₦airaland Forum

FutureDecisions:
Thanks to you all, I appreciate.

I talked to my father today, he supports both what I said and what my mom said. He said he don't want me to disobey my mom.

What I just hate about him is that he feels because he's not the one paying for all my expenses, he has no control over the family. He always supports my mom or nothing.

The man that want to employ me said he'd like to me my parents before we go to Lagos together. But since my mom won't accept and my father will also follow what my mom says, I'm thinking of letting the man meet my bro only, then I move with him.

Both my blood bro and my cousin supports I do the new job because I will at least be financially free.

icogb ImaIma1 Avedonn EasternDamsel4

Good. You sound like someone dat knows wot he wants. Mek sure you get yrslf as exposed as possible nd mek sure you save dat moni.

Lorenzop:
Hahahhah....na wetin fit am, you know say the guy is married yet you foolishly followed him to his house and expect peace.... Chai some girls and their fish brain

Lorenzop:
Hahahhah....na wetin fit am, you know say the guy is married yet you foolishly followed him to his house and expect peace.... Chai some girls and their fish brain

No sir! She may not knw. It might be at dis tym dat she knw bt being a smart gal, she wld hv no choice dan wot she did. So many things re happening des days.

Lorenzop:
Hahahhah....na wetin fit am, you know say the guy is married yet you foolishly followed him to his house and expect peace.... Chai some girls and their fish brain

No sir! She may not knw. It might be at dis tym dat she knw bt being a smart gal, she wld hv no choice dan wot she did. Some men...

FutureDecisions. Pls follow the advice of dat lady dat is supporting your new job. If you can save 40 out of dat 50 you'ld have nothing less dan 400k by next one year. You cld start an online biz or som side hustle wif part of dat. Only advc I hv for you, be focused! Remember whr you re coming from- yr bckgrnd, limitations, etc. As for dos saying you wld be rebelling your mum, dnt mind dem- tis yr future besides, it wld hv bn rbel if she rovided you wif wot you need nd you choose not to use it.There are some of our celebrities today who re were dey re bc dey refused doin their parents wish. Den thnk abt sm1 lyk you wif a clean skill nd an opportunity to be were you'ld be more exposed nd challenged. Go nd wot I mean KEEP GOIN. Pray nd hv a strong hrt dat wen dis pple dat re saying you mst obey yr mum when it's obvio she is wrong, com fighting you in d spirit, you'ld not be conquered. Prove dem wrong nd com bck nd colllect mama's blessings. Only be strong.

SirLakes:


Who front seat help

Even if na me fess enter moto, na back I dey go where I go balance wella

Lol... Not good for your health shaa.

axeman2:
A Prophetess Using Attachment Which Bible Condem The World Has Ended Already We Are Living In Extra Time

axeman2. Where did d bible condemn attachment?

Olukat:



And turn you to a small girl with a big god after service

Dnt mind her. With d way dis administration acts, dey'ld pay her dat nd collect it wif another hand.

sixtus3606:
I was about saying same. FVCKed up country.
Black man(inferiority complexity to a white skin) so unkind to his kind.
I am tired!

Did you watch the video?

sexdoll:
please repppply her o!
I always feel pity for women when they fall in love.

Lol! Dear....

mayze:
So u r saying if I buy a car from u now and then transfer transfer the funds to you,then call my bank to recall the funds despite avn the car with me,they ll do so based on the indemnity I fill..keep deceiving urself..the other part can sue the bank and get millions as damages

Lol. Bt you knw there wld be evidence 4rm d guy to prove you wrng? D only thing it wld Tek is sml tym nd sml money.

PrincessB1:
Premature ejaculation and Erectile dysfunction

Oh dear! Thank you. My mind no even go dat side.

fiercehillz:
Pornography is man's worst sexual enemy. Many guys and babes are under the spell and it has affected them psychologically. A very beautiful female friend once told me she can't go a day without watching and touching herself afterwards...this has really affected her self exteem with the male folks. Porn is the precursor of masturbation which is the precursor of PE and ED....
Be wise

What's PE nd ED?

Richy4:
So before she became a celebrity, there was no ATM?

Yes! At least in Nigeria.

chloride6:
Which school did you attend?

Lol! I thought I was d only one dat saw it.

omohz:
I prefer Wasco, the makers of ajinimoto, the Japanese don't talk to the Nigerian there anyhow because of the strong cooperative they have and they pay well and even pay for any seconds of overtime spent even cleaners are paid for overtime, very nice company .

Actually, Japanese re like dat generally.

mranova:
Proudly a product of Baptist High School, Jos.

Hey bros! Hw do you knw?

GrammarNazi1:
...it's...

Lol... I knw you'ld fail it. I purposely wrote dat. Go get educated.

DEXTROVERT:
We
DOCTORS
SUFFER
EVERYONE
EXPECTS
FREE
SERVICES
CALLS
YOU
TO
ASK
FOR
MEDICINE,
FREE
DRUGS

SEE
YOU
IN
MARKETS
AND
SKY ROCKET
THEIR
PRICES
BECAUSE
YOU
ARE
A
DOCTOR

COMPLAIN
OF
NEGLIGENCE
BECAUSE
YOU
DIDN'T
WORSHIP
THEM
ENOUGH

RELATIVES
ARE
ON
YOUR
NECK
COS
THEY
BELIEVE
YOU HAVE
TOO
MUCH
TO
SPEND.

DOC
I
PRAY
MORE
BLESSINGS

You als hv to blame some doctors. Dey tend to go arnd wif dis impression dat dey we rich whc is fals aftral.

