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Romance › Re: Most Guys R Losers Right? (for Ladies Only) by InkedNerd(f): 1:11am On Feb 08, 2012

MarcAnthon:
Yeah. Thanks dear for the kind thoughts. I'm good o. Just going about my bizness and staying out of trouble. Lol. Hope you're doing fine? I trust you took care of your stuff alright

Good to hear. Yes, I'm fine. Just livin' life and enjoyin' it. And yes, I took care of that things I was working on. So, what have I missed on NL. Fill me in

Romance › Re: I'm Sad For Nairalanders Who Don't Have Boyfriend/girlfriend For Valentine by InkedNerd(f): 1:08am On Feb 08, 2012

@OP: lol don't feel sorry for me. Although I still believe that Valentine's Day is just a marketing ploy, it's still interesting to see how people act when this day comes rollin' by. I personally don't need this one day of the year to hear from someone that they love me or care about me. Overall, I don't have any lovey dovey plans for Valentine's Day but I do have "special" plans for that day wink

Romance › Re: Most Guys R Losers Right? (for Ladies Only) by InkedNerd(f): 12:59am On Feb 08, 2012

MarcAnthon:
Inky, were you on sabbatical?

Yes, I had some personal things to take care of but I'm back now. You know when I cam back to the romance section, you were one of the first people I thought of. How are you my dear? It's been a while.

Romance › Re: Sleeping With The Enemy by InkedNerd(f): 12:56am On Feb 08, 2012

Heck:
Inked _ _ _ you are arrogant. PERIOD.
But OP that babe is not my idea of "The Enemy"

And you're an ego stroking sympathizer [yet you don't here me complaining about that]. PERIOD. He asked a question on the thread and just like others, I answered so what's your gripe?

Romance › Re: Most Guys R Losers Right? (for Ladies Only) by InkedNerd(f): 12:47am On Feb 08, 2012

kpolli:
You are who u attract. . . So if you attract losers then you are. . . . EOD

Konjour:
spot on, if you get asked out by thugs,street urchins,and the likes,the chances are

that you've not gone wide off the mark of a street sojourner yourself.

Wow, this just goes to show the level of intelligence some of you men possess. Perhaps in whatever little bubble you two live in, you may think that there are women who are looking to be treated like that but believe it or not some of your idiöt menfolk have the a very nasty and inbred habit of harassing women regardless of how well put together a woman may be. It's men like you two that enable such behavior to continue. When it happen women in your life that you love and respect, then we'll see if you guys will continue to share such beliefs.

Romance › Re: Sleeping With The Enemy by InkedNerd(f): 12:04pm On Feb 07, 2012

mobf:
I knew what i was doing, so did she

If you knew, then why are you asking us? You had your mind made up then when you had sëx with her so what difference does it make now that the sëx is over? Personally, I have no problem with people sleeping with their ex's but in the case of you and this girl, it seems like foolishness.

Since you cut your story short, would you care to give us a full rundown as to how things transpired?

Romance › Re: Opening The Door For Ladies by InkedNerd(f): 11:54am On Feb 07, 2012

[quote author=@richy link=topic=864437.msg10140897#msg10140897 date=1328611303]ladies not elderly person[/quote]I see no difference whether its for the elderly or for me, its only a nice gesture.

Romance › Re: Sleeping With The Enemy by InkedNerd(f): 11:53am On Feb 07, 2012

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=864852.msg10140901#msg10140901 date=1328611345][color=#000030]Only a true robot will do that!

Now what exactly is the aim of this thread? To fan your st[i]u[/i]pid ego? Because you slept with a lady that called you enemy, and you took sleeping with her-and eventually telling her "the sex meant nothing"- as a form of revenge, you want to be hailed as a badt guy? undecided

Well guess what? You are a what? A FOOL! cheesy

[/color][/quote]Makes you wonder. Like I said, I'm quite sure he knew what he was doing.

