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Acidosis:
Very well said.

Truth is that there are no men that demand sex from their wives every day. Whenever we hear or read anything like that, a single guy must be behind the post.

Unless a married man is cursed, it would be very very impossible to make that demand.

The adrenaline rush some unmarried guys feel running from women to women in the name of sex does not work in marriage with one woman.

Most married men just go after other women because, all their lives, they are not used to being loyal to one woman. 99% of the time, it is not because of irregular sex.

You are so wise, knowledgeable and mature.

That is what Tinubu's type of Lagos politics have turned most Yoruba youths into; future less touts whose greatest ambition is to become the dreadest cultist and later chairman of NURTW like MC Oluomo.



Go close to learned Yoruba men of 50yrs above, they dislike Tinubu because he empowered Lagos Agberos and hijacked NURTW/OPC and turned them to dangerous weapon he uses to rig and win elections in southwest but the gullible Yoruba youths won't know the harm Tinubu have caused them till it becomes too late.


They should continue screaming IPOB and be attacking Igbos online while Tinubu builds their dream Yoruba nation with NURTW and OPC cultists that now liter every part of Yoruba land

Acidosis:
Sex can get boring in as little as 2 weeks if you do it as a routine. Biko, sex is not a Chore.

Be spontaneous and talk to your spouse about how you feel.

Doing the same thing over and over again WILL soon become a burden.

The only sensible human on this thread.


I don't know why some men are so stupidly crazy about having sex with their wife every now and then, it gets bored. Don't they feel bored doing the same thing everyday or every week I get bored of sex, that doesn't mean I hate you, it's how I am wired. Men should also understand that there are ladies who get bored of frequent sex with the same man every week.


Like the wise man I quoted said, let the sex be spontaneous not routined. Routine stuff is boring.

As a married man, there are many other things to focus on in life other than having sex frequently with your wife in the name of its your marital right. Yes it is your right to have access to your wife's pussy as often as you like but try and put these women into consideration too, be empathic. Will you also be ready to have sex with her anytime she wants it even if you are tired, feeling depressed about something like your financial challenges, career challenges, business challenges or other challenges.

Women are not robots, they are humans too.


As married couple, if you don't want to oversex yourselves and get bored of each other fast, don't listen to people talking nonsense of how they have sex as couple every few days or weeks, most people are liars, space your sex activity, let it be spontaneous and well spaced to avoid one partner becoming bored and wishing to try another person outside out of see finish.


Sometimes it's even good to go months without having intimacy with your wife or husband so that you guys will miss and long for each other like you are now new lovers again, it helps to build and sustain attraction for couples.

pocohantas:
Very true once again. The Nigerian men in my forthcoming romance blockbuster.

Hahahahaha, I be wereh too oh, I can be a rebel when on my male period, so no put me there oh before I spoil your show

pocohantas:
Very true, till it gets to respecting your mothers.

giving birth is not easy. And taking care of newborn baby is not easy at all. Imagine caring for someone who doesn't talk, doesn't laugh, only eat, play small, sleep and cry. Honestly I respect newborn mothers a lot, they are champions.


They deserve so much accolade for that job.


But you see cooking, washing, cleaning house, they are nothing. Guys of today are no longer foodies like Nigerian men of the 50s, 60s,70s.....most guys can go without their wife's food, so if she want make she no cook.

Any man can wash his clothes, pack them inside the washing machine, turn on the tap and turn on the switch and set the time and go to bed, so what's the big deal that ladies are screaming

pocohantas:
You know sometimes this thing is about perspective. Personally I may not notice I am slaving till you ask me to do one specific house chore- WASHING. Please don’t tell me to wash heap of clothes, let alone a man’s shirts that needs starch and vigorous ironing.

I also do not believe it has anything to him being a breadwinner. That is why it is good to marry a man that has sense and conscience. I am not sure they are up to 31 remaining in Nigeria now.

Two people are in a home/marriage. It is ideal that they both put hands to keep it running- domestically, financially, sexually...etc. Anything less and one person is just being wicked. We have a lot of wicked partners in Nigeria.

