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Any guy above 18yrs that said his heart was broken is a big fat liar!! Guys don't get heart broken, very rare......they only get magard as in he spent a lot and couldn't get to the girl's Jerusalem, that is the only time a guy feels hurt and it doesn't last beyond a day......most guys that claim heartbroken are only crying that they couldn't see the girl's skirt after spending



Ladies don't be deceived, majority of men don't ever fall in love till they die, even their wife they claim they love, na lie.....its all for kids and to have a family......their love is in their dicks and their first love is their mother and money

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It is well oh.....people weh born only man no know wetin Sango did for them

dederocs:
I was watching music videos recently, and noticed how natural looking, fresh, sexy and voluptious South African ladies are, no wonder our boys dey rush dem there, and most no want to come back, i also noticed when i was in SA, their girls have higher sex drive and appeal, more sexy and raunchy, Nigerian girls are quite dry sexually, except the oloshos, am talking of normal ladies. Naija ladies una dey boring, na only money dey ginger una...abi na the clitoris wey dem dey cut?
Please there is a reason woman are born with clitoris, lets ban the cutting of it, it puts the men in a disadvantaged position, in other countries, women enjoy men for sexual and emotional comfort and satisfaction, but here they only want men to take care of their bills...sucks.

The problem of Nigerian ladies is poverty.


Cure poverty in Nigeria and watch Nigerian ladies become your dream woman.


Na poverty cause am brother, poverty is terrible...what a Nigerian girl thinks 247 is how to eat good food, how to survive, how to get easy money or free money to help her suffering parents and siblings, how to take care of her daily needs, what her future will be, this makes them uninterested in romance and sex naturally except money is involved


The only time Nigerian girls crave for romance and sex is when they are below 20yrs, and that is why rich Nigerian men and successful guys prefer girls of 17, 18, 19, 20yrs

Whiteangel1234:
You dont tell igbos who to support we dont support thieves its not like the Igbo Presidency will come and feed me and my family it have to be a technocrat that can move Nigeria ahead like Peter Obi but i'm talking Ogbonnaya Onu because this is APC thread and he is the most clean among those south East in APC

You are arguing with an average Yoruba man who only support corrupt politicians to rule him, corrupt thieves like Tinubu, Fashola are the people Yorubas love to promote in Yoruba land instead of promoting clean men like Akinwunmi Adesina, Seyi Makinde, Yemi Osinbajo, they rather prefer criminals yet they turnaround to say Igbos love money.


Tell me what other reason Yorubas cowardly queue behind Thief Bola Ahmed Tinubu if not for his stolen wealth

We Igbos hate corrupt politicians, that is why most Igbos hate Rochas Okorocha, Orji Uzo Kalu, Ikedi Ohakim, Hope Uzodima, Theodore Orji, we promote clean politicians with integrity like Peter Obi, Ogbonnaya Onu, Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, etc, but Yorubas will want us to promote Igbo political criminals like their Thief Tinubu.

This was how they set Nigeria on fire in 1966 when Atintola and Awolowo turned Southwest to a battlefield luring soldiers to carry out coup to bring sanity, they have started again, but this time when they succeed in setting Nigeria on fire through Thief Bola Tinubu, it will burn in their home, others are wiser now.



Very wicked, selfish people called Yorubas

selemempe:
Only dollars, euro and yen can be printed like that because they are traded currencies. Those poor countries have currencies of no value outside their country. They can't print money

Modified

You can print money if your currency itself is demanded for transactions abroad. That is why u.s and Europeans have gone far. They can afford to print their money and spend it abroad...not in their own country.

So if u.s needs to buy oil from Nigeria...it can print the money and buy the oil and that way, they keep their economy alive. That is neo colonialism

That's how great nations do

lekkan:
Are you Mercy?? Did you win #30Million naira? Do you have big ass?? All these answers are No!No!!No!!
Oya face front

That's the most important question

Any young sixteen babe with big bombom should holla at me, I have a vital message for you that only u must hear

Twoclans:
It is just a matter of time if you guys do not divorce on paper you will leave under the same room but will still be divorced.

