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Odunnu:
Watching from the sidelines.
These akatas wud soon storm hia with their dollars and crash your hard earnd naira,Nella

rofl

Like seriously?u guys took the Ops assumption to be anything?Dude only wanted to advertise his blog, . . sadly though i dont think that was successful.

which website be diop?why dont u copy and paste
Btwn,all these daily Gen"s threads sef,its hightime the mods creates a sub-section for her . . .she apparently brings traffic,stalkers,haters and fans.

chaircover:
I have never been in that situation so dont have specific answers for you but what I do know is that the devil finds work for idle hands

SO it may be an idea to take one of the kids with you (assuming that you have kids) so you have something to focus your attention on when you get back from work at your station.

If you are a Christian take part in weekly church activities etc, Also be very careful of the types of friends you keep in your station

You and your wife also have to to be strict and agree that the weekend is for both of you alone. So no owambe parties or spending hours in go-slow in the quest to visit a long lost relative etc. She is also to be ready for your arrival at the weekend so it is not on Saturday morning that she brings out all the clothes to wash or to go to the market etc

You too have to try and make sure that you leave all your work in the office and spend quality time with your wife (both physical and mental)

Subscribe to a phone messenger service so you can keep in touch throughout the day, webcam on a pc etc

Its not easy but if it has to be done, it has to be done & one can only make the best out of a bad situation. All the best.

Finito.Im there and the above works perfectly.

Ikomi,ha ana eme isi-ewu,ugba na mmai ngwo?
This might be "our" last supper.Darfur gara mu na gi Afghanistan

otumfour:

charlie how far with the palava sauce @ belfast stuff

rofl.
Missing the old nlders now.

zubeyr:
Seyida Ify Let me first wish you and  everybody here Eid Mubarak and Forgive me  Madame for giving you the impression  for being impolite 
  I never  meant to come across that way To answer your question about Ahmediya sect  I would say that Ahmediya people are the followers of   
   an Indian called Mirza Ahmed Ghulam this sect comprises two sub -sects :
"Ahmediya Muslim comuunity" called (Qadiani) and Lahore Ahmediya Movement
   Mainstream Muslims scholars have already issued fatwas unanimously  against this sect which they consider subversive falsely and decietfully
   claiming to be an Islamic sect
   The Highest Muslim Organization (Muslim World League )  which by the way comprises scholars from Both Muslim Schools of Thought 
   (Sunni and Shia)
    issued Fatwa in 1974 stating " that this sect plans to damage the very foundations of Islam its eminent deviation from the basic Islamic
    principles are as follows
    1- its founder claims that he was a Prophet  2 - they (Ahmedis) distort the meaning of the verses of the Koran 3 - they believe
     Jesus is dead 
     The permanent board of Inquiry and Fatwa (Highest Scholars council) in Saudi Arabia Issued a Fatwa against them same year
    Also other Fatwas issued from the follow Muslims Organizations
    Islamic Fiqh Academy of Egypt
    Islamic fiqh  council South Africa
    Fatwa from the Muslim based US Scholar Muzammil Siddiqi
    Shariah Council U K
    To answer your Last question what make this sect different from others Muslims ?
    The Muslims are those who worship Allah alone and follow His Messenger Mohamed (SAW) and believe that He is the Seal of the Prophets
    and there is no Prophet after Him
    as for Ahmedis they claim that Mirza Ahmed was a Prophet after Mohamed (SAW) which make them Kuffar (non Muslim) by contradicting
    This Koranic verse  Allah Says in Surat Alahzab "Mohamed is not the Father of any man among you but He is The Messenger of Allah and the last
    (Seal) of The Prophets " Al Ahzab 40  and because of what The Prophet (SAW) have Said " I am the Seal of all The Prophets there is no Prophet
    after me "( Al Bukhari and Muslim  Imam Ahmed and Abu Dawud )
    Bottom line since they contradicted Koran and Hadith they can't be called Muslims according to all Scholars and  because the major part of Islam
    is believing that there is no Prophet after Mohamed (SAW) that why we Muslims call Him the Seal of the Prophets since Ahmedis do not believe in
    it I don't think they can be assimilated in a Religion which is completely opposite to what they believe
    Last I never came across of thread addressing Ahmediya on NL but the Brothers and Sisters might have the answer

thank you.
i wud get back to you soonest,pls dont go away!
@Maclatunji.U are welcome.
Eid-Mubarak everyone My very first Salla as a believer

. . .akuko.

