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Babaj145:
Everybody is just talking about Neymar and Mbappe,..forgetting there's a certain Di maria,.for me dat guy was d real MVP in dis match..now I know why PSG struggled against Atalanta,..Di maria is a very massive player...and for those saying neymar is better dan messi,.well na only God go fit help una sha(and am not even a messi fan),..but e get where person go reach u go know say truth nr suppose to dey hard to tell..neymar is a good player no doubt but he still has a long way to go to reach messi's level..I watch dis match today see d 2 big chances neymar miss na,.e sure me say hazard nr go miss dat kind thing..

Di Maria and Mbappe are reliable players, Neymar is a by-chance player; good today, worst tomorrow, no team manager will waste club money on such unreliable player, except Arsenal and Man U

Congratulations to Bayern Munich on the lifting of 2019/2020 Champions League trophy, it was never an easy feat, congrats Arjen Robben

Umu oma

CuteMercury:
Good evening ladies and gentlemen, so by next year or next two years, it is now 100% certain that i will leave for the United States of America.

Though i am educated but what i have come to understand is that in our world today, most especially in the United States of America, learning a skill is very Very important and you can can never go broke or jobless if you have certain skills in the United States of America.

So i want to use the rest of this year to acquire a skill that will be of great help to me when i get to America.

So i have decided to learn interior home and office designing and decorating.

I want to ask if acquiring a skill of interior design is the best for me or what are the top skills you think i can acquire or someone can acquire before travelling to the United States of America.

If you are not a Nurse, or LPN or lab scientist or doctor (hard to become a fully registered doctor or surgeon in US if you didn't study there), my brother forget it, na their military, paramilitary and Walmart job you go de manage last last cos oyimbo cannot employ you a foreign trained black man as an accountant or HR or any other role that white folks can handle.


They only need blacks and Nigerians in medical field to help manage their failing health and to cater for them at old age, nothing else, if you doubt, wait until you arrive US, all your non medical or non nursing certificates will become as useless as the "P" in psychology

You forgot water and air, every Nigerian need them too, someone should find a way to import them fast

Juliearth:
While you may be right, my concern is why and how he is forcing her to do it regardless of her parents' disapproval. If a man loves you, he must honour your parents too.


Women don't have to give in to sex to validate a relationship, what will be will be. Sex cannot keep a man that doesn't want to be kept...

You are saying the right thing that ought to be done.


But I still tell u sister, those who do the right thing in this world don't always get the best, most times those who do the wrong thing get the best, maybe this world is structured for those that will risk it all without fear.


Check those who are usually quiet and reserved, they most times don't end up successful while the stubborn, arrogant ones usually end up super successful, observe this from today.


Life no balance at all.


Majority of married couples you see and envy, if they tell u how they met, or if the women tell u what their boyfriends who is now their husbands made them to do eh, u go shock.


Don't just conclude that a man that wants to marry a lady wouldn't want her to take some risk, not true oh, some boyfriends will even tell their girlfriend to leave her parents and run away with him and at the end they will be happily married and its usually such men that restrict their own daughters because they know how bad they were as a single guy.


Some guys that will respect you, respect your parents, respect even the ground u walk on as their girlfriend may still end up dumping you for another lady when they want to marry, so its just a game.


Relationship is a game of luck, u may do all the right things and still end up dumped, and another lady may do all the bad bad things and still end up married to a wonderful man earlier than the good girls.


I repeat, life no balance sister

Juliearth:
A man that wants you for keeps(marriage) won't consciously set you up against your parents. Let him leave if he wants to. You are still young, focus on building a career/business.

Not completely true, ask many married couple how they met and how they dated or courted and hear their crazy love stories.


So long as a lady wants to get married in this present world of today, she must be ready to take some calculated risks for her relationship and she must be ready to be fvcked by one or two or three or even 10 different guys before she lands a hubby, that's the sad truth.


Ladies that usually say: I can't do until I marry, even though they are doing the right thing, usually end up single for long or even forever sadly


Some ladies after saying no I won't do until I marry sometimes end up with horrible men who are serial cheats, or horrible men who can't even take care of them or their needs cos most financially buoyant guys cannot date a girl without that thing, once u tell them no we cannot do it until we marry, they will smile and toss the girl one side because they have plenty options of ladies to pick from.


