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[color=#1980BC] So this fine girl just waste like that...[/color]

[color=#1980BC] What's the difference btw a soldier with an AK and a Niger delta militant or Boko Haram member or even an ESN operative with an AK 47?....In a symetrical armed struggle with groups fighting for a cause, I don't believe any soldier would unnecessarily want to involve himself or herself with that, is not as if in the likelihood of being killed the Government would take care of your family? Is it?..[/color]

booking

[color=#1980BC]I'm gonna level with you..The key ingredient we've all been lacking as men is not money or looks but confidence.. Confidence of the olden days when men was men, men like Fela..Gani Fawhenimi...MKO Abiola, OJukwu, Obasanjo, Winston Churchill, Frank Roosevelt, Joseph Stalin, those Japanese Generals that planned Pearl Harbour even those 300 Spartans..f**k..What is lacking in our days today is balls..And females whether they know or don't are in dire need of these balls (pun intended) but the mainstream narrative have turned y'all into spineless f**ks...What I need you and all other folks out there is to go back to basics, go read about Wars from the Bronze age to this age or you can watch youtubes about them....What was at stake...What it took to organize them...What it took to fight in them and die in them...The Winners....The losers...And see how you can apply all of that into your psyche or day to day living in addition to the knowledge of TRP.[/color]

[color=#1980BC]That's where TRP came in handy...It gave me assurance or some might call it confidence..I could strut my stuff wherever I want.. Whenever I want...With whoever I want.. I became basically a woman with all her red pilled mindset in a man's body...I stopped being an idealist but a realist...I stalked my preys with my charms and pounced when least expected...Of course..My sex game was tight (when you've had a million years practicing with xhamster and sh*t)...My sex game was so tight that it became my endgame, that is, after the first sex session I didn't have to work too hard to get the next one and so on and so forth in decreasing order...It came to that point I was now giving the sexual favors to different women sometimes at different time of the day, I had transmutted from Allan to Charlie from the show Two and a half men and like "a woman" in a man's body, I had to be calculative so all that favors had to count for something, I need a new wardrobe, I got it...I need a leg up in my business grind, I got it...I need peace of mind and no nagging, I got it...I need to spend your money and not my money, I got it...We are too close for comfort, I need a break, I got it... All of these from different women[/color]

[color=#1980BC]The depressions,panic attacks, anxieties,alcoholism and drug abuse were all dysfunctions of the TRP sized hole in my psyche...So I got my TRP grove on by reading voraciously and watching youtubes Heck even started observing my immediate environment and the dynamics at play in our society in general thus I knew where I could fix myself and thrive. First I had to love myself as a Man...I had to give myself mad props as a Man especially when I think about all the crazy stuffs I have been through. Then the most curious thing started happening to me, I started gaining weight,my colour came out...I felt good...I looked good...You know you're good looking when people give you second looks or when folks think you're way younger than you really was.Not until I correct them then they say "oh, you really have nice genes" or the most absurd "Oh you really have good blood".. good blood?..What the f**k?!..But it's one thing to be good looking and sh*t, there's another to be sexually desirable and alpha... [/color]

[color=#1980BC]So there I was checking out nairaland romance- a blue pilled universe back then- then I came across this thread that didn't even read past 2 pages(back then in romance section, any thread that doesn't extend past 5 pages is a dead thread) but the name Ubunja just pickled my curiosity, kinda reminds me of this linux program I used to f**k with back in the day , Ubuntu...Then I clicked that thread and got blown away...It turned out this nigger had threads from 2017 that didn't go anywhere but was still posting nevertheless up till 2019 when I came across his sh**t. I had to gobble up all his content, mehn, even called my junior bro, a bank executive in Marina to do same...all my Bros...Those who are blue pilled prime targets for female manipulations, some caught the message, others unfortunately didn't..After which I worked on myself via TRP then I realized this was the missing puzzle...[/color]

real4real2021:
I mean, some of the practical steps and activities that help you in growing from a Sim.p, blue pill, nice guy whatever to a more confident Alpha... You are.

