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Good food o jare!!! I love a well prepared tasty meal. |
When you get married, your wife comes first. Even your mum will tell you. A wise woman will tell her son but so many mothers are manipulative of their sons. |
Please move out and be scarce and allow your father handle his responsibility. He married the wife and had the children. He should take care of them. Help when you can after you move out. And don't move to a place close to your family house. |
NoToPile:Exactly my point. He shouldn't leave his matrimonial bed for any of them. They can use the guest room. Is there any reason why her mum needs to stay in the room with her? My husband and I slept in the same room with our baby from the first day. Grandma slept in another room |
tbanj07:Oh ok. I see your point. I think your wife needs to stop putting up an appearance like there is plenty at the jeopardy of you and your children especially as she knows the situation is tight at the moment. She is serving them 2 pieces of meat and when the meat finishes, you and your children will have to eat your food without meat because of her indiscretion. Women should be wise and be able to manage resources. If she jokingly tells her siblings not to go near her pot of soup and she serves it herself, i doubt they will feel bad. Discuss with her and try to reason with her to see things as they are. The situation is temporary. Tell her that when things get better, she can give them five pieces of meat or better still, kill a cow and give them to take home. And tell her you trust her to be able to handle things without you getting involved and looking bad. And dishing out food from the same pot you eat is not an offense. However, your wife should not allow anyone just go to the pot without permission. |
sanpipita:Maybe after i visited. Besides i didn't move around much. |
The boo is confused. Why marry a guy that dresses as a woman when you can as well marry the real thing...a woman. I really don't understand. Someone explain. |
Grand Bassam...hmmm...that year |
Imo state needs to check their people. From statue builder to black panther |
weyreypey: ![]() |
36 year old Meghan married a prince. Meanwhile guys that cannot even boast of a bicycle tyre will be criticizing ladies in their 30s ![]() |
I will sue her |
Op it seems to have an issue with your wife's siblings. It is not just about dishing food. It is something you should tell your wife that you do not like it. I don't see why you have to scold her for it. If you have a sister who is close to your wife and usually goes to the pot when she visits, will you have a problem with it? Try to cut yourself some slack and not be too serious. |
Happy birthday |
I know of a couple who did it but it was the man that was into it. He liked group sex and would bring different people. She agreed to it even if she was not ok with it. She eventually left the marriage. She couldn't even tell family why she left. She just said he was beating her. Things are happening o |
Even if you were her son, moving out at 25 is not a bad thing. She may be sad at first but eventually she will understand especially when you explain how the stress is taking a toll on you but still visit often and spend time with her and her family. You can get a place and pay for a year in case you have to travel. Doing that trip from mainland to island and back everyday can real reduce one's life span. However, if you feel you can handle it for another year and are sure the traveling will click, then save the money. |
You can marry her as long as you love her. She is no different from a lot of girls that don't have children. The difference is that she had the child rather than committing abortion. Her having a child doesn't make her loose. Everyone makes mistakes. |
TonyeBarcanista:When you get married, your wife becomes your family |
zeedof:Op drezzyx this must be what you meant by giving excuses. |
benzics:I don't think you have any life experience to qualify you to give advice for an important issue like this. Your view about marriage is still developing. As you grow older, you will understand it better. |
What's the rush? You are not even ready financially and even physically to settle down. Staying in the family house is ok if your privacy as a couple can be respected and assured. But i doubt that can happen in a "face me i face you" setting. Family and neighbours will interfere. So you need to get well,get a source of income and work towards moving out. Your girlfriend wants a better place and maybe you need that push to do better. Please don't hold her down if she cannot wait for you to arrange yourself. |
LivingFree:Wonderful comment. They don't love themselves not to talk of loving someone else. |
nnamdibig:The hair was not growing evenly. The scalp was strong enough. I am not cutting it at one year...no more cutting |
SmellySperm:Honey have you asked all the ladies that commented this question? |
You and your wife should stay in your room. Your mum and mum inlaw can stay in the guest room. Your baby should stay with both of you in your room. Advise your wife to put the baby in his or her own bed from day one while both of you sleep in your bed. I don't see why you should leave your room when there's a guest room. |
Don't chat her. And when she chats you, give her the "yep" "k" "fine" answers she gives you |
Nice one OP But the word " normally" was too much na |
They will buy sex dolls. At least that one cannot give them trouble. |
I actually wonder how people come up with this statistics. Do they go to houses to do a count? |
May God comfort him at this trying period |
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