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ladyrachy:
Please I need some opinions about this result I can't snap so I will write out some vital info on the sperm analysis m/c/s
Sperm count is -15million
Morphology- normal spermatozoa seen
Motility
Active- 20%
Sluggish-30%
Dead-50%
Culture: scanty growth of proteus specie after 24hrs of incubation
What can be done regarding this result cause the comment said not encouraging uraging.Ur advice is really needed

The growth of the bacteria is a concern though it states scanty growth. Nevertheless, it could Play a role no matter how minimal to the poor sperm quality.
Moving forward, bacteria infection should be treated as soon as possible to prevent further growth and then the sperm quality can be improved upon with supplements and proper nutrition.

Good to be back, it's been a while I posted on this thread

mugnmuffin:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.

Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.

At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...

Good u're seeing properly now and not when you are married.

If u're not spiritually connected, kindly end the relationship.
Spirituality is far more important than physical attributes.

If only many youths can see this way before getting married

I wish all of them a safe trip.

Two hot tempered and intolerant couple.
We've read from her side and I will advise one thing and that is
Wife, anytime ur husband is talking or scolding u. Please don't utter a word.
I will also advise that you should refrain from insulting ur husband henceforth

Try and be the peace maker in ur home and the more u do that the more God will help you and the more peaceful ur home will be.

Apologise to the man irrespective of u was wrong and maintain sanity in ur home

The lady is cute. The man is her greatest compliment. Perfect by nature.

That is God for us.
His ways and thoughts are far higher that what we can think or imagine.


I think that mammal is the one that comes from its cover when a drum is beating.

Op, More Grace Sir.
Nice article.
I am learning something from articles like this and what I have come to find out is that science is trying to prove the possibility of everything.

No mind dem. Dey feel say dey Sabi. Bloody learners.

Special advicer to FG and SG on banditry has spoken.
This one go soon get ministerial appointment to serve in this govt

Op, how old are u?

U messed up big time.
Nevertheless, u can't kill urself as sh*t happens.
U've got really behave urself from henceforth so that u're not thrown out into the street.

When u can, sincerely apologize to the girl. Don't peep on her privacy again, it's none of ur business.

And finally if you are of age, u can get a female friend to share company with if need be.
Be a good boy and remain a good boy.

Op
That's it! Keep to the terms and conditions.

This is a massive cashout a selected part of the country.

@op
Biko,dump his sorry ass and move on.
What does he take u for?

I want to believe u're sensible to know what you want.
Because marriage with this type of man get as e be.
What will you advise ur sister or a dear friend that is going through this?
Think and use ur brain and not ur heart.

Mr femi, how has these self acclaimed achievements improved the life of the average nigerian.
The major achievement of this administration is improverisation and insecurity of the people.

Rip Bro.
This is a product of an unsecured nation

Crownbefitsme:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/insecurity-coas-others-deathve-increased-our-problem-president/

Same yarn. Same lame excuses for poor performance.

Indeed God is Great.
What a creative God.

fatymore:
Divine helpers locate me

Amen!

May God open ur eyes to see them when they come around u.

Honestly, I doubt if she's is pregnant. She needs ur money to cushion up.

True talk.
No 3 got me.
Focus ur energy on the things the boss will notice.
Every other thing is "I too know"

Op thanks for sharing.
This will guide many guys in such establishments how to remain in their jobs and be on the good books of their bosses

stevenosa:
Good day anyone reading this. This is Stephen Akpan Nosa Osagie, a member of Nairaland Family. Please all, I need help. I am broke after paying my house rent and my children school fees. Your 100, 200, 500, or even 1k donation will go a long way to change things for me in the next few minutes or hour. Please assist me, via my account: GTB 0254155003. . Thanks. I am real and not fake. 08131226146.

Go and thank God.
Many people reading this are owing rent and having sleepless nights over the payment of School fees.
Look for someone here to help pay his or rent or school fees instead pasting ur acct number here.

Op, I am sorry about ur broken fake relationship.

I don't need to hear from the two of u to know that u were not meant for each other.
No relationship has ever been perfect and none will. We only tolerate our differences and build upon it to make our relationships worthwhile.

Stop feeling heartbroken and thank God for loving you. Or else u would write sorry tales if u married this man.

Be yourself always and only improve in areas u feel u need to. The right man for you will come ur way in a short while.

And let me warn, don't take that guy back into ur life if he tries to crawl his way back. He is not ur guy at all.

All the best.

mezico96:
Good day guys, I know it's still early but am really really sad and angry right now.

It all started when I moved in around December last year, Somehow she(my Landlady) got to know that my dad is into repairs of electrical devices.

The son approached me and asked if I can take it to for repair, which I accepted and gave them a date(after informing my dad) since he works with schedules...throughout that period they didn't say anything to me about it until after my dad traveled for Christmas.

I told him about the recent developments and he pleaded if I can take it to someone I know.

