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MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.

We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.

Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o

He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.

He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.

I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.

Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.

I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.

How do you guys see it?

I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues.

Bleep him. Them go soon arrest am

Channah1:
Yes. A bed space was what I ended up getting as a matter of urgency.

Once you feel a sweet sensation on your nipples while sleeping, omo no wake up o. Enjoy am like that

dre11:
https://dailytrust.com/army-major-commits-suicide-3-days-to-court-martial-verdict

Na them kill am o. How can someone who is being held have his fire arm with him.

So they finally act this movie for real life

VeryWickedMan:
Which means the guy has money and Tonto Dikeh has been lying about him being broke.

No woman dates a broke man.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

You deliver yourself from the ogbanje spirit and village deity that come to nack you daily at night.

habsydiamond:
The way forward will be separation... If we can be one or act like one since the inception... Am not sure we can now.. Though every region with their own problems but the northern past are riding the other regions in every aspect and yet we are still claiming we are one... If we are one everything should be done equally in every aspects of this country but that's not the case. They are everywhere in government, in ministries and so on... Even the security problems we are combating in this country begins with them.. It as been said if u can not cater for the poor man's children, one day they won't allow ur own children to eat in peace... It's happening now.. When u give birth to multitudes of children and at the end of the day give them bowls to go fend for themselves, what do u expect in return a good citizens of the country or what

Anyone still talking about one Nigeria is a bastard!!!!!!

Cassahav:
I am a fortysomething man in a long-term relationship – nearly 20 years – and have two children. For the past 10 years my partner has been having short-term lovers. These were clandestine, but more recently she has stopped hiding, called our relationship “open”, and currently has a lover who I do know about. But this “open relationship” can only be one-sided, because she is jealous and suspicious while I am basically not polyamorous. So why stay together? We get on, communicate well (other than the no-go zone of her other love life), rarely argue, are bonded by bringing up our children and are financially tied together.

However, the years of suppressing my emotions – of jealousy, rejection, insecurity, being lied to – have left me broken. Sex (which we still occasionally do have) has become stressed: if I don’t perform enthusiastically, it will justify her seeking other lovers. Also, I am expected to remain sexually attracted to her, which gets more difficult when I know she’s been with someone else recently. We had frank talks when she offered to end her extramarital affairs and be monogamous with me – or plan how we might separate without affecting our children. We were both very upset, as we are very much still in love, and wish the sex side of our relationship wasn’t such a terrible mess.

But it has occurred to me that I am emotionally and sexually broken after this past decade. If I was single again – or my partner was to become monogamous with me again – I don’t think I would be a viable person to be in a relationship with. How do I start to repair myself, inside or outside this relationship?

Any advice would be cool.

You need to get another woman and let her be with her lover. Who says you can't be good parents to your children divorced? 10 years apart , committing adultery on post sides is just too dirty and low..you will never be a man, never have your respect and sleeping around will never end , only hidden

So sad, but islam mean piss so wetin I know?

Putt am for the side of cell wey Aiyes dey abeg. Thank you

You can leave. All you owe them is a two weeks notice.

Diabetes go make you fit one time

Omihanifa:
Where PM EXPRESS go see 1billion

I tire. Them get one billion naim them dey work for night?

Lanrelagboi:
https://equitymedia.com.ng/2022/04/28/2023-tinubu-remains-our-rallying-point-says-sanwo-olu-as-amaechi-visits-lagos/

This Samwo Olu always pose like who dey on skushis

musquareni:
The Lagos State Governor, His Excellency Babajide Olusola Sanwo-Olu has declared Monday 2nd,...
Tuesday 3rd, and Wednesday 4th of May, 2022 as Public holidays to mark the 2022 International Workers' Day and Id-El-Fitr Celebrations respectively.

A Match-Past of various workers and Trade Unions will take place at Mobolaji Johnson Arena, Onikan, Lagos, on Sunday, 1st May, 2022 at 9:00am having Mr. Governor as the Special Guest of Honour.

It is to be noted that work resumes on Thursday, 5th May, 2022 at 8:00am.

Members of Staff are enjoined to stay safe during the celebrations.

Source: http://www.9jacodedgist.com/2022/04/lagos-state-governor-declares-holiday.html?m=1

Kuku declare the whole week holiday.

I want to believe Farah's aid but his face have him away, besides everyone in PH is a cultist including Wike

tobisunday:
Location?

08178721654

Lagos. Will call you before close of tomorrow.

She is 20 and you sound 12. You should be lucky to have a big girl date a lil slowpoke like you.

Have respect for Jona, but if he falls for this bait. Then he is indeed the fool they make him out to be.

Why not live with the super presido name and record buhari's failure have made him look like. What a foolish man. He thinks he is loved.

The fulani's only him see him as stupid. That's why they coming for him cos then he will have only four years for the south and bring another fulani prolly Hell Rufai for another 8 years of fulani dominating and almajiri impoverization of Nigeria.

Mumu man!

You mean men can now go for these vipers who cause of their love for money killed this young king at 83. Okay o, me I wash my hand

Good, support the man..I am sure she was absent while the maid did wife duties day and night

Does anyone have a good vehicle for sale on hire purchase. Something in the range of 3-4million spread across 2-3 years. We can do a remittaa fire direct debits and also get any back up document.

Please holla me.

Thanks.

Sales boy claiming Oga

Chop I chop naim make sense pass

cj1900:
Hi guys,
I won't take much of your time. I have a very delicate matter in my hands and I need diverse opinions please.

Background
I don't live in Nigeria but me and my wife both have a very comfortable 4 bedroom duplex in Nigeria. We have a one year old baby. I have been in Nigeria for 5 months now and I will be returning to UK in a few weeks.

Ever since I've been in Nigeria, my cousin (mid 30s) has been with us. Quite frankly, it is not very easy for him at the moment and i do care about him as a brother. He is in the process of processing his visa, so its not as if he is loafing about.

The plan is that both me and my wife will be taking turns in visiting each other for the next 2 or so years until I return fully to Nigeria.

The problem
The problem is that I do not feel comfortable leaving just him and my wife under thesame roof whilst I return and he is not showing any signs of leaving when I return to my base.

So, this is my situation and I don't know if I am being insensitive.

I married a very good wife and under most circumstances, I trust her. I am just not comfortable leaving my wife with any man atall under thesame roof.

I need your opinions pls.

It's either him or the neighbours. Choose one

Iyadesa:
They should've at least given us small prove na

12billion monthly school feeding programme and all the billions that have disappeared through social intervention no enter your ear. You still need proof. Na wa o

OgundeleTeju:
Think thank kini,l have never even heard of that and as the spokesperson has said I want to believe so be it

Think thank wey no dey think before he talk. Lol

Chai, magnus borrow am sense at the end..

Williams3093:
I have never travelled abroad for Medical checkup even as a Governor, I won't start now - Peter Obi

The issue of tackling corruption and reducing the cost of governance is simple as it will start with me and my family members ..... - Peter Obi

We shall use percentages to share Nigerian budget to the critical sectors like Hunger, Health, Education, Security etc, before talking of the office of the president... - Peter Obi

There is no need creating an office of the first lady to pacify women, when I can make them handle critical positions in Nigeria.... - Peter Obi

I will save and invest NIGERIA'S money just as I did in Anambra State.... - Peter Obi

I will ensure restructuring because is a critical component of development.... - Peter Obi

State police will be core in our agenda to tackle insecurity - Peter Obi

Could Obi be the leader we have been looking forward to having?

Ehen nau, but ethnic and religious sentiments won't allow us have the best man

How tupac go date babe you go carry am....you will always be second rated.