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RomanceRe: Can A Woman Marry Two Husbands? by InkedNerd(f): 10:57pm On Dec 31, 2010
@OP: I see nothing wrong with her marrying two men, after all we're not actually monogamous creatures. There is a major double standard in African culture. If a man can do it, I see no reason why I can't do it as well.
RomanceRe: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 10:08pm On Dec 31, 2010
birdman:
You can have kids without getting married. Even have a single parent, or two moms, or two dads. The fact there there is no surviving society with such family models suggest the married family model is the most reasonable for any society that wants to survive.
Survival for who? The topic was about marriage, not producing children. Yes, the two go hand in hand but are not mutually exclusive. The main topic of discussion is marriage.'
CelebritiesRe: X Factor' Alum Cher Lloyd Signed To Jay-z's Roc Nation by InkedNerd(f): 2:50pm On Dec 31, 2010
tjskii:
hmmmpff everyone knows wen ure grounded,its groundnuts u eat not moi moi tongue tongue tongue
Chineke, you're trying to starve me shocked
RomanceRe: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 2:33pm On Dec 31, 2010
tine:
@alisigwe, there is nothing wrong with raising a family if that's what you want, but why do u assume every woman wants to raise a family?
He also seems to assume that everyone wants to have some sort of companionship undecided
RomanceRe: If You Caught Your Man/woman While In Relationship by InkedNerd(f): 2:20pm On Dec 31, 2010
[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=577287.msg7439298#msg7439298 date=1293797953]Girl, you will be surprise! If they can enlarge men's manliness how come men can't have an abortion? You know a man did have baby in USA although he was a she before.[/quote]Well, we haven't gotten that far in science for men to experience child birth and pregnancy. As for the "pregnant man". He/she is still a she as long as those ovaries are still in his/her body.
RomanceRe: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 2:16pm On Dec 31, 2010
alisigwe:
Ladies,ya'll confusing me,am i missing sth?i mean why would u nt want to get married,are you dat ugly?or fat?what on earth can u compare to raising a family together?
What kind of question is that? Is it a must for a person to be married? Besides, aren't there people who are fat and ugly and married? Smmfh. Keep in mind, this isn't a question that is geared only to women. Ask your brothers as well because as far as I'm concerned there was no specific gender mentioned by the OP.
RomanceRe: If You Caught Your Man/woman While In Relationship by InkedNerd(f): 12:57pm On Dec 31, 2010

(A) 1,4,5, I wouldn't mind.

(B)  2, I wouldn't mind if I gave him permission to do so.

(C) 3, if we're in an open relationship then its not cool with me

(D) 6, that's just a no no with me. Those are grounds for a breakup.

(E) 7, Unless that animal is attacking him I don't see any reason for him to be doing that. Hmmm, what's to stop him from doing the same to me? undecided

(F) 8, once again--grounds for a breakup [unless he has a good reason]

(G) Ummm, idk. Is he the one having the abortion? undecided

(H) 9, grounds for a breakup. I'd go to the police immediately.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by InkedNerd(f): 12:39pm On Dec 31, 2010
switdick:
^^hmmmm blame it on our girj§,they dont like R0mance!
Who told you we don't like romance? Keep in mind, we're talking about a culture where people are taught to suppress themselves sexually undecided.
RomanceRe: What Has This Got To Do With Dating Or Getting Married? by InkedNerd(f): 12:34pm On Dec 31, 2010
Various cultures have various ideas of beauty so if she finds her piercings appealing then she shouldn't care what some man thinks of her. I have a male "friend" who disapproves of my piercing as well and I have made it clear to him that it is my body and my choice and that I'm fine with it. He accepted it for what it was an has let go of the subject. If some man wants to overlook her because she chooses to beautify her body in that manner then she shouldn't pay him any mind. As for your friends aunt, I know her heart is in the right place she needs to mind her own business. As long as its not her body she shouldn't complain.
RomanceRe: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 12:19pm On Dec 31, 2010
tine:
Its intresting the way most people think a lady must want to get married or something is wrong.
Yupp, a lot of them still think we're just baby making machines.
CelebritiesRe: X Factor' Alum Cher Lloyd Signed To Jay-z's Roc Nation by InkedNerd(f): 11:51am On Dec 31, 2010
tjskii:
don't u dare roll your eyes at me younglady,go to your room this instant,ure grounded
Yes ma'am cry

