₦airaland Forum

Me am fallin head over.

I think they get angry because as we all may know that it takes much more courage for a lady to walk-up to a guy and express herself than the other way round, and after such sacrifices (shame, pride, etc) she now gets a handerchief from someone, !!

Just picture the scenario and i'll let you do the maths

The most stupid thing i've ever done for love was to love someone and not knowing it.

I wonder how it will sound-like coming out of your mouth, you don't know how to say it in the simplest form how then will you say it the Nigerian languages. Simply tell him in the best way you can, that is what makes you different from others that have been telling him such.

Anyway and anyhow, whichever comes first, i wish you well.

"Freedom of Speech" needs be banned for some people.

@bebe2007

Like your friends said, i think he's missing your company, i mean think about all the things both of you do together when he's around you either alone or in the midst of friends, Yeah that, That is what he's missing.

Take care.

I think i really meant what you think he meant by "i miss you"
Simple.

I guess thier belief is that, night time is when internet crimes take place, and thats part of their effort to comb it out, but not many cybercafe's are adhering to that law.

Personally, i believe its againt the rights of the cafe owners.

Well, thats my Haier A61 Laptop screenshot.

Well said Verbocity

Frankie take note, verbocity has finaliased it all, big ups to you man.

I believe by you the guy must have a different view from what he used to have about the gurl, at least this posts have put some doubts in his mind.

But wait ooo, you no tell us whether u try call the number and e tell you "which kind number u dial, e no dey work joo"

Well if you haven't, try it, you never can tell.

Either way, Wish u well

2 words for you gurl,

Be Careful.

@ Frankies

Well we understand your plight, but the fact still remains that some gurl prefer not to play the game of being hard to get, for some reason of loosing the person they feel deep for to another gurl, seconding, the gurl may be kind of bored as in having few company (electronic) and needs one to keep her company especially at night. We all know that gurl like to be pampered and made to feel warm and cared for and we shouldn't take that for granted since it cost us little or nothing, lets see it this way, what would it cost to keep her company from 12.30 pm till 4.30 am, only 100naira recharge (4 we naijerians).

For me, i would advice you condemn her as being cheap, she might be your other half, you never can tell and she might be cheap as you claim, but you only need time and wisdom to figure that out.


Less i forget, you never told us your intension, truely she might might to have you as a friend. (no strings)

Good Luck anyway.

@ Ima1

Firstly, i don't see anything dirty in this and i must say like they all say, "if you dont try, you dont get defeated but still do not learn anything".

Back to the question, i think you're being sweet in your own way, besides being sweet is not telling the opposite sex you love, die and so on. But i think its more to it than just that, you should make him know how much you feel for him, some guys prefer words than action and your guy might be one of em, yes, you prefer showing him but that may be an overdose for him to handle and he might begin to mis-use it.

Betterstil, each time you're speaking with him, try listen to your heart and not mostly what you read/hear on tv or mags, that way you tend to be the real you and not somebody else.

Lastly, always try to figure out where to draw the line, dont make it seem too obvious that you're falling head over for him, some people tend to take it for granted, i wish you well.

@ Elizabeth

Your boyfriend has every reason to feel the way he does but you have to make him see reasons beyond your not being in the mood, sex is supposed to be done on mutual agreement by both party and not a one-sided thing. Of course it takes two to tangle, but you've got tp make him understand that.

Good luck to you.

@ simeony

Its a good thing you specifically said "i" meaning you, but there's a difference in the statement, we are talking about relationship and not friendship, if am mistaking, there's a difference between them except am wrong. Either way, sex shouldn't be a criteria.

Good Luck


@ chinnys

You do not need sex to spice up a relationship, even if there's mutual agreement between the two parties. I am not trying to be a saint here but i think respect for each other should be a priority, know how your partner feels and try to understand him/her.

If the foundation of your relationship are based on the following, these are likely to be the result.

Based on beauty: What happens when it fades ( you do the maths)
Based on Sex: you go definitely will get sick of it at least wit d fact that its with the same person.
Based on Material things: Na for ever, the guy/gurl eye go open one day.

But when you have a relationship that is based on affection, truth, "love"(sincere and not lust), then you begin to have mutual agrrement with each other, thereby getting to learn new things about yourself and have no cause to be bored seeing/meeting each other everytime.

I hope we all get to learn from this thread. big ups to the poster.

Pardon me if am wrong, but isn't kissing supposed to be done by two who are having something intimate, else we all can just walk the whole street kissing whosoever come our way. aint it.

Lets be frank to ourselves, we all know "kissing" another man, while you have one at home is cheating and there's no other word to describe it, be it for whatever reason the kissing was done.

As for me, that statement is not true, love has got nothing to do with sex,

Kimba has said it all. Hope ur thought as cleared.

Gurl, just like manulove has said, and if am mistaking about what love is, then correct me please.

I think all you are crazy about in the other guy is his physical being or something else but not love, you need to look down on yourself and know what you really want i a guy, cos if physicall attraction is what you want, am sorry but you might end up jumping from one man to another and that is not cool for a lady, a guy can do such and get away with it, but not a lady.

Have a re-think on what is occupying your mind, and be careful not to make it obvious to your boyfriend that  you have someone else you "fancy".

Wish u well.

It is okay to share informations that you consider not vital and that you want to learn something about, but not informations about your relationship that are considered private, at least part of the essence of being in a relationship is to learn from each other, if you have wanted to learn from friends why be in a relationship.??

My point is, it is not okay to tell your friends "EVERYTHING" a little would do but not everything.