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RomanceRe: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by InZA: 7:42pm On Jan 16, 2015
SAMBARRY:
op
I'm not the OP undecided

Why the quote? undecided
RomanceRe: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by InZA: 7:40pm On Jan 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
Oh wow!

I guess it's friendships which you don't really value that you would act like that.

I can't believe you'll do that to a really good friend undecided
That's thing, if he were my really good friend, he would have already known my stance on things like that, so he wouldn't even put me in such a position.

I don't mind if you're shocked or surprised at the tone of my initial reply to the OP undecided , There are just some things that I aggressively detest- Infidelity is one of them.
RomanceRe: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by InZA: 7:32pm On Jan 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
Like seriously huh

You'll be a snitch? undecided
Naah.

I don't call it snitching.

It's just my personal, maybe queer way of being a good friend.
RomanceRe: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by InZA: 7:31pm On Jan 16, 2015
morefire:
apart from this post really is everthing ok with you? cos you seem really upset oh....
Everything is ok with me.


Thanks for your concern wink
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Thought-provoking Satirical Illustrations By Pawel Kuczynski by InZA: 2:49pm On Jan 16, 2015
Flytefalls:
I didn't initially observe what you've described above upon seeing the picture. The slave chains being painted gold; could it also symbolise materialism, consumerism, defeatism? Born onto lands of bountiful natural wealth, we still don't have much. We carry on painting our chains gold and accepting our situation in this world without much action but have trivial life aspirations. We shouldn't be painting our chains, we should be breaking our chains!!!

Just thinking out loud. I read your observation and thought 'wow, that's more like it!' smiley
I think your own interpretation is so interesting, I didn't see it from that perspective at all and I think that's one of the beauties of our collective individualities- seeing things in different lights and applying different solutions to a common problem.

I really learnt from your own interpretation. Thanks for sharing. smiley
RomanceRe: 12 Reasons Why Nice Guys Don't Always Get The Girl by InZA: 1:18am On Jan 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
Chìibwike don suffer sha! grin
gringringrin

I was going to say something verrrrrrrry close to what you said.

But you beat me to it. grin
RomanceRe: Ladies Why!! by InZA: 12:54am On Jan 16, 2015
Even though the general theme of the OP's post makes sense, it doesn't still make me doubt that the OP is actually a guy, as someone rightly suggested, he may just be one of those attention starved male-nairalanders that has resurrected as the OP.

As much as girls engage in verbal fencing every now and then, I don't think any normal reasoning girl would be quick to call another girl "a bitc:h" at the slightest, dimmest provocation-It's an act more consistent with a guy.

So OP... Thank you for enlightening our ladies about their need for financial independence, I'm sure they've heard.




















They would still have heard you if you had put your true male picture though undecided
RomanceRe: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by InZA: 11:57pm On Jan 15, 2015
RomanceRe: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by InZA: 6:47pm On Jan 15, 2015
You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef angry

Rubbish!!!
RomanceRe: 14 Things We Wish Our Girlfriends Knew by InZA: 3:02pm On Jan 15, 2015
I can relate with Number 14 to a very large extent... I don't see myself saying those three words ever! to any woman except I know that it's exactly what I
truly mean.

It's been over 6 years since I said those words to any girl, and even then I didn't truly mean it. I don't see myself repeating such a mistake.


If my girlfriend or wife slaps me- That's absolutely the end of the relationship. If I would never raise my hands at you, I don't see why you should raise your hands on me. Slapping a man as a lady, is not just a reflex action in response to an agitated argument, it's a symptom, a symptom of gross disregard and disrespect for everything your man stands for.

No matter how angry your father gets you to be, can you raise your hand at him. So why should you then be willing to raise your hand at your boyfriend,. Many ladies want a guy like their fathers, who would adore and cherish them, yet they don't want to give the guy the same respect and honor that they would naturally give to their dads.
RomanceRe: How Can I Spend The Rest Of My Life With Just One Person???? by InZA: 2:22pm On Jan 15, 2015
Hollyb:
That is why it's good to marry your best friend, someone you are comfortable with so that wen the passion dies down at least there will be something to continue with and that friendship can even reignite the passion. And again its a matter of determination that no matter what! I want to be with this person,
Well said

There's nothing that can be better than marrying not just someone you love... But someone you're genuinely friends with.... People have friends for 50,60years and they don't get tired of each other ....So really it's really the best thing to get married to your friend.

Then again as Hollyb has so rightly said, it's involves a lot of conscious personal commitment, Can you ever get tired of being your parent's child or being your brother's/sister's sibling?... That's how it is in marriage too, you should learn to be committed to that person for life and enjoy it.
RomanceRe: Come In To See The very First Romance Section Thread.. by InZA: 2:10pm On Jan 15, 2015
It's nice to see such a thread grin

Guys have been having relationship issues sincceeeeeeeeeee 2005 grin
RomanceRe: Give A Brother A Helping Hand. by InZA: 2:08am On Jan 15, 2015
Linqsz:
Hello Nlanders, sorry for bothering you with my stupid problem.

I need to buy a girl a surprise gift and its not for any special occasion or celebration. Just felt like surprising her.
And yes,its a girl I'm wooing.