The three pillars of marriage are :

Sex
Communication
Money

If there is a HUGE problem with any of this three it is just a matter of time.

Not every man love sex like you guys paint, especially with the same woman every year in and year out. Many men get bored and used to their wife's body and they no longer derive pleasure having sex with her even though they still love her a lot.


Sex in marriage is not love. Respect, understanding, compromise, sacrifice and ability to have a common financial goal are what makes a marriage not sex.


Sex dies in most marriages after the 6th year, some 10 years at most.


Even if your wife was pretty like mermaid before you married her, some years into the marriage, you will get tired of her body and all that, which is what usually lead married men into cheating, not because they don't love their wife anymore, nope.



You can argue but wait till you marry.

Buhari and Northern political elites created Boko Haram for political gains and it went out of their control as the boys used no longer want to stand down after soiling their hands with so much innocent bloods and also Arab Islamic Mafias have also found their way into the Boko Haram game so ending it won't be an easy task for any Nigerian government without the full help of USA and France.


US Government know that Buhari and some top government functionaries both those in top Nigerian military are the chief sponsors of Boko Haram and Fulani herdsmen terrorists, that's why US Department of Homeland Security have blacklisted Nigeria as countries that her government is sponsoring terrorists like Iran, etc.


See proof below.

Louisboy22:
please not this present government, Nigeria as a country have messed up since 1960

1914, but Buhari and his gang have taken coded looting to a whole new level

Iran that cannot even arrest ordinary American citizen living in Tehran wants to arrest US President dead or alive!


Highest they can do now is to sponsor more terrorists to start bombing Kano state, Borno, Yobe, Adamawa, Kaduna as their own way of making sure Trump is arrested, funny people and their funny supporters

bigfish3k:
Why all this again

But you people have retaliated naa according to afonja Muslims

Or did you not bomb an empty space?

the kind savage that full this nairaland eh

salford1:
Americans are kraze people
They want Iran to take Pence too

Can Iran order the the arrest of Buhari too, we can throw in Osinbanjo

Very wonderful people

Iran, APC and Buhari have something in common; they are comic actors but very crooked terrorists too

lol, in Nigeria, Buhari and his gang of APC crooks will tell you it was built with $10billion and then he will turnaround to tell you how he has fought corruption by building the stadium instead of stealing the money.....as if sensible Nigerians don't know that he steals through his political fronts like his brother that was recently caught with over 1 Trillion Naira in his personal bank account that made CBN Governor to develop High BP out of shock, criminals in power

lucasalves:
well you can tell yourself all the lies in the world that will make you feel better about your miserable life... I have travelled extensively in South East Asia and every time I go around a airport I see igbo boys being detained and caught up in illegal activities... the sooner you can separate to be your Biafra the sooner the name Nigeria will start to gain some respect in the world as you lots have ruined the reputation of this country with your get rich quick mindsets and a need to oppress each other... I have actually been to Enugu and Anambra in the East other than hotels and beer parlors (because you know prostitution is the bread and butter of most igbo women) there actually isn't much going on there to compare to Lagos, Ogun, Oyo, Abuja, Rivers...so I will pray for you not to get killed on land matter

Great and thanks for the timely advice

lucasalves:
this is something I don't understand about igbos, you claim to be rich but can't build infrastructures and other facilities to develop your so called Biafra or do you think the magical biafra will just appear if you keep mentioning it? you know even the U.N will never recognize you as a state of your own when you are not bringing anything special to the table....

Hahahaha.....my village is finer than Ikoyi my brother no jokes.....you need a visit to the East.....you will be shocked.....that we travel around the world doesn't mean we don't go home. A childhood friend living in the states just bought an hectare of land he will start fencing soon in his village to build a home like the ones you watch on TV......there are several people that did same in his LGA, he wants to join the league.....go to eastern communities, remote areas and see well paved roads all done by individuals no government.


