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TheSonOfMark:
You're barely 20 and your recent threads have been about nuptials. Women...

not woman... say Nigerian women. Marriage is the greatest achievement of most.

nawa4naija:
ITS BEEN A LONG RIDE TELLING THIS STORY, I JOINED NAIRALAND NOT SO LONG AGO BUT SOME STORIES I SAW HERE MOTIVATED ME TO TELL THIS STORY, SECONDLY I DIDNT JUST TELL THIS STORY TO ENTERTAIN ONLY, I TOLD THIS STORY TO TEACH SO MANY THINGS, THINGS I HAVE EXPERIENCED PERSONALLY, THINGS LIKE, WOMEN WONT FALL FOR YOU JUST BECAUSE YOU CLAIMING THE GOOD GUY, EVEN IF THEY DO, THEY WILL ALSO CLAIM THE GOOD GIRL FOR YOU WHICH IS BAD, COS SO MANY SECRETS WILL BE KEPT.

TO THE REASON WHY I CHOSE THIS THEME; WHY WOMEN LOVE LIES, IF THE STORY DOESNT CONVINCE YOU,LET ME EXPLAIN A BIT, SHE, IRENE SAW,HEARD AND KNEW THAT I WAS A LIE BUT SHE STILL CHOSE ME OVER CHINEDU HER TRUTH BOUND LOVER,WHY? BECAUSE WOMEN LOVE LIES

IF YOU ARE NOT YET CONVINCED THEN YOU SHOULD ALSO WATCH OUT FOR A BRIEF STORY ABOUT WHY WOMEN LOVE LIES 2
THAT I WILL START ON 1ST MAYBE THAT ONE WILL CONVINCE YOU BECAUSE I LIVED A FAKE LIFE IN NSUKKA, NOW WENT TO ENUGU WHERE I BECAME NOTHING AND KEPT IT REAL, I HAD ENOUGH EXPERIENCE FROM THESE TWO LIFE SITUATIONS.
STAY GLUED, FOLLOW THE STORY AS FROM MONDAY
HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!

Let me add that it is not just about the lie but how you comport yourself. YOU SEEM adventurous as well and woman really love that. Confidence is the opium of most of them. A woman will fork a 10 year old kid who acts very matured and handles issues well than fork a 30 year old that act like a kid. It is just the way they are wired.

Like I said before, this will be a major shift from what I had been doing.

I was writing report in my unfinished office for a physical product when I got a text message that money I was expecting was sent to an abandoned account number of over 3 years. Had to run down to reactivate the shiiit.

Well, I am back now to continue from where I stopped.

After the report has bee completed, I would proceed to advertise my content in order to bring in sales. This is one of the serious business which I HOPE to bring in lot of sales this year.

I have also been noticing various business concepts that lands on facebook feeds

Well, the year is still very young and i hope that by February, I would have had better results.

Today, I am putting finishing touches to one website I am building to test an idea I came up with. I will let you all know how it went if it paid off or not.

We will be testing and testing various things this year. It won't be easy for sure but we can always get better results as we try harder.

okay, so I paid for my hosting today that will handle most of my websites which I will be setting up as time goes on.

2017 will be a year of testing my knowledge and expanding horizon. It is a year of serious business which means I should be able to set up as much as 5-6 streams of income in this year. 1 Stream per month.

Above all we shall explore, test and tweak as much as we proceed. I pray for more wisdom that will catapult me...

Be Hungry, Be Inspired...

javispj:
I feel u bro, girls don chop my money use me play ontop Mr nice guy level.but I kept the hole ish to my self.cuz telling friends is like snitching on ur self. Like, I gave her 50k n ur guys would be like, when I dey find 10k this guy only give me 5 or I paid for her cab fair every time she visits n ur guys would be like na so so bike this guy dey put us.n the final reply u get is sorry nobody send u message

my brother most of this girls are forking foolish...

ephi123:
Did you forget to add "Moku Modaran..."

lwkmd and then add in bracket (MMM)

purple3091:
ok sorry about that,can you please give examples of the heartless things she did?

lol. Not really in the mood but she did made me hate girls for a long time though. I hated every girl. Imagine one girl making you hate every other girl. I became arrogant, vile and impatient towards girls.

purple3091:
was what she did so bad?i wonder ooo

the girl was/is the most heartless girl i have ever met. She only act remorseful now because that lifestyle didn't pay her. If it did, I am sure will be like the idiot I quoted and saying she did well to have left me.

dabossman:
This is the 2nd time I'm posting this picture on Nairaland today.