Romance › Re: Most Guys R Losers Right? (for Ladies Only) by InkedNerd(f): 11:48am On Feb 07, 2012

@OP: Guys who act like that are not men, rather they are little boys who have yet to learn how to deal with their emotions. Sadly, I see stuff like that all the time [especially during the summer] which is why I walk with my iTouch at all times so I can tune little boys like that out. I haven't had an encounter like that but, I certainly wouldn't tolerate it. I used to have a Bajan friend that loads of guys would hit on all the time. One time we were walking in the street and some guy asked for her number and she said no and walked away. When the dude heard her say no and walk away, he immediately shouted out loud "Oh its like that bïtch?!?! That's why you sucked my dïck last night hoë!" Some dudes can be downright rude.

Here's a video that pretty much talks about men behaving like this
[flash=400,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vp-Eq6QGSfI[/flash]

Romance › Re: Sleeping With The Enemy by InkedNerd(f): 11:33am On Feb 07, 2012

mobf:
^^
You shouldn't jump the gun. Read carefully, i said no need for insults

Ok point taken. I must have missed that part, my apologies. . . but I didn't jump the gun. I still think you had an idea what her intentions were but chose to ignore it by acting as though you didn't. If I insulted you, then I'm sorry but I'm quite sure you're not a small child and I still stand by what I said about you being sheisty. You most likely had an idea where she feelings were directed to which is why I said you were sheisty.

Romance › Re: Sleeping With The Enemy by InkedNerd(f): 11:16am On Feb 07, 2012

mobf:
Please Inked, don't be too quick to conclude. She is with someone and if she wanted a moments pleasure from me i gave it to her. What's sheisty about that? i led her on? this just make me laugh.

You never mentioned that she was with someone until now so its only fair that I respond the way I did. You can keep laughing all you want but if you failed to mention that vital piece of information in the thread then you only have yourself to blame for my conclusion. Next time provide all the information before telling half ässed story and asking for opinions.

Romance › Re: Opening The Door For Ladies by InkedNerd(f): 11:06am On Feb 07, 2012

For me its a polite gesture, no different from me opening a door for an elderly person.

Romance › Re: Sleeping With The Enemy by InkedNerd(f): 11:03am On Feb 07, 2012

mobf:
My Ex and i called it quits mutually a couple of months back and she started seeing someone else. She referred to me as the enemy after the break up then somehow she made advances: sending messages,calling more often than she should and trying to get back on my BBM contact list e.t.c . Well to cut the gist, we had sex and next she's asking "are we good?" .My response left her crying as she left . I don't think i was harsh coz the sex didn't mean anything to me. I need your opinion on this, no need for insults biko

Seems like you knew what her intent was and most likely you led her on. That's was a sheisty move on your part. Since you said you guys called it quits mutually I'm left to assume that perhaps there was no bad blood between the two of you [although that may not necessarily be the case]. With that being said, yes it was harsh because I'm more than certain that you knew what you were doing but played it off as though you didn't. As a whole, that just makes you seem like a jerk. You should have "manned up" and just told her that her intentions weren't what you wanted or had in mind.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 10:14am On Feb 07, 2012

My day was ok. Had a great workout cheesy

I have a class later on though tongue

Looking forward to the semester finishing so I can go wild grin

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 5:23pm On Jan 11, 2012

sauer:
That wat comes with showing off damn too much in class!

