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Some men are empty. Apart from their money, they have nothing else to offer..

No mental stimulation

Cannot have an intelligent conversation

Very superficial

mejorhofficial:
inihe se mbunam sa adoho eyen eka mmi but mmaha se ake tang ado

Ku yad esit. Amekop?

mejorhofficial:
ukapa uyak ado awo nfen..

Ami kedo. Nso abi nam?

Haba na!! How did you get to this point? You are 36 and still not able to make your decisions yourself. Choosing a life partner is a personal thing. No one should do it for you...not even your parents.

Yoruba parents are fond of this. That's how my friend's mum kicked against his marriage to an igbo lady. The mum wanted him to marry her friend's daughter.

The guy told his mum that it is the igbo lady that makes him happy and he will marry her. He told her she doesn't need to attend...that they will send her pictures and come for her blessings later

Please be bold. Your parents are human beings who make mistakes. They are not always right. You are not their puppet.

Rexnegro:
what else do u people have again ?
brain ? empty
behaviour? ugly
money source ? men
loyalty? so expensive
sex? only few good
decency ? questionable
social interaction? most of u are damn too boring
etc etc

You better stop mingling with girls that have nothing to offer. Where do you even meet these girls ?

agbonkamen:
for Nigerian men it's boobs and ass wise.

NL guys especially. They don't know more than ass and boobs.

Toks2008 you have been quiet. I haven't seen any threads from you lately.

I become quiet for that period because my tongue can be a 2 edged sword.

Silentscreamer:
Y dont u ask d women in ur family why dey are not decent...

That is a good place for him to start

This writeup is very apt. The person above saying it is useful to improve sex skills is only living in denial and deceiving himself. There are people that have never watched porn but are very "skilful".

Porn does not have any positive effects. Show me someone whose life was made better with porn.

Maybe because you are not decent or husband material

ubunja:
i cant stand an opinionated woman coz when im with a woman i love i wanna relax. i like dealing with smart women in business, but at not at home. if i cant find such, i would rather be single till i die. i cant stay with a headache 24/7 365 all my life. no ways.

You haven't met a woman that can make you relax??

Well we cannot have everything we wish. Even a lady in her 20s cannot guarantee that.

Hubby and I have our fights and downtimes no doubt but i make sure our home is a place of relaxation for him. If he is not at work, 90% of his free time is at home. He watches all his matches at home, rests,etc.

I am not in my 20s

ubunja:
im getting tired of being told im insecure. thats why i avoid 30+ women. they cant allow a man to disagree without making it about his esteem. am i suppossed to agree with you always?
im happy enough with the early 20s girls.i dont need the headache of the 30s women. no thanx.

it is funny how you believe a 20s woman will be dumb and meek and just totally worship you. Don't be deceived.

I don't look or act anything like my age. Everyone says i must be a vampire. My friend said i stopped aging at 21. If i had met you or a guy that thinks like you, i would have dated you to prove a point.

muyiwatosin:
a wife came out confessing her wrong and looking how to make it right, and you are judging the husband. if you play god for one second what would you turn this world into?

Is that not how a man cheats and everyone blames the wife for "not keeping" her man. So why are you not blaming the man for not keeping his woman?

What has playing God got to do with this?

ubunja:
a woman above 30 is like a broke man. she no longer has anything to offer. no freshness. no more a peaceful dove. just angry and always pissed off, with 100degrees of attitude. its so rare to meet a woman over 30 who is not angry

You are wrong. You are simply stereotyping. She has a lot to offer, still fresh and lively and not always angry as you believe.

Maybe you keep attracting or meeting the supposed angry ladies. I guess you have a problem with a woman being confident of herself from years of learning and experience. You prefer someone you can mould or bully...like a clean slate.

"...to stole?"

Can you guys just write good English please?

ubunja:
well if it took a wife to make you happy then your life really was hard

I know even with all your theories about women, you will actually get married one day.

What do you really have against women above 30?

Ubanagum:
What if the daughter seduced him? we read a similar case last week where the father claimed that the daughter seduced him

So if your daughter seduces you, you will oblige her?

Annoying story.

After he used you for sex, dumped you and got married, you still went back to him. You must be very dull.

So your life paused waiting for him to come back. You cannot move on.

Keep it up. He will dump you the second time and go back to his wife.

muyiwatosin:
yeah, but its the wife who is talking now, not the husband. lets face what we have before us instead of the one we dont have

Whether we have that info or not, my point is her being fit and hot looking doesn't guarantee a happy home or none cheating husband

ubunja:
i hear you. but 30something women are way too close to menopause to give me peace. i want a woman who'll give birth young and grow with her child.imagine a 40 yr old mother of a 2 yr old? doesnt sound right. its a crime of nature.

You may not fancy them but they still get married and bear children. And it is men who marry them. People want different things in marriage. For some, it is not about the age.

mejorhofficial:
i didn't see you comment on any post

Stalker spotted

Safiaa take note

muyiwatosin:
this is where i get angry the more.... dont continue to deceive us after you don spread legs give another man by putting the blame on your husband and issues you are having at home, why didnt you jump into a moving dangote trailer becos of issues? we are not fools, what you did is in you, am sure you are those type of wives who dont obey their husband and are insubmissive

For all we know, the husband might also be cheating and blaming it on his wife and the issues they are having.

All these tadpoles on nairaland coming up with tiny minded posts.