Modern technology have made this very easy and simple. Thank God for China, automatic wash and spin machines are now affordable for at least 70% of Nigerians that wish to have one. With NGN120,000 you can buy 8kg fully automated washing machine that washes and spins (dry) all your clothes.



There are also steam ironing jackets that can iron your clothes, also very affordable.


No woman today should complain of slaving in her husbands home unless they are broke and struggling and can't afford these cheap technology solutions that make every home easy.



The hardest job in the world is MAKING MONEY!

There is no other difficult task than making money and catering for people's needs no matter the economy challenges.


The only place I respect women a lot and give them much kudos is in giving birth and taking care of newborn babies between age 1 day to 1yr+

In Nigeria, 99% of a woman's income or money or wealth is as useless to her man as 'p' is useless to the word "psychology".


So any Nigerian man hoping on a woman's money or wealth to make it in life will die wretched


If Nigerian women are cheerful and giving with their income like Nigerian men, believe me, we won't have to many broke and struggling families in Nigeria today.


This is why Nigerian men only expect their wife to:

Born kids
Cook
Keep the home clean
Care for the kids

Hmmmm

Mcslize:
What will make a man to make up his mind to marry a lady? Please kindly answer with all honesty.


If you are dating a girl and you find out she is double dating with some random guys aside you, will you boldly want to.marry such a lady?

If you go on marrying a girl that double dated when you were courting her, do you believe such a girl will be loyal to you in marriage? Can you boldly marry a lady that is cheating on you with other guys even though you are aware?

If you can answer those questions with capital YES then those are the kind of girls you will keep on attracting because you believe a girl who is in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage should keep on cheating because to you she is Still very single.

But you forget that it is from dating that you will know whether to marry someone or not. And if she is the cheating type, you will still go ahead to marry such. Don't be surprised when a woman hang another man's child on your neck without you being aware.

Don't ever give excuse for promiscuous ladies. You can't compare guys that cheat to ladies because it is men that will wife them. Every lady should learn how to control their sexual fantasies and emotions when in a serious relationships with the exceptions of those that just want to fvck around and in the end become too damaged for men to marry as wives.

Marry a hoe and watch how she will fvck around in your absence and born you another man child.

A smart chick or lady don't need to tell her so called committed boyfriend that she is fvcking another guy or seeing another guy or considering another guy because we men are sexual hypocrites, we will judge and crucify such lady, she only needs to be smart, play smart and make the best decision to end up with the right man ready to wife her.


So many ladies were loyal to their so called boyfriend or fiancé they wished would marry them at the end the guy goes and marry one lady he met after a one night stand, so what do you have to say


Not all guys marry ladies they courted or dated for too long cos of see finish and it become boring too, many guys marry any sweet lady to them they meet when they are ready to settle down irrespective of how many guys she had dated in the past.


Ladies should learn to keep their mouth shut about the guys they are seeing cos men are hypocrites who judge them but refuse to subject themselves to judgment also.


How many sexually active guys here can swear that they have had sex with only their main girlfriend If they dare it, many go fall and die

But they want their girlfriends to keep herself only for them while they fvck around, whose girlfriend are they fvcking and chasing around like hegoat Maybe ghost


The world has evolved already beyond anybody's absolute control and beyond any gender's control so we men need to wake up to the reality that our girlfriends and fiancé's and even wives are also being fvcked codedly nowadays and there is nothing anybody can do about it, at worst you go to the monastery and turn to a Monk and face serving the Lord but if you want to date, do relationship and even marry, you must prepare your mind to take any boomshyyyyt that may come; bear in mind that your girlfriend, fiancé, or even wife may fall once in a while and get fvcked without you knowing and life goes on.



Many guys making noise here, if the table were turned and cute rich ladies start approaching guys for date, flings, etc, all the guys yanning dust here will be fvcked anyhow by these ladies if tables were turned so let's cut ladies some slack, they are humans.


Do you think it's easy for a pretty lady who is dating a guy that's struggling financially, not that handsome, nothing special to resist uncountable handsome looking guys with loads of cash, goodies and amazing profile Don't you know ladies too fantasize about their dream man, and when they come across such a man you think its that easy for them to resist him just because of one yeye boyfriend that she don't even know where the relationship is heading to


I have seen ladies who remained loyal and faithful to their so called boyfriend for years and at the end nothing good came out of the relationship

Ladies are their own problem.


relationship is not marriage. Until a guy pays your full dowry, you don't owe him any explanation to walk away or fvck another sweeter dick.