Today I just slept! Trying to still come up with a few interesting things. Putting up some applications. . . . .can be stressful. . . .
Listened to some music. . . . .Not calling that girl. . . . .she pissing me off!
I gotta shave. . . .no energy. . . . .do laundry. . . .am sleeping off

lol, trust I wasn't showing off. You know how much I love jazz, I was gettin' into the class. If I really wanted ot show off, I'd be the one teachign the class. If anything, the only one showing off is the professor. Mehn, that dude was name dropin' like crazy grin

Ilike the class though cheesy

Romance › Re: Women, Can You Marry More Than One Husband? by InkedNerd(f): 2:21am On Jan 11, 2012

@OP: Yes, I can as long as its not too costly. If we can't legally marry, we can all live communally grin

Romance › Re: Dudes That Do This Should Be Dumped by InkedNerd(f): 2:16am On Jan 11, 2012

@Nj girl: Look my dear, my work isn't just limited to ground work. Please go find some other argument instead on redirecting your comment at whether or not I can do work online. Of course I can, and I do! It's a part of what I do. Are you actually doing anything besides writing this post or is this post all you have to offer [not that I'm knockin' your hustle if this is really what you claim to be about]? Me being polite to you in not a given whether online or offline. Make some other valid argument other than the fact that you're under the false impression that I was impolite to you. Look out for women however you see fit. My only intentions was to call the question the notions you presented earlier. If anyone is taking it to another level it is you, not me. Yes, I [rather we, at the organization I'm associated] with are well aware that there are victims who don't want to speak in person, hence the reason why there are online counseling forums and online chats within the organizations. Stop acting like I'm talkin' out the side of my neck or like I'm not aware of such procedures.

Romance › Re: Would U Tolerate A Partner That Comes Home Late In The Night? by InkedNerd(f): 8:22pm On Jan 10, 2012

@OP: Yes I would just as long as it is either work related or that I know that they are safe at the place they're at and that the late night comings won't interfere in our relationship.

Romance › Re: Dudes That Do This Should Be Dumped by InkedNerd(f): 8:16pm On Jan 10, 2012

Nj girl:
@inky i guess my lessons on arguing in a lady like manner have rubbed off, now u ve learnt u can make a decent argument without getting aggresive, now u are sounding mature. Thank me later. I did not react to the other people u mentioned, not because of the brevity of their responses but because it was politetly stated. Now u ve explained u are passionate about gender equality, so your outburst was probably out of passion but if as u claim u work for an NGO that deals with abuse victims regardless of sex, dat kind of job should have given u at least a little maturity which should reflect on d manner of your arguments. If u are so passionate about gender equality, u should aim at enlightening youths about it online and offline, and u dont enlighten people by attacking them like u have a past grudge.
The other people who criticized my gender bias politely actually won me over, but in your first argument all i saw was one of those nlanders who love derailing threads and arguing unnecessarily with total strangers, your points which i must admit were reasonable were masked by your aggressiveness.
Just like the numerous organisations that look out for 'women only', this thread is looking out for women only. It is an advice to sisters all over the world not to stay in abusive relationships. If u want to advice both sexes its as easy as starting your own thread.

No offense but what part of "I already work and volunteer for gender based and orientation based organizations that promote help and outreach to both sėxes" did you not understand? I already work towards "enlightening" youths! Your assumptions that I don't already do any of that is highly incorrect. I didn't respond to you in an aggressive manner and clearly others could see that as well--you just chose to read my initial response in an aggressive manner. Newflash, in the real world you can't dictate the tone that someone uses to addresses you [even though there wasn't a harsh tone in my initial comment]. I don't need to start my own thread--that's not what my intentions are. I have told you more than once already, I work with people on these issues firsthand. I do involve myself directly in these matters. Yes spreading the word online is a good way of doing so but its not just limited to that. I don't know if you just talking about it is good enough for you but for me it doesn't stop there. I go out and make changes! This was never about starting a thread or not starting a thread. Whenever I come across threads on Nairaland that deal with gender issues and inequality, I use that as a opporunity to pass on the information that I have. The condescending manner that you address my supposed "aggression" overshadows the topic as a whole. You keep bringing up ther matter of me having a grudge when in reality there was never a grudge. If you were really as mature as you keeping saying that you are then there would be no reason for you to be taking such a wayward apraoch to this topic. I can always put things aside for the sake of the advancement of women and society but you need to learn to just accept certain things as they are so real matters can be addressed. I don't know what lesson it is that you think or thought you were "teaching" me but my views, thoughts, and feelings stil stand as they are. I addressed you as a I saw fit.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=842542.msg9936586#msg9936586 date=1326218372] SUMMARY!!!! angry

[/quote]Wettin dey vex you? Reading no dey kill people! wink

amu ukwu:
who wan read all this, this girl you too serious. u no get bf abi na gf. you need some distractions.

