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Nigerian Churches are practicing religious doctrines created by Pentecostal pastorpreneurs instead of following Jesus Christ's ways.


Whenever I am in dire need and I pray silently to God with a broken heart and total trust that God will answer me, I always get immediate answer

Shameful but thought provoking, but unfortunately, Nigeria needs to be buried and new countries birthed to begin a positive change from grassroot governments of the new countries that will emerge from Nigeria.

Political leaders destroyed Nigeria

delishpot:
Na the type una dey like na. If una jam better woman una go say she no set. Una no go appreciate her. Me I don't know what to advise you. Women too na so dem go see better man but greed, longthroat and the desire to pepper their friends will make them leave cool headed men (note I did not say poor/broke men cos poverty is not the criteria for being a good spouse) for ragamuffins who show them wheeeen!

but why must a lady be ugly in order to be cool headed, can't she be sexy/hot and cool headed too



And why must a guy be broke to be seen as a nice guy, can't he be successful and good to ladies too



Fine chicks that are not cool headed now end up as babymamas, 3rd wives and forever concubines

ivandragon:
The bricks being thrown at Yorubas are uncalled for.

If BAT seems to be losing out politically, then keep the discussion centred on him. Do not drag/mock the whole ethnic group.

In politics, no permanent friends nor foes. Regardless of the divide our politicians in Nigeria reside, be it on ethnic, religious or political grounds, their ideology of greed & reckless domination remains constant.

Bottom line...


It is ok to critic politicians as individuals or political parties as groups, but it is despicable to insult & mock ethnic nationalities.

We are all different & even if we are to part, we can do so on amicable terms, hard feelings or not.

After all, no ethnic nationality is perfect.

The reason Yorubas are being dragged into it is because Yorubas have been mocking Igbos since 2015 Goodluck lost to Buhari, calling Igbos all sorts of demeaning names, to the extent they even celebrated publicly when Nigerian army went to Southeast to kill unarmed IPOB protesters for exercising their constitutional right.


I don't know what Igbos did to Yorubas that made Yorubas hate Igbos so so much when it comes to national politics and affairs.


Yes individullay, Igbos and Yorubas relate well but when it comes to national politics, national issue, voting, etc, Yorubas always love antagonising Igbos .


You don't care about Igbos or Biafra, yet when Igbos talk about their Biafra and how to leave Nigeria in peace, Yorubas will be the first to attack them verbally, etc.

But let Yorubas talk about Odua Republic and watch Igbos give them massive support, these are enough reasons to tell you who is right or wrong in the fight between Igbos and Yorubas.


Since the end of Nigerian civil war with Biafra, Hausa-Fulanis have ruled Nigeria, Yorubas have ruled Nigeria twice; it doesn't matter if its one Yoruba man that ruled twice as military and as civilian President that's his luck, but that's Yoruba slot.


If Yorubas were sensible and fair enough, they ought to throw their weight and support behind Igbo Presidency in 2023 at least to pacify Igbos like OBJ Presidency was used to pacify Yorubas in 1999.


But no, because of Yoruba wickedness, greed and hatred for Igbo, they want to produce another President in 2023, what does that say about the Yoruba tribe


Even the North are watching them and laughing at their wickedness and selfishness.



And even if Yorubas are to produce the President in 2023 for any reason at all, how is it even possible for a known political corrupt criminal and godfather like Tinubu to become the President of Nigeria under the watch of every Nigerian that know how Tinubu corruptly pocketed a whole Lagos state and some Yoruba states to the joy of many Yorubas

Notorious political criminals and corrupt, greedy, desperate political godfathers like Tinubu hardly win presidential election because everybody know their mission to become President, so Tinubu should return back to his local Yoruba politics where he plays god before they destroy him completely.

To become Nigeria's President, you must come with one unheard mantra or be seen as next Messiah not next destroyer or next devil. Check the records of all past and present elected Presidents of Nigeria and see if Tinubu have any unique record to sell him to Nigerians His only unique record is he is a ruthless political godfather, a master in political looting and godfatherism, nothing else. Which sensible Nigerian will support such criminal to become Nigeria's President

Tinubu is the General Overseer the Commander in Chief of Lagos state, a country inside country that's almost richer than Nigeria, yet go to Lagos, it is like a slum, most intra city roads in Lagos are deathtraps, street roads are all gone, infrastructure is dead in Lagos, obtaining Lagos state land occupancy certificate or CofO or whatever call it is a big problem on the Island because Tinubu have huge interest in all lands in Lagos and indirectly dictates when and where CofO is issued to property owners and prospective property buyers, he has turned Lagos to a slum instead of a mega city competing with top global cities, all because of his greed and selfishness, yet Yorubas want such man to become next Nigeria's President, is that not wickedness


Northerners are not as daft as Yorubas think they are, let's watch and see as things unfolds anyway.