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lucasalves:
no wonder the Chinese are beating you on the streets of China when you no go respect yourself and develop your states instead going around boasting about traveling to countries that even want you and destroying Nigerian embassies abroad.

hahahaha, my brother na condition make crayfish bend na....if una allow us get Biafra and build the country of our dream, maybe we go stop to de travel around the world like homeless child

DopeAngel:
We Nigerian girls are just hoes. We have nothing else to offer to a man than our pussy. That's just the truth. I advice men to always becareful the kind of girls they get married to. Some of us are hoes in disguise and no way you can make a hoe be a wife.

Arrewa:
The north will never vote an igbo man!!

No sensible northerner will ever support an igbo man into the corridor of power!!

Nobody is stopping them from contesting... They should contest politics is a game of number and logical strategies.

Since after war, Igbos have insulted and ridiculed the North, they have blackmailed and castigated us for nothing sake. They have ruined our reputation for Decades with lies and fallacy with the help of the southern media, you blame us for your misfortunes, you shed corockodike tears and point your filthy fingers to us to get sympathy, any politician who wants relevance, points his gun to the North while igbos stay behind and load his gun...

Upon your falsehood and wickedness towards the people that did nothing to you, you still storm the Church on sundays, sit in the front seat and recite the part of the Bible that says: "do not bear falsehoods against your neighbors or your labourers" swimming in the ocean of hypocrisy

Today you want same north to support and vote you...

No...it's Biafra or death!!

Are you seriously serious this boy

So you don't know how many Igbo and non-Igbo lives your blood-thirsty northern youths have consumed since 2015 alone to say that North has done no wrong to anyone

Are you saying you are not aware of the thousands of Igbos killed by rioting and rampaging irate Northern youths who are religious fanatics trying to enforce their Islamic doctrines on strangers living in their land

Are you saying that the 1966 Northern pogrom in which you Northerners woke up and started killing civilian Igbos, children, market women, artisans, civil servants and Igbo elders living peacefully in your states just because of a political disagreement among the political elits and the military in 1966 Why must you Northerners involve commoners, poor people in your political madness always

Take a look at how your irate Northern youth brothers go about killing poor suffering villagers in Zamfara, Katsina, Kaduna, Borno, Adamawa, for no justifiable reason and you say your hands are clean in the North, are you serious or you are trying to play smart


The thing is, in Nigeria, Igbos are the only vocal voice that speak up against any evil of the North or any other region without fear or without waiting for an Igbo life to be involved....Igbos are like the USA of Nigeria always fighting injustice and defending every oppressed tribe in Nigeria, that is what Igbos stand for and that is why the North and Yorubas hate them......Igbos cannot watch you kill people just like that, its not possible....be peaceful, non-violent and you will be forever friends of the Igbos....Igbos value lives and properties....Igbos love peace but will fight and attack you if you are violent and always formenting trouble.....they won't keep quiet like the Yorubas annd other tribes, no!


Please go and look inward.......The North for many decades now have shown to the whole world that they stand for killing, Islamic religious terrorism, unnecessary bloodletting, massacre of poor villagers and strangers in their communities......that is how the whole world see Northern Nigeria.


Yorubas only pretend to love you Northerners for political gain, not that they don't know how violent and blood-thirsty you guys are....they just know how to play along with you Northerners to get what they want politically and Igbos are not like that....Igbos cannot watch you kill people freely and get a pat on your back, Mba it won't happen okay!!

proeast:
Yes, you're right. You will hardly find any enlightened and rich Igboman who will stay anywhere in the North beyond Abuja except those working with Federal government or as lecturers.

In the past when Abuja was not yet built and when there was no internet and telephones to co-ordinate things virtually, many wealthy Igbos lived in the core North due to their businesses there. However, since Abuja came on board with ease of remote communication, those wealthy Igbos now operate from Abuja and Jos. There are still lots of Igbos in the core North but they are mostly hustlers and people who can't compete elsewhere in the South and can't resist the lure of cheap housing and food with near monopoly in business.

