Yelabechi: I am a guy of 34 and I'm married with 2kids. I have been going through my mom's phone for a while now and things I see on it are too bad. She has been having sexchats with 3 different men, I am most certain she has met and had sex with one of them.
Background to the story....
My dad has never been the very responsible type, a chronic womanizer and he was always hurting her because she loved him to the extreme. There had been cases where she was even arrested by the police from one of his side chicks who he sponsored through school till she graduated, also a time he brought another one home who engaged in fight with my mom and nothing was done by my dad. There are so many cases like that whom i may not be able to say much on to avoid long story.
As I write this now, he has been out of the house for the past one month living with a girl of about 24. I called him severally man to man to know his motive and he said he can't just explain it but mom has not wrong him in a way because she is a good wife who knows how to take care of her man.
My mom is very beautiful and looks younger than a woman in her fifties so it is not unexpected that other men would hit on her.
I took time to imagine walking in her shoes and I understand she is really hurt, she has asked to leave his house several, I've been the one calming her down and advising her not to leave at her age. She is independent and has a good job, and according to her there is no sexual relationship between them again.
Now I know she is flirting with these men due to loniless and several heartbreak but then, it is disgusting to me that my mom is involved in that even to the point of sending nudes, I saw all these and I am just confused on how to handle this matter.
Should I confront her or just keep mute.
please I will advice you to stop invading into your moms privacy, your dad started it, until he comes back to his normal senses!
While interviewing people yesterday, two men vow that they are not leaving, that they will ride in their boat! Lets see how they will survive!
Explorers: 'This is a storm that will kill you if you don't get of the way'
'We can rebuild your homes, but we can't rebuild your lives' Governor of Florida
The largest evacuation in US history is underway as more than 5.6million people have been ordered to leave Florida before Category 5 Hurricane Irma strikes the Sunshine State.
The state's Gov. Rick Scott urged people who hadnot left yet to leave as soon as possible on Friday.
He warned those who plan to stay, that they may have to ride out the dangerous storm at their own risk.
He explained that the biggest concern with the powerful hurricane is the predicted storm surge that will come along with the lashing winds and heavy rains.
The storm has the potential to do $125billion worth of damage when it strikes Miami and possibly much more.
Irma has caused devastation in the Caribbean, killing at least 24 and leveling entire islands.
Extensive damage has been reported on Barbuda and St Martin, with over 90 per cent of buildings wrecked.
The storm is currently battering the northern coast of Cuba.
The Nigerian priest, who resigned recently from the Catholic Church in Nigeria, has officially launched his own church in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State.
Patrick Edet, while serving in the Catholic Diocese of Uyo, ran a ‘Pentecostal-styled’ fellowship called Grace Family Outreach within the Catholic structure.
Mr. Edet, who had been a Catholic priest for more than 11 years, stunned the Catholic community in Akwa Ibom when he announced on a live radio programme on August 2 that he was leaving the Catholic Church to live his life as an independent cleric.
The Catholic Church later responded by stripping him of the rights and privileges enjoyed by priests and also barred Catholics from relating with him.
There has been a measure of excitement in Uyo over the recent launch of Mr. Edet’s ministry since his exit from the Catholic fold.
Some Catholic members, PREMIUM TIMES found out, have been attending the programme, even though the Catholic Bishop of Uyo Diocese, John Ayah, had earlier warned that any Catholic member who attends his programme or identifies with him (Mr Edet) in any way “does so at the risk of his or her Catholic faith and membership.”
Mr. Edet on September 1 launched a “mega revival” programme in Uyo, using his outreach.
The eight-day programme, which he tagged “The Great Awakening”, is currently holding in a city hall and has been attracting large crowds daily.
He has also erected billboards at strategic locations within the city to announce the programme which is his first major public outing since he quit the Catholic Church in August.
A member of the outreach, who gave his name simply as Chukwuemeka, told PREMIUM TIMES on telephone that Mr. Edet would be holding subsequent meetings in the city hall. He didn’t, however, say how often the meetings would take place.
On Saturday, during the second day of the church programme, several people defied the heavy rainfall to attend his programme.
About six police officers were deployed to guard the congregation during the programme.
PrettyCrystal: A Nigerian lady has left her family and friends in sorrow following her demise in Mecca during this year's pilgrimage. According to Abdullahi I. Mahuta who shared the sad news, the lady's last statement to her mother when she was leaving for this year's Hajj was: 'God can take her life over there as long as she completes the Hajj pilgrimage successfully'..Her prayer was apparently answered.
