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It happens to me too in Ibadan, the man was working in one of these new generation banks, now merged with another bank now.
I was perplexed. I couldn't believe it until I knew it was not a joke. Then I changed my room and went to the sitting room.

No be only davido you go meet, you will meet your forefathers too, plus including your ancestors.

What is this one saying sef.

Kipling:
Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.

I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.

I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.

Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.

Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.

I will be sincere with you. You have been possessed with a powerful spirit of pornography. It usually comes in through your eyes and then take possession of your mind and finally your emotions.

Solutions:
Read scripture, The Holy Bible regularly. You may be still falling to this once in a while but don't stop reading your Bible. To add to this, discipline yourself in what you watch and listen to. Go to True Bible Church. I bet you, in a matter of time, it will be over.

JESUS LOVES YOU!!!!

Hamzashaf99:
Garri with ice cold water.

This is the best answer. Kindly come for your price biko.

Negative characters.

Stephen2324:
What made you lose feelings for someone you loved most?

You will regret it. Mark my words. Or better still, if you want to really help her, inform your wife. E gat why?

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

We are beating around the bush

In a sane clime, is that not the best thing to do? Nigeria is a funny place. Suffering and smiling. In fact see how they will defend this as if they are ruling over dumb, blind goats.

Ah, meaning what? He is doing his business. Nna nawa oo

@creepsyme, yes there is still hope for you. But when desperation set in to ones life, he/she will not be able to think straight.

What we usually missed about life is that we never knew it is seasonal. Like the Scripture says, there is time for everything. You have used up all your youthful season without achieving much, now you need the MASTER of TIME to help you redeem them and move it forward to where you are now. Please not, I am not saying you should go to deliverance. Deliverance is delivered through the WORD of GOD. You must make a firm decision to knowing GOD personally. I can tell you with all conviction that GOD is waiting to TURN YOUR LIFE AROUND.

I will not lie to you, it can get messy if you do not understand the right step and needed sacrifice you must make now to turn your life around. Stop going to Church for going sake and seek why you go to Church. If your reason for going to Church is not seeking to know GOD personally, then you need to pause!

Furthermore, you said in your post you have prayed and yet you are desperate. You said you have prayed and yet you are thinking of suicide. I can tell you that you do not understand what prayer is. I know we do it religiously. Unfortunately, that is wrong. Read Matt 6.

In conclusion, desperation in this season of your life will make things worst. Bear in mind, if you want God's solution, then you must understand God is not a magician. You must go through the the process. But one thing I know for SURE, you will never regret you did.

JESUS LOVES YOU!

My sister sorry for the heartbreak. Some of us don't appreciate good things. Though every man has his dream wife picture hidden in his mind. I will encourage you to move on. It's going to be tough, but seriously, try to move on. Such men hardly made good husband.

Going forward, never you give a man sex before marriage. Just make sure you love him and would submit to him if he eventually married you. There are a lot of mysteries in life, one of it is this.

I will end with this story, it is live story, it happens close to my house. This event has changed completely the way I view things these days.

A certain woman gave birth to a child, as usual well wishers flung to congratulate her. Everyone was very happy with her.
However, one of her relatives came to visit her but did not know the house street. They were communicating through phone. The new mother was trying to direct her to her house, but the visitor could not get the house location.

Unfortunately, at this particular time, nobody was around to assist her to fetch the visitor, being that she was very close to the house junction called Osaro. So the new mother decided to just rush out and get her. While at the junction she spotted the visitor across the road and put a call through to her, waving her hand simultaneously. Suddenly, from nowhere, a Dangote truck, that went to offload some cements ram into her and cut her into 2.

I am yet to erase this memory from my mind. But one lesson I have learned from this incident is that, I am always calm when bad things happen to me. I asked myself, what if that woman lost her child during pregnancy, she will be crying her heart out, not knowing God just saved her from dead.

Be calm. It hurts, but be calm and know you have a far better future than yesterday.
JESUS LOVES YOU!

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

He is a scapegoat. Believe me.

This one is still talking. In another clime, you should have resigned.

May it perish with you.

letristian:
As the World outlived Adolf Hitler,
So shall the world outlive Putin.
It's just a matter of time!

But their footprints?

May this boat sings. Pride goes before a fall

Not only that. Any presidential candidate that cannot show us his current health record, past and recent performance records, should park well.

Maxymilliano:
Can the church handle the political dirtiness in Nigeria without getting enmeshed?

If Jesus Christ handled the dirtiness of the world without getting enmeshed in it, what stops the Church, His Church replicating the same?

I strategically sited my office close to my house. Nigeria stress too much.

What is the in the 3rd picture, is that not toll gate? Or na my eyes

Why? We have better players available now, don't do easy job.

Ah, Mr Ex Governor. OK I forgot he is a Nigerian. Weh don sire.

Court sacks? Ah!!! I thought this same case was set aside by court previous week?

Nna see this point made by court, "It held that the PDP is bound to retain the votes and mandate that was given to it by electorates in Ebonyi state, as both governor Umahi and his Deputy could not validly transfer same to APC."

If our Judiciary can sanitize this our political actors attitudes, it will really help us. This jumping is making our democracy very weak.

Is your car automatic or manual? I had similar problem with my first car, it was manual.

Nonsense. Let only his family vote for him. Tinubu and Atiku should leave road make I see well. Desperate politicians everywhere.

Someone should wake the OP up.

Anybody with the biometric installer?

In fact, this is epic. Word of the year.

It shows how weak Russia is. Let me me explain myself. My pastor used to say if you are a married man and you keep telling your wife that "l am the head of this house", he said that the man should check himself out, that something is wrong somewhere.

If Russia thinks she is world power, he should try to bomb her mate.

This same mentality is what makes me to look at those white people who racially abuse Africans. I always see them as weak and feeling inferior, because if you were not afraid of me, you would not want to make me feel less using my skin color. You should face the real issue, which is our strength and spread. Our agility and stoutness.

So Russia should go and die.

HUGE Profit!!!

Orubebe kind of trouble abi. Nonsense, don't do your homework well. Wait, it will fall on your laps.