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26? And being caged like that?


By the time you are 33, they are the ones that will start putting pressure on you and frustrating you about not being married.

When you go out, you don't have to pick up their calls till you get home. Put your phone on silent. When you get back and they shout, don't respond. Be very miserly with words. Do not give too much information.

Become reserved and try to avoid confrontation with them.

Then one day, tell them that you are moving in with your friend. If they shout, remain calm but do what you need to do. You need space.

You are an adult. Parents are not right all the time. They just try to do what they feel is right.

edoman2016:
No man will abandon a good and loving wife to become a single mother. Most single mothers are feminist. They are arrogant, rude and unsubmissive to their husbands. They are full of troubles in marriages.

Even Bible supports a man to run away from a troublesome wife and sleep peacefully on a tree.

You forgot to mention the countless irresponsible men.

You can imagine a man abandoning his pregnant wife and cruising around town with ladies and lodging in hotels even with her money sometimes.

The lady blames herself everyday for not seeing the guy for what he truly was.

Even the guy's friends are ashamed for their friend and keep appealing to her.

Infact nobody is against her leaving because she has dealt with his excesses and nobody not even his mum can talk to him.

So please,it is not always about feminism or arrogance. Some men behave like they are the I am that I am.

Fuckyoumod:
if your a lady, please sis, having a rethink might just be healthy for you. Only a foolish man would be in a marriage where his wife does not listen to him (submission).

Except you have made up your mind to be a single mum.

There is nothing in my response that says women should not submit. Men should not expect a woman that will not ask questions especially if she is not treated right all in the name of submission.

fykes:
Who virgin EPP?

The guys that clamour for it.

Hanseel1:
men pay the bride price not women

And how is this already known information relevant here?

felaismyhero:
wow,you really are realistic nd sensible.let me add to wat u typed.i think a man must show himself worthy of respect;its a useless man dat wud be telling his wife 'why dont u respect me'.our fathers in d past married as many women as they desired and they still got them all to respect them! thats being a man.

He is meant to earn the respect, rather than using it as a punctuation in his sentences everytime.

Plusstreet:
Spotted. God did not see the meeting point while making the arrangement for a peaceful home.Na una go tire.

He talked about the man loving the woman. And you know how a man who loves behaves...

laudate:
Erm... I believe you wanted to say that most men are chauvinistic?

So now you are in my mind abi

Hanseel1:
kindly shut up.. leave which house?

if it was the man that killed the lady I'm sure you wouldn't have said that

He should have left the house to save his life since he seemed to believe that the wife would hurt him when he called several people.

The woman should face the full wrath of the law. I don't know what she was thinking especially as a lawyer.

queensera:
See Graphics Photos & Video:

http://www.nairaplus.com/2018/05/lady-stabs-husband-to-death-then-tries.html

I can bet that there are no further photos here except the ones we see here. Just a cunning way to get traffic to your blog. Well done

Put it the other way: Respect begets love.
But sometimes, Love and respect don't go hand in hand

Sometimes, a person might respect you but still doesn't love you. Few weeks ago, My colleague told me ' she doesn't like me at all'. Out of curiosity I ask her why; she was like ' You're too arrogant for my liking but still I have some respect for you because you don't take shit from anybody"

Respect might not beget love but love begets respect

Some times, love and respect don't go hand in hand.

Correct me if am wrong..

Respect might not beget love but love begets respect.

press005:
am listening

Naah...I'll pass

True love begets respect. So they should work hand in hand.

I should confess so that American embassy or my proposed employer will come and see it bah!!

Nothing to confess though

So how do you guys now want to marry virgins?

mrphysics:
How much for?

Were you paid to hype this person?

Please do not let anyone put you under pressure to marry.

Who says you have to pick one of the two options?

There can be option C also.

You need love to marry and you also need money.

You don't love option A and marriage is probably the last thing on option B's mind because he doesn't even have a job yet.

And if you really loved option B the way you claim,you wouldn't have an option A.

Mrphysics how much?

From the countless threads here and the depth of it, i think it should be masturbation.

mrphysics:
People should just do the right thing. We all know the right thing but need people to teach/force us to do it.

Love is required from both couples and submission is necessary for both of them too. There is no reason the woman will only 'submit' and not love and the man will 'love' and not submit.

You are right.A woman naturally loves but submission doesn't come easy. That's probably why the submission part is emphasized.

As long as they both love each other, they should be able to work out what works for them. All these guys acting macho and demanding submission or slavery up and down don't understand yet. They haven't got the memo.

And it is not about feminism or equality but about a woman also being a human being with a mind of her own, dreams,ambitions, strong will,etc.

I am sure he is one of those that believe konji has no conscience. I bet it was the devil's work or his wife chased him out and so many shallow excuses i hear you guys say

Mkpi

Dirkcoyt:
i guess you're a member of either deeper life or CAC cause you're a bit conservative. no problem about that though.

I don't think i have ever attended any. I am more realistic than conservative.

There seems to ne something fundamentally wrong with SA guys. It has always been rape, murder...crime upon crime especially among the blacks.

Sweetcollins:
Nice look out
But l prefer them athletic like Angelina Jolie

Atheltic? Angelina Jolie? Or you mean frail

Dude so because your lady messed up, you use her;one person to label "ladies" . Does it even sound intelligent to you?

Please talk about your ex and stop making it general.

Next2Bezee:
So Heterosexuals don't get Hiv?

The mouth is still more prone to infections than the anus yet everyone uses their mouths for a myraid of reasons daily.

The vagina also gets slightly loose after sex. Hemorrhoids and anal protrusions don't occur ONLY because of anal sex. Besides, infections Can be Controlled if proper preparations are made pre-anal sex.

Believe it or not, there are people engaged in it and Still leading healthy and happy lives.

You are really experienced in it. Would never engage in it though no matter how anyone makes it sound.

Good luck to you

Dirkcoyt:
Easy my woman. is not that deep. Sex is an adventurous journey that we keep exploring and getting wowed the more. sex doesn't make you less intelligent or not. i think everyone just have todo what alive them alive with regret. So far i dont force her then no problem. dignity? selfworth? it has nothing todo with dignity but what makes you happy. you're lucky if your cravings her met.

i understand as a lady you might have some fears but like virgins before being deflowered they thought pussy sex was harmful till they try and we all know how it ends. so like anal until you try and try with a skillful person you never can tell if you might gibe that asshole up

Vaginal sex, deflowering is not harmful because that is where sex is meant for.

I think people need to live their lives with caution.

Muppet babies

Next2Bezee:
I told you that anal poses no health risks if proper preparations are made, prior to intercourse.

Please what side effects did you mention again?

Sentiments involved, those who want to have anal will have it. Some ladies enjoy it. Anyone that can do oral, can do anal.

I have never said that a partner should be forced to forced to do anal. But anal itself, isn't as big a taboo as most NL'ers here are making it seem-

The anus is more prone to infections than the vagina. Why do you think homosexuals catch HIV like catching cold.

The anus becomes loose...no amount of hygiene can prevent that. Some people cannot even control poo coming out.

That is just some of the side effects you should consider