According to report, she died of a natural course. May her soul rest in peace.
The veteran actor needs our prayers urgently This is coming few days after another famous actor in that series Uncle Gaga died too..Please let's continue to pray for divine healing for him.
CastedDude: Online users have been left bewildered after photos of a remote Nigerian community where women go topless and bare their breasts publicly (as well as the men also). A Reverend sister who visited the community posed for pictures with one of the topless women.
A lady in the picture can be seen wearing a shirt belonging to the National Association Of Catholic Graduates - NACG in Niger state.
That kind of bed while having s*x it will be making sound like, quicky quicky quicky! [quote author=stephenduru post=60218484]What is this world turning into?A man said to be a Kenyan shared after sex photos with his girlfriend on social medai.In one of the photos,the lady's tips were clearly shown.The photos have been trending online,with many saying that it was improper for him to share the photos on social media.
Story! No be Nigeria we dey? At the end what will happen will happen! [ quote author=Ekitipolitics post=60209721]*REACTIONS OF OLOWO BABATOPE SUNDAY MOVEMENT (OBSM) TO THE PURPORTED ADOPTION OF PROF. KOLAPO OLUSOLA DEPUTY GOVERNOR OF EKITI STATE AS CONSENSUS/SOLE CANDIDATE FOR PDP GUBERNATORIAL ELECTION IN 2018.*
1. The attention of OBSM has been drawn to the charade that took place at the Government house this afternoon by some political appointees, Councillors and a few members of the House of Assembly allegedly adopting Prof. Olusola as their "consensus/sole" candidate for 2018 Gubernatorial election in Ekiti state. This is a clear breach of the constitution of the Peoples' Democratic Party (PDP) and the provisions of the Electoral Act (as amended).
See Sections 50 (1), Section 50(2) and 50(2b) of the PDP constitution (2012)as amended.
The meeting of the amorphous group that was hastily convened today out of fear for the overwhelming popularity of youth advocacy for power to the youth. It is important to note that PDP as a political party is bigger and larger than an individual no matter how highly placed he or she may be as to override the rules and regulations of the party which are sacrossant in the election of any candidate for elective position.
OLOWO BABATOPE SUNDAY movement (OBSM) believes in credible, transparent and free and fair primary for all aspirants for the position of governor come 2018.
OBSM rejects the purported adoption of a sole candidate in its entirety as there are many other aspirants for the governorship race in 2018.
This gathering was organized and supervised by Governor Fayose to impose a stooge as the sole candidate for PDP in EKITI State.
Finally, we implore members of the public and our teaming supporters to ignore and disregard the charade that took place at the Government house today. It will go down in history as a day of infamy in the already dark days of Fayose's administration.
Signed TUNDE ADENIRAN FOR: OLOWO BABATOPE SUNDAY (OBSM)[/quote]
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i will not click that link... Why cant u post the pics and comments here like others..must i pass tunnel just to see pics?? Btw..wetin i wan use my fellow female nude pics do?
author=FRESHGIST247 post=60207854]The recent flood disaster in Benue State has paved way for sex-crazed persons to have fun at the Internally Displaced Persons (IDPs) set up to cater for victims.
DAILY POST exclusively gathered that the romp has become rampant in the IDP camp within the last one week.
Our reporter, who was at the IDP camp during the weekend, discovered that despite the unconducive environment, some people are engaging in sexual intercourse right in the camp.
Packs of used condoms and a blood-stained pant were seen.
One of the IDPs, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, alleged that some individuals troop into the camp at night in the name of bringing relief materials to the flood victims but end up ‘bedding’ some of the homeless female victims.
He said aside the visitors, men and women within the camp also engage in sexual escapade.
A mother of three, who gave her name as Rose told this reporter that a particular man she identified as Famous always come to the camp at night and go out with some of the girls.
“This is what we have been facing here within the last one week. They have turned the camp to a sex haven.
“In fact, there is this particular man who calls himself Famous, each time he comes here, he stays till late night.
“Sometimes, he ends up going out with some of the girls, whom he claims are his relatives”, she said.
Asked if she had reported to the emergency officials, Mrs. Rose said, “It is not my business to do that. If the girls agree with him, who am I to stop them?”
An official of the Benue State Emergency Management Agency, who said they have no right to stop any legally married couple from making love.
“It is not part of our duty to stop anyone from having sex. We have not heard of any rape case so far, so I can’t speak on people having sex.
“Don’t forget we have married people in this camp. We can only advise them to avoid it for the meantime,” the official who declined to be named told DAILY POST.
