₦airaland Forum

birdman:
To be honest, this is a western way of thinking. To the African or Asian mind, this is a self-centered way of looking at things. The community's needs are bigger than your needs, and you are supposed to play your part by having a stable family that produces a responsible next generation. After all, a previous generation brought you into being and spent energy nuturing you. So you have to give back, otherwise you are being selfish.

I'm not saying its right, or wrong, but that's the general idea for non-western societies.

Onchedu:
The women that end up feeling sad and used fail to understand that wen it comes to sex, the woman is in charge and there are fewer among men who don't mind being called rapists than there are that do.

U hold the aces, U provide the opportunities for it to happen, if una no gree, we go go watch ball or do something else.

The only person U have no right to deny sex is your husband. The rest of us myt leave U feeling more than just sad and unhappy.

Onchedu:
The more important question would be ''What do I want from her,'' cos really, going after a girl is an art, not a science. U get a blank canvass to paint on with each one. Have U ever heard an artist asking his medium what it would want him to create with it?

I believe a good number of girls are more thriled asking themselves ''I wonder what he wants from me,'' cos it gives them a rich sense of value and desirability; than to think U are asking Urself what they want from U, cos that makes U appear unskilled and lost.

Unless she's already your woman, forget what she wants and go for what U want and in that she myt discover it's U she wants.

Meanwyl, Iice, easy lays would make some of us sad and feel used.

Onchedu:
your mum is a womderful woman. As much as I don't know her I have uncommon respect for her. She, in love, sacrificed herself for the better of other people. She could have chosen to opt out of her suffereings but she did the better thing and now U and your siblings have a good life.
She has shown Christlikeness in her choices and that is very highly commendable.
She isn't only a good mother but a wonderful wife. Tell her a stranger said so.

Now the only reason I'm not married yet is cos I'm not as financially stable as I feel I would be comfortable being, considering the responsibilities of being a good husband and father. If U no fit provide the basics comfortably e dey hard make love survive well o.

Marriage is a bed of roses. The thorns give it character without which it would be boring.

tpia:
like a model would let herself be caught without makeup

ThiefOfHearts:
one min yaya is Nigerian, next min she's Brazilian. girl just dey claim up and down. she's just lucky she's pretty else i for bash 'am

the rest are blah  

simi brazil ko. simi didirin ni.  

lagbaja21:
I assume that you live in the western world, right? This is usually the case with our women who live there, They tend to want to emulate the white people, some take it too far like you.

CyberG:
Was the bolded part a test? Okay, you got it! Well, it's not like if I screamed at the top of my voice here, even with a big megaphone, you could hear me over there, eh? Okay, I go yarn you something, holla at my email, 'cos your profile is as blank as a whitewashed wall! 

CyberG:
Inked. . .you're definitely in that picshure 'cos there's one cutie_beautie wiggling away her waist and bakassi in the shot! . I was in Imo for a little over 1 year. . .kai but the other question, you go blow my top secret CIA clearance cover for this cyberspace ooo!! . Okay, come closer and I will whisper it right into your left ear!

beejaei:
^^
@Inked Nerd

What do your parents feel about this? I cannot tell my mum. I will break her heart and take away her happiness.

CyberG:
^^ Imo? That's nice but the sad part is I have now almost totally forgotten all the Igbo I learned otherwise, I be toasting away in Igbo language. I've been to Enugu too but I can remember more about Imo 'cos I spent more time there. In fact, I remember a traditional dance in one of the villages performed by a dance crew of ladies and it was good! I even took some pictures then. . .Inked, I hope you are in that pic?

CyberG:
Okay, this is supposed to be a fun thread with a romantic slant. What tribe of Nigeria likes dancing with their yansh the most?

Look at:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bDblN0ok7c&feature=related

I've spent some time in Imo State and traveled almost the whole of the South East but why do they like dancing with their yansh in Imo State. I've had girlfriends from there and people claim the South Westerners are the ones always dancing with their yansh. Now with this incriminating video, I am beginning to think otherwise. Are there any experts who can shed a strong, illuminating light on these VERY interesting and HOT issue!?

I bet some people's eyes will be lighting-up like a goddamned Christmas tree after seeing this video. . .LOL.

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