Life no balance at all, those who do the right thing most times carry last in life while those who do the wrong thing end up reaping the best life can offer in this present world, maybe in the afterlife they will get their own reward, sadly



Men are hypocrites sha, men want their daughters to be Virgin Mary The mother of Jesus but they spoilt their wife during dating and even turned their then girlfriend (now wifey) to a half LovePeddler but as soon as they have their own daughter, they want to protect her with shells around her waist forgetting how they fvcked and spoilt their current wife (another person daughter oh) when she was their own girlfriend back then.




The same guys who want their girlfriends to risk it for them don't want their sisters to be fvcked by other men, kai, men una be hypocrites oh, see as all of them turn preachers and motivational preacher, i fear who no fear men of this world, all of una na hypocrites

Nigeria does not have any accurate database.


Nobody knows the actual population of Nigerians; some Chadians, Nigeriens, Cameroonians and even Togolese are all in Nigeria with National Identity and claiming to be Nigerians.


Nigeria have no database anybody can rely on. All the statistics being dished out are based on projection and assumption by a group of employed graduates opportune to be working with some government agencies.



So stop fooling yourselves.


Nobody know how many humans are living in Nigeria.



Nigeria needs to be demolished like a house and a new foundation laid on honesty, truth, transparency and integrity built if not, no hope for a better nation called Nigeria no matter who is elected as President!

For those that may think Abiriba is a capital of a state like Ikeja, Oshogbo, Ado Ekiti, Kano, Kaduna, Makurdi....Abiriba is not a city, it is what most Nigerians call village.



This is a village in Igbo land.....Igbos on their own collective efforts develop their towns and villages without government assistance.....that is why everywhere Igbos live in Nigeria they build mansions like its their home.....if they build a mansion in Lagos where they live, they must have also built two mansions in their village (hometown) and in the capital city of their home state. That is the way of Igbos.


Unlike other tribes who refuse to build solid structures outside their tribal region and states. That is why they call Igbos "Developers", they build and develop everywhere they go without prejudice, please my dear Nigerians from other tribes, learn from Igbos, be like Igbos....go to Igbo states and live and build mansions too, stop living in your home state till you die, a traveler is wiser than a gray hair old man; travel and see

Starlight10:
I like honest people though, speaking her truth unapologetically. Some girls that want to come and yab her here will not say how their legs spread fast after seeing television, dstv and sound system. If he now makes indomie with two eggs it is finished

RAGEofFIRE:


ISLAM.....Very intolerant religion...
The worst religion in the history of mankind....
The only way the world will have a "chance" at peace is the extinction of this evil religion.

Spoke it again loudest letting the worlds hears it very well!


What surprises me the most is the fact that young, educated, enlightened youths of today still stay in that intolerant religion, wonders

fykes:
You, ur virgin, her wealthy home and the evil that wants to befall u... All of u are mad

Openbusiness4:
This upcoming generation of boys go brutal ohhh. See dem for dis thread, am juz laffing here. I pity all the young girls in their time. D seed of bad parenting by all dis indomie and feminism mothers will be ripe soon. Na women go suffer am. Thank God I don't have a daughter

my brother I shock as I de read the comments oh, wahala de for young girls of this generation.


Guys are becoming more brutal and determined to pay back, hmmmm, may God save my future daughter from bad guys oh

1Sharon:
Lol yeah ofcourse those are popular attractions
But this thread is about fake and hypocritical attractions

Oh now I see

stanliwise:
Read about phenotype. if a girl is naturally pretty and she comes from a pretty family as much as you are not so ugly as a man and you too are handsome. Pretty kids are guaranteed of about 2/4 which is 50%.

Most times, the gene of her family plays the most role in deciding how her kids would look like. If you doubt me, look around you from today

1Sharon:
I was surprised to learn that guys find knock knees attractive

what 99% of Nigerian guys find most attractive in a woman are:

Big buttocks
Flat tummy
Light skin or worst of chocolate skin
Medium sized firm boobs



Every other thing they are saying here is to deceive their female followers on Nairaland, but deep down their hearts, what I listed above are what they desire and wish for

stanliwise:
But if she is pretty, you guarantee your kids pretty face too, you know?