When informed that some packs on condoms and blood-stained pant were seen in the camp, she angrily replied thus: “nobody has complained to us about this. I am just hearing this for the first time.”
“If you see condoms and blood-stained pant, then I have no idea of how they got in here. Excuse, I am busy now.”
When contacted, the Benue State Police PRO, Mosesw Yamu, said he is not aware of the development.
“Was anybody raped? I was in the camp today and I didn’t see such. Such things are better seen and not heard.
“These are pictures and subject to verification, besides, nobody reported any case of rape or any form of sexual abuse in the camp,” he said. The recent flood disaster in Benue State has paved way for sex-crazed persons to have fun at the Internally Displaced Persons (IDPs) set up to cater for victims.
DAILY POST exclusively gathered that the romp has become rampant in the IDP camp within the last one week.
Our reporter, who was at the IDP camp during the weekend, discovered that despite the unconducive environment, some people are engaging in sexual intercourse right in the camp.
Packs of used condoms and a blood-stained pant were seen.
One of the IDPs, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, alleged that some individuals troop into the camp at night in the name of bringing relief materials to the flood victims but end up ‘bedding’ some of the homeless female victims.
He said aside the visitors, men and women within the camp also engage in sexual escapade.
A mother of three, who gave her name as Rose told this reporter that a particular man she identified as Famous always come to the camp at night and go out with some of the girls.
“This is what we have been facing here within the last one week. They have turned the camp to a sex haven.
“In fact, there is this particular man who calls himself Famous, each time he comes here, he stays till late night.
“Sometimes, he ends up going out with some of the girls, whom he claims are his relatives”, she said.
Asked if she had reported to the emergency officials, Mrs. Rose said, “It is not my business to do that. If the girls agree with him, who am I to stop them?”
An official of the Benue State Emergency Management Agency, who said they have no right to stop any legally married couple from making love.
“It is not part of our duty to stop anyone from having sex. We have not heard of any rape case so far, so I can’t speak on people having sex.
“Don’t forget we have married people in this camp. We can only advise them to avoid it for the meantime,” the official who declined to be named told DAILY POST.
When informed that some packs on condoms and blood-stained pant were seen in the camp, she angrily replied thus: “nobody has complained to us about this. I am just hearing this for the first time.”
“If you see condoms and blood-stained pant, then I have no idea of how they got in here. Excuse, I am busy now.”
When contacted, the Benue State Police PRO, Mosesw Yamu, said he is not aware of the development.
“Was anybody raped? I was in the camp today and I didn’t see such. Such things are better seen and not heard.
Bros carry go! You are good to go! Earnering 35k today doesn't mean you will earn that till the end of your life!
donpata: I was moved to write this epistle cos of the fp topic of marrying someone who earns 35k yesterday. I have seen such questions on NL but I normally ignore them. Someone even asked if a lady can marry someone who earns 100k . I normally laugh at the comments and move on. I laughed at the sheer ignorance of many commenters, and the foolish statements many made. I decided to assume that 70% of the people who commented are either undergraduates still studying who have a big Disney picture of the sweet employment awaiting them or some who have not really known what is out there in the world. The remaining 20% earn well probably and so feel life should be like that for everyone. The remaining 10% commenters are those who really see life as it is in reality – DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS. Now am gonna be objective and subjective at the same time. And let me warn you – IT’S LONG
Me? 30yrs, had my BSc in the north but did my MSc at UI. Hoping to register for Phd by next year. My fiancée? 24ys old and currently awaiting 300 lv registration. Will be done by 2019.
Fact: without any serious research, I think I am save to say that at least 50% of families (basically father and mother) in Nigeria earn a combined income of less than 40k in a month. Fact: The federal govt claims it has about 100k civil servants. Add paramilitary and military with about 500k personnel and public office holders, I think 800k people in active service on FG’s payroll is a fair judgment. For the sake of argument, let’s assume fg has another 800k retired personnel on pension. That’s like 1.6 million people. Nigeria has a population of 180million people. The WB estimate Nigeria has a workforce of about 60 million in 2016. If we delete the 1.6million on FGs payroll, we still have about 58.4million people left. Obviously, the remaining are left for the State and Local govt as well as private sector to employ. How many are employed? Lagos state claims it has about 100,000 workers in its payroll. Let me be liberal enough to use it as a benchmark for all Nigerian states and fct. 100k by 37 = 3.7million employees. Obviously, we still have over 50million people to employ. How many will the Real private sector pick? Yeah those that will pay a graduate from 60k above – how many can they pick? Now many will have to be entrepreneurs, “self-employed” people, petty traders, artisans etc. How much can they really earn monthly?