[color=#1980BC] Oh yeah..Ok..Sorry about that...So there I was minding my own business trying to get my sh**t together after coming from series of personal losses, wrong life decisions and embugerances all caused by being a stupid f**king simp. Life then was this unending cycle off loss after loss like you was playing this game that you're never gonna win as a simp back then, even if you're gonna blow or you eventually blow and had lots of money via a good government job,business or traveling out. There's this sickening and depressing feeling that you're still gonna f**k it all up cuz you have no f**king clue on what the f**k because you're that blue pilled that you even given the run around by a teenager..... I got very depressed mehn.. I got diagnosed with MDD...F**k...And a million anxiety disorders, I can't even remember now..I give my psychologist some props but she basically had no clue....[/color]

real4real2021:
Am glad I come across this, wish I did earlier but at least now is better than later.

Your story encourages me too keep on going,
thanks for your response.
I will like to know some of the practical steps you took when you start

[color=#1980BC] Started what?...[/color]

futurevizi:
How do you know your tribe?

[color=#1980BC] How do you know signs of rainfall? Sunrise? Sunset? It's all about perception and with that comes confidence or in my case sheer audacity....When you have this strong frame of " I know something but you don't know" aura that gives you the quiet assurance or confidence to be easy going or suave maybe funny or quite friendly or have a persuasive nature to the opposite sex, some folks call it "sweet mouth"...So therefore your tribe are those who cave in to your "sweet mouth" or your charms or whatever the f**k.
Pls Note; The fact that they might fall under your spell doesn't mean you might get pussy , there's still a lot of work to be done.. [/color]

[color=#1980BC]I stopped judging them but harnessed their "chi" to my advantage...I stopped pining after those I couldn't harness or stopped stressing myself on "The One" , because there's a lot of fishes in the Ocean....Due to my status and stand in life I had my own tribe, that is, those women that are liable to fall for you and fortunately for me Red pill gave me the clues on how to "chop and clean mouth" dodging and avoiding those wiles these women would put up...and so much more..But i envy you, to think of where I would be by now if was redpilled at age 20 just blows my mind...I could be a big time celebrity Heck even the President of United States or I could just be a normal guy but the possibilities is mind numbing.[/color]

[color=#1980BC]Then I became sexually active, I was sexually active because ,First off, I have been starved for so long then via red pill I understood the female psyche up to all level that I could seduce a woman especially the vulnerable ones, there was this one that was not so vulnerable than I thought,So I had to go Nuclear on the b**ch by going naked in her house, the sheer audacity and confidence to pull this stunt all harnessed from understanding Red pill from my part won her over....[/color]

[color=#1980BC]....Even though I had looks ,I wasn't blessed with the height that would trip them and that was besides the fact that I was so blue pilled that it was horribly lost on me even when opportunities arise( you can't imagine how clueless I had been when sexual propositioned by girls). Fortunately, I had distractions like hobbies and trying to be a geek especially in electronics and computer stuffs...then there was school...after which there was Nysc, livelihood and finally business...In between I was hopelessly Incel until a million years later after coming across redpill[/color]

real4real2021:
Hello
First I'll like to appreciate all those making effort to help fellow men and brothers out of the darkness into light on this thread
Secondly this might be a bit lengthy and that's because I really want get out of this 'simpish lifestyle' so I just want to pour everything out.

I'm posting this with the hope of getting support and guide from my seniors here
Am reading this thread from the beginning hopefully I will turn fully RED before I get to this page.

So growing up I was a typical 'nice guy' trying hard to appear just 'right', pleasing people and avoiding disagreement like plague.
Extremely shy at some point Infact small things like bargaining for a price is a problem even when I know am being cheated on. (Damn)

My social anxiety is such that I can't even ask question in class, can't ask for money i lend  someone(my own money oo lol),
step on my foot and I might thank you and apologies for putting my leg there LMAO

And that has in turn, limit my progress in almost everything I do, missing opportunities like damn

And when it comes to girls and relationship stuff,
Yeah you are right, it sucks too.
Never had a real girlfriend, not even close female friends like that. I mean how could I with my stupid mindset
I still couldn't maintain serious conversation and relationship with them ladies...

honestly my social life just sucks am tired.