Why must u seek for permission from others to date a guy u find attractive for your taste.



We guys are hypocrites, we make too much noise, we want ladies to be what we can never be.


Can that your boyfriend swear that he hasn't fvcked other chicks since u guys started dating And if he says yes he has not, then he is broke, ugly, not classy



You better your eyes and explore, guys do same. Don't listen to guys opinion on this cos we are hypocrites, we want ladies not to double date while dating us but we fourtiple abi fiftiple date and heavens haven't fell.




Don't break up with your boyfriend, just flow along with both of them and stop brandishing one yeye boy that have not paid your bride price in the name of girlfriend boyfriend that most times don't lead to anywhere good at the end!!



You mustn't tell every guy you meet that you have a boyfriend, you ladies are demarketing yourselves by doing that. You are single until you are legally married!!!

Onye oma!

Enyi oha 1!


Ohamadike 1!

Agu mba!

The officially elected Governor of Imo state, fully & duly elected by the Imo people! We will be back again and better





Unlike Abba Kyari's appointed Supreme Court stolen Governor

Ikoyi Registry Suspends 4000 travel visas is the correct headline

My only concern is for the Yorubas that is supporting this evil Buhari government out of their selfishness to produce next President, Yorubas be careful oh, natural rewards can be very brutal!!


Don't sell your conscience for a porridge of yam. The wrath of nature will strike one day, call evil evil!


Buhari's government is not just a failure but evil and inhumane, stop supporting evil for a flimsy political gains!!

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

God bless you abundantly!!!


This is one of the reasons I love Igbo guys of today; majority of Igbo guys of today will never think of settling down without attaining some level of financial comfort. This is why other tribes mock Igbo men that they marry at old age; they do it because they are working to stabilize their income before jumping into marriage.



Another thing I have noticed is most Nigerian girls born into poor families usually end up with futureless boys they call boyfriends who eventually impregnate them. Funny enough these poor girls, some of them that nature cheerfully bestowed some good natural looks do meet well to do guys who approach them, they will either turn these men down in their effort to prove that they don't love a man because of his money.....some will will reject serious well to do guys and accept their fellow miserable poor boys as boyfriends in the foolish belief that what they watch on Nollywood whereby two poor lovers later became rich.


Some of them will meet financially buoyant guys and guess what They will be playing these well to do men, they will collect money from the financially buoyant guys and go give their fellow rifraf street boyfriend who have no future.....hoping that soon the guy will become rich and marry them and he won't tell them that she married him for money, who cares if you


If you want to succeed in this life, use your head not your emotions!!

Guys marry only when you have attained a certain level of financial security for your gwn good and for your own sanity!!


Ladies if you are from a poor family, don't you ever accept to marry a poor guy from a poor family unless you yourself you have money or good job or business or income to join effort with him to build a better future! If not, don't marry poor guys....forget all those crap of gold digging, if you see well to do guys come your way, give them a chance oh...stop proving stubborn and hard to get for well to do guys while you go back to your broke area to be fvcking one futureless boy for free hoping that he would hammer soon through the useless yahoo yahoo he is doing!!


Make una de use una head oh guys and ladies!!!


Op thank you oh jareh, I be think say na only me de see these societal anomalies practiced by Naija guys

MMXX:
Attached as requested
she got ass 4days

You this boi, where is the damn pinchor
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MMXX:
See her here

Her ass na die

If I say you don't have sense now they will call me bad mouth, why would you tell me that her buttocks is so big and inviting without attaching a picture, shey oya wereh ni, cmon attach pictures asap

In as much as we Nigerian complain about the corruption, poor security, lack of basic life amenities, economy hardship and leadership failures in Nigeria, one cannot stop missing Nigeria when you leave for a while.