If we all payback every wrong action with an equal and opposite reaction,no one will be spared. So the girl broke his heart, it hurt, but who is he, a saint? What goes around comes around. Karma's a b*tch. So let's say he ruins her marriage and happiness, she gets a gun and shoots him dead, or bathes him with acid, would it also be an equal and opposite reaction?

The image you shared is what I did. It wasn't easy cos demon in me wanted to act but for the sake of God's presence, I held back carrying my plans. Today she frustrated and better than she never thought.

ifemola:
thanks am 26 .I dress really nice, cook good food. I tried to take him out on his birthday but he refused. He's social with girls outside but with me its different. Truth is he really don't see anything good in me. When I was pregnant he complained I was too ugly, he never compliment but criticize.

why did he marry you?

. It's sad your husband can say such to your face. OMG

Efe16:
the ex is so childish. if u were good enough u would have been the groom. the past is in d past.. let her b.. after spoiling the wedding what did he gain?. in his small mind he has revenged.. no wonder they broke up he is a boy not a man

i knew someone, likely a lady, would take your stance.

Not saying what he did was right, but we have no idea what the lady did that could make him take such action.

Newton 3rd law of motion: To every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.

Some actions are proportional to a reaction.

I know for sure I have been driven to think nothing bu evil towards my ex, the only person I couldn't forgive for more than 2 years, except for God's grace that held me back.

Tell him not to take the money if he really loves this lady. He need to prove to the father that he IS a man and matured enough to take good care of his daughter.

Each time I ask a lady out she says she has someone.

I have this adorable damsel, she has every likable characteristics I want, the most important being easy going, understanding, open minded above all very pretty.

But she say she has someone.

Despite that, she agreed we move to whatsapp, she is willing to meet me on xmas day and also willing to let me know her parents house.

I have made my intentions know to her though, right from the start.

Just wondering if I can win her, If I should be patient some more.

Guys, any hope?

I want to venture into another terrain of business and I have decided to use this thread to record my progress as time goes on. Firstly, I will be putting finishing touches to my office space, I just need some tiling and painting done.

The idea is to buy products that are in high demand and also sell same to the market that needs them. This involves some salesmanship of some sorts.

First things first is to buy a domain name that is suitable for my targeted at my market, one that gives an idea into what I do or sell. After that, i will have to build a one page website on it to give details of what I do.

I think I will stop here for the day.

integritylady:
Hmmmmmm
your children go sabi dance

jeez :O

makavele:
Mr. J, remove that girl's picture
from your DP and change your gender back to "male"
Why are u acting all "love-struck"?

instead of asking of my health, na this one u carry put for head abi? Kontinuu.

vampire2020:
pathetic u say,wel i guess u dont knw mikky

I know him to be arrogant and rude but don't u think he should be contended with getting back his money? What is the sense of still dragging phone again when money has been refunded?

Opeyemi5:
see this man is not the only one into importation
But why do we Nigerians always hide from the truth
What right do you have to sell your client goods ??
Is that what you supporting and can you take it if they do it to u ??

a right thinking person should be glad he is getting his money back. I don't know what it is you want again.

Gladiator1:
Why do most/all ladies keep complaining about their female folks as being traitors? Even most of my female folks keep saying they prefer keeping male folks as friends

it I true. A guy was asking another girl out but that girl has a boyfriend and had caught this guy calling his girlfriend. So in order to avoid such scene, he asked another girl (whom had also been telling this guy to marry her or date her but in a joking tune) to call the other girl who has a boyfriend. Guess what happened? She called the girl and a quarrel ensued. This dude was completely confused. I mean, this two people don't even know each other, then why the quarrel?