I've tried several times to build my confidence an get out there an do my thing
Have recently gone through books. Like. The Superior man, No more Mr nice guy(still reading) etc
And yes that give me a better understanding
But I haven't seen much improvement in action

So I know some of you might have being there too,
I will be glad to get tips, advice, guide on how to get out of this am just tired.
A mentor I can relate with will be cool too.
You can ask me more about me if that will help.
Just anything to improve my f*cked up lifestyle


I am 20, in my 3rd year in the uni(at home now sha)

Please help me tag, those OGs here dem ubunja harddon etc

[color=#1980BC] Yeah....Sorry bro, At your age and as a male, your life will suck a hell of a lot more till your mid 20s or laters,except if you're celebrity...Kinda reminds me when I was your age a million years ago and I would almost faint with excitement when girls just breeze past me...[/color]

[color=#1980BC] Slowly the faceoff btw IPob and the Nigerian State has drifted into a guerrilla fight....If ESN should combine the tactics used by IRA in their fight against UK on the Nigerian Army...tactics that are very easy nowadays in this technology age to deploy then I make bold to say that the South East might just become another Sambisa forest for the Nigerian Army..[/color]

Nan8go

[color=#1980BC] The Palm Kernel cannot go into the mouth and come out without any bite marks on its body...The Man should thank God he dared the fulani hegemony without much personal loss. However, he should know that as far as those Fulani guys are concerned he just won round 1....It's Game on.[/color]

[color=#1980BC] Dragon fire...[/color]

emmaodet:
Assuming i know what i know now, i would have stayed very very farrrrrrrrrrrr from marriage and i do tell my wife that if she leaves for any reason/die(God forbid), am through and done with marriage. Don't need any more.
Knowing that you are only valued and cared about because of what you bring home sometimes make me feel like crying. Knowing that nobody will have my back if/when am down and the only and last person am counting on, empowering with large cash to set-up or struggling to process a visa for so that we can travel and have a better life won't reciprocate if table turns, has activated a signal/an alarm bell in my brain and right now, with the awareness of TRP and other lamentations on nairaland, am already taking dressing and covering my side sharply before i fall victim.

[color=#1980BC] So You're Married? Ehya....Sorry. Anyway, At least you understand TRP,So therefore you can still turn lemon into lemonade as far as this Marriage thing is concerned...I "hope" to get Married someday especially now that TRP has opened my eyes to endless possibilities and eventualities of the female psyche....Before TRP getting married was like going into a gunfight with a knife but after TRP I'll be damned if I don't go into marriage with a 1000 megaton nuclear device, if she do anyhow, she'll see any how.. [/color]

dontai:
Thanks for the good job Fam. But I have a few questions (if I'm permitted)?

Firstly, what am I? because I do tell my girls, I can divorce.(I ought to use 'FIRE' ) any one I married second day of the wedding, (I don't like drama, and I don't give a f about what societies do say, like you have married her she's now your cross, I gat no cross to carry. ain't Jesus) is it good to be telling them such, even when I told my friends, they do look me like I ain't sane.

secondly, what does masturbating gat to do with being a red-piller? (no apology to the moralist and religious freak) because like Lil-wayne said, and I quote "when I cum I come to my senses" I won't say more than that. but I guess it helps in decision making and help one wave away a ........?


luminouz, CaveAdullam, oyolohi, ichidodo.

thanks.

[color=#1980BC] Masturbating has nothing to do with TRP,Tis just a function of a complement, our sensuality, that makes us humans or living beings because some mammals do masturbate....To fight it, is to fight nature which is not only unnatural but can also be at odds with your mental sanity...And when you have made your peace with that fact there is a tendency for you to get over it like its nothing....Never mind what the mainstream narrative embedded in religiousity (the same sh**t that would want men to eschew their propensity to be polygamous but embolden the female folk to be hypergamous)says about it, just stay true to yourself......If you read the riot act to every girl you date then you've got the abundance mentality...You got a strong frame..You appear as one who should be taken very seriously, infact you've got balls and being redpilled,you've got to have enough balls.[/color]

CuteRat:
can you explain some of these games if not all please.

[color=#1980BC] Sure...TRP let's us know women are only in it for what they can gain or how they feel about it all, right?...So, Find that sh**t that tickles her fancy..Just like a pim.p to his hooker or a drug dealer to a client... Something only you can do for her which she treasures so much (could be your attention, wit,charm...even humor) money does not count o! After she's hooked, then boom! you let the bottom fall out or you subtly threaten to let the bottom fall out via insinuations,body language etc...I tell you she will become your slave just to be on your good side as she dreads the repercussions to be caught offside....Hence ,Dread Game.[/color]

naenaesosa:
Men i typically don't comment but this thread is priceless. Thanks to everybody that shared their TRP wisdom and experiences (good or bad). I have known about TRP for a while now but i won't lie i have broken frame a few times but that's neither here nor there. I am very angry at what's going on around me and in society.

