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 Food › Re: What Is The Normal Position For Soup, Left Or Right? by InkedNerd(f): 10:07am On Jan 02, 2011 |
@OP: I think its ok to position it however you see fit. tpiah:I don't think it should matter so much what side its one. I think it should be to the persons discretion, especially if the person is someone who eats with their left or both hands. |
| Celebrities › Re: My Kissing With Charly Boy - Denrele Defends by InkedNerd(f): 9:46am On Jan 02, 2011 |
Hmmm, as far as I'm concerned he didn't owe anyone a damn explanation. He's a grown man not some child. If he wants to kiss another man, that's his business--if he wants to engage in a romantic relationship with someone of the same sex the good for him as well. He doesn't need the public's approval to do so. |
| Celebrities › Re: 9 Year Old Whips Her Hair In The Skating Rink by InkedNerd(f): 9:33am On Jan 02, 2011 |
treylaw:Awww, that was cute. |
| Celebrities › Re: 54tye by InkedNerd(f): 9:27am On Jan 02, 2011 |
@OP: She kinda does look like Genevieve Nnaji but only at certain angles. For example, in the picture below, she doesn't look like her.
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| Events › Re: What will you give Inked as a bday gift? by InkedNerd(f): 9:14am On Jan 02, 2011 |
fstrangest:Luck on what? I never said I'd sleep with him. Its just a thought. |
| Romance › Re: I Jt Dnt Undastand by InkedNerd(f): 9:12am On Jan 02, 2011 |
OP: When you say casual, exactly what do you mean? You means your just friends or "friends" with benefits? |
| Events › Re: What will you give Inked as a bday gift? by InkedNerd(f): 9:08am On Jan 02, 2011 |
fstrangest:Well, first of all you're kind of a stranger to me on Nairaland. Second of all, bk.babe97y isn't an alien [I hope]. Third, its sounds just plain weird. Hehehe, I wouldn't mind if it was only Jaygetta though  . |
| Events › Re: What will you give Inked as a bday gift? by InkedNerd(f): 9:01am On Jan 02, 2011 |
fstrangest:Lmao, I'm open to the idea but I don't necessarily think it would be you with you guys  . |
| Events › Re: What will you give Inked as a bday gift? by InkedNerd(f): 8:56am On Jan 02, 2011 |
Thanks [again] . And like before, my coochie smells like perfumed flowers . |
| Events › Re: What will you give Inked as a bday gift? by InkedNerd(f): 8:51am On Jan 02, 2011 |
drrionelli: I really didn't know what to say when I read this. Thank you very much. You have definitely been a been a wonderful "cyber-acquaintance" as well Ernestmm:Lmao, I love that name yang:Thanks Dulcet7:Thank you  Pappij:Eh ya, thank you very much. I hope all works out with your fiance. |
| Romance › Re: Men! by InkedNerd(f): 8:19am On Jan 02, 2011 |
[quote author=eku_bear link=topic=577927.msg7447045#msg7447045 date=1293947845]Hard to judge w/o knowing the context, what type of people they are, etc. If it was like a serious comment, then probably bad. But he could just have easily just been joking or only half-serious. And if he is half-serious and his GF is also around, then it isn't at all disrespectful, is it? Especially if she has a playful nature too. So really depends on the couple. To me though, this is the type of thing you avoid as a guy. It can lead to nowhere but trouble. I generally don't give other women compliments when I'm with a girl just to avoid wahala. . .[/quote]Hmmm, I don't really see the dudes comment as a compliment. . . In my opinion it seemed more like he was making an underhanded pass at her. I personally don't mind if a guy compliments another woman while they're with me just as long as it isn't some sort of suggestive sexual remark such as the poster's friends' boyfriend. There was a guy I was interested in who used to compliment other women directly and tell me if he thought they were cute but I had no problem with it because him and I were comfortable with that sort of thing. Unlike the man that the poster described, he never made sexual remarks about or to them. Even both my mother and father compliment people of the opposite s.ex in front of one another all the time and neither one of them has a problem with it. They are both secure with each other and their relationship so they see nothing wrong with it. [quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=577927.msg7447025#msg7447025 date=1293947081]Do you men/boys think He was wrong or he was just being a "man"? I told him that he was wrong and should apologize to the girl and his girlfriend. He said he did nothing wrong. Ladies, what do you think about this?[/quote]Honestly, I think it is wrong. Had he said in front of her and she didn't mind then perhaps the situation could slide--but since that isn't the case, it seems just plain respectful not only to him girlfriend but to the young woman who was addressed at the party. Him or anyone else thinking its ok would just be feeding into the whole "boys will be boys" notion. If it were I, that would definitely be a red flag for me. |
| Romance › Re: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 7:58am On Jan 02, 2011 |