Western world is just boring - all work less play.....everybody is busy working and counting hours and pay check, less family bonding......few true friends....if you are still struggling financially you may think these things don't matter but wait until you become financially empowered to afford your dream life, then you will know that boredom is crazier than brokeness



Op, you need a Naija boyfriend to reset your lonely brain

Lustknabe:
So do I look African to you?

@ DortmundGirl gave you a challenge, she currently lives in Germany, reply her and let her verify your identity first....once she verifies your identity......you will get thousands of hot looking Nigerian ladies to make fine mixed babies with like you desire




Also to show your seriousness, you need to go visit her in Nigeria first not expecting her to be the one to visit you in Germany. Plan a visit to Nigeria....you will meet lots of hot ladies that also want white baby maker like you

Someone watching should tell us the finest girl in the new house (^{must have big buttocks & moderate boobs + flat tummy and light skin} ) lets put her on radar asap

marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why �

The answer you seek is in the image I attached

Otedola children no just fine, no wonder DJ Cuppy has been running around trying to pin down different famous guys to no avail, it is well......money can't buy natural beauty

To beat that Tyson Fury just de hungry me

To slap this op just de hungry me

sapientia:
Chai

So All the hype about Buhari solved nothing on corruption

Rather it increased because they know he ain’t in charge

Buhari is also the grand patron of nepotism.

By tomorrow, am sure Gandollar will reactivate all Sanusi’s cases in Kano

hahahahahaha life no balance at all, imagine Buhari is my President, a wholllloooo professor like me, life no just balance at all

Acidosis:
Photos of your farm, we didn't see. Pictures of your fish business, we no see. Film maker yet no mention of the movies you've produced but somehow felt the urge to motivate us with a photo of your Car?

All these motivational speakers sef.

una go tear my belle with laugh for this forum

Hisduchess:
The highest number of haters exist in nairaland forum.y'all should be happy for someone nah so that better stuffs go come Una way.not all women are hoes,a lot of us women are legit hustlers who love good things and are working off their a*s to have it legitimately.

behind every successful lady is a guy who is either giving her financial backup or intelligent backup or business support or career promotions and favors or informational support.


But ladies after using guys to become successful will always want to act like its all by their power.


My sister life no balance at all, ladies na scam

Kissiemu:
Paschaline Ifeoma Bernard I take God beg you don't look us in the eyes and call us fools.
You sell "fish" for one year and buy car? Even if it's "goldfish"...

The way hushpuppi was an estate developer,real estate business man n influencer.... mtchew

Inakolu Biati...

hahahahahahaha, my brother life no balance at all

Highbeepeeh:
When the other girl is crying because she will miss the guguru alawee


This is one is already celebrating with a car


This life no just balance

life no balance at all, if only some ladies the value of what they carry









Oyel money

codedguy1:
No wonder, please try to correct the bolded sentence in your initial post.

Doctors are usually sound people, but since you went to ilaro college of education to study medicine I can understand your predicament

codedguy1:
Which school did you go? What did you study?

Ilaro College of Education and I studied Medicine, any help

Nigerians should not be surprised that Hushpuppi did not help the woman that gave him food when he was struggling or his old friends.


Listen people, help comes from God alone.

No man or woman will help you or uplift your life except God puts it in their heart!

You can never get help from where you expect or by begging people to help you. You can only get alms from them not help that will uplift you and change your life for good.


Only God sends helper.


God can use just anybody; it maybe a stranger, a friend, a relative, a lover, an ex, a colleague, a schoolmate, a neighbor.


God will put the fire in that person. The person will just start having pity over your situation or condition and in that spirit, he or she would help you. It is God that will make your helper to feel your life pains and help you not man.


That is why everyday you wake up, always pray to your God that He should direct your destiny helpers your way, and that God should preserve the life of your destiny helpers so that they won't die before they meet you, because some people are suffering today simply because their destiny helpers died before they helped them.


As you pray everyday pray for all your destiny helpers wherever they are. Pray for protection of their lives, pray for their success too.


God used Alamesiya to change the destiny of Goodluck......God also used Yaradua and OBJ to touch Goodluck's life.


God used Tinubu to change Osinbajo's life.


God can use a sinner, an idol worshipper, a bad person to change your destiny, it doesn't matter.