Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar ARISE News Interview At 8:30am 22nd July by ImaIma1(f): 9:10pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Tinubu should be next |
Family › Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by ImaIma1(f): 10:18am On Jul 21, 2022 |
Mkelv0106: Wale Adenuga need to put this ur story for superstory episode. So you didn't attend ur wife's brother marriage, or he attend yours with his wife. He was in Sudan on peace keeping mission  Fake story. |
Politics › Re: Adeleke Defeats Oyetola Inside Osun Govt House by ImaIma1(f): 9:39pm On Jul 18, 2022 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Do Some Employers Prefer Ladies For Jobs Than Men? by ImaIma1(f): 1:55am On Jul 12, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Say These Things To Her Son? by ImaIma1(f): 5:44pm On Jul 11, 2022 |
Messi1: Haunty,iam not a stubborn goat.Just that when my half-siblings tells her anything about me, true or not, she accepts and pick up her sword of anger. Don't get me wrong. I was quoting someone that was implying that some kids behave like goats which justifies the curses. I am not saying you are one. |
Family › Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Say These Things To Her Son? by ImaIma1(f): 4:25pm On Jul 11, 2022 |
Florblu: It is a wrong thing to say to someone's child even to someone else's child/children.
But make Una too stop acting like goats It is better to be silent and pray for that child quietly than lay curses on an already "stubborn goat". Or do the curses make the child better? |
Family › Re: What Is That Scariest Thing That Happened To You And Never Told Anyone by ImaIma1(f): 4:20pm On Jul 11, 2022 |
thesicilian: A native doctor placed a curse on me that I would run mad within 3 days if I don't apologize because I did not go and meet him when he called me. I was 12yrs old then. I just went home and went to sleep. Never told my family and friends because if I did, they'd force me to go apologize for doing nothing wrong. Nothing happened. You have mind. Respek |
Family › Re: Nigerian Man Celebrates Sallah With His Three Wives And 19 Children (photos) by ImaIma1(f): 4:17pm On Jul 11, 2022 |
I can't see any happy face. |
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Events › Re: The Fake Wedding I Attended Last. Week(my Experience) by ImaIma1(f): 9:52pm On Jul 09, 2022 |
Wetin concern you people for colleague sister's wedding,not even colleague's wedding that they even had to deduct from your salary tfare. It's supposed to be optional. Not by force to go. |
Family › Re: My Neighbour's New 17-Year-Old Wife Is Giving Him Headache by ImaIma1(f): 4:30pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
JovialJune: Lmao 
I love it when men marry a mistake the second time, thinking they are "peppering" the ex wife in the process, the regret and end result is always sweet  They always think marrying a second wife will solve the problem. They don't know that the issue you didn't resolve in the first marriage will show up in the next one. |
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri: Peter Obi's Supporters Are Cyber Bullies Of The Worst Order by ImaIma1(f): 3:55pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Gohs: I understand that Reno feels hurt — but really that's the way the internet is. . .
Insults fly around all the time.
Reno should just ignore rude posts and let it pass.
Obi means no harm. Reno is wailing now because he is at the receiving end. When he was terrorizing APC and several people on Twitter, it was ok. |
Food › Re: Follow Me In My Garri Soaking Journey by ImaIma1(f): 8:22pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
I love the combination of garri, milk and kuli kuli...awesome! |
Family › Re: How Do Americans Raise Their Babies Without Househelps? Unlike Nigerians? by ImaIma1(f): 12:21pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
JovialJune: Op people are telling you they have nannies/babysitters over there, yet you're insisting on being ignorant, what is wrong with you   Not ready to accept what does not align with his own thinking. |
Family › Re: Why Men Get Intimidated By Richer/successful Women by ImaIma1(f): 12:17pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
They have avoided this thread. If it was a thread with topic "Man discovers his children are not his own", they will have been all over the thread  . |
Family › Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by ImaIma1(f): 11:55am On Jul 05, 2022 |
ibechris: Na like this craze dey start. How do u explain this to your parents in plain English with no distortion? Someone else quoted your full text smart ass.  |
Family › Re: 45-Year-Old Nigerian Woman Celebrates As She Welcomes Twins After 13 Years by ImaIma1(f): 11:43am On Jul 05, 2022 |
thebosstrevor1: The job of ivf or surrogacy
I believe ivf is the miracle wonder here. You have started. Is IVF always successful? |
Family › Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by ImaIma1(f): 11:21am On Jul 05, 2022 |
ibechris: When I read comments like this,I just have to look back and thank my dad and mum real good. So redpill is your first solution? What is the correlation between redpill and someone owing apps and dealing with a dad that doesn't help. Why did you modify? Chai! Nairaland!!.  . |
Family › Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by ImaIma1(f): 11:17am On Jul 05, 2022 |
Cypress042: I pity you op. Just use the sense that your God gave you and be important in life.
You're 19years old and still being entitled to your fathers money haba!
Young man, your father has really tried and trainned you up to this extend, is time to hustle and live like a man you should be.
