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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Become A Virgin Back (females) by InkedNerd(f): 2:53am On Feb 12, 2012
@OP: Regardless of what you or anyone says, once you have lost your virginity you are no longer a virgin regardless of the gender you engaged in the sëxual act with.
CelebritiesRe: Whitney Houston Is Dead by InkedNerd(f): 2:50am On Feb 12, 2012
phraoh:
Yeah,yu are right buh i just need to blame somebody for her death.
The only one who can be blamed is her. I feel bad for her kids though. I can only imagine what its like to lose a parent undecided
CelebritiesRe: Whitney Houston Is Dead by InkedNerd(f): 2:43am On Feb 12, 2012
phraoh:
Its so unfortunate and  dont feel good now.Her life lately has not been going welll though,no thanks to bad acquintance who introduced her to drugs.
No offense to Ms. Houston. . . I truly did love her [as a singer] and her music but you can't blame others for her drug use. We all make decisions and sadly using drugs was something she chose to do. She will forever be one of my favorite singer regardless of her past.
RomanceRe: Why Can't Ladies Realize They Can Easily Get Any Man They Toast? by InkedNerd(f): 1:43am On Feb 12, 2012
@OP: If we could easily get any guy we wanted, I'd be married to each and every guy that I have been attracted to or shown interest in. For the most part, claremont has given you a bit of insight to your question.
RomanceRe: Opening The Door For Ladies by InkedNerd(f): 1:37am On Feb 12, 2012
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=864437.msg10176833#msg10176833 date=1329006370]Wow. People are debating about door opening? huh huh huh

Listen men, some women do not care for door opening and some women do. If you open a door for a woman because you want to then do not expect a thank you. It is a courtesy to say thank you after someone does something for you even if you don't ask for it, however not everyone have etiquettes.

If you don't want to open the door, you are not by force to do so. There are much serious matters in this world worthy of a debate.[/quote]Biko, tell am!
RomanceRe: On A Cross Road; He Needs Ur Advice! by InkedNerd(f): 11:49am On Feb 11, 2012
drnoel:
Well I wont disagree with u but u should understand that what he gave was just an example. The methods and principle of elimination or choosing are just the same, but the actual method a guy would use to eliminate or choose a partner is what may differ. Girls taking guys 4 a ride is another issue (a lot of factors influence that), but that will be digressing from the topic of discussion.
How is that any different? Some men see woman as an asset who can cook and clean and while some women see men as ATM machines who are only good for dispensing money to them undecided
RomanceRe: My Happiness For Her Life by InkedNerd(f): 11:46am On Feb 11, 2012
Riihimaki:
May be
Well, you've been given loads of advice here. What you choose to do with it is up to you. If you like, continue lying and to drag around this extra burden around.

Riihimaki:
Yeah right! Thanks! Majority here don't wanna believe they have mental problem although I think 90% of them do. Shrink is always the last resort if every other failed.
Ok, so then marry her and stop complaining on the thread
RomanceRe: On A Cross Road; He Needs Ur Advice! by InkedNerd(f): 11:33am On Feb 11, 2012
drnoel:
as silly as u think what he said is, most guys would agree with him. If that mean that must guys are lame brain like u say then so be it. But we guys do eliminate girls in just about similar methods as he wrote down. Sorry ladies but that is just one of the ways u where chosen or kicked out by ur guy.
I didn't say that it makes most guys are lame brain--I said that the idea/method is a lame brain one. No problem though, I stay away from African men like that anyway. It's quite sad that that is how some of you value your women. I used to feel sorry for men who'd end up with women who sized them up by using them as ATM's but with such ideas, I can't say that I feel bad for then anymore nor do I think some guys should ever be complaining when such women take them for a ride.
RomanceRe: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by InkedNerd(f): 11:24am On Feb 11, 2012
babestella:
You will get your receipt, it is brand new, with comfortable inside, fully A/C, security camera, and good communication system. It is here in Lagos for inspection.
What's the return policy o? grin
RomanceRe: My Happiness For Her Life by InkedNerd(f): 11:23am On Feb 11, 2012
Riihimaki:
Well, you are right on this one, I have thought about that too. But telling her. . . I think will add more fuel to the fire.  May be this will go away quietly but telling her will cause total heartbreak for her, distrust and hatred for me. No more drama abeg. But thanks anyway, you sound a lot better now.
Oya, answer the question. Had your fiancé done this, would you be so understanding and forgiving?
RomanceRe: My Happiness For Her Life by InkedNerd(f): 11:07am On Feb 11, 2012
michelin89:
True. You taking advantage of a girl you thought was drunk is the issue!