I am an entrepreneur and most of my friends are as well by design because there's just something about risk takers and people that take their destinies into their own hands. A lot of us are married and what is going on around me is giving me the shivers.

* Friend A's marriage is over because business took a hit, wife works a 9-5, couldn't weather the storm with him and the insults started.
* Friend B's wife was recently caught cheating with a "bigger boy" with Gwagon. My friend is a hustling guy that drives the big yansh camry. Granted he married an instagram slay mama. I think she fell in love with the lifestyle of the gang (rolling together like a unit, child naming parties at each others houses etc and the trappings of having rich friends)
* Friend C's wife works in an oil company. He pays the bills and she keeps all her money. Business is suffered setbacks in 2020, asked wife for help she refuses but still managed to upgrade her car to the 2019 Lexus jeep.
* Before i got married, Friend D used to always borrow from me( and payback of course) . I used to find it strange that he did that because his wife is super rich, until the day i asked my wife (who works and doesn't pay any bills) to borrow me and she flat out said she doesn't have.
* Friend E and wife migrated to USA. Luckily she got a job first while my friend was just hanging doing menial jobs here and there. Over a few months, the disrespect started. She stopped buying groceries, she would just buy her own food to eat and go to bed. She has left him under just 2 years since moving to yankee.

I am pained for men. There's a massive conspiracy to emasculate men. Its like men's only value come from his bank account. Even in my brokest days i see things deeper and farther than my wife, and that made me realize a man's value is not only in money. He is GOD's masterpiece, a reflection of HIMSELF. Yahoo boys and politicians have created a massive bubble in the gender market. Women are overpriced and inflated because of a few participants in the market driving up their price.

Men out there, i feel your pain, i feel your struggle. I know that there's no unconditional love for you anywhere. I know you are shamed on the daily for circumstances outside your control. Please SELF DEVELOPMENT and ALPHA FRAME is the meat and potatoes of TRP, the rest is just veggies. A man should build an empire(no matter how small) and be the king there.

Happy sunday folks

[color=#1980BC]Sorry,I just had to quote this out of shock...[/color]

CuteRat:
Is it redpill-permitted to marry a woman of higher class;
a woman with more money
More income
And more influence? What should you do when your fiancée is making more income than you, should you continue with the marriage?
Is there a way a man could tame her and bring her into submission?

[color=#1980BC] Easy....Just "Game" her.. You can play the "Dread" Game on her....Also, there is the "Carrot and Stick" Game.....And so many other Games availed to us via TRP.[/color]

we are trading it..

[color=#1980BC]Lost contact just like that without any emergency call,then the plane must have suffered a catastrophic loss of cabin pressure before breaking up far above the sky...Could be an Explosion and we dear say...If it lost contact over water then there's hope but overland there is gonna be a crash site strewn with burning wreckage and dismembered body parts...[/color]

[color=#1980BC]If It looks like a duck...Quacks like a duck...Walks like a duck...My brother don't let pant wear u before you do the needful..[/color]

tyyt

[color=#1980BC] If he can get SpaceEx to be more viable and venture into asteroid mining and interplanetary colonization, he could be the world's first Trillionaire..[/color]

[color=#1980BC] ....Now if the case is in reverse with infighting,stress and anxiety especially if it was the time when you was a f**king simp and she was brutally exploiting you (when I mean brutal,set your mind back to a sex starved jail break convicted paedophile suddenly in close proximity with your sleeping sixteen year old virgin daughter)...Then, it wouldn't take a rocket scientist to analyze and deduce that you wouldn't want to be within 50 km radius of that Ex...Redpill or not.[/color]

[color=#1980BC] This Ex Conundrum of a thing is quite unfortunate..To see the back of an Ex or To hobnob with an Ex has become a f**king thing in this here thread...Imho, I see it from the point of psychology, As a wee fry decades past I became quite ill, infact,. terribly ill with much projectile vomitting and sh**t..The soup of the day that unfortunate period of my life was Okro Soup...So there was much projectile vomitting of Okro Soup and that sh**t got embedded deep into my psyche that I have never being caught dead eating it up till now and forever-Because,I have gotten to f**king hate that sh**t-...So it is with an Ex....If the relationship was a blast with loads of fond memories and memorabilia as well as a relatively amicable breakup then there is a tendency for the EX to be in good terms and rapport with you....[/color]

[color=#1970BC] Happy New Year, wise one....[/color]