Crime › Re: Girl Thrown Out Of Pool Party, Unclad, For Resisting Sexual Harassment In Lagos by icogb: 6:37pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
Your posts reek of the "pick me syndrome " . Yuck!
Anyway, since you are clearly ignorant or living in denial, let me state again. Even if a woman is an escort, you are not allowed to touch her without her consent.
Madam dignity, every woman should dress how they please.
Speaking of a lady's dressing leading to sexual harassment, I have experienced men, especially in markets hold me and touch me without my consent. Mind you, I don't wear a bikini to the market. I am always decently covered. Yet! These men do these things shamelessly. If you are a girl in Nigeria, you'll be familiar with this.
And when you complain they rain insults on you. " I have your type at home", "you should be happy I'm touching you", "you are not even that fine sef", " man never Bleep you before? Why you come dey do like good girl? " ,these are the things they utter shamelessly when you try to defend yourself.
You might say that they're market men but you must be a fool not to notice the similarities between the market men and the guys on this thread.
Jeez!! Why am I explaining this?
Hanty you are dumb as f*ck for trying to justify this madness. Dear, dnt mind dat lady. D prblm of you Nigerian ladies is dat you pple prepare yourselves for marriage instead of survival. The day you pple start beating des men, dat wld be d day des finz will stop. Look at dem justifying touching sbdy against her will as if "free to group" was among d activities of d day. Train your self self defence before home economics. Nigerian men are psychos (nt all dou). See dat guy slapping d girl as if he owns her body or she asked or allowed him to touch. There is nufn dat wld gv him dis effrontery if not dat he knws "girls can't do nufn" nd true to dat, she didn't! More so, d securities cldnt do anyfn let alone d other gals who probably wld be judging as d others here. I like her courage shaa. |
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NYSC › Re: My Experience In NYSC Orientation Camp, Iyana Ipaja, Lagos State by icogb: 4:55pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
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Crime › Re: Girl Thrown Out Of Pool Party, Unclad, For Resisting Sexual Harassment In Lagos by icogb: 2:48am On Oct 30, 2018 |
Chuvin22: Say no to violence and sexual harassment. I hope she gets justice.
This country hard. But E hard for women pass, I swear. You don’t know what they go through everyday. Thank you. |
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NYSC › Re: My Experience In NYSC Orientation Camp, Iyana Ipaja, Lagos State by icogb: 2:05am On Oct 30, 2018 |
nonye6194: you lost me sir Oh... I meant d guy you responded to last. D one da was asking abt your own love experience in d camp. |
NYSC › Re: My Experience In NYSC Orientation Camp, Iyana Ipaja, Lagos State by icogb: 5:58pm On Oct 29, 2018 |
nonye6194: main characters won't have their pictures displayed, part of my agreement with them for me to write this. sorry
and there was no bonnie and Clyde story for me While back in camp, sorry to disappoint amigo Pls dnt listen to dis guy abt his doubts abt Tola nd Greg's issue. There are guys like dat nd dey re so many in Nigeria. I remember one guy like dat dat went abt telling pple how he bleeps a particular girl till I tld d girl. Come see drama! And if not for d kinf of person I am, nobdy wld hv blivd dat guy was lying bc he is someone you wld see nd think he is matured nd responsible nd I bliv dos were d reasons d girl tlks wif him cos she hardly tlks to guys nd dat was als wot made pple bliv dis guy. I mean dis girl was almost RUINED. It might surprise you dat even dis guy dat quoted you is one of dem. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Anti-tithers, How Can I Get The Devourer Rebuked? by icogb: 8:41am On Oct 28, 2018 |
CodeTemplar: are you aware a born again christian is actually the modern day Jew/Israelite? So by you own explanation up there Christ's blood covers provision in the church?
Somebody already beat me to the Mathew 23:23 defence so I will refer you there. Also, the widow's mite story nd d work of Judas Iscariot. D prblm wif pple esp xtians is dat dey dnt read their bible. |
Crime › Re: How A Lady, Airforce Officer & Others Were Almost Killed During Kaduna Crisis by icogb: 2:41pm On Oct 27, 2018 |
sinaj: Na wa o!
