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 Romance › Re: I'll Tear Them Apart! by InkedNerd(f): 8:51pm On Feb 10, 2012 |
[font=times new roman ]If your story is true, be the bigger person and move on. Just keep a close eye on her if you ever have a dude. No need to create some crazy diabolical plan. And stop letting other people's love for your cousin dictate how you conduct yourself.[/font] |
| Romance › Re: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by InkedNerd(f): 8:44pm On Feb 10, 2012 |
[quote author=A-ZeD link=topic=867172.msg10164748#msg10164748 date=1328868995]Are your posts a reflection of your real self or that of your online self?[/quote]Honestly, I've never really been a fan of things like this. I can barely stand Christmas talk less Valentine's Day. I said it before and I will say it again, I'm not one of those robotic drones that feels that they need to go along with all these Valentine's Day shenanigans. I'm know the advertising and marketing effects such hyped up "holidays" have on how people act and I have no intentions of feeding into it. I will admit, every once in a while I do join friends or a male companion if they choose to partake in the overall observance or celebration of these things but I can do without them. I know some people use it as a day to express their love to someone or engage in some kind of intimate encounter with someone but for me, that is not necessary. If a guy needs to wait for this one day of the year to tell me he loves or cares about me, I really should question the nature of our relationship. As for those who use it as an opportunity to have sëx with others, I personally don't need this one day of the year to do such things. What makes having sëx with a guy on that day any different from any other day? As a whole, the overall concept of proclaiming your love to someone is nice but this "holiday" is highly unnecessarily in my life. Yes, as a whole taking part in these things can be quite fun and entertaining but its just not a self mandatory thing for me. As for you asking me if my post is a reflection of my real self or my online self, I must tell you, that they are one in the same. Perhaps other people on Nairaland enjoy coming here and putting on some cyber bravado but I don't and to be quite honest I find it to be quite odd that people even take their time out to do such things. I am who I am, and what I present to you and everyone else is the person that I truly am. So I hope that is enough to answer your question. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: My Happiness For Her Life by InkedNerd(f): 8:18pm On Feb 10, 2012 |
@OP: If this story is indeed true, I honestly I can't say that I feel sorry for you. As far as I'm concerned, the only person I feel sorry for is your fiancé--if only she knew the kind of snake that you were. Whatever happens to you seems well deserved. Nigerian men like you are the same ones that would go around crying foul had their girlfriend done the same thing. If anything, I hope your girlfriend finds out so you're further entrenched in this drama. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 8:11pm On Feb 10, 2012 |
Flashaldrin:lol today wasn't special since I didn't leave my house today so I did some online shopping. I bought some cute rain boots a few days ago and I can't wait for them to arrive. For the most part, nothing special just hangin' around. I may go to the gym later on. |
| Romance › Re: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by InkedNerd(f): 9:14am On Feb 10, 2012 |
Ijogz K:lol because I said that Valentine's Day isn't a big deal to me? |
| Romance › Re: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by InkedNerd(f): 9:07am On Feb 10, 2012 |
[quote author=Da_b¤§§. link=topic=867172.msg10163712#msg10163712 date=1328859691]like you will happy if u dont get any gift.[/quote]I don't know what kind of women [i]you'r[/i]e used to hanging around but things like that don't impress me. I'm not one of those robotic drones that feels that they need to go along with all these Valentine's Day shenanigans. Besides, if a guy needs to wait for this one day of the year to tell me he loves or cares about me, I really should question the nature of our relationship. I've said this before and I'll say it again, I have my own money so buying and having the things I want is not an issue for me. So yes, I would still be happy if I didn't get anything for Valentine's Day. |
| Romance › Re: Letting Her Go Without Heartache! by InkedNerd(f): 7:25am On Feb 10, 2012 |
@OP: Awww, that was sweet yet sad. I don't know what may have led to your separation but I'm sure it was for the best. With time, the heartache will come to pass and with time, both your hearts will heal eemmason:Writing a letter doesn't always cool things. At times it leaves unanswered questions. Personally, writing what I'm feeling helps me express what I may be feeling in my heart or what is on my mind. |
| Romance › Re: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by InkedNerd(f): 7:20am On Feb 10, 2012 |
@OP: Material possession are not signs of love. |
| Romance › Re: Does True Love Still Exist? by InkedNerd(f): 5:29am On Feb 10, 2012 |
@OP: For some it does. For others, it doesn't. |
| Romance › Re: Husband Beating In Kenya Is Very Common: National Emergency! by InkedNerd(f): 3:22am On Feb 10, 2012 |
@OP: Not that I'm saying domestic violence is ok, but such occurrence are nothing compared to what many African women go through, especially those who willing stay with abusive partners due to religious, cultural, or social pressure. As a whole, domestic violence is wrong so let's not sit here and laugh at such things. In many cases, these men are not even taken seriously by authorities and are often mocked and ridiculed because of the hypermasculinized notions we chose to project and perpetuate within our African society and culture. It's quite sad and pathetic that domestic violence on women is so normalized that we all turn a blind eye when it occurs to the opposite gender. Wrong is wrong, no matter who it is affecting. |