Even when some of them come back to the East and discover how much they are lagging behind their kit and kins back home, you will see them return to the North.

This may sound annoying but anyone who is naturally lazy and laid-back will find the North irresistible and that is why you see some people defending it despite all the risks.

I can't live in anywhere beyond Abuja, even if you will pay me 1 million naira monthly. How can I have rest of mind in an environment where you can lose everything in a twinkle of an eye!

So far there are still millions of almajiris roaming around, almost 90% illiteracy and poverty rates, coupled with religious intolerance then no Southerner can ever be safe in the North. That's a fact and anyone arguing it is living in a fool's paradise.

Tell them!

AnanseK:
Tell me more stories. To say that only downtrodden Igbos live in the north is nonsense. Because history shows that many prominent Igbos in Nigeria had lived in the north and many of them were born in the north and grew up in the North. I will give a few examples:

1. Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe the first President of Nigeria and the Owelle Of Onitsha,
2. General Odumegwu Ojukwu - the Biafran Head Of State
3 . The Chief Louis Ojukwu- Senior Ojukwu ( one of the richest people in Nigeria at his time)
4. Major Chukwuma Nzeugwu- we all know him
5. Professor Dora Akunyili
6. Senator Rochas Okorocha
7. General Ike Nwachukwu
8. MC Tagwaye

There are hundreds and thousands of them and I will not call them downtrodden, they may not be as rich as the ones you mentioned in China, Korea, and South Africa but those ones are mostly criminals, yahoo boys and drug barons. You forgot to mention India , Indonesia, Malaysia, Thailand and Dubai where are large proportion of them are in the Prisons . You also forgot the prostitutes in Italy and other countries in Western Europe and Africa.

The Northern Igbos you call downtrodden have been more honest and know the honorable nature of the North and disagree with the shameless propaganda that northerners are always killing Igbos. Even if you take them to the east , they will return, despite all you said about the north. Northerners are more humane than your criminally minded kith and kin you beat your chest about and the Igbos in the north know this fact.

Those are old and dead Igbos who lived in the North when Nigeria was unfolding and didn't realize how volatile Northern Nigeria was and some of them lost their properties to Northern Nigeria's frequent religious riots and violence.


Modern Igbo youths who have sense, value their life and not just after chasing money that they won't even make that much no longer troop to the North.


Tell me one influential Igbo family still living permanently in the North today I can boldly tell you none!

Those Igbos that own big houses, warehouse and investments in Kano, Kaduna, etc are downtrodden when they get to their respective Igbo communities - nobody know them in their villages....they are nobody. I use my LGA as example.....we have influential men that return home every now and then......none live in Northern Nigeria today. They may go there for politics and return but not permanently living there.


Only an Igbo man who doesn't love his life or value his life still live permanently in far North today with the repeated killings North have carried out, targeting Igbos and their properties and businesses.....


Some Igbos are like some foolish Americans, no matter the travel warning US Government issues to them, they will still go to Afghanistan, Syria, Yemen, and all volatile nations to invest....they are on their own and they are usually the downtrodden Americans just as the Igbos living permanently in the North now are the downtrodden Igbos and they are on their own there

Kiddler:
The interior North have issues with riots usually sparked by one issue of religion and another, that can't be denied. But it should be understood that extremism and mob behavior don't just spring up among people in one day. It is as a result of things like illiteracy, and socioeconomic conditions. Tell me, will a man who works in an office from 8 to 6 have time to carry machetes and start riots because someone said something about his religion? You know the answer quite well. And that is the case for religious extremism almost everywhere. Tell me, if the US had never put their fingers in the Middle East would we have things like Al Qaeda or ISIS?
You can't heap all the blame on Islam, saying it is a violent religion with backward dogmas. Islam doesn't preach violence (please don't bring any verse you picked from Google without learning the exegesis and historical context.) Ancient Arabia were very bloody times even before the birth of the Prophet, so I'm usually amused when people claim the foundation of Islam was built on bloodshed. Should the early muslims have folded their arms and allowed themselves to be killed? Tell me, is Christianity any less bloodier? Have you read on what the Church did(or rather, didn't do) before and after WW2? I won't like to go down this path of castigating Christianity in defence of Islam; it's a petty tactic.