Opeyemi5:
do you think at all
Because you do business with him and wants to keep doing business with this rude dude does not mean u should not say the truth wen u should(I should asked someone that blocked my 2 line to send prove) no Bluetooth he go use??
Please we don't need to encourage things that is not right (I'm fucking not bringing anyone business down as the matter of fact pple here still contact me to help them get sweet deal from this same guy's location)
He is the one bringing someone else business down(we had an issue and with all prove it shows I had noting to do with the moneygram issue,4 shippers can confirm I did asked them to send this dollar shit to mikky)
1.mikky said I should send my address I did
2.utility bill(even if it was bit difficult cos my house is empty due to the death of my brother, 'series of program' I was able to get the nepa bill,with the help of someone )
3.Identification card ,mikky said it was photoshop (fake)A lady posted here that there was a way to found out ,I did contact her and gave her the pix and she confirm it was real .
4.This are all wat mikky asked for before he can release my phone
Since then he kept mute and 2weeks after asked for my account details I sent it,waited for a week plus I got noting I came here again to post and he said he only ask for it and never said he was sending any money(PleAse who does that)
I got the money this morning(alert will prove that)...
Please the question is why will mikky refund me and sell my own phone for his own interest...(he can never I mean never get a new Samsung s7 edge for $290

Please thief na thief small or big
Kept my money for more than a month and I ended up with noting but a refund
What right did he have to sell my phone
Do you know how many weeks and night it took me to beg the seller (seller replies at night so I stay up due to time difference



If I wasn't clean this dude with refund till he gets to 9ja (why as he not release the money/items of others ?

he does not need to send it to you via phone but can post it here for all to see since it's already a public issue and u somehow pathetic in a way. Someone refunded your money and you are still asking for phone? Why not take your money and buy from somewhere else?

nerilove:
RIP. NYSC should reduce the rigorous exercises been given to Corp members. Many are not healthy or fit for all those exercises

mr man, that girl did something before arriving camp. Sadly, nobody knows.

All of you supporting the husband under the guise that he is taking risk do not know what risk taking is, IMO. And those who say he is into a business, you have no idea what a business is.

The husband is just a gambler... pure and simple. A business is one that involves buying something and selling it, be it product or service. The gambling house is the business here, because they make money, whether you lose or gain, not the husband as the case might be.

It is a pity and OP, there is nothing you can do about a chronic gambler. I don't know what a well paying job means to you though but someone who has a good paying job wouldn't engage in this kind of things when there are many options out there that he can start with.

Amelian:
Thanks

But honestly am very disappointed in her parents. Very very dissapointed. For example, who cooks indomie for a successful marri3d man working his azz off, and comes home at night to eat. Who does that? I told her it's wrong, she said because she is tired and didn't feel. Like cooking that evening. I said for real?
And her husband was Insulting her, saying what the difference between her and a slut. And how can he say such.
I said my dear, if am your husband and am taking care of you financially and u are not working. My food must be ready. Real food.. And not indomie! We almost quarreled that day she was saying it. I was so enraged. Cause I know, how hungry I feel when am. Done from work and back home in the evening. I don't joke with food and I make sure I Take my time to cook, no. Matter how tired I am at work and I eat well. Cause I work hard. That's me a lady o
And assuming am a man now married to a woman, she is not working yet and she's saying she is tired ,because she went to help her mum in her shop . That's why she prepared Indomie.
Honestly I just held my anger and told her if u like listen, if u like don't listen.
She said what do I know about marriage. Am still single. I know. Nothing.. I said OK. No wahala. Do it as u like!
And the husband too, should allow her work than the business thing. So her focus now, is the Dubai thing. She's at home, and waiting for money to. Come, so she can travel.

You can't teach an old man to learn how to use his left hand. The damage has been done and the husband has to manage her like that. I can not get married to a woman who isn't at least doing something for herself before I came into her life.

He met her immediately after NYSC right and they got married ASAP? That is a big mistake he made there because she didn't even strive for anything before she got married. She thinks the husband is the problem but SHE IS! It is laxity that killed her first business, which will kill the current one if same attitude isn't nipped in the bud. The husband was probably moved by beauty...SMH.

This is what happens when parents raise their kids, giving them everything on a platter of gold, making it seem like life is bed of roses. In all that has happened, the parents couldn't even blame their daughter for being a lazy asss but edge her on to end her marriage. They forgot that they will pass on and it will be their daughter against the world and her wickedness will be served to their daughter.