pslm23:
My question should have been better clarified. If the act had never been practiced while u two were dating and all of a sudden now that you are married, he/she decides he wants it done.
Anyway, i asked this question because last week there was a disturbing but funny newspaper article that brought up this topic between my co-workers and I and we asked ourselves "what would we do"
The article tells the story of an indian couple, newly wed and 4 wks into the marriage, the husband comes and demands that his wife perform the act on him. She refused saying it was against their religion and culture. He grabs her head and tries to force her and she bites down nearly biting his wiwi off.

rofl.
Its all abt communication.Say what u want sweetly,talk ur partner into wanting to explore,dont expect authomatic response,some are fast and eager to try new things and explore,others are not,make it sound intresting and fun etc but still if u try everything and ur partner isnt bending . . dont force him/her.
See what prison ppl have put themselves cos of religion and culture.I and My husband decides what happens in our bedroom and do with our bodies,no clergy,book,culture or whatever can make that decision for us or come btwn us.

@Op,ur wife sees u as a he-goat who at the slightest chance wud sleep with anyone.why stay with one u dont trust

omg!!ur reasons for not "going down" are ridiculous!pulease in our bedroom,the only rule that stands are ones we make.

rofl @ yeast abi gist.

no serious bid for shagamu prince yetlolz

This is so not funny

@Topic,why did they rush to deport her and later claim they want to bring her back?Why deport her at all?her sickness disqualifies her from hajj or what?

hahahahaha.dem try.
Wish them a very happy married life.

zubeyr:
Yeah deleting is something you good at it maybe we should change the forum from Islam for Muslims to" Islam for jarus "

lol
Zubeyr,wud u really have the time to explain and engage others in discussion abt the 'Ah' sect(polite,without insults) ?why wud u think\say that other sects wud issue fatwa on them?any special existing thread for that?what makes the "AH" sect different

Amin to all our prayers.
Eid Mubarak to everyone!

Ehi na enweghi odu,chi ya na achuru ya ijiji.
God has his own ways of taking care of the less priviledged

abeg which one be "almost Us Citizen" ?

Right or wrong i dont know but im only attracted to my husband,others i admire from afar.

@Topic,anyone the bride sees as her dad.It could be an uncle,step-dad,biological dad or even grand dad.Anyone that played that father role for her deserves to walk her down tha aisle.IMO

@Poster,first find out if couple are legally married,married at all or just living together.
I believe most of the work lies with the woman.We need to do away with the orientation that we must keep our man by force or fire.when a man goes crazy to the extent of battering his wife,pls the wife shld aside fasting and praying for change,wake up and save herself by seeking help outside.
Sometimes however,it does not have to be divorce,seperation have worked for some.

jennykadry:
@Papra Mr cork you no go kill persin

lol
Papra=Oprah.
Thread is boring.I wanna see Omo ibo,sagamite and Dayokanu sold.

Ene Nneka and Issac(Goge Africa fame)
Joke Sylvia and Olu Jacobs.

rhymz:
. . .Ramsey Nuoah of course na. . .I saw that guy on E! being labelled one of the sexiest. . .I was like, duh. . I am finer than that dude for 4ck sake. . Nyways na oyinbo, dem no get eyes. . . Oh puhleeese! Which Bimbo fine pass Geny? Abi you want make I take hot chilli wash ya eye?

oga repete
for my own eyez,Bimbo fine pass Gene shikena.

LOL.
Ngwanu Darfur iije oma.
E chefukwana na obim is for u,e mere elu emere ala,i rove u rots.

Outstrip:
She most likely got attention from her lies as a child. So obviously she will continue with it. What you guys thought was funny and laughed at was seen as encouragement.

I agree.
It could also be that the adults shes with lies freely ard her too.They also need to check themselves.

Bimbo all da way I so love her,Luv Gene too but Bimboooooo is terrific.

Gbomo Jomo,haba.
A whole weekend gone and no eye candy for awon babez,not funny jare.

nadneth:
Ify,biko rapu ikomi maka na ojiro okwu. I'm promising u,o buru na i ga ekwe ka anyi gbaa iche na mmadu bu ewu,eziokwu a gam eburu gi wholesale b4 the end of this year.

Ebewu ooh 
Ala owerre lekwe,iche na mmadu bu goat.lolz
Biko im liking your music . . . .m ga enyetu gi retail na 21 days free trial plus 22 moons warranty
Kam ga Youtube ga chopu iche na mmadu gu goat.
@Ikomi,ihulanu ihe delay na ebute?Ikomi iche na Ify wu goat?