Nevertheless, many parts of the North are peaceful. I'm from Kano and I know just how rough things can get. I'm 20 years old and I've witnessed close to 5 riots already. The victims of the riots aren't only non-indigenes. Despite that, Kano is a very warm haven for business and there is a reason it is termed The Centre of Commerce. The Igbo population here would surprise even an indigene. The Igbo are a vast majority of the inhabitants of Sabon Gari and Brigade. The Sabon Gari market is virtually owned by the Igbos. There is also the small town of Panisau where Igbos have built luxurious estates and rows upon rows of warehouses. The number 1 merchants of generators in Kano are Igbo, the major boutique owners are Igbos, the major property investors are Igbos. I can even speculate that very soon the number of Igbo businesses in the core North would surpass that of Lagos. Lagos is one huge, congested city. Kano has so much untouched land that three extra states can be carved out of it. That's why I'm usually amused when people argue that Lagos is more populous than Kano. It's like comparing a bucket filled with water and a tanker filled with water.

The North is volatile, that can't be denied. But it has lessened over the years with better policing and security measures. The police chiefs we've had in recent times are no nonsense guys. But that volatility is almost a norm in the North, lives have been lost and yet there is an increasing influx of non-indigenes into the state and most of them are Igbos. What does that tell you?
Many people-especially here on Nairaland-think the North is one backward desert. Only a visit would dispel that claim from their minds.
You'll also see them calling the average Northerner 'aboki'. Well, the same aboki has dominated almost every government ministry, most major businesses in Nigeria have influential Northerners. What about the scholarships over the years since the time of Kwankwaso? The same aboki has dominated all the armed forces. The same aboki runs the biggest grain farm in Africa. The same aboki has an almost permanent slot for the presidential race whenever it happens. You can accuse the Northerners of nepotism and cronyism, but it has brought them to where they are (not without its own disadvantage), but can you blame them? If you don't give your brother to chop, whether he has a certificate or not, who would you give?

If and only if 90% of Northerners reasons like you, honestly the north will change to a heaven but honestly, Northern Nigerian have proved to not just non-Northerners, even oyimbo that the place is a volatile region where violence can erupt anytime and swallow your life and all you worked for in a twinkle of an eye.


I know that there are beautiful and awesome places in the north just as we have in all parts of the world, but my brother, life is very vital.....I value my life, some people, some Igbos are stubborn, they don't value their life that much, reason they still go to north and live like it is a safe place....I won't blame them, whatever they get they take....its their choice, but I nor my family will never live in the North until things change completely which may take centuries because your politicians love the way North is volatile and filled with illiterates, it helps them politically.


But to be honest, you are good. I am intrigued by your calm response. Northern Nigeria need more of your likes not blood thirsty thugs like El Rufai family and co.


Education is not entirely the problem of the north when it comes to violence, I think it has become a way of life maybe due to dominant Islamic doctrines that encourages strictness to Islamic values, making the youths to try to enforce these doctrines thinking they are pleasing Allah.

I commot cap for men who still have active sex life with their wife after 5 - 10 years of marriage because me that I know will quit having sex after 3 years of marriage.


It is boring having sex with the same woman every week or every month for 3 years, 4 yrs, 5yrs, 10yrs, 20yrs, haba na......you will start seeing her like your sister self after 5 years of marriage, only the kids will be the bond, so I praise men who are still having active sex life with their wife of 5 years after several kids, such men are hero, and this is one thing that makes sex scary.