Her story is similar to that of Rwanda. I hope she doesnt end up putting the first family that saved her in trouble coz this beasts might be on facebook and might go back to attack them for lying. Truth. |
Crime › Re: How A Lady, Airforce Officer & Others Were Almost Killed During Kaduna Crisis by icogb: 2:22pm On Oct 27, 2018 |
ifyalways: Hope she's not putting her helpers at risk with this her narrative.  She did. |
Crime › Re: How A Lady, Airforce Officer & Others Were Almost Killed During Kaduna Crisis by icogb: 2:21pm On Oct 27, 2018 |
ifyalways: Hope she's not putting her helpers at risk with this her narrative.  She has. |
Travel › Re: Dropping Refuse From Moving Vehicles Attracts N5000 Fine by icogb: 11:00pm On Oct 25, 2018 |
Good! I dnt even knw hw pple re comfortable throwing dirts on the road nd des Nigerian drivers will never have a bin in their vehicles bt knw hw to quarrel one when their car is littered. I dnt even send dem. How I wish dis wld be implemented nationwide. |
Politics › Re: The Moment Jaafar Jaafar Left After Exposing Governor Ganduje At Kano Assembly by icogb: 5:06pm On Oct 25, 2018 |
DissTroy: Here's how it would likely happen:
One of the APC attack dogs (most likely Festus Keyamo who has presence of mind of a stone) would analyze that Jafaar's testimony seemed personal. Days later, there'd be a leak to the media of a photo depicting Jafaar drinking kunu with the PDP Youth Leader in his ward eight months ago. The APC propaganda machine would spine it, with a charade of a political discourse on TVC which is actually scripted to defame Jafaar.
Of course, you know what would happen next. Jafaar would be battling the to save his reputation claiming the PDP didn't sponsor him. Once he goes on the defensive, the Twitter arm of the APC internet warlords (Kayode Ogundamosi, AyDee and the likes) would go on the attack against the PDP accusing them of trying to undermine the government.
We'd all get distracted with the bickering, forgetting to ask why Ganduje hasn't been impeached until another controversy takes our attention away completely. Ganduje remains governor, owes Buhari for saving his skin and he continues effecting th plans to rig Kano State for the APC.
...THE END. And when everywhr goes silent, they'ld kill him. |
Travel › Re: Young Shall Grow Bus Driver Drank & Smoked Before Accident – Survivor Recounts by icogb: 3:27pm On Oct 25, 2018 |
Memyselfu2009: The problem we have is thats travellers are willing to risk there life just to get to there destination. I left Delta state 14th Oct 2018 with my in law husband from my step mum burial i was heading to lagos he was driving to Kogi state i stop at The bypass at benin took an Au car to lagos we notice the car was not moving well he stop at a filling station to check tire did wheel balancing and he also pump the tire, i notice thats the back tire was swollen, you wouldnt believe that the driver was willing to drive is with a bad swollen tire down to lagos immediately i told the driver to pack thats i cant risk my life like all passengers where looking at me. I say driver pack i no dey go lagos with this kind car. All passenger kept quite they where all willing to go lagos. I had to ring customer care to send a better car. After series of call one hour later they brought another car. So bad thats they lost there life but my question is thats the driver would have stop for them to eat they wouldnt have continue the journey with him. Ours took his own Ogogoro at Obollo Afor which happen to be his last stop. |
Travel › Re: Young Shall Grow Bus Driver Drank & Smoked Before Accident – Survivor Recounts by icogb: 2:33pm On Oct 25, 2018*. Modified: 6:52pm On Nov 11, 2018 |
yjgm: Can you imagine. But the passengers too should always ensure they observe and know the true state of these drivers before allowing them drive them. Our driver from Onitsha to Kaduna was cool until we reached Obollo- Afor nd dat was d end. Our saviour? Some members of the paramilitary noticed his driving from their vehicle nd put calls across d nearest check point ahead of us. #We blame ourselves alot his country# |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Uebert Angel: God Never Told A Woman To Love Her Husband by icogb: 12:41pm On Oct 25, 2018 |
goldman777: Most of this pastors are scammers 99.9% which sometimes make me feel religion is one of the greatest scam ever created by man  There are still good pastors. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Uebert Angel: God Never Told A Woman To Love Her Husband by icogb: 12:28pm On Oct 25, 2018*. Modified: 1:21pm On Oct 25, 2018 |
donnie: The bolded is wrong... they are to submit, they shouldn't wait for their husbands to love first. The same Word that instructs husbands to love also instructs women to submit.