Good morning

Olarewaju89:
Op, you have been on nairaland since 2011 and you still seek for this kind of advice.

Na waoo, just send her happy birthday to you my dear future wife. That's all. Anything aside that, you are on your own (oyo).

He doesn't need to send her any sms or message, not even a call....he should start today to avoid everything about her; sms oh, calls, Fbook messages oh, whatsapp oh, just name it......this is the big boy way of breaking up with bitches that don't have sense in 2020



Ladies ought to learn that social media, forums like this and internet have spoilt market for corporate runs girls and gold diggers because almost all men are now aware of the styles ladies use to scam and milk men.....any guy that still fall maga for any lady is either pretending and playing along for a reason or he's a fool

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

She use gun point you for head ni


Just pretend like you didn't know about her birthday; don't even send sms nor call......when she calls you to query why you didn't texts or call, don't pick....continue avoiding her calls and sms, don't reply any, don't call, don't pick...with time, she will understand that the proposed marriage has been over since, no fight or argument needed here, just silence and ghost mode will bring her gold-digging senses back to normal

seanwilliam:
even though this sounds stupid and foolish..


It is the bitter truth ... beauty and bangable body take a lady far in this present Nigeria

World

Righteousness89:
Wow .......

President Trump Children are well Trained!

No one drinks! No one smokes! No one has even a tatoo! Non of his sons has a pierced ear! Despite the Wealth and all that

Yet those who have just one or two kids, and cannot train their kids say all Manner of things about President Donald John Trump!

Many will be shocked on the last day!

Yes oh!


Femi Otedola cannot even tame his own daughters, its really a shame

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
Is curves an achievement? Op and those having curves opinion are brain dead.

it is more than an achievement oh!!


Good curves can get a girl to meet Aliko Dangote and all her family and generational poverty solved in one day, so what da hell are you talking about, who girl's brain help

tega2luv:
[/b]please my fellow NLs , what are the ways or rather a step one can take to avoid getting a girlfriend.

[b]Learn to masturbate (does sign of the cross )


But as a young boy, it is safer for you to learn to masturbate and focus on your studies or handwork than keeping girlfriend

SultanOfAbia:
I have tried to settle things with her but she is hell bent on exposing those chats on my insta and WhatsApp.
Should I involve police??

Arrest her asap! But first warn her that if she dare, that you will spend your last kobo to ensure she ends up in jail for blackmail, its that simple

Hmmm, men don't need any closure jareh, if u want to leave biko leave, no do shakara, no de carry your shoulder up! That's how most men are. Men are only angry if they didn't fvck you before you left, but if he fvcked you, my sister you can waka de go like that, nothing mega





And for the ladies, don't expect any closure from any guy that breaks up with u cos mos guys break up with girls because of the below reasons:

1.) All he wanted was fun and he got it while the girl wanted a lasting relationship which was never the game plan of the guy

2.) If you are a girl thats always asking him money for this, money for that, buy me shoe, buy me bag, buy me new wig, pay my rent, my school fees nkor, then be prepared for several break ups with several guys without any notice because once the current or incumbent boyfriend gets tired of footing your bills, he will sempe without notice


3.) If your something is not tight like tiger but, hmmmmm, guys go de run after some do oh, yeah it sounds crazy but that's the truth, and don't expect any guy that is not crazy like Naira Marley to tell you that why him kasala was because your tininini is not tight enough for him bujaajee


4.) If you be chick weh de date 2 or more guys at the same time, just expect sudden break ups without notice or closure and also know that most guys won't even tell u why they ran, once they find out you be Hanty Rukky, they gonna run without notice abi closure


5.) If u are above 27yrs as a girl and u are always asking him when he will go and see your parents or disturbing him for marriage or acting too desperate for marriage, expect plenty break ups without closure cos guys of today hate ladies that are desperate for marriage because most times such ladies dont have much to offer.