No one said it is a must to read it all. You can skip it and move onto something more pressing. Besides, I'm in my school's library so I have all the time in the world if I wanna reply. Biko, no vex kiss

Romance › Re: Dudes That Do This Should Be Dumped by InkedNerd(f): 6:54pm On Jan 10, 2012

@Nj girl: Chei, my dear are you well? What is it that is keeping you from comprehending simple information? Are you so desperate to continue trudging with this thread that you insist that there is something I have against you? I hate having to repeat myself so talk notes and please pay EXTRA attention this time because it appears that focusing isn't really your forté. I am not, and I repeat, I am not one of those people who "unleash their real life frustrations on online characters or one of those people who cant make a decent argument without getting all nasty about it". Sorry sweetie but you're not that special for me to actually go out of my way to have an ill feelings about. If I see a topic or discussion that is of interest to me, then I will throw my two cents in. Just because I have chosen to address you specifically doesn't mean I have anything against you or that I am lashing out at you. If you have a problem with the fact that unlike other people here I addressed the flaws within your topic in a more indept manner then that is not my problem. You need to learn and understand that part of being an adult and having an adult conversation is knowing how to discuss topics without always taking a personal offense to it when you don't find the persons response particularly appealing. As for you telling me I could have stated my flaws in a more "ladylike" mannner, that demonstrates the manner which you think since you seem to be under the impression that there is a particular type of way I should speak since I am a woman. The only one downplaying the issue of domestic violence as a whole is you and your tippy toeing ways within your response. Go re-read the intial replies and the reples of others and tell me what is difference is between them. Majority of the people who addressed you in a similar manner as I did are men so please tell me why you didn't sit here and call them out for them replying as a whole? Roland17, sexkillz and 25omega addressed you in a direct yet shorter manner yet I don't see you telling them to "stop acting like men". If I wanted to have a personal "beef" with you, I would have called you out directly and told you straight up. I don't bullshit when it comes to things like that. Had having a beef with you been my my objective, I would have made it very public and you would have known. I'm straight foward when it comes to things like that so don't even use your notion of creating a beef as a means of responding to my comment to you.

You saying that I should do something about genger inequalities if it upsets me just adds onto the fact that you know nothing of what you're saying. The tuth of the matter is, I already work and volunteer for gender based and orientation based organizations that promote help and outreach to both sėxes. Like before, I have stated that on Nairaland in the past. I don't know what it is that you do in your free time but I'm not one of those womanists who complain about things and don't actually do anything about it. I actually do try to make a difference no matter how small it may be. Perhaps if you didn't assume things [again], then you would have known that. If you truly believe or think that you presenting falsified, hypiocritical, and sexist information about domestic violence then I think you may need to rethink using the term 'femnist' and your views on feminism and domestic violence because cleartly you don't know or understand the foundamentals of feminism. Feminism [or womanism if that is a term you'd prefer to go by], is not about getting back at the other side by means of the same treatment. Rather, it is a movement that involves the empowerment, advacement, equality of women in every aspects of life. My objective as a womanist is not to try to bring down "the man", but rather like the feminist movement, it is to work towards anti-domination for the liberation of all humanity, against misogyny, intimate exploitation, violence and aggression, and to raise consciousness and socio-political activism by observing, analysing, debating and challenging dominant and oppressive ideologies pervasive in mainstream society; as well as providing a space to share advice, musings and feelings in a non-therapeutic manner. So unlike the comments [i]you[/i]were making earlier, they don't fit into what it is that you claim to stand for. Like I said before, yes I will agree that there are more male abusers than female but that's not to say that women don't do it either or that its ok for a woman to just take up the notion that equality means throwin' some fits up in the air to make up for past grievences. Me responding to the the thread as a whole has nothing to do with me not liking your thread [or you as a member]. I'm replying to this thread not because I hate, dislike, or have a bone to pick with you and the topic, it is because the topic of femisim, equality, and domestic violence as a whole is something that I am aactually passionate about. Just because you're choosing to bypass the fact that I addressed the fact that I don't dislike your thread doesn't mean it wasn't stated. You can keep claiming that I don't like your thread but the truth of the matter is that me liking or disliking the thread is irrelivent to the actual content of our conversation. If you or anyone else wants to view me as a "blabing frustrated sister", then you're more than welcome to. I have no control or objection to you thinking that. Ultimately that is up to you.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 5:29pm On Jan 10, 2012