Facially pretty women don't usually give birth to beautiful kids, so




Buttocks+flat tummy is the beauty of a woman!

Ladies go and buy waist trainer, tummy belt and buttocks cream and work on that your small bombom and big tummy, every man loves it more than big breast don't be deceived like BBN laycon being deceived by cunning Erica

PhillipPHD:
This must be the write up of a female. They write to encourage simps.


Kings, be weary of them, the world (females) wants you weak.

The crazy thing is that, they want you weak, so as to filter you out, so as to go in with those who refuse to cave in.

Kiddwaya is alpha and Laycon is a simp.

Kiddwaya, Prince are champs!



Ozo, Laycon and Eric are biggest simps

The beauty of a woman is in her buttocks; no matter how pretty your face is, if your buttocks is flat or small, forget it, you are ugly or average!



A woman's beauty starts from her bombom, flat tummy, big breast is for kids

Ozmar:
It's a sad thing to know you're last born. Wish you had a bro younger Anyways, keep being you and ignore anyone that'd want to make fun of you for taking the best decision ever. You won't regret this. At bolded, I'm being the best version of me, hope to meet someone like you someday.

Don't let fake prophets to impregnated you, they have filled the world now with their sweet words, especially on the Internet, they can attest to have dined with the Lord and even brag to be the light you seek, but only God sees the deepest of the secrets of men.


Don't let people's words move you to make hasty decisions, many are talkers but never doers, be wise so they won't finish your biscuit with lies of righteousness, the Lord hate prideful people who call themselves righteous, I know I am a big sinner and lord will have mercy on me

fykes:
Its actually an honor to be a practicing Christian and the joke is on you.

You will be shocked on the last day, keep it up

hakeem4:
stop saying rubbish. The life span of a bridge is 70-100 years. So because of that you want to demolish the whole structure

The lifespan of 3rd Mainland Bridge is 50yrs, if you no gree, jump inside lagoon

fykes:
U see ur opening statement, it's a huge lie. Infact u should have a degree in lying.
I dated my wife for 3 years and have married her for 5years and not only do I find her attractive and sexy, I will never cheat on her. And while u think its something huge it's not. Many men are doing it. Before I married, I worked in a multi national, I played the field and there's really nothing a woman can throw at me now in d way of physical attraction or seduction.
Cheating isn't only greed and selfishness, it's disregard for God and marital vows and I won't be found with such deadly sins ever.

wow, Deputy Jesus, well done oh

Are there no single guys in that your compound that she can be spending the night with ni, why are Nigerian single ladies so stingy with their pussy nature handed them to for free to keep for men, why



I am sure there are so many single guys in that compound dying of cold at night, wicked ghel, e for her self, op keep on tormenting her

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

it is normal for men to lose sexual attraction with their wife after she gets pregnant or after few years of marriage, no matter how sexy or pretty the woman is, it is a normal thing with all men, any man that says his wife or girlfriend of many years is still highly attracted to her is a liar, and we have so many men liars who pretend their girlfriend or wife is the sexiest but deep down their lying hearts they are fvcking other women emotionally and in their wild fantasies




Marriage goes beyond sexual attraction and sex, what makes a wife attractive to her husband is not just her sexy body but other home keeping skills, ability to support her man to become successful in what he does and ability to run a balanced, healthy, happy home devoid of frustration.



Any guy that marries solely for sexual attraction will most definitely cheat with multiple partners and the marriage will also be a hell.


Men are naturally wired to desire to be with every lady they find sexually appealing, it is only the love of God or religious doctrines that can make a man make strong attempt to quench this natural thirst for multiple women in his life, so let your friend or you use your head.


If Kanye West could cheat Kim Kardashian, Jay Z cheated on Beyoncé, Tiger Woods cheated on his wife, David Beckham cheated on Victoria, and Prince Charles cheated on Princess Diana, so who is the woman that men won't cheat on

Nigerian and black African leaders are all mad and wicked!

3rd Mainland Bridge is tired, weak and due for artificial collapse, what a honorable government ought to do is to construct alternative bridge and destroy this death trap of a bridge and erect an entirely new Bridge.