I just need options/ideas on a reasonable gift within the price range of 5k - 2k.

Thanks
Any girl has atleast one of these three love-interests
-Bags
-Shoes
-Perfume
-Make up.



You can get any of them from either Konga or Jumia(I'm not advertising) or any online store.

If you're going to do this, I think the upper limit of your price range will be more fitting.

Get them to deliver it at her address.

Later in the day, when you call her to talk about her day, she will likely mention it, tell her you sent it and you just did because you saw it and felt it would look/smell/good on her. Hopefully she will blush.

I think it's better to distance yourself from her after giving her the gift... Don't see her for like 2 or 3days. The reason is, you don't want to seem as if the gift has given you an increased sense of entitlement to her time or presence.

Just continue pressing "her buttons" from a distance.














I swear down!.... I didn't plan to write all these things. I was supposed to stop in "Make up"
RomanceRe: 3 Things Female With More Than One Sex Partner Stands To Loose Out by InZA: 1:50am On Jan 15, 2015
Hehehe.


There's something about this thread that I'm really digging grin grin grin




But it's logical sha...imagine using different sizes of "pipes" for the plumbing work of a house... Tendency is that you will flush the toilet and end up seeing the flush water coming out of the kitchen sinkgringrin
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by InZA: 11:11pm On Jan 14, 2015
Chimerase:
nop amu a man of god cheesy
Okiiiieee grin
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin by InZA: 10:59pm On Jan 14, 2015
Chimerase:
Op stop using dat word of is everi guys fantasy
Not all guys luv to go down with a virgin haba
Your signature is hilarious grin grin grin

Care to go into a bit more detail? cheesy
RomanceRe: The First Time I'm Having Feelings by InZA: 9:39pm On Jan 14, 2015
elantraceey:
no data, using my sis phone.
Alright.
RomanceRe: The First Time I'm Having Feelings by InZA: 9:35pm On Jan 14, 2015
=elantraceey=

Your bbm off?
RomanceRe: 9 Things Men Notice First About Women by InZA: 9:26pm On Jan 14, 2015
mirexxx:
c ya eyes n lips undecided
What happened to them undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Who Is The Best Nigerian Gospel Artiste? (Pictures) by InZA: 9:20pm On Jan 14, 2015
I don't know who to pick between -
Sinach and Frank Edwards




Frank Edwards












Sinach












Frank Edwards














Sinach












Frank Edwards















Sinach wins!!! gringrin
RomanceRe: The First Time I'm Having Feelings by InZA: 9:05pm On Jan 14, 2015
I really don't know why you guys are vilifying the OP now undecided

Is it that the "person mama" he fell in love with is not a human being or incapable of human emotions, he has not said she's a married woman with a kid or kids neither has he said she's a person mama that is older than him.

If I made such a comment and the girl in question is a 25 or 28 years old lady with a kid, she would still be younger than I am and as such very very eligible for a relationship with me.

So you guys should chill abeg undecided

Or did I miss some key information in the initial post huh
RomanceRe: 9 Things Men Notice First About Women by InZA: 8:36pm On Jan 14, 2015
For me it's Eyes

First thing is always the eyes... Ladies with beautiful eyes just makes my head spin

Next is the lips ...Ever seen those ladies with very faintly thickened lips with a slightly "M" skew?. . Damn!!!


Third is the chest ... I'm a breastz lover. So it's only typical undecided
CultureRe: Does Our Generation Still Care About Marrying Virgins ?? by InZA: 7:05pm On Jan 14, 2015
I can't marry a non-virgin sha.

Non-virgins abeg keep off

No loitering.

No parking.

Keep moving.


Move to the next bus/manstop undecided
RomanceRe: 7types Of Guy A Girl May Meet Before The "One" by InZA: 6:39pm On Jan 14, 2015
neoapocalypse:
The problem is they don't get to appreciate the one or even love him without trying out different types of guys or relationships. She probably would have met the one in between these previous relationships
True.
RomanceRe: 7types Of Guy A Girl May Meet Before The "One" by InZA: 6:10pm On Jan 14, 2015
I see atleast 6 different types of sex partners lipsrsealed

Sometimes it's just better for you girls to chill and give all those random, aimless dating a break. Instead of jumping from one Mr Hot guy to Mr Cool guy to Mr partier and in the process generously increasing the mileage on your vagina; It's better to just chill and keep yourself for The One

The same holds true for guys too
Nairaland GeneralRe: Hello Nairaland! :) by InZA: 5:57pm On Jan 14, 2015
Tymax:
Tell them...
This your organization na strong one oooo grin

Is it registered grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Hello Nairaland! :) by InZA: 5:53pm On Jan 14, 2015
Tymax:
Welcome o. A word of advice: Beware of wife hunters. grin
We plenty.
Yes we aregringrin
RomanceRe: Understanding Love Languages Of Ladies And How To Implement Them. by InZA: 5:02pm On Jan 14, 2015
Nonso23:
And i will reply, your body is our body and my body is my body grin grin as she don make am be like say na business we dey do.

I don't believe it jor, good ladies are everywhere, the bad ones are just very loud and hence more noticeable than the rest. They don't need to become better after marriage because they are already perfectly ready for the institution.
Well said.

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