@OP: My day is stil dragging along. I have one more class for the day, then I'm free!!! My professor from one of my classes is such a trip. Apparently he thinks I'm some kind of music encyclopedia. Little does he know, I know even less than he does. There's still those awkward moments in class when no one wants to answer a question in class either because they don't know or because they're shy, so he keeps turning to me which is ok but kinda sucks because if its a topic I'm not too familiar with, I end up having to come up with some bullshit answer tongue

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 1:44pm On Jan 10, 2012

freecocoa:
^
Chei you wucked o,give the young chap a chance na,you never know he could turn out to be mr right o.

@Topic,Thank God dad didn't stay home today,I have the house all to myself,I gat nothing to do so I'm NLinig,if I get bored I'll simply turn on the TV or read a novel,got some new collections.

@ Flash where the hell are ya? This your Doc things is taking you away from me o,wonder if I'll be seeing you at all when you finally get your license.

Mba, e no go happen!! All he is is Mr. Hells No!

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 7:32am On Jan 10, 2012

@OP: My day hasn't officially started [yet] since it's still early. I'm just gonna get some sleep for now, then go to class then from there I'll go to the gym to work out so I can de-stress and relax. Omg by the way, this may sound messed up on my part but some yeye dude was trying to hit on me on the bus on my way to class. Smh, I've seen the guy around before and have spoken to him [just so I wouldn't come off as rude] but its like he couldn't take a hint that I wasn't interested in talking to him on a more personal level. . . I found a way to shake him off though. . . I whipped out my cell phone and started chatting away so he'd stop talking. Had I not broken my damn Monster Beats headphones, I would have tuned out the mumu angry

Romance › Re: Will You Ever Consider Getting Married To A White Partner by InkedNerd(f): 7:16am On Jan 10, 2012

Araboy:
^^^
hahah I knew you gonna say that long time no see

lol of course--I know you too well in that sense. Happy New Year by the way!

Romance › Re: Will You Ever Consider Getting Married To A White Partner by InkedNerd(f): 7:00am On Jan 10, 2012

Araboy:
NO NO NO

lol, you didn't need to answer the question. We already knew what your answer would be grin

Fashion › Re: What Color Are Yur Nails? by InkedNerd(f): 6:10am On Jan 10, 2012

Same color as always--natural color of my skin grin

Nairaland General › Re: Nigerians Are Hipocrites by InkedNerd(f): 5:10am On Jan 10, 2012

Human beings as a whole are hypocrites. Hypocrisy isn't a characteristic that is native only to Nigerians undecided

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: . by InkedNerd(f): 5:08am On Jan 10, 2012

kokoye:
^^^

I wasnt joking o.

I sabi Toyosi true true . .

#pele_op

Eh ya, pele faakay cry

Romance › Re: Will You Ever Consider Getting Married To A White Partner by InkedNerd(f): 5:06am On Jan 10, 2012

@OP: Yes, I have considered getting married to a white partner. A person's color is no reason for me to not want to be with them.

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