Give400: My gf is going for service beginning of next year. I'm planning of getting her pregnant so that she can still be mine. Yes I have planned to make her my wife and I was the one that disvirgined her. I just want to be sure if I am not rushing thinhs. At the same time I don't want her to go to the camp and get exposed and later change. What should I do guys?
PS: I never told her this. Because if I tell her she will probably decline and tell me to wait till she gets back. I just want everything to happen like it's unexpected. We have been doing contraceptives and she is a woman they can change in a second
NYSC has been ending relationships since 1967. Know these and know peace.
Just comot ur mind. You can't keep a lady who doesn't want to be kept. Even if she is 6months pregnant.
Blessedmercy8: Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination. She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.
One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..
One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.
I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.
Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.
Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.
What you guys think?
Modified.
Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.
Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?
Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?
This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!
Research on Khajuraho Temples, Madhya Pradesh in India. Sex styles have been existing since 900AD . Go and verify.
One thing I don't like about religion is that it makes one closes his mind to further thinking. Every thing is a sin.
The hypocrisy in the church is too much. The same church are against abortion but yet would suspend and ridicule anyone who gets pregnant outside wedlock.
For the record, OP. Even your pastor like doggy die.
letsfarmnigeria: This is the harvest of 10 months catfish and a break down of things used , the result of this harvest is amazing watch how it went down no stories Harvest of 10 months Hybrid catfish Summary HYBRID Catfish 10 months old Stocked at Juvenile age Used foreign floating feed for 2 months Used floating local for 8 months
Stocked 5000 Used total of 1650 bags of feed Lowest weight 2.2kg Highest weight so far 4.8kg Projection exceeded Verdict : very successful No drugs used No additive
Catfish farming no be child's play. I ventured on that , with 3 ponds ( 1 tarpaulin and 2 Concrete ponds).
That shit was after my life.
You have no guarantee that all juveniles would turn out great. Some will shoot more than others. At the end of the day when you try to sell... those wicked wicked women buyers would tell you 800naira per kg and you should not feed your fish the morning they come to buy
officialwdhtv: Presidential candiate of the ruling APC Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu says he cant even mention Peter Obi's name as it is a disgrace to him.
In his words;
"He thinks na statictics we go chop...He lies with arithmetic that even no Indian can solve it"
officialwdhtv: Presidential candiate of the ruling APC Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu says he cant even mention Peter Obi's name as it is a disgrace to him.
In his words;
"He thinks na statictics we go chop...He lies with arithmetic that even no Indian can solve it"
Hundredegrees: She's my girlfriend of going to 3 years now. In the beginning we were very happy and talk almost every night for hours. We go out, spend quality time together and she visits me as well so we got really used to one another. It happened that i met another girl and this other girl is down to earth in behavior. Apologizes for even the simplest things and will go out of her way to get things done for me. She's about a year younger than my girlfriend as well and she's one of the most respectful girl I've ever encountered in my life plus the fact that she's a virgin (i confirmed myself). This girl (B) visited me sometime last year and one thing lead to another and we had a romantic moment. So it was one of our subject of discussion on WhatsApp when we were not seeing each other and my girlfriend was noticing this then she started finding ways to access my phone which she later did this year and she got to know everything. Though, whenever she asks what's between me and this girl (B), i usually say that she's just a friend. So it was very disappointing when she found out that we were more than that. She told me to choose between her and this girl and I eventually chose her after thinking about it for days. But ever since then, she has been acting really cold. She would wait till i message her before she replies vaguely. I've asked her on several occasions what's wrong and she would say everything is fine. But she kept on posting lots of things that makes me want to quit this relationship because I'm already fed up.
PS: there are lots of things she does that i really hate and this girl B just seem to tick all the boxes but this my girlfriend has been with me and we've both made some shitty decisions together, so I'm finding it very difficult just leaving her cos it feels like a betrayal. But with these messages, I'm starting to feel like break up is inevitable. Kindly advise me please
Your girlfriend is acting up because she feels betrayed. Trust me, if you were in her shoes you go act more than that.
For you to be with a Nigerian lady for 3yrs really means you can actually live with her. You mentioned that your GF has some attitudes that you don't like... Trust me, you GF still noticed some of your bad attitudes yet still chose to stay with you.
Forget the new fantasy in your head with that Girl B. Trust me, you really don't know people till you get in their skin.
Bro, just ignore her drama and post for now. Show her you are sorry. She still loves you. She is just hurt. With time she will come around.
Foolish kids think mocking their elders make them woke
Last last, Morr0n like Rinu and Odeyan would see they just played themselves
Politics isn't white or black, and no saints, it's what favours your intrest you go for
If you think a 62 year old supreme court Governor impeached twiced in 8years, who used state funds for his own private investment, 2.2 Philosophy graduate of Nsuka, same man culpable in Panama papers tax Haven corruption published worldwide and aired on CNN, Culpable in Azuka SARS murder of Massob, or the number one Importer of junks like alcohol and tomato, paying graduate 22k in his mall means well for you then you are foolish
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Obi is giving this one sleepless nights.
Sorry oh! After the Election and they do announce Obi, you fit die oo!
lhordspy: Country that take accountability seriously.
Yet in Nigeria here, a certain man, Peter Pandora was caught with 250m naira cash in his car. When he was trying to sneak it into lagos state in 2009.
This same man was involved in a secret oversea business. These are businesses he clandestinely set up and operated overseas, including in notorious tax and secrecy havens in ways that breached Nigerian laws. Which was blown open by the Pandora findings.