Stop taking loans go and hustle  If your own parents failed in catering for you till you could stand on your own, don't make it sound like it is normal. It is not. People who bring you into this world without you asking to come have the obligation to cater for you till you are an adult. All this "hustle hustle" is what have sent young people to dabble into things that have led to dire consequences. |
Family › Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by ImaIma1(f): 11:11am On Jul 05, 2022 |
revolt: You ppl must hve been horrible kids. No dad threatens to kill lovely kids Why are you so bias in your thinking? |
Family › Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by ImaIma1(f): 11:08am On Jul 05, 2022 |
Fashdeejay: No matter what your father does, you are a product of his sperm upgraded. Focus the energy you are using to hate to become better than he is.... I do not support any father no being a good father but you'll realize more when you are old enough, you'll understand the reason why he is like this.... My dad once said to me and I quote him 'my father didnt do it for me, so why should I do it for you?' .... I became independent from my early teens, working and hustling, my mom tried her best and supported me with prayers.... But one thing I did was take care of them both.... Irrespective of the pain my dad put me through, I spent on him well before he died and he was appreciative of it. Don't be like your father.... Let the hate dissipate and love him irrespective and instead of burning all that energy hating, channel it into making your own greatness ..... The true victory in such battles is when you show him you are better by having him learn from you... Sometimes na bad situation dey jingah growth.... If he didn't spend on you, why would you spend on him. Isn't that what he taught you? That since his father didn't do it for him why should he do it for you. |
Family › Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by ImaIma1(f): 11:05am On Jul 05, 2022 |
Failure44: Stop replying him
You're giving him what he wants
Attention Very good advice. So wise for your age. I'm sure the VeryWickedMan is much older than you but doesn't know how to communicate maturedly. |
Family › Re: How Do I Stop My Toddler From Sucking Her Lip by ImaIma1(f): 1:44pm On Jul 04, 2022*. Modified: 2:03pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
meobizy: Shifting the goal post as usual. Typical Nairalander. Shifting which goal post? This is the best you could come up with? You are the typical Nairalander with this response. You are only pained because I didn't play into your zone. Did my response answer your question or not? You want an adult to keep sucking as long as it doesn't affect "quality of life". Why not try sucking your thumb while your boss is talking to you or while you are attending to your clients. If my response didn't answer your question, you can go and look for your yes or no elsewhere. |
Family › Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by ImaIma1(f): 9:32am On Jul 04, 2022 |
One I know personally was staying with a family before age 18. She has finished secondary school and is about doing jamb to go to university while still working in the house.
This is something she would have never achieved if she was still in the village with her parents and many siblings... |
Family › Re: How Do I Stop My Toddler From Sucking Her Lip by ImaIma1(f): 9:03am On Jul 04, 2022*. Modified: 9:23am On Jul 04, 2022 |
meobizy: If I met people who didn’t stop I may have continued till now. You dodged the question. Did the act reduce their quality of life? It is not only things that reduce the quality of life that should be discouraged. Is quality of life the only parameter to let a child keep sucking till adulthood? If we want to think that way, we should not do anything about helping a child stop bedwetting. They can go on till adulthood as long as it doesn't affect the quality of life. |
Family › Re: My Uncle Said He Will Send Me Back To Nigeria.how Do I Convince Him? by ImaIma1(f): 7:58am On Jul 04, 2022 |
Pack your bags.
America that you have only stayed one month, we neva hear word since. |
Family › Re: How Do I Stop My Toddler From Sucking Her Lip by ImaIma1(f): 7:26am On Jul 04, 2022*. Modified: 7:46am On Jul 04, 2022 |
meobizy: Did sucking reduce their quality of life? Are you still sucking as an adult? Do you have an adult child that is still sucking? Maybe you are in the best place to answer the question you asked. |
Family › Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by ImaIma1(f): 1:48am On Jul 04, 2022 |
You want to compare the whites to Nigeria.
Do we have jobs here where parents can schedule their time to rotate being with the kids?
Is it realistic for one person to stay home if the income of one is not sufficient?
Is the government paying welfare?
Is there free education for the kids so that it is easier for one parent to stay home since fees are covered?
If your child is at school or creche, can you make it back in Lagos traffic for instance to pick them up on time?
It's easy for you to give suggestions because you are talking from an outside perspective. But do you have kids? |
Family › Re: How Do I Stop My Toddler From Sucking Her Lip by ImaIma1(f): 1:34am On Jul 04, 2022*. Modified: 1:03pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Keep tapping her lip when she does or anything to show that it is not ok. You could ask the elderly or older people.
Please don't take the advice of letting her be to stop on her own. I know 2 people personally who still suck; one is in his 50s while one is about 40. Not all kids stop on their own. |
Food › Re: How I Prepared My delicious Rice And Stew... Please rate my cooking skills by ImaIma1(f): 10:10pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
Kollins11: L L.
Na me cook am oo! No girl dey my house for now... I no wan buy food outside today.. So I decided to cook the food myself. No tatashe or shombo. Hope it tasted nice and not "tomatoish" |
Family › Re: Husband Sets Estranged Wife On Fire, She Grabs Him & Both Get Burnt by ImaIma1(f): 6:03pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
Babaken: You are very correct I was thought in my local dialect. I guessed as much. |
Family › Re: Guys Please Don't Marry Made Ladies [case Study Inside] by ImaIma1(f): 4:50pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
You seem to know a lot of "bad" made ladies. Some of us know good made ones. For every bad one you mention, there is a good one. |