Rayd502:
They have this cocky air around them...Like it is a course code in medical school.

Nt all, tis majorly d unintelligent ones among dem.

Tellemall:
Explain this theory of forgiving and still hating him.

Why do father's make themselves so hated by their children in Nigeria?

Because dey feel d child will fore dem after all nd wen d child doesn't, there re lots in d society who wld jdg it.

GrammarNazi1:
...Kunle...

I like hw tis only pple dat share diffrnt view from yours dat you only go after. The only advc I hv for you is to never cross my lane. And tis a warning!

hustla:
Lwkm. See vex
Those boys fit no do wire or whatever jare. Plenty ways to make mad legit money in Nigeria that's coded but people won't tell u

Exactly, besides I thnk dis op can poison his brother if he is ahead of him.

nnamdiosu:
Op: psalm 37 is for you. I took the liberty of posting verse 1-10 for you. Peace.

Fret not yourself because of the wicked,
be not envious of wrongdoers! For they will soon fade like the grass,
and wither like the green herb.
Trust in the LORD, and do good;
so you will dwell in the land, and enjoy security.
Take delight in the LORD,
and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Commit your way to the LORD;
trust in him, and he will act.
He will bring forth your vindication as the light,
and your right as the noonday.
Be still before the LORD, and wait patiently for him;
fret not yourself over him who prospers in his way,
over the man who carries out evil devices!
Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath!
Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil.

For the wicked shall be cut off;
but those who wait for the LORD shall possess the land.
Yet a little while, and the wicked will be no more;
though you look well at his place, he will not be there.

Nic... Bt wot of d wicked wet dem no dey ever get cut off?

Newboss:
But they dole out more than that when they attend close pal's stuff. Just write a million dollar check, drop it in the niggas pocket and go. That is the norm among millionaires, talk less of billionaire.

Just gather 1000 naira notes up to 1000 pieces and spay it just for fun, then you will know that those naira guys hardly spray up to 5m. 5m is change when your wrist watch is well into 5 digits in dollars.

Make una grow ball, una no go hear. Those guys you use as standards do more extravagant stuffs than this. Spraying money? Folks buy off grand million dollar mansion and hand the keys to the couple as wedding gift. Poor average people think spending $1m out of $10b is extravaganza but they end up spending $1000 out of their $300 paycheck

Spraying money is even energy draining and attracts unnecessary exposure. The enlightened billionaires wire millions in dollars as wedding gifts, while you sit in Africa seeing what they want you to see

Lol.legitimately st Nigerians don't knw bt tis cool to mek yr money legitimately though.

dairykidd:
Yeah man

And for their girls, kee far o. Dey hv glues in dia ppalms for a guy dat is not from Plateau except you want to marry dem nd by dat I mean marryn out of pity mostly. And wot I wrote abnitio abt having prblm if you hlp a Plateau person, it holds for non Plateaus dat grew up there too. Infact, jst avoid anyfn 4rm Plateau state.

dairykidd:
Hmm really?

Yea. Hw lnf hv you bn wif dem? Jst be careful.

BlessedRayman:
I happened to me too. I spent 2011 through 2013 with a boss that was never appreciative of the staff. Whenever he comes on with girls it's a talk down show for all staff. All we were doing was hire and fire. In spite of all the verbal abuse l stuck with him to the point that his biological brother started congratulating my patient. But it came to a head a certain month after paying other staff their salaries he said l should not pay myself without a reason. I knew it was time to leave and l did after handing everything to my assistant including company's cash at my disposal. That was when it dawn on him that he just lost an asset. Even in my absence clients and himself still call for me to do certain things which l gladly did. I went there a year later and everything was upside down, not long after that the company folded. Employers of labour pls appreciate the little sacrifices your staff make. That decision to leave changed my life and today am an employer of labour and that experienced had helped me a lot.

I enjoyed all wot you wrote bt 4 dat part you stl hlpd dem after resignation. I mean, WHAT'S DAT?

dairykidd:
Especially Kogi then Idoma, don't really know much Plateau sha just some few good bad girls when dey high pass man

Lol! Yea, Kogi b4 Idoma bt Plateau pple.... My brother if you want to have prblm, HELP A PLATEAU PERSON.

dairykidd:
Especially Kogi then Idoma, don't really know much Plateau sha just some few good bad girls when dey high pass man

Lol! Yea, Kogi b4 Idoma bt Plateau pple.... My brother, if you want to have problem, HELP A PLATEAU PERSON.

FrankTalk1:
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Yea, true bt not every body get conscience o. I hv seen pple dat suffered injustice bt you'ld be shocked at how dey treat pple arnd dem.

uuzba:
Your answer in in doing.
Go and hire a house boy. Take your home as a business where comfort is produced for you and your family. Your staff is houseboy.
Now pay him his just wages. And see if you can do so without dehumanizing him. That is the answer to your question

Make sure to keep him as long as possible
Do all the salary increase, Christmas, 13th month.
Make sure he goes on leave.
Make sure he only works 8am to 3pm.

In dis case, I'ld lyk to tell you not everybdy hires jst a maid. And yea dey work wif machines where necessary nd do shifts too. Stop making it seem everybdy is heartless like you. If you don't have wot it takes to run a business, dnt start it!

stubbornman:
Some of you shouting " One man business is demonic" will also do worse when you set up your own.....!!!!

Nigeria is a stupid country tho.... where every boss thinks he's doing his/her staff a favour

And d staff think they re doin d customers favour. True.