ThaThinka:


Thanks for your response, sir. One is better than none.

I agree with that your first sentence. I was just wondering if it's something I could overcome with time. Do you think so?

I won't call it resentment per se. I don't feel hatred towards her. It's just that she sometimes looks older (even though I am supposed to be older) or I don't feel comfortable about her appearance.

U're now talking.
If you love her, don't bother about how she looks. It's not her looks u're in love with but her personality.
The truth is that u may not change after you marry her. The only time you can get used to hanging out with her in the public is now.

My brother care less about how people will see the two of u. If she looks younger dem go talk, so y bother?

There is absolutely no sense getting married to a lady u cannot be identified with.

Something is definitely wrong somewhere if u have this kind of resentment

How many Nigerians did he defraud?

Anyway, let him prove himself not guilty in court.
Funny polithiefcians

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Who says we can't cook a good meal with N1,500?
9ja never spoil like that

Why is the government imposing a curfew?
This bulletin should have in the reason for the curfew whether its for security or covid-19 or festival reason.or for power flexing reasons

The bulletin is incomplete

Op
I am sorry about what u and ur immediate family are going through.
Ur moving to ur auntie's house is not palatable at all.
The times are hard on people but don't let that bite into u to react irrationally

Moving forward..

. This is the best time to be closer.

. Both of you must pray together.

. Look out for job opportunities no matter how small the pay is and encourage him to start working.

. Don't have open quarrels with him

If he doesn't get a job(no matterhow small) to do, then let ur family sit him down and talk to him before you resort to divorce.

Zero Death! It is getting better.

Sebastine1994:
Please schools should stop celebrating birthdays in school, please, biko. I use God beg you.

I sent my child to school to learn and not to celebrate birthdays, I came back from work one day and saw this play station 4 in a carton, I asked them who own. they said my daughter classmates celebrated her birthday and shared these gift to them.

I quickly ask them to reparkage the gift and take it back to the school, before I return from work the next day.

MY REASON IS THIS: all fingers are not equal, when it is my daughter's birthday they would be expecting a gift of equal amount.

The parent may be rich and I am not, they give my child what I can't afford for her which is a recipe for greed. she should be contented with what I can afford,

These her young mind should be moulded early to adapt to reality.

These private schools are encouraging these evil act, it may affect the child tommorow.

please push to front page to expose the dangers of school birthday.

Guy ur choice anyway. But it is not sound.
Who are those sitting expecting stiffs for ur daughters birthday?

What happens if ur daughter doesn't celebrate hers at school? Guy nothing happens, the day comes and goes.

From experience nobody cares if ur ward does not celebrate his/her birthday.

U would only be doing ur daughter a disfavor when you continue to send back her gifts

EVILFOREST:

My WIFE can make her points known in a respectful manner and it will be considered.
But throwing tantrums in the compound and public domain will cost her, her marriage, honestly.
I detest such MADNESS especially when it's baseless.

Most LADIES are fond of such NONSENSE.
My Cousin just sent his Wife packing.
At Least, that will reset her Brain about the things she sees on INSTAGRAM.

Public nuisance is no no and would not be condoned by me to irrespective of what I have done.
That single act is a threat to the marriage. All issues are expected to be resolved maturely and amicably.

accounts2boku:
i observed your brain was upside down while posting this senseless comment

Check ur reasoning if it concurs with the topic.
It's WISDOM to keep shut if u have nothing reasonable to say.

EVILFOREST:

.... and PEOPLE will support the same Woman creating and constituting NUISANCE in Public places....?
I am married and will never tolerate or condescend to such public embarrassments from my Wife.
She should go back and acquire proper trainings.
There are ways of resolving issues rather than displaying masquerade settlements.

MEN have natural ego, although some have lost theirs. Imagine your WIFE embarrassing you frequently & publicly .
That's absolute NONSENSE.

U're absolutely right, so that will mean that u don't give ladies lifts.

Even the properly trained wife will have it rough with u at home if u give lifts to female neighbors especially the neighbour get better shape and is single.

These guys shouting divorce her are still single.

No sane married Nigerian woman will support her husband giving ladies a lift.

She knows too well that the journey is more than enough for something to start between them.

9ja players dey rep any day.
Kudos to all of them

fergie001:


SOURCE

Rest in Peace in the blossom of Allah

Hanonimos:


I really appreciate this. Can I reach you privately through whatsApp (I can see the number on your sig)?
I don't want to put everything out here. Thanks

Sure, Kindly reach me on whatsapp, I will be open to talk with u.