The life span of a bridge is 50 years on a normal usage, but this is Nigeria, don't wait till it is 50 years old before it swallows innocent people's lives and assets crossing the bridge.


Also, River Niger bridge between Asaba and Onitsha ought to have been collapsed by government so many years ago.


Until it collapses and kill people, devilish Nigerian government controlled by northern Muslim cultists won't bath an eyelid

Luckydubby7:
Hmm
Northern Nigeria is gone.
Pls let us divide this nation now oooo.

You better shutup your mouth oh and not allow Bola Ahmed Tinubu and his 30billion Yoruba Youth gang online and offline hear this inciting speech from your mouth oh, abi you want make Baboon and Orangutan dance for your area ni

Who will dash me a cute little baby girl like this for a daughter, please PM let's talk no jokes

Ladies of our time, focusing on frivolities over the main issues, she will regret it sooner than later, na today bumbum hang for back


Choosing who to marry and when to marry is a right solely reserved for men by nature!


Choosing who to date, who to fvck and who to reply his hello or have a romp with is a right ladies enjoy freely from age 16 - 30yrs at most!


Nature and God are not fools......no lady can decide when to marry, who to marry and how to marry no matter how pretty or rich she is; only her luck, destiny, location and men decides who she would marry and when she would marry, and how


But every man can decide when to marry, who to marry and how to marry, that's where nature rewards men in the romance-sex-dating-marriage game of life, so this lady is wasting her own time cos she will most likely end up in the arms of fvckboys like Kiddwaya or Praise and they will show her that getting married as a lady is not easy anywhere in the world

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

God Almighty will bless so richly my brother. You just made me smile with joy.


If Nigeria had just 30% of men like you, we wouldn't be seeing married women maltreating everybody that is not direct blood relative of theirs they steps into their husband's house or let me say matrimonial home.

Single guys reading this, please learn from this guy, he possesses the true character and poise of a man of integrity that we need more in Nigeria to correct a lot of societal anormally in Nigerian families today.


Please never you ever reconsider marrying that lady. Dump her wicked, selfish, devilish ass and don't regret nor look back so that she can learn to treat other people and those below her economically and financially better in future.


And to all the wicked, mean-hearted, selfish ladies reading this, I pray what befell this wicked, selfish lady befall you all, can you ladies join me and say a big AMEN

FullBlastLight:
I wonder why all d Human Rights Organisations, Human Right Activists & other Civil Society Organisations are so chicken-hearted & hiding in holes at such a critical time as dis when their actions are much needed!

Does dt mean they all view citizens' right 2 peaceful assembly, association & protests as an aberration & uncalled for in d Nigerian democracy?

Why are they muted, for crying out loud?

Must everybody be a coward in d presence of a known tyrant operating within d context of democracy?

If they eventually fail 2 play their role as one of d integral pillars of democracy, both ancestry & posterity wil impute it unto them as being more brutal & wicked than Buhari-led govt in its entirety!

Frankly, all dis things no balance, at all!

Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Tunde Bakare have the answer to this your question, do you need their address




Goodluck Jonathan is the worst President of Nigeria, let us kill him, we must jail him for eternity, he must die in jail for destroying Nigeria says Yoruba youths, but now it is very clear that it was all tribalism at work, they only hated Goodluck Jonathan because he is from SouthSouth and affiliated to Igbo, not that Goodluck Jonathan was that bad, now Buhari and their son Osinbajo are committing all manner of crimes and corruption but Tinubu and Tunde Bakare are now deaf and dumb with all their Yoruba youth followers, Nigeria is heading nowhere as a nation

Oracleforce:
I was born Nd bred in a white garment church..there are a lot of things they practice that are not scriptural....and are fetish.....

I questioned some of the elder's white garment church which I used to attend then, Nd the couldn't provide a workable answer to my questions, then I left the church....i left 20 years ago...for Pentecostal church..

White garment Churches especially Celestial is not a Church but a spiritual or voodoo house disguised as a Church to win society's acceptance for their voodoo worship.



Anybody attending Celestial Church is same as a babalawo or juju worshipper, its not a Church