₦airaland Forum

Dmacqh:
Online sympathizers , advisers , this is one side story.

Why is she having contact with him after seven years ?
What stopped her from deleting his contact and blocking his line since seven years ago ? Clout chasers.

She’s advertising.
Likely, men will be sliding in her DM for marriage.

Malachite:
There is poverty and less learned people all over the world, and there will always be. Go do your research even tiny countries with small population have poverty.

Birth control is a choice and some of these pills and injection caused obesity and other side effect in some women. Let people have choice how and when to have children. Stop the decimation against married couples who live by their religious faith.

shilenji:
New born babies can't ear or see in their first three months of being birthed.

Natbrowny:
Both graduates. I have to realize say sense no be because u get certificate.

Just imagine say i go pharmacy to buy condoms, the seller who happens to be a registered nurse dey look me one kain all coz of her religious BS. Isnt she supposed to be happy that I'm tryna protect mysef frm infections and getting a lady pregnant when not needed now.

Some people ehn. The couple wey i explain above too na religion things.

Rich4god:
This is great... Am definitely showing him this post.

Thumbs up.

Rich4god:
This is a guy I know very well. With the demands his wife is making, he cant support such with his salary.


And sometimes, the wife seems to be black mailing him of not caring for her, whilst its cos the money is not available.

Rich4god:
Greetings to you all.

To our dear ladies in the house, the cravings that comes with pregnancy, what happens to your body or how do you feel when you are unable to eat or drink what you were craving for.

Prior before now, I have been hearing of how men have issues with their wives due to cravings. A lot of the time that couples come to our marriage counseling, some of the problems that occur were as a result of cravings by the wives and wanting the man to prepare or go out to get the things for her.

I have been hearing it from a third person perspective. Now it's happening to my friend and almost every day he comes to me to get small money to buy something for his wife.

This my friend's marriage is about 6 months, and the wife is pregnant. Now this is a cool headed guy that don't have the heart of saying no to request. Everytime, the wife is asking him to get her something or prepare something for her.

Now this guy is working as a contract staff in my place of work and his salary is not up to 70k. Every evening the wife wants him to buy food for her, even when there is food at home. And what the wife is requesting for is not what you will buy with 500 naira. We are talking about 1.5k-2k.
Now considering his salary and when you factor in cost of other family logistics, there is no way that he won't run into debt.

Vision101:
I know that my friend ImaIma1 can explain this.

Hamachi:
A job on the island 150k or a job on the mainland 120k

You reside in Ketu

WatchYourSix:
Sometimes we men need a push...sometimes a man will never be ready until his woman makes him see being ready is not really a bad idea....

WatchYourSix:
Women should support women oooo...

The babe is tryimg to plan her future...u people shoukd not pour sand inside her garri oooo...is not easy to see huband ooooo..

She may just want to show off to her family... mayb her family or siblings have been lookimg down on her for not having a serious relationship

tensazangetsu20:
It's better to be unemployed than to teach. Schools in my area in Lagos pay teachers 15k. What's that gonna do. You will still die of hunger I rather die in a simpler way than being a beast of burden

phemmyfour:
Olodo
Use Ekiti state election done last Saturday as a yardstick... the elites were no where to be found.

Out of 900k registered voters, only about 300k (One third) came out to vote

phemmyfour:
yinmu

All of them will collect their PVC but on election day, they will be nowhere to be found. Netflixing and Telemundo away their time

Mariangeles:
When I read this, at first I was like , then I was like oh!

Acidosis:
Good luck+

nenyewrites:
Matthew quotes Jesus as saying: “It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of porneia (sexual immorality), makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” (Matthew 5:31-32)

Question

Is it only a divorced woman that shouldn't remarry? Does the same apply to a divorced man?

Richy4:

Your father will come back and join u guys in the sitting room? ... Don't tell me he has retired from 'active service '...
Anyways make I commot my mind for gutter first and simply say... Oh!! Nice post

bukatyne:
This implies that:
1. Men do not have the discipline to be faithful nor the capacity to be the head of their homes. It also means they are lack self awareness to define who they are.

2. When taking your marital vows, you pledge to be faithful to your wife; no buts or ifs. Virginity or lack of isn't a condition.

3. If a man knows he doesn't want to marry a non-virgin, it would be madness to marry one and start complaining thereafter.

Daily, 'Nigerian men' prove their foolishness.

I salute the women married to them.

Vision101:
@ImaIma1

Gone are the days when the mum was Jesus Christ that you had to go through to get to God (daddy). Now you can go to daddy directly


@me
Hahahaha

twinning200:
I do understand your points and assertion, but trust me it aint like most of the bashing or negative talk about me or her would have any initial effect on our marital union whatsoever, but then, responding to the embolden, Sure I do have my faults too, but majority comes from her, like almost all the time, she wants me to even adapt to the habits, like just manage it thats how am created, life is short, dont take things too serious. Like over the years kept saying childrens safety is priority, correction upon correction on this subject since wayback, but this year alone madam has gone to 5 start hotels to take pictures for modelling clothings, while she leaves kids on their own at the pool side, u can imagine leaving your 8 year old already looking adultlike daughter on her own at the salon while she drives off to come get her later, is this current Nigeria we live in. We have gone for counselling, the changes only last 2months, then it dips back to its former form. I weak