siblings, set rules, separate their rooms, separate their beds. We had a case of twins having sex with each other. When they were asked, they said: we see mum and dad do same.
Why should we be that careless? Because of the carelessness of both parents, their innocent minds were polluted and their lives were destroyed.
WHAT A PERPETRATOR SAYS TO A CHILD WILLING TO SPEAK OUT: •I will kill you •You will die •Your mummy will hate you •Your mummy will beat you •Your mummy will blame you. •Your mummy and your daddy will die. •He could cut the child, lick the blood and say: "this is a blood covenant between us, the day you tell is the day you die."
Teach your child The SRR action.
S - Shout/scream R - Run R - Report
POSSIBLE SIGNS THAT YOUR CHILD HAS BEEN ABUSED: ✓Isolation ✓Aggressiveness ✓Anxiety/Fear ✓Difficulty in walking ✓Sudden drop in academic performance ✓Poor social interaction and so on.
OTHERS ✓Sexually Transmitted Diseases.
Their dressing is important, dress to cover them please. Teach them privacy. They must knock and seek permission before they enter your room. It is wrong to bath them together irrespective of sex.
PLEASE NOTE! children never lie about abuse If your child tells you someone is trying to mess with him or her.... Please believe the child and respond appropriately.
EFFECT OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE -The abused child could become a serial abuser -Depression -Suicidal thoughts -Stigma -Guilt -Lifelong psychological trauma -Aggression -Withdrawn -Infected with STDs Etc
THE BOYS More often than not,we pay more attention to the girls than the boys. With my years of experience, boys are mostly victims of anal sex but because we do not pay attention. For them, healing is a terrible process.
WATCH OVER YOUR BOYS Something might just be happening and you perceive not. Do not be a hard mum. Strike a balance between love and discipline. Give your children Sex Education proportional to their age. A child of age 2 or even less is due for Sex Education. Tell them what nobody must do with their body. Tell them to speak out. In the house, everyone must respect one another's privacy.
Child molestation is real, it is more painful if it happens under your very nose. Please bond more with our Jewels, we want to receive them back to school bigger and better than they left. Above all, pray for them always. The child molesters will not go near them but we must play our part
Thank you all.
Keep staying safe. Thanks for the fantastic write up |
TV/Movies / Re: Do You Know The Functions Of These Remote Buttons? (Photo) by hstar: 2:19pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
blamingthedevil:
Women wahala, you hold phone with data, simply Google it..... Meanwhile
On your remote, the gotv controls options include:
1.Power Button 2. ALT 3. Shift 4. TV 5. TV Guide 6. Language 7. Mute 8. Info 9. Exit 10.Up 11. Right 12. OK 13. Left 14. Down 15. V+/V- 16. P+/P- 17 Utility: Red, Blue, White, Yellow, Green 18. Numbers: 1 – 0 19.Menu 20. Help
Exploring the options on your remote control Power Button: This button is used to turn off or turn on the decoder. ALT: This button takes you back to the most recent channel: the last channel you viewed before changing to the present channel. Shift: When used with ALT (Shift + ALT), this button can be used to change screen orientation (size and shape). Available orientations are Letterbox and Cropped. TV TV Guide: Shows the programs schedule for the channel you are watching Language: Displays the decoder language in use. Mute: The mute button is used to abruptly turn off/on system sound. Info: Pressing the info button once displays information: the current channel, program and the next program with time. This information is displayed at the bottom with an info plate (i-plate). Pressing it twice displays information about the selected program on the i-plate Exit: Exits the active menu option Up: Used in navigating up, mostly when selecting menu options. Right: Used in navigating Right OK: Used to confirm a selected option Left: Used in navigating left Down: Used in navigating down V+/V- : This button (+ and – sections) is used to control (Increase and Reduce) System sound P+/P- : Used to change channels – Forward (+1) or Backward (-1) Utility: Red, Blue, White, Yellow and Green coloured buttons. These buttons are useless on their own. They are used to carry out specific commands as indicated on the screen. While using TV guide, you may find an option or command next to a specific colour. To activate such commands, you have to press the coloured button on you gotv remote control that matches the colour on the screen. Numbers: 0 – 9 Menu: Displays the menu Help Up/Right/Down/Left: Display the list of channels on you decoder. Shift + Language: Opens Parental Control. It is a shortcut. thanks 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by hstar: 1:53pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
olabrinks: You never see anything yet, wait till that child comes and starts crying all night. Marriage is not for the weak |
Education / Re: Nigeria Junior Secondary School English & Maths Exam Papers In 1946 by hstar: 1:36pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
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Programming / Re: I Want My Son To Be A Programmer, How Do I Go About It by hstar: 1:35pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lady Goes Missing During Job Interview In Akwa Ibom (photos) by hstar: 1:31pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
sheyishemba:
you're nothing but an animal if government has provided job or it kinda easy to find jobs which she post on social media or imagine there is a good security would she have been kidnapped or imagine there is an enabling society for the youth to be creative would she have been a victim of what she is today...but animals like you keep blaming social media for the mishap Govt has caused...may Almighty God punish you () and I wish that same evil for your daughter animal!!!! Amen |
Crime / Re: Video Of Baba Ijesha Begging After Being Caught Molesting Minor by hstar: 12:59pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
DonroxyII: if they should release him ... he will kill himself !! He is already brain dead like that ...
