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You go die before election..ode

Ayomi90:
I already said this, no be by noise. They come online with joy shouting we will take over GTB, I look Dem I shake my head.

Is this not miscarriage of justice. Day light robbery. Our judicial system is just too corrupt..no hope for the common man in this country. Money don change hands....everyone in Nigeria has a price.

QuizPay:
I will make this epistle to be as short as possible, forget about the grammar and focus on the content ...

Is this a red flag or not or its just what it is, or what is your take in this?

My fiancee Fines it difficult to cook (though she can cook and a very good cook), I am not the type that eat outside always (I love home food), I only do such once in a while. She cooks sometimes in the evening or at night but it's a no no in the morning, I have to make my dishes for myself before going to work and house chores is even the worst. l gave her 9.9% that's how worst in terms of house chores, her excuse is "my weakness is house chores, I will try to be adjusting blablabla.

She only tidy/clean when I complain, after that she returns to former ways except if I complain again. Any time she does house chores she won't let me hear words, I did this, I did that, you don't even appreciate me, I did that too ecsetera. Her suggestion is for us to hire househelp (and house help is a no no for me, even if I will take in house help not now). The house is even small for house help to come in. Sometimes, she dodges cooking by trying to convince me to buy/order food while coming home etc, I do that sometimes but most time I decline and tell her to prepare food at home.

Although if I compel her to do things in romantic way sha she will do it but must I be compelling someone daughter in romantic ways always before doing what she needs to do ni. Also she works in a finance firm and leaves the house around after seven or 7:30am (House to work is close), back by 6pm but should this be an excuse to prepare dish for me, for someone that finds it difficult to prepare breakfast as Early as possible for just one person how much more when kids are involved waking up to take care of kids ecsetera. We agreed she will stop the work and I will set her up when we got marry and she promised after that she will be able to do the tidy and cooking very well . Planning to knot this year anyways, just a bit worry about this house chores of a thing which I have told her times without number...

The good part about her
* She is faithful and literally tells me everything that happens to her on daily basis.
*she can confidently give me her phone to work (this has happened twice, because I need to help in fixing her phone) , which I will give her updates about her callers, messages etc when she returns back from work and her phone has never be on lock.
*She is open and transparent
*She is supportive and submissive (with the time I have spent with her)
*She is a prayer warrior (she can pray for 4hours ), though she skips Sunday sometime because of resting. And Sometimes, i am tempted to tell her to reduce prayer at night so she can cook/tidy things that need to be tidy in the morning.

About me
Me: Am I.T guy, In aspects of earning I earn thrice more than her but I find it easy in doing house chores, (my mama taught me well you know) do dishes and tidy up things myself, (that was how she knows me) and always putting things in place, provides everything needed, supportive etc...Am the kind of person I return home late sometimes because after leaving my official work, I check in my personal business before going home.. So something 9pm or 10pm or 11pm (depends on traffic) before I get back home.

To married people, Councillors, experienced people in the house, , I will like your contribution in terms of House chores issue and wife responsibility etc, It can help me or some people out there in this kind of similar situation. Thank.. (no insult I beg.)

Just a replica of my new babe. She will change and come aroumd, but I will advise you talk this over with her too. Goodluck

jmoore:
That is against the law.

Are you sure? Cos I learnt it from Nigerian Law makers o!

Okay we don hear that one, oya question two. How did you start driving bullion Van Oga?

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

Believe me., Your wife iss just looking for free space to do prostitution..that's why she went to the east and her mother knows..if you want to find out call at.odd hours , her phone go dey off she and her mama go dey give you flimsy excuses up and Down. Find another correct.babe give belle contiune jare

Remove his ceiling and keep quiet. See what happens..thank .e later

Mtchewww. the only thing i want to hear is Ambode is back and left to reconstruct Lagos for 50years abeg.

Go jos, spend the night. Continue next day to yobe

Why 17 months. Resign naaa. Buhari getat!! Just go , go away. Go now. Go and rest like your colleagues. Go away pls

Off you talk too much, you start saying nonsense. Reno be careful

Saved ke? They were going willingly..they will make another attempt def!

You mean 8hours in the other room? We see the result for Aisha body. You try well well, cos I am sure you don't spend more 30sec daily on Nigeria taking about cows.

Dshocker:
Port that was supposed to have been built somewhere around Badagry to avoid congestion along lekki-Epe road

When dangote refinery is in Lekki. You don't know the port is being built to support the wealthy Aboki abi

Na the guy first pull her pant. Make she rest. Story!!!! He dey work naim the guy gbola reach her turn. Mtchewwww

Even soldier dey take drugs to handle naija hoes. I pity who dey flex muscle with them..

ProfAmaben:
I honestly don't understand the basis for this award. Influential as in?

He influenced, shared updates and provided HQs for Anambra fraudsters progress last year

Racoon:
Nothing will become of it as long as bandits cum terrorists have unfettered access to Internet connectivity despite all these their nonsense.

Na kidnapped victim phone wey don register them go take dey contact their families and poop no go still fit trace the call.....biz as usual

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

Can you remember eating any ewedu in the last 6months that was very watery? That was her pussy water used to cook for you. That's why you dey mumu so

his name must be Ode-rinde

dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

Oga them no steal any phone. na Og! buy it and she will store your name as mugu. This kind girl just call her and talk price straight Bleep you own , pay and go

If na naija, the debt for kill the man while the woman will use the money to go carry one eleran seller

Marriage has ended. 10years from today no one will want to marry.

Lol, bros after she knew you were done and stopped calling. She still went back to that room to get bleeped mercilessly for 10k. Forget the bitch

Souzin:
Please help me out.

I have an issue in my relationship and it's getting me really pissed.

So let me say this, I have only dated two persons, one sometime in 2016 and this new relationship that's been at it for 2 years.

My girlfriend seem to think it's cool for her to hangout with guys that are toasting or want to sleep with her.

These are the same ppl she calls friends, not ppl she has known for long oh but ppl she just met and want to sleep with her.

NOTE: my gf has really big ass, big enough it causes stares when we go out.

So you can imagine the number of advances she gets.

I really want to know from people, guys, do you allow your girlfriend hang out with such ppl?

Ladies, you do entertain such invites? why?

Ashawo dey get bf? Stop fooling yourself

Of course Haruna will deny it, cos he is responsible for the pregnancy. �

I was expecting to see an Aboki

305billi for elections that is never credit, not digital or transparent. Na wa o

olasaad:
Or maybe FFK don't want to be like Devido paying her child support that she will be lavishing on herself. Anyways sha I know FFK will prefer to take care of the kids by himself than paying child support.

It is not about money, if one have it what is there? Many billionaires have gone through devorce with huge settlements, some still paying child support. What is playing out here is pain, bitterness, someone does not want it to end. FFK is obssessed, just look at that beauty........he needs to inflict some kind of pain and stress her.....if you love someone , you set the free!

motionarena:
Deab Gbola?

How many kids you own don produce.
You that is using Viagra

na me dey ask wetin the drug be, na you know am. who they use am