Ehhh, can I take some moi moi with me since I'm on punishment? grin
FoodRe: Wat Are You Gonna Hav 4 Breakfast,lunch And Dinner 2morrow? by InkedNerd(f): 11:37am On Dec 31, 2010
@OP: I will eat everything and anything I can get my hands on.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by InkedNerd(f): 11:34am On Dec 31, 2010
[b]^^^ [/b]Lmao
RomanceRe: Is Your Girlfriend Taller Than You? by InkedNerd(f): 11:25am On Dec 31, 2010
Creamish:
Areaboyz a looker . .great choice Inked_Nerd   wink

@190,   tongue   tongue  tongue  tongue tongue
Thanks, let's just hope 190 doesn't spoil anything for me. Hehehe, keep your fingers crossed grin
RomanceRe: Would You Date a Girl/Boy With Dreadlocked Hair? by InkedNerd(f): 11:01am On Dec 31, 2010
[quote author=Skmoda-360 link=topic=4471.msg6818904#msg6818904 date=1285398719]hmmmmm!! Think twice.[/quote]Think twice bout what? huh
RomanceRe: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 10:57am On Dec 31, 2010
alisigwe:
@inknerd,are u 4 real?u sound lik u running away 4rm sth or u tryn to find yourself in a foreign land.whatever
I'm not running away from anything nor am I trying to "find myself". This is just how I feel. When I was younger, I always questioned the notion of marriage so this isn't something that I just suddenly started believing.

porasog:
hmm this thread is tempting oh, I'd rather let it pass. shocked shocked shocked
Hehehe, wettin dey shock you? grin

orbaxy:
lol. I aint trying to play psychology on you but i'll rather view your position as "subnormal". By the way,  at your leisure, you can fly down to dubai lemme treat you to a glass of pineapple juice blended on gin wink  kiss
Subnormal eh? Hmmmm. Sweetie, I've always been a free thinker. As I've gotten older my views have expanded. I am aware that in African culture someone like me would be considered odd or perhaps lost but this who I am. If I live my life according to how someone else wants me to live it, am I truly living? No. I can only live my life to the best of my ability. If others don't like it then too bad for them. And I might take you up on that offer wink.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Welcome Me With Luv by InkedNerd(f): 10:32am On Dec 31, 2010
Welcome to Nairaland. Feel free to make tons of friends [and frienemies] wink
RomanceRe: Advice To The opposite gender by InkedNerd(f): 10:30am On Dec 31, 2010
Creamish:
^^^

. . me thinks same too . . . cant believe all his sexcapades has been smelly all d way! grin grin
For all we know, he may be spreadin' the funk by sleepin' with all those smelly chicks--which means he may be funky as well.
RomanceRe: If Girls Were Like phones, Which Would You Prefer by InkedNerd(f): 10:27am On Dec 31, 2010
How degrading tongue. Why am I not surprised by this? Smh undecided
RomanceRe: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 10:25am On Dec 31, 2010
orbaxy:
@Inked nerd,
I adore you but fault that orientation of yours. Its very probable you've been through a turbulent relationship or you just don't mix with the right people.
You need a man who's gonna love you more and prove to you that eternal happiness can be found in just "one guy". give it a shot. wink
I need? I need? Hmmm, if I may ask, what makes you think I "need" a man? Suppose I'm content on my own? I enjoy the idea of companionship but I doubt that need is the correct word. And no, I have not been in a "turbulent" relationship in the past. I'm not one to look down on my relationships with the opposite sex. I cherish every relationship I have had with individuals of the opposite whether it is a friendship, romantic, or strictly platonic relationship. Just because I don't necessarily share your views on marriage does not in any way indicate that I have been in a turbulent relationship or that I am not mixing with the "right" people. I hang out with individuals of all walks of life. By the way I adore you as well kiss.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by InkedNerd(f): 10:10am On Dec 31, 2010
Creamish:
For me, i think some Naija men are romantic in their own way . . if u base your definition of Romance on wat u see in movies or in europe, u prolly wont get wat u want cos they have a different approach to romance. e.g . . dont expect flowers from a naija man who was born and bred in naija . . . dont expect him to open d door for you . . cos u wont have known bout dat gesture if u neva watched a movie  . . . they prolly will do things ud neva expect and if u rily want to b fair, u'd see it as their own way of being romantic.

bottom line, dont compare our naija men to europeans cos we have our own unique style of being romantic.  Have an open mind in your relationship and u'l def appreciate your man more and find romance in things he does dat u never will, if u keep comparing him to Europeans!   wink
Well said.

@OP: It depends on the person's definition of romantic.

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