| Fashion › Re: Why Do Women Of African Descent Relax/perm Their Beautiful Hair by InkedNerd(f): 3:09am On Feb 10, 2012 |
Meddler:Ironically, it's always the people who's hair are in desperate need of help who are always giving advice. You don't know how many half bald Black women I have encountered who have tried to give me "advice" on what to do with my hair. It makes no damn sense. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: BABE! by InkedNerd(f): 2:57am On Feb 10, 2012 |
[quote author=BABE! link=topic=809995.msg10162713#msg10162713 date=1328836808]Yup!  [/quote]lol the girl from Staten Island was a straight up punk. Smh, typical Staten Island behavior  Can't wait to see the new girl |
| Romance › Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship? by InkedNerd(f): 2:34am On Feb 10, 2012 |
@OP: Overall, it doesn't really matter who does the calling--there are no set of rules that dictate who calls who. In your case, there may be three things going on 1) the guy isn't much of a talker on the phone or 2) He's not entirely interested in you 3) Perhaps you're calling him too much. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you guys have to constantly call each other. I have a friend who'd go long periods of time without seeing or speaking to her boyfriend and they turned out fine. |
| Romance › Re: Second Chances by InkedNerd(f): 1:45am On Feb 10, 2012 |
@OP: I genuinely wanna say 'yes' but there is a part of me that is screaming 'no'. Overall, it would depend on the situation but for the most part giving someone a second chance is like giving them an extra bullet for their gun because they missed you the first time. An ex is an ex for a reason. This doesn't apply to all situations but in many cases it does. |
| Romance › Re: If Your Boyfriend Is A Bad Dresser And Doesn't Work Out But A Very Good Guy? by InkedNerd(f): 1:39am On Feb 10, 2012*. Modified: 7:16am On Mar 13, 2013 |
@OP: Hmmm, good question. I knew a guy like that. He'd have these random moments where he's dress bad. Ummm, I didn't stay with him long enough to have even contemplated on how or if I would have addressed it with him. I didn't leave him because his sense of style wasn't so great--his nasty attitude overshadowed ever feeling I had for him. Aside from him, I can't really say I've ever been with a guy who was a "bad dresser". Lmao I will admit this though, I'm currently foolin' around with a guy who looks like he walked off he set of the Jersey Shore and while I my not necessarily like his sense of style, I still respect his desire to dress as he pleases. When it comes to how a guy dresses, that is something that is a topic that tread lightly. |
| Romance › Re: I Bump Into This Guy All The Time At My School Hall Way by InkedNerd(f): 1:23am On Feb 10, 2012 |
@OP: lol, I know the feeling. When I was on my school's cross county team, there was this SEXY Jamaican guy I used to pump into all the time. He worked at my school so I'd see him in front of the school, on my way to class, in the elevator, when I'd leave school, when I'd work out at my school's fitness center. It was so funny and cute at the same time because him and I used to make eye contact so in a way it was kinda awkward and cute at the same time. There was also another dude I used to bump into all the time. The crazy thing about me bumping into this particular guy is that I'd see him outside of my school setting. I'd see him at the bus stop when I'd take the bus to go home, I'd see him in school, I'd see him on the train. I'd see him on the street. There were even a couple of occasions where I'd run into him in areas that weren't even hear my house or school. One time I was walking through Soho with my bestfriend and I saw him and him and I made eye contact. Mehn, that was by far one of the most awkward moments I'd encountered with him. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 1:13am On Feb 10, 2012 |
@OP: My day was quite lovely. While I was at my school's computer lab, one of the tech guys tried to hit on me. Unfortunately, I had a class at that particular time which was why I didn't stay too long. As I was printing my paper for my professor, I noticed him smiling at me so I smiled back. As I was proofreading my work so I could print a second copy, I noticed the guy's friend nudging him to come talk to me. He seemed kinda shy so the both of them came over and started a conversation. He asked me how I was doing and I said I was fine. Then he asked me if I had taken my finals. I would have stayed longer to talk to him but I really needed to get back to class. I'll go back to the computer lab tomorrow or on Tuesday so I can chat him up. When I walked back to my class, everyone had broken up into groups so I ended up working with the group that I saw my professor standing near. She placed me in a group with one oyibo guy I've been eyeing for the past week and a half lol. Lucky me! We ended up talking and making jokes about the professor. He tried to make me laugh by telling me a joke but the joke wasn't that funny so he tried another one but the professor kinda interrupted his joke. We went back to our regular seats after the group assignment and the cutie pie sat next to me while we exchanged looks during the class because the class was so damn boring. In all, aside from the cold, my day was pleasant. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: BABE! by InkedNerd(f): 12:56am On Feb 10, 2012 |
[quote author=BABE! link=topic=809995.msg10157116#msg10157116 date=1328783831]^^ Same here girl. I lost yours too.  Yup, I'm watching BGC. BBW starts soon. I'll buzz you on YM. Safe. [/quote]lol aiight. So many fights already! Chei! |
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