Fact: 80% of state and LGA workers between level 1 and 10 earn less than 50k in a month. Apart from states like Lagos, Rivers, Akwa Ibom and a few others, most states, especially in the North, pay quite low. On level 8, with Kad Govt, I earn 35-37k. It fluctuates monthly. Note that there are married people with at least 3 children that are on lev 1 - 6. Do the maths.
Wedding: Many asked how one will pay bride price. Well, I have crossed that bridge. I know my status so before I even got a lady, I started buying some stuff like wrappers to keep. More so, my savings, family and friends rally round me and that was solved. Only a foolish lady will think of bride price as an issue here. Except if her family is poor, why should they demand too much?. 2 of my sisters that married had their bride price pegged at 5k each. The total money paid on the first was 25k and 50k for the 2nd. Mind you, they are currently running their masters programme so they ain’t illiterates. Let me stop here.
So the Wedding? How will I handle it? SIMPLE: I AM CUTTING MY COAT ACCORDING TO MY POCKET
Box: I went to the market and saw boxes of 100-200k. I was showed a set of 5 for 30k as well. I opted for a set of 5 at 60k. That’s my own level too. Mind you there were people picking that of 30k too. Different strokes for Different folks.
RECEPTION VENUE: Church Premises. My church got a lot of space so why should I spend 200-500k (that I don’t even have) renting a hall for a 2hr event? A guy who got married last month in my Church did not do reception at all. Again, Different strokes for Different folks.
Wedding Cards: Saw a nice foreign one. They said it will cost me 30k per 100. I needed 500. I was showed another that will cost 5k per 100. I Finally opted for the one of 10k per 100. Even got a 5k discount.
My suit? I opted for a 16k suit and my best man decided to pay for it.
My shoes? I got really nice shoes but coz it’s my day, I opted for new ones. I picked up a very nice one for 2k. It aint top notch quality but it should take me through the day. It can actually pass for a ck or d&g when viewed from a distance.
My Chairs and Canopies? My organizers are 20. Lol . They have paid 80% of the money.
Cake? My aunt who has a HND in catering bla bla and has been in it for almost 15yrs running has taken that as her contribution.
DJ and Camera man? My men in suit, (5 in number) have paid for that service.
MC? A friend is good at it. That is his contribution.
Wedding Gown: My cake designer linked me to a lady who rents out. She thus charged us 10k for a nice wedding gown. I deposited 5k. Will pay 5k after the event. Need I continue? I don’t think so.
The main thing – The marriage life Yeah I know you are saying all I have said na wash. You are waiting for how reality will hit me after the marriage cos that’s the main deal. You gonna say you await my regret thread after some few months. Sorry, your expectation will be cut short.
Fees: Now, my to-be wife will be registering for a new session by December. Her fees is just arnd 30k so I kept that amount and I have promised myself not to touch it until its time. I don’t even need to touch it. Everything appears almost set and done.
Clothing: I filled my wife’s box to the “brim” with both native and English wears. So for now, cloths aint really an issue.
Accommodation: Here in KD, a 1 bedroom mini flat cost between 80-150k depending on the location. Am not talking of a 2 room flat cos, truly, I don’t need it now. But I am not even thinking of taking the mini flat either. A room and parlor (real face me I face u) cost between 18k-45k depending on the location. There are better ones; mostly new houses that cost 40-60k. I’ve gotten a very nice one for 55k. Just 2 tenants in the house and the other guy is single so we just gonna be sharing the toilet with him. It’s not that I can’t afford it but wisdom must direct me. I got 2plots of land already so I don’t even intend staying in that house beyond a year or 2.
My building: I already have 2 plots of land. I’ve struck an agreement with some guys who will supply me mud blocks at N20 each. At my estimate of 3000 blocks, that’s 60k . Havent paid but after my wedding, I will do it jejely. My plan is to rush the building and roof it b4 the rains come next year. I paid some guys in my area 7k so by next week, they are gonna go there and dig the foundation of a 2bedroom flat for me. Not that I am building now but I have to dig during the rainy season cos the land gets hard during the dry season. My intention is to use just ¼ of the land for that so that when I am blessed wella, I will use the remaining ¾ of the land to build my pent house. Need I tell you that by estimates, I need 6 bundles of those “aluminum” sheets to roof it? I bought 3 last year when it was 16k. I could not add cos it went up to 30k. I heard it’s 20k now but I can’t buy the remaining 3 now cos of my wedding preps. Will do that after my wedding when I have relaxed a bit.