This same man diverted billions of anambra state money into his daughter oversee account, invested the few funds left and ran all of it into historical loss. Where the present governor of Anambra state had to scream so loud for the world to know..
This same man declared openly that he lives, wine and dine with Ipob.
And many more....
Yet, this same man is a presidential candidate in Nigeria here contesting for the sit of Power. Being champion and cheerlead by aggressive, insulting, disrespectful bullies who thinks he is the best thing after chocolate.
Robert greene states that: People that controls people perceptions of reality, control them
That is why: You need to judge people by their actions and maneuvers, not by fake stories or unproven figure they quote.
Resist people who sell stories of Nigeria's failure to you just to score cheap political point.
E good as you take detailed obi own.. abeg you fit write about ur agbado Master too? The known Chicago bobo...
Osense10: Any Man Who Doesn’t Own House, Car Before Marriage Doesn’t Have A Future How true is this??
Okpetu don drop quote.
You can still own all these and still nor have a future 20yrs time. All you mentioned wouldn't appreciate for you in the future. The car you bought 5yrs back is not even worth half the price today. Exceptions to investments on lands.
prophetwis: I still maintain that the problem is the Nigerian structure, if we can do away with the present structure and the politicians behind it,the country will be great again.
No be only structure. We "Nigerians" are the problem. An average Nigerian is wicked. See the way people who are importing hike prices of everything in the name of dollar rate.
Mammie330: I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.
Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies.
At some point we had a long distance relationship but Communication was smooth.
The first time he came to visit , I discovered he had been chatting with one girl, having flirty conversations and all. He said he was just catching cruise and apologized for that. I forgave him.
Another time I discovered he doesn't know how to set boundaries with ladies. I complained about all that and he promised to change. This is someone that comes to visit me at any given opportunity. Then recently I found out he had been chatting with one girl on Tiktok. The girl already started calling him baby and I saw where he told the girl he likes her already. As usual he said it’s not serious, that he hasn’t seen the girl and he didn’t mean that. The girl chatted him up and he flowed because he was bored. Truth Is I’m hurt and ashamed. Where’s the self respect? Someone you don’t know from anywhere. He eventually blocked the girl but I don’t even trust him anymore. When we were together, he wasn’t anything like that and I’m wondering what went wrong.
He keeps talking about how much he loves me and how he wouldn’t have been married to anyone else if he didn’t get married to me but at this point I’m not even moved again.
I’ve asked him countless times why he is flirting with ladies online. He said nothing.
He said he hasn’t touched any lady apart from me. I’m actually tired of asking, I want to know what I can do to get the pain away.
I’ll be alone for a while.
Should I stop talking to him? Should I report him to my mum? Should I play along and just develop a coping mechanism? What coping mechanism can i develop? Should I keep complaining? I didn’t allow him touch me before he travelled and he was pained. I really just want my man, I don’t like how he’s not making me trust him anymore. I don’t go after other peoples’ men why should mine be like this? Can he possibly change?
Mammie330: I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.
Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies.
At some point we had a long distance relationship but Communication was smooth.
The first time he came to visit , I discovered he had been chatting with one girl, having flirty conversations and all. He said he was just catching cruise and apologized for that. I forgave him.
Another time I discovered he doesn't know how to set boundaries with ladies. I complained about all that and he promised to change. This is someone that comes to visit me at any given opportunity. Then recently I found out he had been chatting with one girl on Tiktok. The girl already started calling him baby and I saw where he told the girl he likes her already. As usual he said it’s not serious, that he hasn’t seen the girl and he didn’t mean that. The girl chatted him up and he flowed because he was bored. Truth Is I’m hurt and ashamed. Where’s the self respect? Someone you don’t know from anywhere. He eventually blocked the girl but I don’t even trust him anymore. When we were together, he wasn’t anything like that and I’m wondering what went wrong.
He keeps talking about how much he loves me and how he wouldn’t have been married to anyone else if he didn’t get married to me but at this point I’m not even moved again.
I’ve asked him countless times why he is flirting with ladies online. He said nothing.
He said he hasn’t touched any lady apart from me. I’m actually tired of asking, I want to know what I can do to get the pain away.
I’ll be alone for a while.
Should I stop talking to him? Should I report him to my mum? Should I play along and just develop a coping mechanism? What coping mechanism can i develop? Should I keep complaining? I didn’t allow him touch me before he travelled and he was pained. I really just want my man, I don’t like how he’s not making me trust him anymore. I don’t go after other peoples’ men why should mine be like this? Can he possibly change?
I am warming up too. Who knows I might find favor in the sight of the king. It's my duty to grace his bed graciously and make the king feel as a king he is.
rastafaricrusad: I specifically open this account for this story so that no one will trace it to me..
I was newly posted to a certain city in the South South Nigeria, I was given a good 2 bedroom apartment, I hurriedly furnish the house bought everything necessary in the house in order to stop spending in a hotel... After few weeks I started feeling lonely as I don't have any girlfriend around..
One thing I promised myself is never to do anything with a married woman as I see the level at which ladies throw themselves around me some married but they don't care.
I decided to download one of these online hookup apps I got paired with a pretty girl we started chatting she told me that she sells beddings... We immediately agreed to meet up in my house as she will bring some for me, but before she came I told her as a joke that her boobs and backside are tempting when she comes we'll sample them and see how interesting and fun they will be as a guy man now one has to get a way out... But I specifically asked her hope she's not married she said she's not.
Politics › Re: Fela Kuti's Family Reacts As APC Uses Fela's Songs For Their Campaign by IamtheTruth1(m): 6:41am On Nov 29, 2022
