Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(op): 11:36am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Baba you are already sounding frustrated untop matter wey no concern you. Sorry oo. PataAlhaja: Sharrap dia!
Even Dangote still dey find money. Money get level. How much you get sef?
The man was not there when you guys needed him the most. He neglected you guys with reckless abandon without looking back. If I were you, I for don disown the man tey tey, but you mumuishly apologized to him while he seemed not to give a fucck about your return to him. What exactly did you apologize for sef?
Guy, you no get sense. I pray make the man neglect you for him will just like he neglected you your whole childhood life. Mumu.  |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(op): 11:21am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Nigga use your head. I didnt run to him when I was suffering, why would your infitessimally loaded head think I need his money now that I am financially dependent? Once again, use your head PataAlhaja: The pussy-ass coward wants to be included in his rich "father's" will. Nothing else.
He'd have long forgotten he had a father if the man had lost all his wealth and ended up as a bus driver.
Indeed, money rules the world. |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(op): 10:57am On Dec 13, 2019 |
I have had a face off with him quite a number times and I feel guilty. Ladycewhy: that is the part i am yet to get,like how do you apologize for being abandoned ,lol .
IceColdVeins can you tell us why you are apologizing? Maybe if we know the reason you are sorry for hurting your dad we too can learn |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(op): 10:20am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Bro I just want peace of mind. I wasnt there when I needed him most, So how could he be there when I need him nomore? iammiracle1: Lol, OP I know you are only seeking for a part in your fathers wealth, its OK to want a share in his inheritance, because why work hard and hustle when you can get some quick cheese BUT never ever ever you bad mouth your mum OR allow her hear that all of a sudden because of lust for your fathers money you now see her as a villain, you may think that upon all her ranting your fathers still did well but I bet you if you break your mums heart even the heavens would curse you and that inheritance you won't see, personal success nko no way, make up with your dad and let go of the hurt, NEVER try to justify his actions and throw your mum under the bus, any man that can forget his kids despite whatever the mother has done has terrible evil diabolical issues, it may take more years but your dads true color would still show and the truth would be revealed.
Heaven is watching you, forgive your dad, cherish your mum, don't be unfortunate. |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(op): 10:18am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Never. I learnt a lot of lessons and its working for me. I cherish every loyal woman Jewessgratitude: Hope you too are not like that. Just asking o. I mean no sacarsm. |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(op): 10:17am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Dont be quick to judge. I am the only one at loggerheads with my dad, my other siblings are not. And I neevr demonised my mom, I love her and I have showered my care on her. I'm just trying to make peace within myself and make the family balanced. MY mom and dad are still together and happier than before. But the wounds dont ever heal. dominique: Deadbeat dads will be dancing with joy on seeing this thread. Now they can continue being irresponsible because the kids they never cared for will grow up one day and reward them with gifts.
Your dad abandoned your mum to singlehandedly raise you but somehow it's your mum's fault and his irresponsible act is justified. If I were your mum, I'll curse you and disown you for life. The moment you go and build a relationship with a man that never cared about your existence while you were growing, you become dead to me. |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(op): 8:24pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Dont mind him, you need to see how fast he types, spends time on whatsapp and facebook more than an average adolescent Romanoff: Some parents will provoke their kids and will still expect an apology from them.