I wouldn't mind open marriage after 5 years of marriage.....she can get a guy she likes to service her sexually, I won't complain cos I won't be able to fulfill that duty as a husband after 5 years with kids, my sexual interest in her will die even if she be Kim Kardashian or Beyonce



Keeping active sex life in marriage is scary!

Kalapizim:
I am Edo with a Bayelsan mother. I was born in the north and have lived in all part of this country.So I have the right to call you I'll informed. There is violence in every part of our country and not just the northern part alone.

Goodluck in your Borno abi Yobe state oh, make una enjoy well well...we are sending our warm greetings from here

AnanseK:
And still there are more Igbos in the 19 Northern states than there are in the the whole of 5 SE states. Igbos cannot do without the north. Never mind their genetic chest beating and arrogance , the moment you ask them to leave they start trooping with red caps and colored jumpers to pay homage to Emirs and Governors.

Don't be deceived, Igbos are highly populated tribe....they are everywhere.....if you visit Onitsha, Aba, etc you will change your perspective that more Igbos live in the North than in the East.



And for those Igbos living in the North like its their home, I pity them and their families......they should pray they don't learn the hard way.


And for your information, most Igbos living in the north are the downtrodden......the well to do Igbos of class hardly live permanently in the North, you can only see them in Lagos and Abuja at most.

In my community for instance, if you count 200 most influential men/women and families, you can never see any living in the North, except Abuja.

Most live in:

Lagos
US
Abuja
Japan
Korea
South Africa
Onitsha
UK
China
Portharcourt
Enugu
Netherlands
Germany
France
Denmark
etc

Jakemedg:
Guy I'm a southerner presently residing in Kaduna state just like other southerners are residing here in their hundreds of thousands .Here is peaceful so stop promoting propaganda and lies

That was what my uncle told us in 1990 and thereafter until he lost his two storey buildings, his cars, his big business premises and escaped death by luck and grace during the usual Northern religious crises and riots that happen unannounced, and till date he never talks good about Northern Nigeria.


Of course greedy Southerners like you would always tell people how wonderful, peaceful and amazing Northern Nigeria is just because you got job easily or doing business there and getting some change since only few people go there making jobs readily available for those ready to sacrifice their life at any time the cock crows



Enjoy it well well oh you hear.....but you better start making plans to run from that war zone before they use your head do Sallah suya.


A region that values and celebrate ancient, barbaric religious doctrines that encourages violence and killings for religion is a dangerous place for non-indigene to live permanently, use your head!

IamHonourable1:
Stop deceiving yourself,an average Hausa man is selfish.

Bloody and Deadly

Kalapizim:
Haba no be so joor

I am sure you are from the North because you guys don't know how scary your people have made Northern Nigeria for sensible Non-Northerners who love their life and their loved ones.


Its a very scary region just like going to Afghanistan, Syria, Yemen, Somali and Gaza Strip in Palestine......that's how dangerous living in Northern Nigeria is. Before they focused on killing Igbos and burning their properties in the past and everybody laughed about it accusing Igbos of always trooping to the North and not staying in their Igbo region.....but now the North have graduated from killing only Igbos to not just killing their fellow Northerners for no reason, but killing for fun and terrorizing a whole community, LGA, State.....mhen that region is under a spell

Kalapizim:
Guy no jokes that place is wonderful and more beautiful than the picture sef

If Paradise is in Northern Nigeria and Hell in another region, I will chose to go to Hell my brother, the North love blood and that region yearns for blood every now and then, when you think all is well is when their bloodletting riots and religious brouhaha will erupt like volcanic eruption

So Aboki don finally learn photoshop, now it is FINISHED my people!





Meanwhile, the only safe place in the North for non-Northerners to live with one of their eyes closed is Abuja......anybody that is not from North going to the North to live permanently does not love his life nor does he pity his family and loved ones that will mourn him when it happens anytime any day


A region that gets ecstasy from killing people and carrying out mass deadly riot in which non indigenes' lives and properties that are supposed to be protected are slaughtered like Sallah ram, in fact even if they make me Governor of Kano State, I no go