>>>>Fast forward <<<<
I took it to a guy close to my shop and he charged me N6,500 and in other to make things transparent I immediately called the son and told him everything, even insisted he speak to the electrician but he assured me that there's no need and if I had any money I should pay.

>>>>

I took it back to them the next day and requested for my money and he gave me some excuse but promised to pay up the next week, till date these people haven't given me a kobo.

Two months ago I approached the son and requested they should be deducting it from my light bill which is N1000 per month and he said he'll have to discuss with the mom and she accepted.
That month she paid for my bills.

The next month she pleaded I assist her cos she was broke and I gave her the bill for that month but made her know it will be the last, until my money is complete.

This morning she called and said I must pay for the light and start saying the item I repaired is not okay and I should show them the things I charged and if I don't pay she will cut my light bla bla bla...

How can people be this ungrateful
Please have I done wrong in helping them?

How should I handle this?

I need your advice please

I am sorry to tell you that u've fallen into the poor lady's nest.
Just pay your light bill to prevent embarrassment.
Next time don't let common people send u on unprofitable errands. Show them the place or what to do so that they do their stuffs themselves.
With hindsight, they will even say u had something to gain from the errand they sent you.
Just dash them the dough and don't talk about it again with any of them.

sarrki:
https://www.channelstv.com/2021/05/14/all-nigerians-are-asking-me-to-run-for-president-i-will-not-disappoint-yahaya-bello/amp/

Another Dreamer. Who are that all Nigerians? Of course Ur family and croonies

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know

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Can I ask you a question?
Sincerely tell us when last u complimented ur husband.
How often do you compliment him?

That's how one woman was saying her husband doesn't show her affection through text or voice calls.
I asked her to tell me when she did same, she was looking at me like...

Tell us more about it here.
i and many others want to know more without leaving nairaland

Sammyadexxx:
what about superlife?

Stem cell stuff if I can remember.
Someone was on my neck to join the network 2018. I think I wasn't too cool with the compensation plan compared to the network I was part of.
Another thing was that I really needed tangible proofs before I can join and promote their products.

Ayobamipeter36:
I went to the seminar spend all my time listening to their trash but later they ask us to bring 44k later them say 30k and las las 10k. Na so I carry my self comot oooh. One mumu come dey call me the second day again.. I just tell am my mind..��‍♂️�‍♂️

Can't stop laughing �

SmartyPants:
Lol. Of course I could sell them easily. The friend I patronized made big money and drove a brand new four wheel. But I sat with her and pointed out to her that the business model was not commercially viable. At first, like you, she argued but then in the course of her presentation one of her slides (issues by the company itself) pointed out that it is more advantageous to join early because as the program grows those that join late make little or nothing. So essentially as an early adopter, you would be running around convincing people to sign up for your own benefit knowing that either they or their own signees will lose their investment. My conscience is above that.

I knew all this when I paid for the products. I just wanted to patronise her.

I tested the products by using them myself, and giving some to friends. There was no special effect. I researched the ingredients and found they were just the same as regular products.

I approached stores to check prices and realised they were overpriced so even the stores wouldn't want to take them. But above all these, a simple logical examination should tell you that the underlying idea of network marketing is not commercially sound.

A company gives you a product and promises to give you unreasonable amounts of money if you get more people to sign on. Where is the money coming from? It's coming from two channels: one is the people who keep pumping money into the scheme. But because you always have to bring people in multiples, this number grows exponentially and the company accumulates a huge debt. The only way to recoup their money is if at a certain stage, a disproportionately large amount of people are not able to bring in anyone under their down line. Of course, this is the ultimate goal of every network marketing scheme.

Secondly, the money comes from inflating the prices of those products. So at the end of the day you can only cash out by:

1. Misleading people as to the benefits of the investment side of things; or

2. By misleading them as to the benefits of the product.


It doesnt seem like honest work to me.

Okay, I understand you now.
The particular network u joined didn't offer great products.
Early adopters earn more is a marketing gimmick just to make people join. If they had great products u will make money irrespective of the time one joined.
Though Not all network marketing companies have genuine intentions. Many are just time and money wasters. This makes it very important to research the products and understand the earning models that are available before one joins.

I have some guys courting me to join their networks but after my research I knew it isnt for me because I don't believe in their products and I know that I won't sell them.

I think research is the key. There are some viable ones out there just as there are so many shady ones.

SmartyPants:
The products are always overpriced. I tried network marketing once to patronise a friend and ended up using 80k worth of toothpaste and black soap by myself coz I couldn't bring myself to market what I knew to be somewhat misleading.

That's what you think because u feel u can't sell them. Guy, those products were sold to you, several other people bought and are still buying them.
If hadn't thought they were over
priced and u believed and wanted to sell those products, believe me, you would have sold those products and made a handsome profit in return.

The easiest money you would make from network marketing comes from selling the products. Networking and growing ur downlines is cool, but thrive to sell the products inoder to make profits and earn commissions and bonuses.
This is the easiest cash out in network marketing.
Any network marketing setup that doesn't have good products u can sell, it's not worth joining.