Meanwhile, your dad types like a teenager. Lol. See abbreviations. |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(op): 8:22pm On Dec 12, 2019*. Modified: 10:59am On Dec 13, 2019 |
MODIFIED Dont be quick to judge. I am the only one at loggerheads with my dad, my other siblings are not. And I never demonised my mom, I love her and I have showered my care on her. I'm just trying to make peace within myself and make the family balanced. MY mom and dad are still together. But the wounds dont ever heal. Not that bro. I will always be on the side of every loyal woman and will treat them with love as well. But I have now come to terms with the fact that no one is perfect, especially when it comes to marriage. During my childhood, I never saw things from the perspective OF my dad, we only kept on listening to mom's wailings(she suffered truthfully) but we never get to hear his own side of the story cos a man never shows emotions. My reconcilation with dad is not a pat on his head for his wrongdoings but a move to make peace within myself. You'll understand when you have a disagreement with your wife and your own children start taking sides. I'm just trying to retrace my steps and lay a good foundation for my unborn children. BRATISLAVA: When will he apologize to your mum? Or have you forgotten that part? You've forgotten why you didn't care about him? Another bro code moment. Maybe you've found yourself maltreating women, too, so now it's okay. |
Family › Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(op): 6:45pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
"How could we not talk about family, when family's all that we got?"  Charlie Otto Puth (2015) CC: KanuSE thanks bro This write up was inspired by a random thread https://www.nairaland.com/5396187/children-deadbeat-fathers-time-think/4#82028618 that was created about a couple of months ago. Its was based on the effects of parents exhibiting apathetic attitudes towards their wards. Lugubriously, I was a victim of that on the father's part. I had lots of rifts with my dad owing to constant loggerheads and maltreatments that I could percieve my mother received from him(I was only acting on my mother's emotions). I suffered a lot due to paternal negligence........If I start penning down my chronicles, it would be easier stopping a herd of stampeding wildebeestes on the Serengeti than making me stop typing. Without further Ado, I saw the thread and I decided to make my own opinions known as attached below, then a guy quoted me and that changed everything. I started seeing things in the other perspective and I decided to initiate a communication with my dad that I had gone incommunicado on for over six years (200 level in the unversity). Good heavens, it felt like dreams came through when he replied(photos attached). Now I'd be going home this December for the christmas break, I'm thinking of buying him a very fine wine and an exquisite wristwatch, which his colleagues would ask about it and he would reply ''My son got it''. Finally, I can say I had gone through thick-thin of life and still moving. I'm an independent 26 years old bloke now and I was able to get here with the help of the very limited finances from my mother, while my father kept buying cars and building houses. I'd implore fellow nairalanders with similar backgrounds with mine to take a clue from this thread and let the old things pass away. Forgive your parents and move on. "Children begin by loving their parents, as they grow older they judge them, sometimes they forgive them" Oscar Wilde Regards.
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Romance › Re: The Bro_code. Share Those You Know by IceColdVeins(m): 11:41am On Dec 11, 2019 |
The only code I know is......'Aint no nigga maintain eye contact with another at the verge of taking a bite on a banana' DAT shit is the gayest thing I ever known. I'm homophobic to the letter
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Minjim: What did we do to these SAs? Same way you'll meet them during online game, once they see you're Nigerian, they become desperate to win, tackling dangerously and playing dirty. I'm always like... "Xenophobic dude, this's just a game. We don't get paid. Chill brother"
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Very helpful |
Nairaland General › Re: He Called After 5 Years In The US (read) by IceColdVeins(m): 1:41pm On Dec 06, 2019*. Modified: 2:33pm On Dec 06, 2019 |
Please can you stop paying all these lazy people's bills.....they are not needy, plainly you are just been scammed while thinking they are smart You can see one of your beneficiaries up there claiming to have scored 1218 in SAT, SAT scores can only end with a zero(in mulitples of 10), meaning he/she never ever knew what the SAT exam was let alone registered for it. Now he/she is here again to cop fake pleas for more funds from other people. Lets abruptly stop encouraging these people I beg of you. LagosismyHome: amen  |
Programming › Re: Does Anyone Have This Book? by IceColdVeins(m): 12:47pm On Dec 06, 2019 |
mike meyers books are not deep |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 7:27pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
doctore212: Olosho invasion.