This is one reason men seem to prefer girls below 22yrs because they are the ones who even turn down marriage talks, so guys prefer them cos they just want fun and party, no time for marriage or any commitment. So dear mature single ladies, pls stop acting too desperate for marriage, it scare guys away even if they are ready to marry tomorrow, act like a teenage girl who only want fun and attention without commitment and guys will be at your beck and call

HembaqMbk:
https://www.quora.com/Can-an-A-positive-blood-group-girl-marry-an-O-negative-blood-group-boy

Can an A positive blood group girl marry an O negative blood group boy?


I am puzzled as to why this sort of question keeps turning up again and again. I get the uncomfortable feeling that there is a rumour floating around i the lay population to the effect that certain blood groups can’t / shouldn’t marry. Basically this is rubbish. In most countries there is no requirement for couples to have blood group tests done before marriage - certainly not required in the UK, Australia & most of Europe. Don’t know about North America.

Regardless of the couples respective blood groups there aren’t problems; there are relative potential problems, however, the mothers blood group will be checked at the beginning of her pregnancy. If the mother is Rhesus D negative then they will want to know the babies blood group when it is born. That’s easy as a small sample (5ml) of cord blood will be taken and if the baby is Rhesus D positive, then the mother will be given an injection of anti-D antibodies to kill off any foetal cells that crossed into the mother at confinement. This will stop the mother developing anti-D antibodies that may be a problem in future pregnancies.

We have known about this for 50 years so it is a matter of routine.




If you have a negative blood type and the father of your child has a positive blood type, there is a good chance the baby you carry will also have a positive blood type. This can lead to some complications during pregnancy, but they are completely preventable.

First off, what do positive and negative blood types mean? If you have a blood type like O+ or A+, that means you are Rh positive. Your red blood cells have the Rh protein on their covering. If you are Rh negative, your cells don't have this protein. Because your body doesn't have the Rh factor in its cells, your immune system will consider this protein a threat.

During pregnancy, your blood and your growing fetus's blood are kept separate during the pregnancy. However, during delivery, your baby's blood can mix with your own. If you are Rh negative and the baby is Rh positive, your immune system will start to build up antibodies against the “invading” Rh factor. This is called Rh sensitization[1].

Rh sensitization won't cause any harm to the baby you just delivered. However, if you get pregnant again with another Rh-positive baby, it may cause issues. Because your immune system is on high alert for that Rh protein, your immune system can start attacking the fetus's blood cells. This causes health problems in the fetus, and tends to get worse every pregnancy[2].

Fortunately, science has your back. If you are pregnant and have a negative blood type, your doctor will give you a drug called RhoGAM around the start of your third trimester. This drug prevents Rh sensitization in most women who use it[3]. Your doctor may also check to see if you have Rh sensitization from a previous pregnancy in a first-trimester blood test.

As long as your doctor knows about the possible Rh conflict, he or she can manage it very well. Don't let it bother you!

The reason why European countries, US and white dominant countries don't do compulsory blood genotype test before marriage is simple:


White people don't have sickle cell disease. It is not in their blood! So no need for genotype test!

If you ever see any white child suffering sickle cell disease, then know that he/she have a black ancestral lineage.

Juvenile marriage, their only occupation and focus is fvck fvck, cheat cheat nothing else

simplepee:
Irresponsible men everywhere. Tueh!

Fact is, after spilling rubbish on Nl, they still get married every sayurday abi all the suitors we are getting falls from heaven.

People are sure getting married but the rate is very low compared to what it ought to be.


If things were normal as it ought to be, with the population of Nigeria and youths being the greater number of Nigeria's population, the number of marriages we ought to be seeing weekly ought to be so high and we shouldn't have been seeing lots of mature single guys and ladies above 32yrs not even planning to marry any time sooner.