This is interesting.
Let's see how it rolls out on Saturday

I like ur blog and what you are doing. However, I believe u're not monetizing the blog enough (u can ignore if you have other plans in mind or u're writing for the fun of it.)

My little advice.
1. U recommended some products for example Green tea. Where do I buy the tea leaves? Your post should answer that question by linking me to a site or source where I can buy.
The source can be ur own ecommerce store on Konga or jumia or anywhere where earn from direct purchases or link me to another person's e-commerce store on any of the above mentioned sites where u can earn affiliate commissions in return. Jumia offers an affiliate program u can tap into.

2. Secondly, u need to look for traffic don't wait for traffic to locate you.
Take a of social media such as Instagram, Facebook groups etc to get people to traffic ur site.
You can also repurpose ur blog content to provide more exposure to the solution that you provide.

3. You can also leverage on the authority of Nairaland to create an epic content with a good keyword volume but relatively little competition and link to ur site or a free eBook.

With Nairaland u'll hit the first page on Google search and this will provide more visibility for your site and also help to improve your site ranking


N.B - I am sorry if I interfered in your thread and ur bus but honestly, I am compelled to share a few tips that I know will move your work forward.

All the best Sister

I believe The Pst was saying Daddy Freeze had no Spiritual father.
After all Bishop Oyedepo is not the Pst biological father but a Spiritual father.

Sessanvandy:
Good evening Nairalanders, please i need your sincere opinion on this issue bothering me.

I have been dating this guy for 9 months and our relationship has been going well except for this issue.

My boyfriend or should i say fiancé ( he has introduced me to his family as the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with and my family is in support of the relationship) has been in contact with his ex-girlfriend who is married with a son.

My man spends 1-2hrs on phone with his ex girlfriend in my presence and when i confronted him, he told me to bear in mind that he can never stop talking to her because she didn't offend him and if she needs any monetary support, he won't hesitate to help.

They have no intimate relationship maybe cus of distance, He agreed not to call her but promised to take her calls when she does and she calls frequently.

Her husband also warned him to stay away from his wife but he wouldn't listen.

He is a nice guy with a good heart and we are planning introduction by December

I told him that if he can't stop communicating with his ex girlfriend the relationship is over but he still insist on maintaining contact with her...

Pls am i overreacting, How do i handle this??....mature advice needed!

sorry for the long post.

You will need to move on if he doesn't stop spending such time with a married ex.

With hindsight if you tolerate this trash from this guy, when he marries you
he will cheat on you ojukoroju (without giving a fvck) for you to do your worse.

Wise up .

Fedupman:
Me and this girl have been dating since may 25 2018.
Suddenly one day she called and started crying,she told me she had sex with someone,I was stupid enough to forgive her,and after then I lost interest in her I didn't tell her though,I don't give her money again,I don't call her as b4.
Fast forward to yesterday,I called her 14 times no response,then this morning I called her and she answered, behold this girl told me she was with someone in the hotel, please I need advice.pleas.

What advice do u need again?
The lady just told what to do.
Can I tell you?
She says "stay off and permanently stay off''

Move on Bro

dasparrow:


With what visa are you trying to enter a foreign country with precisely? Because to "hustle" legally you will need a work permit or permanent residency for the country you intend going to. To get a work permit for a western country is not easy at all talkless of permanent residency which can take years. It does not even matter how much money you currently have because that money will run out quick once you have to start paying rent, utility bills and groceries in your new country of residence.

Too many Nigerians I have noticed have enough money for airline ticket but do not have sufficient money to live relatively comfortable in the western world long enough until they can obtain either a work permit or permanent residency.

In addition, Nigerians are not aware that immigration policies are getting tougher and tougher each year. Even countries that are considered developing countries are making it extremely difficult for immigrants and potential immigrants how much more advanced countries.

I am not trying to discourage you. I am not saying you shouldn't migrate but what I am saying is be realistic. I see too many Nigerians stuck here abroad suffering. They couldn't get their papers (work permit, permanent residency permit, naturalized citizenship) as they had hoped for. They have no money to survive and before you know it, they start engaging in crime just to survive thereby soiling the already damaged reputation of Nigeria further. There is a reason why foreign missions in Nigeria make it so difficult for Nigerians to obtain a visa.