Feeding? A 50kg bag of rice takes me over 5 months now that I am alone. I believe in varieties so I got different things stocked in my room. Adding one or two extra plate should not make life difficult. I planted maize on my 2 plots. Once harvested, I won’t need to buy semovita all the time. If you have been to the north, you will know that with my harvest, Tuwo is served. Need I continue? I don’t think so. Let me not bore you further.
My support to extended Families Someone asked in that thread that how do one take care of his families and inlaws. Well, my family aint rich but they can cater for themselves. My dad and mum earn and have only one child left in the university. Moreover, they are sensible enough to know that they should not expect from me. Rather, what is sensible is for them to support me if need be . My fiancées’ parents aint rich either. But I know they aint so poor to demand me to take care of their own responsibility when they know I have their daughter to cater for. Of coz, once in a while, I will do what I can for our families.
Children Just a child and I will pause until she is done with school. I know it’s gonna come with challenges but I don’t think you expect me to plan out every day of my life and budget for same here. I know that I will cross the bridge when I get there.
Other wants I am a gadget freak. Before my wedding preps, I buy things impulsively. Now I know I have to control that. I know what lies ahead of me. That’s why I didn’t go for an iphone but went for a hot note. When the hot note packed up, I didn’t kill myself for a Samsung s7 even though I love it. I went for my sweet Ulefone Tiger @ 31k. When I went for a tab, I didn’t go for an ipad; not even a tecno pad. I went for imose xii . Instead of ps3 console, I download games to my laptop and play them. That serves me.
I CAN TRULY GO ON AND ON BUT CALLING SOMEONE A FOOL AS MANY DID ON THAT THREAD YESTERDAY IS QUITE ILLOGICAL. My dad married at 24. My mum was 19 then. Both are now degree holders. Things have changed and that’s why I am marrying at 30. I don’t want to clock 50 and yet taking my first child to write Common Entrance. If you like say I am rushing. Firstly, I love my fiancée die. 2ndly, I am a Christian and my bodily desires are building up strongly. Marriage is the way out. 3rdly, I love kids. Since they are an inheritance, I can’t wait to have one as God wills. Lastly, I wanna retire in peace. Not old man using my pension to train undergraduates and Jambites. Finally, I am not complacent with where I am. I have handled a few millions before but this is where I am now. I wanna go for my phd and I hope to reestablish myself in business. But I can’t again let my social life suffer cos of where I am today. I have a job now; low paying as it is, I know if well managed, I will make it out. Even if I remain in the employ of the State Govt, I cant earn 35k forever. I am young and will keep moving on.
DISCLAIMER: This is not meant to force anyone to get married when he is not ready - Not at all. I just want some people to know that there are different strokes for different folks. There are too many factors that determine happiness and success in life and marriage. Your salary is just one. YOU CANT CALL ME A FOOL FOR MY DECISION. I HAVE CAREFULLY WEIGHED MY CIRCUMSTANCE AND PROSPECTS AND I FEEL I AM READY TO TAKE THE LEAP. I KNOW IT WONT BE A WALK IN THE PARK; BUT IT WONT BE TOO DIFFICULT EITHER. FOR THE “FOOLS AT 40” WAITING FOR THEIR MILLIONS TO BUILD UP BEFORE SETTLING DOWN, TILL UNA COME. FORGIVE ME FOR THE LONG EPISTLE. HAD TO TAKE MY TIME SO THAT SOME PEOPLE WILL APPRECIATE THAT NO TWO PEOPLE HAVE SAME CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATIONS.
I PROMISE TO RAISE ANOTHER THREAD ANNUALLY TO TELL YOU HOW FAR WE HAVE GONE.
Obasanjo, ameachi, fasola, tinubu, and the one that owns hotel in Dubai, these are the names of the top thief's I was expecting to see in that list, but am disappointed!
zoba88: These two middle age men were arrested by police operatives attached to Iwo Division. The suspects were nabbed along Osogbo/Oyo road with two human wrists in their possession.
Family › Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by ikemesit4477: 10:23am On Sep 17, 2017
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. I normally laugh at the comments and move on. I laughed at the sheer ignorance of many commenters, and the foolish statements many made. I decided to assume that 70% of the people who commented are either undergraduates still studying who have a big Disney picture of the sweet employment awaiting them or some who have not really known what is out there in the world. The remaining 20% earn well probably and so feel life should be like that for everyone. The remaining 10% commenters are those who really see life as it is in reality – 
So for now, cloths aint really an issue. 