I am still terrified any time I watch the movie
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TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 4:55pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 4:50pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
exactly it later became something you want to see only when you need to throw up openmine: No... Just 1 and 2,the rest just went south! |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 4:49pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
seen both already In those days of DVD collections blacq2009: Wrong Turn. SAW |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 4:47pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
Truth or dare is nice too but not just my kind of horror olawumi171: Truth or dare, child play |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 4:35pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
gerrout joor Seunpaul01: Igbo irunmole
Yemoja
Olongbo iya ijebu
Eran aye
Eye ayekoto
Koto aye
Koto orun
Taye olounje iboji
Posi agbako
A field guide to evil
Eeye igunugun
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TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 4:33pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
Already seen all the saw and scream series bro. Basitelo1: 1.Saw 2.Scream |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 4:25pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
The nun ain't really scary, its just the story binding it that interests me Insidious 1 has an above average rating while 2 and 3 are not better off papa ajasco purpleprincess: Duh, Insidious did not scare me one bit. I am still searching for a horror movie that can scare me. I watched THE NUN in 3D and i did not flinch throughout the movie. |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 4:22pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
madridsta007: The Wailing (Korean Horror Movie..... Watch this and you'll leave Hollywood Horrors. Koreans are at another level) Hereditary Insidious 1 (2 and 3 are rubbish) Babbadock Annabel. Saw (1, 2, 3). Dont watch if you cant stand the sight of blood. The Autopsy of Jane Doe Rubbish is an understatement bro! Gonna try the Koreans though. Thanks |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 3:59pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
They'll never know bro cosmos1440: Fellow Bibliophiles, Is it not strange that none of Stephen King's novel made into movies are listed here ? Just soliloquising . . . |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 3:56pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
Isawuru? i can envisage how your childhood could have gone....All those sunday christian movies that sent shivers down our spines then goldony: Chikaya in perilous times
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TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 3:54pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
I heard about it in my childhood but never saw it. I think I'll check it out MEJOISLAND: End of the wicked by Sister Helen Ukpabio Wikipedia End Of The Wicked is a Nigerian horror movie that tells story of how the forces darkness destroy good people and how they are being saved by the power of the Almighty God.[1]
End Of The Wicked Directed by Teco Benson Produced by Helen Ukpabio Release date 1999 Country Nigeria Language English Plot summary
. Cast Edit Charles Okafor Hilda Dokubo Alex Usifo Omiagbo Patience Oseni Larry Okon Mary Ushie Helen Ukpabio Elizabeth Akpabio Iniobong Ukpabio Kanu Unoaba Abasiofon Ramsey Nouah Mfonido Ukpabio Reception The movie was very controversial in Nigeria and abroad. |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 3:52pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
most of the movies in your list are not even horrific durubennie: Back then we had better horror movies like van Hellsing ,underworld(not 2017),saw 1-4, hostel,species,evil dead,human centipede,Chucky 1-3 Nowadays they are just feeding us with trash horror movies, asides conjuring,nun and leatherface others are thrash.. I watched one yesterday called escape room. directors are out of ideas men. |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 3:23pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
Golden classics! nice one bro cosmos1440: No horror movie beats [b]The Exorcist 1 & 2 and The Omen 1 & 2 [/b] "Drag me to hell" is crap, I am surprised to see folks mentioning it here . |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 3:22pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
wow. Thumbs up bro WriterX: Y SISTER USED TO SCARE ME AS A KID WITH HORROR NO WONDER I GREW UP ADDICTED TO THAT GENRE OF MOVIE
1. EVIL DEAD
2. THE THING
3. INSIDIOUS TRIOLOGY
4. BLAIR WITCH
5. DRAG ME TO HELL
6. PARANORMAL ACTIVITY SERIES
7. FINAL DESTINATION SERIES (NOT HORROR JUST AMUSING)
8. SAW SERIES
9. IT 1-2
10. THE CATACOMBS
11. WRONG TURN
12.ANNABELLE
13.SCREAM
14. CHUCKY SERIES
15. GET OUT
16. US
17. THE POLTERGEIST
i have alot more lol someone can tag me for me |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 3:12pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
acknowledged sir Pedrotina11: Mirror.....am.giving u correct horror movies... |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by IceColdVeins(op): 3:11pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
Seen all the SAW 1-7series Kenneth10110: Please go and watch Saw then come back and update your list |