Keep on violating drunk girls. undecided
Careful before he says she took advantage of him as well lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by InkedNerd(f): 11:00am On Feb 11, 2012
BigBenoski:
well, u r way too serious and trust me, that has a way of fast tracking ur biological clock. Damn! U dont giv a duck's Bottom abt xmas? Ok what in d world tickles ur fancy then? Bull fighting?
Because I'm not a huge fan of Christmas or Valentine's Day, that means I'm way to serious? Is it by force that a person must observe that holiday?  undecided
I'm just being candid here. Since I was a kid, I've never really been too thrilled about Christmas. I'm really not sure what else to tell you. That's not to say all holidays are not of interest to me. I just don't hold those these holidays in the same regard as other people. As for what tickles my fancy, it depends--for starters, I really like sports.

Please don't use this one view on holidays as a means of establishing how serious I am or can be. You'd be surprised to know that I like to play pranks on people and at times I have no problem making a fool of myself in public. Rest assure, my biological clock is fine grin

babestella:
This is a recommended gift for a Val, e no dey cost at all, na shikini money, best part, Boko Haram, assassins, armed robbers, ritual killers no fit get your Val as long as she they inside am, please place your order now.
Will I get a receipt if I place an order? And what your return policy? grin
RomanceRe: My Happiness For Her Life by InkedNerd(f): 10:44am On Feb 11, 2012
Riihimaki:
Lady, You are too mean! Are you a saint? even if u have not cheated in a relationship you must have committed some scandalous emotional crime. We all do these once in a while so please don't bury me before I die. I just want a way out not crucifixion. I admitted I was wrong you do not need to hammer that into my ears anymore sad
You're very right my dear. Indeed I am not a saint and I doubt that I will ever be one. But unlike you, I can at least admit my supposed scandalous emotional crimes. I live my life with no secrets. Yes, I have found myself in situations where it may not have been emotionally appropriate but I can still admit it. I'm not trying to bury you but I see you for what you are. Perhaps a hammering it in is indeed what you need. Lemme ask you something had your fiancé done this, would you be so understanding and forgiving? Honestly, you got what you deserved and anyone who cheats on their significant other should get what they deserves as well. If your story is indeed true, then I think the DECENT thing to do is to at least let your poor fiancé what you've gotten yourself into--its only fair since you cheated on her and from the way you write, I can only assume you've done it before. If so, whether or not you want to tell her about other pas sexcapades is up to you. Next, I think you need to state to the parents of the girl that you cannot have anything to do with the girl and suggest that she seek some sort of professional help. Just as michelin89 stated, even if she manages to get you, your chances of cheating are still high so here chances of committing suicide is still high. And while what I am about to say may not seem nice, if she still decides to commit suicide then that is on her. As adults [though one of you was more foolish than the other], neither of your are obligated to one another given the fact that all it was was  a one night stand which sadly, you chose to extend. If for whatever reason you still feel the need to do something about this extra baggage you've decided to drag around, then you could alert the local authorities that deal with mental illness and wellness. Aside from that, I can't really say that I can help.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Did You Spend Your Weekend Doing? by InkedNerd(f): 10:19am On Feb 11, 2012
@OP: Hmmm, my weekend just started the moment I left class on Thursday. So far, I've spent much of my day on Friday eating food in the house. After I finsih writing my little brother's university program essay, I'll go to bed and sleep the morning away--then later on, I'll do some yoga.

Ogaga4Luv:
[size=13pt][font=OldMan Book Style]Darling Inked_Nerd u shouldn't be bored before facing your TV sets smiley . well , i hope after you finish watching that movies you'll share with us at the movie section? grin grin wink
lol thanks cheesy[/font][/size]
RomanceRe: Who Spends More On Valentine's Day? by InkedNerd(f): 9:51am On Feb 11, 2012
Whoever has more money grin
RomanceRe: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by InkedNerd(f): 9:49am On Feb 11, 2012
KINGwax:
can we have a break now? Fuckin' narcissist.
If I'm a narcissist, then you're a sniveling cry baby but you don't seem me crying about that. Go take a seat somewhere and find someone else to bïtch and moan to.
RomanceRe: My Happiness For Her Life by InkedNerd(f): 9:38am On Feb 11, 2012
[quote author=Ch@nges link=topic=868016.msg10171489#msg10171489 date=1328949371]@ all, OP might probably be dead by now. He was shot on his balls sad sad[/quote]Oh well, sucks for him. Who's the next cheater on the chopping block?
FashionRe: What Are You Putting On Right Now? by InkedNerd(f): 9:14am On Feb 11, 2012
Well, its nighttime so I'm wearing some short shorts and a fitted white t-shirt grin
RomanceRe: Opening The Door For Ladies by InkedNerd(f): 9:03am On Feb 11, 2012
ceejayluv:
Gender equality? Dat reminds me,
"PENTAGON TO PUT WOMEN CLOSER TO COMBAT"