Do your own part first and please your God. Very wrong sir. You don't submit to a husband dat hates you nd by d I dnt mean rubbing shoulder wif somebody. I would have ignored your comment but for that your "do your own first..." nd for d fact dat many pple lately (including christian preachers esp among d male folks), abuse dis passage. How do you shout insummission to someone dat won't keep giving her wasteful husband money while she and her children lives like fugitives to the point of the children being sent out of school bc of debt? |
Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye And Aneke Twins, Chidimma And Chidiebere Hang Out In Kigali by icogb: 10:22am On Oct 25, 2018 |
tossie101: When ur opinion is to dictate how other people should live their own life, then it shouldn't be respected, Mbok.
Yes there is no rule for matching but since they have chosen to be on match then it's their own rule. So don't try to use ur own rule on them. Thank you. I was like,, "what kind of human being is this?" It is very rare for twins not to be in matching outfit nd it has nothing to do with trying to show they re twins. Tis jst their code. Infact, pple wld frown at twins not wearing same outfit (esp of they re same sex) dan otherwise. Tis more "entertain ing" that way. |
Education › Re: George Weah Declares Tuition Free In Public Universities In Liberia by icogb: 7:58pm On Oct 24, 2018 |
Bifrost: Even the top school in Liberia - University of Monrovia can't be compared with the nonsense we have as public universities here. Anyway, that's by the way...
How he intends to fund his free universities is what I'm concerned about. Nothing is free... Someone must be paying for it. Nigeria of course! |
Business › Re: Nigerians Celebrate New N100 Note by icogb: 12:17pm On Oct 23, 2018 |
Nice but I hope much was printed nd not just damage control from Emefiele? |
Politics › Re: How Ambode Is Fixing The Roads In Lagos (PHOTOS) by icogb: 11:27pm On Oct 22, 2018 |
FortifiedCity:

Ambode, your cowardice stinks.
You knew there was no coming back for you under APC. All you would have done was escape to another party with the Governorship seat; bear the consequences of fighting tinubu. Build your own loyalists no matter how short a time.
If you get impeached, play on the people's emotion by acting like the villain and come back like a 'Messiah'.
I guess the fear of the unknown took the better off you. True. And d funny thing is dat he wld still be killed. |
Education › Re: Anambra School Children Made Generator Which Runs On Water - Photos by icogb: 7:42am On Oct 19, 2018 |
Bane2020: Maybe you have a point, but crime does exist in all people regardless of ethnicity, at least we can also talk about the incessant ritual killings, credit card frauds both home and abroad, incest and rape culture that plagues the part of the divide you happen to come from. And d drug peddling is 4rm d North nd Southwest. Igbos ( who re few in d game) learnt it 4rm them. |
Food › Re: Disappointed Woman Murders Caterer With Words, After Seeing The Cake She Made by icogb: 1:08pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Christianity And Contraceptives by icogb: 10:44am On Oct 15, 2018*. Modified: 1:44pm On Oct 15, 2018 |
Lol. The truth is dat most of dis pple dnt knw what God wants from us, pastors inclusive. But, he might be talking wif respect to postinor. |
Family › Re: Why I Despise My Father. by icogb: 10:29am On Oct 15, 2018*. Modified: 10:51am On Oct 15, 2018 |
Earthbound: And yet she walks free. I wouldn't be surprised if it's the popularly hated mod.....or a female mod that cannot rationalize her urge to support a female nairalander. |
Family › Re: International Day Of The Girl Child: Share Amazing Things Your Daughter Has Done by icogb: 7:09pm On Oct 11, 2018 |
neonly: D touching thing is dat it was money she was saving Am still thinking of what to buy her dis Xmas has a surprise gift Ask her. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Charlyn Oyakhilome Was Sharon's Chief Bridesmaid (Photos) by icogb: 1:38pm On Oct 11, 2018 |