Many of you think that we are picking money on the streets here abroad but that's a fallacy. If you are able to get at least a work permit that will enable you to legally pick up employment in the country you are planning to migrate to, then by all means make the move. However, if you are thinking of coming on a tourist visa with the hope of overstaying, you will be making a big mistake.

Many of these Western countries are voting in leaders lately who are leaning towards conservative, right wing, anti-immigrant ideologies and don't want people from so-called "shithole" countries coming to their countries in search of the proverbial greener pastures except if you are perhaps a professional with skills being highly sought after in these advanced nations, example medical professionals for instance.

So think about all I have said considering that you are already married with a child. If you get stuck abroad for years on end, don't complain when another man starts taking care of your wife's sexual needs. After all, body no be firewood. Your child also needs you the father. Just saying.

- From a concerned foreign-born Nigerian residing legally in the diaspora

I totally agree with you.

WowSweetGuy:
Excuse my grammatical errors. I feel I should report this and know how people will think of this.

Our company name withheld for now is located at Abuja. I'm an engineer at one of their site outside Abuja but was brought to Abuja during March because of site temporary shut down caused by covid-19.

Let me go straight to the point and make it brief. This Chinese boss gave orders that no one is allowed to leave the yard 24/7 everyday since March, 2020, whenever his staffs living within the compound complain of things like they need to get food this or that,he declines and come up with a solution like only one person should go and get the orders of everybody inside. As a little bit matured guy in the company, I approached him one on one and ask why all this lockdown when the FG of Nigeria have eased the lockdown, he complained of not wanting his staffs(mainly cooks, drivers, security, administration staffs) living in the compound to go get covid-19 and give him and his fellow Chinese the virus.

I'm pained and writing this because this has also affected me since I live here now though I collabo with the gatemen and go out a little often but I feel caged like now there is light and his eyes are on the camera,I can't go to church. He has sacked different workers if any one dares to challenge him on this issue. I feel sorry for the staffs here because of the salary hope of getting at the end of the month they feel powerless.

Please Nairalanders what do you think about this?

I will excuse you for your grammatical errors. However, there is an error i won't excuse. Why withhold the name of the company.Anybody that knows about what this company is doing can post this. What are you scared off?

He has given you enough reason to remain in his yard of leave and lose your job.
It seems to me like a factory job.

damilare96:
Happy new month sir and thanks for everything you’re giving out, God blessings upon you forever

Amen. Deeply appreciated.Thank you.

Op.
I am sorry about what you are going through. I also know she has her own side of the story.

If u're no longer interested in the relationship, let her family know as I don't think u're under obligation to marry her.

However, even married couples have issues but find ways to get round it. I mean there is no perfect relationship. As perfection stems by working it out.
If u want to keep her, get her something to do like a job or set up a business for her or enroll her somewhere to learn a skill. Just keep her busy.

Idleness may be a big factor while she's behaving this way.

Women may seem complicated but I have come to understand that they all have a soft center that once u know, she will be the most loving human being u've ever met.

Preciousgirl:

I asked my husband to do this to me and I nearly chop slap but for my timely dodging

Hmmm

U definitely can't be serious, I believe u were joking with him.

From my experience, I don’t make sales when I do a shout out in groups that do not have many engagements.
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Another tip, if you have picked an influencer, please make sure you look at the products they are
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Try it out and share your results.

Have a great and rewarding month.

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ii influencer-cart dot com

Both sites work almost the same way but let me talk more using the first.

You will need to sign up before you can even view the rates charged by the influencers

There are two sites i will recommend that you can buy shout out (ads) from.
i. Shoutcart dot com
ii influencer-cart dot com

Both sites work almost the same way but let me talk more using the first.

You will need to sign up before you can even view the rates charged by the influencers

1. Sign up for a free account
Once you verify your mail, you will notice that you have been given a few credit most times 5 credits.
The credit is used to unlock influencers that you want to do business with and possibly investigate.
If this credit runs out, you will be required to buy credits.

2. In your dashboard, Scroll down to the footer and click on Instagram influencers
A new window opens up, click on Instagram influencers.

3. On the next page, select the niche you want to offer products to.

4. On that page you will see various influencers with the number of followers and their rates.

5. Select the one that suits you in terms of budget and go ahead and pay.

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The process.

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It's time to get traffic and this takes us to the next step.