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Lol @ Men liberation front.

@OP, I believe that is an individual, personal trait that cuts across all race or tribe. I'm a woman but find myself guilty of some of the things you posted ;being too hard on myself and locking up myself in the face of difficulties. My family and friends tried unsuccessfully to change me or make me open up but it didn't work, if anything then, their consistence prying/questions got me more mad. All that changed when I met and married my husband. He just wouldn't disturb himself or worry too much. He'll ask you just once and if you are not forthcoming with an answer, he'll go his merry way, lifes too short.

Long story short, I was forced to share me problems/fears/failures with him when I got tired of trying on my own without getting positive results.

Some people(not just igbo men)are naturally cocky,delights in self accomplishments etal, the best way to live/deal with them is to leave an open door, let them know you'd be willing to share their problems with them ONLY if and when they are ready to tell you.

Over dotting, prying, worrying too much over and about them does not work.

Goodluck with your man.

The society,family,church all knows,respect and understand ONLY money language.No one cares how the money is made,the end(brazilian weave,car,designer bags/shoes) justifies the means.

Men share part of the blame too.They give and give as if they are foooools. . How else do you explain a man meeting a girl today and giving her 100K for shopping the next day?
Demand and supply;perfect market.

Andyanders please, please please can you take your TB Joshua campaign/defence somewhere else, please.

We can't deal with all that drama here, we don't even need that now.
The thread specifies what the guy is looking for, financial help most especially.

Please, we don't want this thread locked, distracted or become a fighting ground. You and everyone else that wants to debate about T B Joshua should go find another playground.

God bless!

Achi!

I na-achu nkita na nsi, owu gi ga-eri nsi?
Kedu ihe ahu na afu gi na Maria choro i gba tosh ogwu?Adabekee i na ahukwa? Oh choochi. I no na ofe na achokwa akidi. Achi uwa ezu oke.

Maria Nwanne m ututu na ehihie oma. Asa Nwa.

Ebe na ihe Odunnu na Nri priest gara/ na-eme ga emecha puta ihe. Lol

Nma nma nu.

@mgbechu, some of your questions have got their answers on the very first post.
He needs 2 more chemotherapy sessions. Each session costs 112,270.
He stays in a balcony that doubles as a school somewhere @ surulere. I have no idea how much a room SC costs in that part of town.

He can't really work now Cos of the eye till atleast he's had all his chemo sessions so we are concentrating on doing the ffg 3 things, God willing:
Paying for the 2 remaining chemo sessions.
Getting him an accomodation.
Helping him to start life and stand on his feet again.

Ifunanya m,a na m ahutazi uwa a otu o kwesiri ibu,jigide Chineke n'etiti ndu m,mu onwe m na elezikwa anya na ihe nile m na eme.N'ezie a nam echere gi echiche oma,a matana m ugbu a na nani nke a pughi izu.A nam enye ihunanya n'eleghi anya n'azu,a nam atukwasi obi na nmadu ngwa-ngwa na-agbanyeghi ihe ojoo nile ndi nmadu megoro m n'oge gara aga. O ga aburiri onyinye Chineke.N'agbanyeghi ihe nile,a gbasiri mmbo ike na-enwekwa ujo na e nwere m ike izuta ihe ojoo ozo.Ugbu a,a hapula m obi m aka,tinye ya na aka Chukwu,o bughikwa n'aka nmadu n'ihi na o bu nani n'aka Chukwu ka obi m ga-enwe udo na rute mgbe ebighebi a gaghim e zute ihe ojoo.
Dalu maka e nyem aka gi na nkasi obi gi.Ike na ntasi obi gi juru m afo,a na m atu oke iwe gi egwu,obi oma gi masiri m.

Kind of tough oh

leavinglon: j


Dont know what is happening. Spent almost an hour typing up post and it keeps saying "post is hidden".??

Sorry.I think its the spam bot.You can break and post in bits,the spam bot usually mark lengthy posts as spam.

Moi

Uju

Dayo

Im bored

Another. All from Eko hospital,where hes currently undergoing Chemo. sessions

His Chemo payment reciept

Please guys,let's keep the thread clean. He needs monetary help to conclude his 2 remaining chemotherapy sessions, prayers for Gods grace and mercy as he's recieving medical treatment and accomodation. Let's concentrate on that.
Thanks and God bless.

Terrible.

May God console those they left behind.

Good decision.
How can any reasonable couple want co-habit with another mans child without making an effort to see the parents?that singularly makes the whole idea suspicious.

They have no regard for parenthood and therefore would make horrible guardians.

What's going on here?

@OP, any updates?

Considering all the gadgets and technologies at the disposal of the western/modern women, I'll say the African woman is physically, more hard working.

Eso m na otu nzuzo "keggites" Oge m no n'ulo akwukwo.

Ha anaghi enye nsogbu ma o bu gbuo nmadu.o bu otu nzuzo ndi nmai. Lol

Ha na-enyere onwe ha aka na i chota oru na ihe ndi ozo.

Pagan, your people as in a Nigerian tribe?interesting. Please who are your people ?
@topic, no idea as to why Indians prefer cremation.

It started from

https://www.nairaland.com/1004660/cancer-nasal-cavity#11639201

May God bless us as we help.

Cultist or not, the killer is just wicked, evil and cold blooded. How can you repeatedly stab another fellow till he slumps? Even a butcher would shudder at this.
I hope he's caught and locked up forever.
Btw, why did the crowd attempt to go after the killers dad? Did he aid, shield or send his son to kill?
No one was able to stop him when he was stabbing the guy? Kai, awurade please have mercy.

Why don't we Africans ever learn ?

I'm quite surprised to see "Allwell" in the list

Funny but true.

Ala Mbano lekwa oh.iwucha health councellor? Ihe a wughi ihe nta,o wughi mpompo.Tosh ele gi,ele nkpi Mbano?
Ada Maria i Kara aka.I di over kajad.

Aggy na Achi biko puonu n'uzo.

Maria de merciful. Nne i di 10 much.
Nwanyi tosh no n'ulo ugbu a ya mere he can't come online ugbu a. You must understand, darling that technically, tosh is not married. Ihe merenu Wu na queen Eliza got tired of Ikpe Ikpe tosh na umu nwanyi, so na last ikpe btw tosh na felimbobo, Prime minister mere suggest ka a lunye tosh "leila Ali". Long story short, tosh got a wife, a man eater, bone crusher as a send off gift from UK.

Ada, nwe ndidi, tosh na abia.

Confusion don miss road. Yeparipa!
Thread would is on it's way to 3rd world war.