Basher8583: You are a mature person to relate with and I also respect your opinion and contribution. But while I belive there's more to the divorce/separation issue with his wife we are not hearing. I also belive for his wife to crack and breakdown, the issue should have been more complex than what you just mentioned. Not withstanding it was nice deliberating with you while I wish you well in your endeavours Thank you. Was jst concerned cos I knw you must be writing from what the media left in d cyberspace whc is jst abt mischief as dos accusations were jst speculations from dem den. How dey later left dat fin there is jst shocking nd d wife expressly said her issue was jst his being too busy nd twas a bit funny den cos she was saying she wants to divorce him cos Benny wld always tell her dat she cann't divorce him whenever she confronts him cos she is God fearing whc Benny als accepted. People prayed for dem den including myself cos pst. Benny was not a pastor to be involved in divorce mess. Moreover, d way dey met was jst an example of xtian marriage. And God being faithful to his name nd to Benny, d family got healed. |
Romance › Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by icogb: 12:20pm On Oct 11, 2018 |
Queenara: Ohh thanks a lot for this. Sorry, are u a male or female? Smiles. Wld tell you later. |
Romance › Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by icogb: 9:34am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Queenara: Same here and I get too. Guys believe one shud nd must have sex with them in relationships as they think its d only thing we can offer. . You both should not dare get into rltshp nw o no matter how trustworthy he looks. There is this thing guys do now; he would accept no sex, treat you like a gentleman you blive he is, dump you like a bad habit (like taking you to a mountain nd throwing you down d cliff while making it seem he wants to shw you d world more clearly) ofcourse without any clue, den wait for you to come looking for him because you cann't bliv he did dat with his mind intact, chase you away as if you re a fly while accusing you of d most ludicrous things nd because you re vulnerable nd confused at dis tym, he wld send a guy dat understands guys code to you who you wld hv to doubt dey knw each other nd dat d guy knws you b4 nw nd if care is not taken, you'ld slp wif dis one nd of course he wld com wif his own emotional blackmail like you love him; he can see it in your eyes, etc. Dis is someone ordinarily you'ld not even talk to. He myt als bully you bc he already knw you ain't strong anymore unlike hw you use to be b4 smone came into your life nd you myt hv als tld him abt yr experience den d guilt of your telling him 'what you shldnt have' , thought of hw insecure you hv bcom nd d fact smone you dnt hv d strength to put whr he belongs wld als hld you den you see yourself being stupid if care is not taken nd nd mind you d first guy is likely to dump you when you re broke or at d most tensed time of your life nd dat other guy may not be d only one dat wld com till you succumb or not. |
Travel › Re: The Japanese Passport Is Now The Most Powerful Passport On Earth! by icogb: 8:57am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Taofeekdboy: you re the clueness one here bro, you think making Yoruba, Hausa and Igbo official language will make any difference? SA you are talking about, most of their citizens know to speak majority of the languages there and can communicate very well in any of the language they chose. Majority of the East African countries speak Swahili such as Uganda, Kenya and Tanzania. Nigeria setting is different from all those countries, the tribes in Nigeria is like a country on their own and the huge mistake was joining them together to be one. True. Moreso, those languages re not their official languages after English language nd tis even so bc South African natives re mostly illiterates at least before their independence (and even till now) compared to Nigeria before independence. |
Travel › Re: The Japanese Passport Is Now The Most Powerful Passport On Earth! by icogb: 7:53am On Oct 11, 2018 |
tevinsolt: Africa hasn't caught up with the world because for the most part, Africa continues to romanticize archaic cultural and moral practices. Contrary to what you or anyone might tell me.
A brief look into Global history would show you that Japan took in a lot of western influence while preserving the good bit of their tradition. Another example is Singapore, and South Korea [Nigeria started better off] they were heavily influenced by western interference and Nigeria can't be mentioned alongside them in terms of prosperity, Education, infrastructure and so on. Thank you for dis. At least, some pple knw history. |