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2012/02/pentagon-to-put-women-closer-to-combat/
I'm still waiting for that day. I don't know what the hell is taking them so long. Reminds me of an old debate care I used from high school on women in combat.
FashionRe: Who Said Nigerian Men Dont Have Swag? by InkedNerd(f): 8:59am On Feb 11, 2012
Only three out of the six guys in the pic are cute.
FashionRe: How Do I Soften My Natural Hair And Stop Breakage During Combing? by InkedNerd(f): 8:37am On Feb 11, 2012
@Everyone: Why hasn't anyone bothered to ask the OP what her current hair regimen was before everyone started making suggestions?

@OP: What is your current hair regimen? Here's a thread I started a while back. It has lot's of recipes and info that can help when it comes to caring for natural hair→ https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-551500.96.html
RomanceRe: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by InkedNerd(f): 8:23am On Feb 11, 2012
Basics007:
Well,i gave you credit for that too. And congrats on having so many fans
Thanks but I don't have fans and thank you--I appreciate the credit. By the way, please forgive me for the way my previous response sounded.
RomanceRe: My Happiness For Her Life by InkedNerd(f): 8:16am On Feb 11, 2012
[quote author=Ch@nges link=topic=868016.msg10171093#msg10171093 date=1328943239]^You'll never understand cos u're a woman.[/quote]Oh yes, poor OP. It must be so terrible for him knowing damn well that he stepped out on his girlfriend and caused the situation that he's in. Like I said, he made his bed! Chei, poor guy. I can only imagine the look on his face when a gun was put to his head as he was forced to have sëx with that woman. Oh woe is he!!
RomanceRe: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by InkedNerd(f): 8:13am On Feb 11, 2012
Basics007:
Nice question. The answer aint half bad too.
Well, I answered him undecided
RomanceRe: Opening The Door For Ladies by InkedNerd(f): 8:10am On Feb 11, 2012
Konnektions146:
lets be realistic dear, wen yu do a particular thin for a lady and after a while yu cease, no matter de cause, she will term it that yu have change and de only reason dat could cross her mind is dat yu gotten wat yu wanted or that yu re gettin tired of her.
yu know ladies takes into note certain small small details that guy consider flimsy and not-too-important, so its just better not to excite a lady with some of those yu know wont last  so she takes yu as yu and  yu guys stay peaceful.
just my humbble observation
I don't need anyone to open any door for myself. I have stated that before and I will state that again. For me, all it is is a polite gesture. After all, I have two  functioning hands of my own. I know many men don't care about even being courteous in such a manner so I don't even expect it, especially from African men [no offense]. What you described is no different from a guy observing a change in behavior of a girl that he may be interested in. It goes both way, its not a one sided issue. While I will agree that such thoughts may creep into a woman's mind, that's not to say that it is any different for men. Just because the manner which a man may express or observe this behavior doesn't change the nature of it. I've had guys open doors for me, and as a whole I've always thought of it as common courtesy. I didn't fly over the moon because it was a guy doing it. Regardless of gender I still appreciate it, especially given the fact that many people today can be downright nasty!

In all, I understand what you're saying. Here's an idea, did it ever occur to you that it may not be that we women think of it as chivalry or a romantic gesture but rather it is something that with time has been perpetuated by men as a means of dictating the manner that a man should treat a woman? Just some food for thought.

Konnektions146:
^^^
i guess yu re talkin from experiences, lol

umu nwanyi, nsogbu unu kariri
Nna, the same can be said about you and your menfolk wink

[quote author=fresh_dude link=topic=864437.msg10171129#msg10171129 date=1328943783]I really don't think there's a big deal opening doors for ladies or not. Personally, if I'm ahead I just open the door and leave it open for whoever is behind me-male, female, children-life's easier that way. As for my gf, when I had one I always did, it was my pleasure. However, if as my babe you get to the door before me and wait for me to come and open wey nor be say you get boil for your palms we might as well stand outside thhe door and gist till you really want to enter.[/quote]lol, that is perfectly understandable. I see no reason why a woman should be standing there waiting for a guy when she approached the door first.

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