Some things are wrong accept it. Our today unemployment & underemployment rates are just too high, are u aware that majority of Nigerian youth graduates work a whole month and earn NGN50,000 despite increased living cost of today; how can a man take good care of marriage and family with such meagre income without stealing or compronising


Also our culture, lifestyle and social media influence, and sudden increase in the number of married women cheating today are really affecting marriages negatively. Yes ladies would say men cheat too, but married women used to be epitome of pious and virtuous life in the past, they held the key to happy marriages and homes, and that is how nature made it but today, it has gone crazy, married ladies want to test more dicks than single ladies

Even the people getting married, how blissful is their marriage Is it as it ought to be


Many guys meet a pretty girl, they feel she is an angel they ought not to miss, they hurry and marry her, and along the line they discover it was a mistake, they start to complain to their close male friends and also complain codedly on faceless forums like this based on their predicament, don't take such things for granted, all is not well with today marriage institution.


What you should do is to make a decision to make a difference in your own marriage if you are married or to be a wonderful wife to your future husband if you are single, not arguing that are people not getting married. Even during war, during world war, during Nigeria Biafra civil war people were getting married, Gowon married during the war and so many other Nigerians but does that mean all was well with Nigeria then


Think it sis

michaelpop50:
Catch 100 level girl, then stop her education. She nor need graduate. Of what use is the graduation for women when they graduate and still depend on men? Na university nai babes for dey fuucck pass. Them dey damage their lives there.

She go gain admission as a slim girl, from 200 level, she go come dey thick due to numerous pricks and waka waka. Boy dey lash madness comot for babes head for uni nor be small.

In today's Nigeria, it is not wise to marry graduate. Na why Davido stop chioma from schooling

lafamoooo

profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

The reasons most single guys are still single and not even thinking of getting married at 35yrs above are:


Mass unemployment, underemployment, poverty - how many single guys can afford a comfortable marriage & family life Very few

Cost of getting married has become high today

Married women infidelity of today is discouraging

Fear of losing their single man freedom

Fear of commitment to one lady; definitely the sex drive must die when u guys start living together, this is scary! When a guy starts to live with one lady for years, no matter how sexy or pretty she is, she won't be sexually attractive to him again like before, social media and other life of today have made this situation worst cos the guy will be seeing hotter, younger girls daily making him lose interest in the one time hottest chick he died to get!


Single ladies attitude towards guys; to even find or get your kind of girl that will inspire u to marry is like Gulder Ultimate Search!


Hiphop Music Life & Social Media Influence

Eh yaah, children and their mumu thinking, this must be the hand work of all those Sci-Fi and adventure cartoon films they watch, poor kids

These people are the reason US, UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand subject smart Nigerians to that nonsense called IELTs, TOEFL, etc English tests to work or study in their country while they allow Nakupendas from Xenophobic Africa with their thick English

Lucifer1419:
you Don catch am before, stop talking trash, nothing like covid-19 in Nigeria, the government are just cashing out, using the pandemic to scare people, are you one of the paid agent.

Hmmm Egungun be careful na express you de go so

MedicH:
What we have today is weak men getting married instead of spending time to build their self esteem. I can't imagine myself in this mess. A wife I married. I will drag her to the gates of hell to find out the truth then if she's cheating I leave her there and go home.

As a weak man you are, you have made a very big mistake in finding the truth. What she will do at this moment is to hide all her track, delete her messages and be pretending because u lost the battle before the war started.

Why do weak men fail to understand that u don't ask women questions in issues about infidelity until u find out the truth. Asking her questions is ur way of getting a confessional (if you like) because already u have a concrete evidence u can share with people in ur hand before asking her. Women are pathological liars and if u don't know the truth, you've lost because u will not find out ever. What you've seen in her phone is a hearsay and when u involve the public, she will gain public sympathy, tag you delusional and insane and she will win.

When I was in college I had this girlfriend in my 5th year who wanted me to pay her allowance of 10k monthly or she will call it quit. I told her there's no way I can afford that as I don't work. Then she started cheating. one of my friends told me where he saw her, and with whom I knew she was cheating. I put a virus in her phone then logged her off her messenger. By the time she logged back in I captured all keystrokes and from there I knew her passwords. I accessed her phone emailed her conversation with one Yahoo guy to myself and equally accessed her messenger. I printed the WhatsApp chats, invited her over and after we had sex, she went to the bathroom and I put the cheating papers in her handbag with a breakup note to never come back. That was it.


I didn't ask her any question. If I asked her based on what my guy said, she will throw a tantrum, tag me and my friend delusional and win. Today she's married to one man from her village and there's no week she doesn't ask me for money for her child dedication and for airtime.

Weak men will never learn.

When you read from men you will know.