The parent of this girl have not done a good job in raising her at all. Beauty without brain, lazy? God forbid

Amelian:
Have put her through one of my biz, her husband even came to meet me when he wanted to invest in the biz for her, for confirmation of what am doing and how well am doing mine. He was impressed and he asked how much capital will he need for her start. I told him 3M,. For everything. Office space and the rest. He said OK.
Even my friend was catching up slowly but surely.. So at end of training her. He then opened her own biz.
But one thing she lacks is vibrancy when talking to clients. She's too laid back and too relaxed if clients are making enquiries and asking her questions . Clients need to be convinced about what u have before they can put their money down for u.
If u can't convince them, they ain't coming back.
So her too laid back attitude and slow speech, I feel makes clients for the first time loose credibility about her skills. And thereby not coming back again.
She needs a PA to speak about her biz when customers comes but because of the money, the husband has invested so far.
He's not willingly to employ PA for her.. He feels, she's a graduate and should be able to talk to clients.
If I can do it conveniently , then why can't she.

So that's one flaw she has with the biz. And she's slow to think.
Have already told the husband, she should work in the ministry and federal govt ministry but he doesn't want his wife to work for anyone. He wants her to do biz, but she does not have brains for biz


Why I say it's a blessing? It's a blessing for the husband ,not her.
If the husband have money early this year, she would have travelled and she won't come. Back to him. That's why I said its a blessing for the husband.

I believe she falls into the beauty without brain category, no offence. She does not know what she has as a husband until it is gone. She should be striving but from the look of things, she isn't an entrepreneur at heart when compared to your capacity. With the way you speak, it is very evident that you have the entrepreneural zest in you, which is the hallmark of a thriving business entity.

I feel what the husband should do is try and find out what she loves and have a passion for instead shoving anything down her throat. I love the man for being more proactive.

The sad thing is that her foundation is quite faulty, which is the reason for the way she thinks. Imagine her parents supporting that she should leave her husband and go her way? What kind of parents are they? That is very sad and barbaric to say the least. I expected the father to have acted in a more prudent manner, being the man in the circle. Would he be happy if he heard such was the plan of his wife?

Yeah, you are married, You wanna get married, You ARE gonna get married; why is the wedding ring placed on the 4th finger?

Hadez:
You are very backward with your thinking ability. I said I have never tried it before and now that I did I felt through real love he had for me. I am very sure even you who is running her mouth will be confused when it comes to matters of the heart (except you are a girl with peanut brain)
I also said I want to because we have been through a lot together despite the fact we haven't seen. Maybe you will understand what I am saying when you find true love and not think all guys are like the ones who have been breaking your heart. Aunty donnybee e lo opolo yin ma

There is nothing wrong in meeting and dating someone online. I know a certain lady who met her husband here and they just got married on the 12th. There is also another one currently brewing right now.

You only have to be careful as you do not know who is who. However, considering you have been together since last year, you should at least grant him the honour of seeing you. He deserves that, especially if he has sent you money . It is a good sign if he has done that too. Are you guys in same location? if yes, meet him but do not sleep with him. Your emotions might fail you though.

Above all, get to meet him. Haba, since last year and you still dey dodge the bobo.

Turakidanjuma:
Very true my Brother. He must be a muslim, they are the only ones that would kill you and still laugh at you.






That is for us to do our homework on. Already people have started jostling for it and we are yet to get any message from the Christian Community in the south

Not that he must be muslim, he IS a muslim. A hardcore APC/Buhari supporter. That means you do not know him. You referring to a man based outside Nigeria airing is poignant views from whatever forking country he is based.

DropShot:
How does that justify the need for this thread on who will win in 2019?
And how does this thread prevent further killing of your people?
You sef reason the matter na. Two unrelated issues.

Including laughing emoji in response to a post where it is stated that people are being killed without media announcement shows how heartless you are because you are not affected. I have come to realise that most of your disposition stem from the mere fact that you are NOT affected, otherwise, your comments wouldn't laced the way they appear. Just remember, what goes around comes around. It could be your blood brother or your child one day.

datola:
The woman has a lot of roles to play in situation like this. Agreeing to 'downgrade' not minding what people would say, respecting the husband more than before, etc.

No condition is permanent.


Sounds like a (fiction) story telling sha.

that is what it is.