village people are very bad to people who no no their limit !! correct |
Crime / Re: Video Of Baba Ijesha Begging After Being Caught Molesting Minor by hstar: 12:20pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
kpompey: No one is a saint. He should be punished in-house and not wrecking him further. Hez d victim today, it can be Princess herself tomorrow. He is very remorseful and can be dealt with internally by superiors in their Nollywood group after which he should be rehabilitated. Trying to destroy everything he represents is not the solution. Let's remember the God's prayer. This is what I would av done, if I were princess av d video, show it to d superiors in the industry let them deal with him and rehabilitate him and also take the girl in question for proper counseling because I know baba Ijesha himself was remorseful of his action, I feel for him though My fear is he should not go and commit suicide |
Politics / Re: Insecurity: Uzodinma Takes Refuge In Abuja by hstar: 9:49am On Apr 30, 2021 |
MajesticKris: All APC GOVERNOR'S, WILL BE GOVERNING FROM ABUJA, Soon!!
If Dem invade ABUJA nkor?
Where Next?? ABROAD AND NAIJA ABROAD GO FLUSH DEM OUT |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Boy Won ₦1.6m, Land And Hajj For Reciting The Qur'an (video) by hstar: 9:46am On Apr 30, 2021 |
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Crime / Re: How God Saved Me From Being Kidnapped On 29th December 2020 by hstar: 9:54pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
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Culture / Re: The Norm Is Not Always Normal by hstar: 9:46pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
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Crime / Re: Lagos CP: Baba Ijesha Is In Our Custody, But His Crime Is A Bailable Offence by hstar: 9:30pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
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Crime / Re: Lagos CP: Baba Ijesha Is In Our Custody, But His Crime Is A Bailable Offence by hstar: 9:29pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
Coolcalmcollect:
e no go better for your papa, e be like craze dey your mama head. Na now u know him? he's very daft |
Crime / Re: Lagos CP: Baba Ijesha Is In Our Custody, But His Crime Is A Bailable Offence by hstar: 9:29pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
post=101239576:
We really doubt your level of reasoning or understanding (we said that respectfully sir!) About your question : Ask a mad man called Madzi Cownu that question! When you find him, bring him back from where he ran away to, hiding since 2017, after he was granted bail. Tell him that we have something to tell him back home. Kids everywhere! u know nothing, olodo |
Crime / Re: Lagos CP: Baba Ijesha Is In Our Custody, But His Crime Is A Bailable Offence by hstar: 9:23pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
heartbraker: u a motherfucker idiot and a foolish personalty, u tink everyone is a low life budget ass like u? Coman and arrest me na i dey house. dat one? na foolish person e be na! |
Celebrities / Re: Yomi Fabiyi Posts “Ready-To-Punch” Photo Amid Bashing by hstar: 9:21pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
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Celebrities / Re: Yomi Fabiyi Posts “Ready-To-Punch” Photo Amid Bashing by hstar: 9:08pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
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