[quote author=Orton1_0 link=topic=575554.msg7446726#msg7446726 date=1293932342]whatever gal its up to you and just like the other person said, its your life. But don't be surprised if you wake up one day at 70 with no kids or 'personal person' to call your own.[/quote]And why is it so wrong for me to be 70 years old and without a child or partner? Its not a must for me to have those things in my life? Please stop trying to shove your views down my throat. Because I don't think or live as you do does not in any way mean or indicate that I am not living a positive life. [quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=575554.msg7446823#msg7446823 date=1293936325]@Inkerd_Nerd & All the Other Ladies Who Had The "Balls" To Challenge The Status Quo First, let me start by commending your stance, not because it is right or wrong, but because you possess the ability to critique a social tradition that does not make sense to you, instead of just blindly accepting the social norm. My mother's situation and the poster's are almost exactly the same, and it greatly pains me---till this day---and even occasionally bring tears to my eyes knowing that her children's happiness came only as a result of the sacrifice of her happiness. If possible, I would gladly choose to be unborn so that she could be happy. Instead, she stayed in a loveless union because of her tribal beliefs. Marriage and children are a good thing, but, unfortunately they are not for everyone. Whenever I hear someone say that s/he will not have children or get married, it makes me really happy because I know they are not selfish but that they are trying to avoid being unhappy, or trying to avoid pleasing other people but themselves. Unfortunately, only rich people like Oprah Winfrey, George Clooney, Janet Jackson, and many others can make such decisions with minimum vilification. Some of our African brothers and sisters always talk about how those of us in the West are quick to follow the white man's way of thinking. Hmm, who gave you Christianity? Who gave you education? Who taught you English? Who gave you democracy? If our way of thinking were superior, we would be amongst the top nations in the world; it hurts, but it is the truth. They are quick to tell you that you are mocking God whenever you point out that the Bible---that was given to them by the white man---contains errors. We don't analyze anything, we just accept them hook, line, and sinker. Some id.iots still think only God can change Nigeria. You know what, I have an exam in three days time, but I am not going to study, because the God that I serve is a living God and He will do a new thing in my life. So, I have been fasting and praying and I know that the Holy Ghost will take control of my exam in three days. God bless you all.[/quote]Thank you It's interesting that you mention Oprah Winfrey, George Clooney, Janet Jackson. My sister was having a discussion with her teacher last year about marriage and children and he pointed out to her that many of the rich and "successful" people that "we" look up to are unmarried and without children. The he went on to point out that often time when they do have children they limit the number to one or two and that usually poor people [I'm not sure if that's the proper word I should use] are the ones with many children. Sorry, I hope my little schpiel isn't derailing what you've said. By the way, it's great that you were able to give another perspective when it comes to not having/not having a child. And you also may a wonderful point when you mentioned the African living in the west. |
| Music/Radio › Re: Down On My Knees by InkedNerd(f): 4:37am On Jan 02, 2011 |
Omg, I love Ayo. Her music is great. |
| Romance › Re: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 2:33am On Jan 02, 2011 |
faponfapon:I hope I didn't come across as rude, its just that when I mentioned what my views were there seemed to be a lot of opposition. You have your views and I have mine. If marriage is something you want then good for you. If not, the good for you as well. We're all difference and share different views on various issued issues. Who knows, I may change my mind years from now . |
| Romance › Re: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 1:10am On Jan 02, 2011 |
eldav:Oh, so you mean to tell me that EVERY SINGLE THING in the Bible makes sense? And for the record, I'm not mocking anyone I was just pointing out something. To mock would be an indication that I am making fun of God, which I wasn't--like I said, I was trying to point out something. |
| Romance › Re: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 12:58am On Jan 02, 2011 |
1one:lol, thanks. I know I'll meet someone some day. Its just a matter of time. It may not be today, it may not be tomorrow, but it'll happen someday and I'm cool with that |
| Romance › Re: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by InkedNerd(f): 12:53am On Jan 02, 2011 |
faponfapon:Good point and no, I don't see it as a sin. There are people on this website that preach until the sun goes down yet they follow anything that they preach. There are also thins within the Bible and Koran that make absolutely no sense at all. Me saying that I have no desire to get married has nothing to do with religion. If I may ask, why is it that you all seem to like using the Bible, Koran, etc. as a means of justifying certain acts or behavior. |
| Romance › Re: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 12:42am On Jan 02, 2011 |
sexylogan:lol, yes I am independent but I know when to ask for help 1one:Nah, I'm open to the idea of a relationship and companionship. I may be vocal about my views but its doesn't mean I don't wanna be loved |
| Romance › Re: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 11:52pm On Jan 01, 2011 |
How so? |
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