Honestly we have so many weak men now in Nigeria.


I am sure the problem is the op depends on the wife's salary or the wife provides most of the family's living expense and he is scared of offending her or confronting her to avoid her seeking for divorce.

Guys before u marry, settle yourself financially, its very important.

Poshriel:
Brother she is cheating.. The Truth is it may not even be with John only.

Once a lady starts hiding phones and Chatting up late then someone somewhere is beating a drum she likes so much.

Your wife wants you to know that she is cheating on you and she is expecting you to react .. She believes you will want to end the marriage and that is exactly what she wants..

Again this her attitude may be as a result of your own Promiscuities which you ain't aware she knows too..

Solution
Take her out to a place she has always loved to be .. Let her know of all the changes that she has been exhibiting let her know that you are aware..

Then plead for for her to change let her know his much you love her and the marriage.
Then ask her for her password let her know that she is free to delete whatever message she doesn't want you to see before giving you the password.

My brother pls pls and pls spice up your romance game.. Take your sex game up and things will balance

sorry bra, you are an idiat, a full blown idiat probably suffering from Covid-19 second wave pandemic, pls report to any NCDC office near you for isolation, what a sisy, bullshyyt advice

iLegendd:
Sorry — wipe your tears.

I get upset when I see posts like this. Too many weak men getting married when they aren't ready or when they don't know much about the opposite gender.

Before a man should get married, he MUST know and master 3 things, else suffer.

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

Unfortunately, 90% of Nigerian men focus on

1. How to go to school and get at least 2.1
2. How to get a job
3. How to get married early to a bleached up slay queen
4. How to have lots of children

At the end of the day, when their wives start misbehaving, they run to Nairaland and start crying.

Let me tell you the truth: Your woman is sleeping with John and he is great in bed. Unfortunately, your woman hasn't even told him she is married.

My brother, a woman that has been f*cked can't be unf*cked.

Note: Women don't hide password from real men — they only do it to either weak men or men they don't really love, fallen out of love with (but still pretend to love).

No woman hides password from me. The moment I request for it, they submit instantly. A woman will respond to you and be submissive based on your level of leadership and control without being controlling.

My dear, there is no mature advice on Nairaland. Maturity is when you understand women before you get married and not when you get married and start looking for a way to understand your wife. I hate when men do this. It pisses me off.

I have the solution to your problem, but let me just watch you burn.

You are truly a legend like your username suggests.



All single guys should read your post, print it out and paste in their bed side for everyday meditation, it will save them from landing in a messy marriage.


Well done, you are doing fine bra

Women, kai, Nigerian women are gradually losing their sanity all because of civilisation and feminism.....they now want to cheat just because they believe their husbands are cheating......okay na, guys hope una de see so

Golan007:
Don't be stupid.

Since you were born have you ever witnessed the number of well known individuals who have died within such a short space of time?

Just hope it doesn't visit your family first before you get sense.

My brother COVID-19 is more than real, Nigerians are still thinking its a child's play, its not oh, hmmm

Hmmmm

Omihanifa:
This Alex reports and his low budget celebrities sef once a girl in Abuja NACK you well the next thing nah to carry her go photo Studio and lie that she's a beauty queen

And you are also found of giving award that doesn't have a meaning

hahahahahaha

SweetCunt97:
Shane on you. So you wanna suck his Diick to cash out on his money? Mouth dry finish you there... Begging ur fellow man without shame!

As if we don't know its men who do nasty shit for money! Rituals oo, occultism oo, kidnapping oo, armed Robbery oo, Scamming and internet fraud oo... You all should sit down!

my inner spirit still tells me you are a guy hiding under a female moniker, I pity the ladies that will fall victim of your underground job

Crownstar01:
Many girls are like that now. The funniest thing is when they are with their parents, they pretend to be good girls. Bittches everywhere.

even as their brother you will vouch for them that your sister is a holy ghost sister, all na scam, if them show you video of what men are doing to that your calm, quiet sister eh, u go commit suicide....now is the hardest time to have a single sister, niece or daughter honestly

I pity single guys, most will marry corporate runs girls


And for the guys saying I will marry only virgin, hehe....there are virgin runs girls oh, they don't do vaginal sex, they only do anal penetration and MouthAction, and preserve the vagina hymen to catch some mumu virgin hunters