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If you try investing in people, you will never tired

mascot345:
Three years ago... I had nothing.

Just last year... I bought a land worth millions.
By God's grace. I will finish building my house next year.

Just last month... I bought a car.
Now I am even tired of driving the car.

My girlfriend is very pretty... Now I am tired of bleeping her after a year and six months.
And I am also tired of sides chicks too.

In conclusion just know that everything is just vanity upon vanity... Our biggest problem in Africa is poverty.

I am 34 and I plan marrying after building my house next year.

And don't ever try to be greedy. Give your life to Jesus Christ and seek his opinion . Most importantly be contempted with what u have.
Happy Sunday pals.

Share your own experience? What are you tired of?

Are you tired of your spouse, work, car, house or what?

elay44:
Bro I only read stuff as a guest. this your post made me register on nairaland. I am in this same boat the, threats, jealousy, anger, no support financially,( I earn very well to take care of the family but it can be exhausting sometimes) etc. but we have Kids . I salute your courage bro. you need to be in this shoes to understand what this bro went through. you can comment and call names but you just can't understand. I feel you and I am very happy for you. thanks for speaking up and being an encouragement. a lot of men are going through shit all in the name of love. forget redplliers. we are not built to be violent, we geniuely care for people, that just how we are wired. but we are taken for granted and our nature taken for weakness.

Some people will not understand this

Most men going through this will never talk about it.
If you want to take a stand as a man, the noise from her just keep increasing and the society supports her and treats you as not being able to handle your marital issues.

Pecoleee345:
If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

Alternatively (very cost efficient), once most of the box ticks and you have made up your mind and reserved enough cash for the marriage, give am belly, if e enter proceed

osuofia2:
The South should stop making something out of nothing. PMB is not the only high profile individual seeking medical care abroad. OBJ did it, Osinbanjo is doing it, Tinubu is doing it. So why always single out baba Buhari.
I am yet to see who loves and have Nigeria at heart like Baba Buhari. He is not a Thief like Tinubu or Orji Kalu

All those you mentioned never in their life spoken against medical tourism as your master and saviour bubu

NewSoul:
I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

O Seer, what shall we do?

That BBNaija 21 years looks older than her

Do you accept instalmental payments?

Something they will soon hand over to Boko Haram or crash am

Ask her how she was coping with she was not staying with you and from there, you will understand how marriage will be like

But your money is still safe and intact inside the bank.
Are you sure you are not the one useless?

MightySparrow:
God Himself regulates everything there is! A life of limitless freedom is an undisciplined one.

Yeah right, like you are limited to 15 cubic feet of oxygen every day

Our President does not have need for learning and library so why should we?
If he had, he wouldn't have been repeating that crude oil prices were $100 per barrel for 16 years

Thank you for this
Fornication and Adultery are ambiguous terms for sexual perversions.
Throughout the Bible,
1) sex with a married woman is explicitly condemned but not sex with a married man (Proverbs 6).
2) Random sex with a woman and putting into family way without taking care of her is anathema (Deut.)
3) sex with same sex or animal is outrightly condemned. (Romans)

So dear pastors please tell me where explicitly sex between two singles who are taking care of each other is condemned, INSTEAD, the bible celebrates a young man and a young woman playing love (Songs of Solomon)

Belafonte:
First of all, sex is not a sin. The sin is having sex under the wrong parameters.

Sex is pleasurable, but it also has its other purposes such as; intimacy, procreation, etc. The sin with sex is when sex is abused.

You are commanded to give and help people in need, but if you fail to fulfil your responsibilities to your family, no amount of charity giving will render your generosity righteous. Failing to care for members of your household and giving to strangers is sinful.

"All sexual pleasure should be shared between a man and his married female wife [s]in the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved."[/s]

Don't add to the Word of God

Buhari happened

For today eh, if it is still tight and the girl get good attitude, marry am, forget the count

So this is the stage for all the immoralities

Starboy on the beat

"I'm going now, I'm tired"

This is so depressing

Correct people
Dem don find new opportunity to cash in

You will see as COVID-19 cases go reduce, international funding now will be for monkeypox

that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her,

Emotional blackmail

If at 22, she doesn't have any skill to generate some income, she is useless to you in marriage

With two hands and two legs and a working brain, her only means of survival apart from you is prostitution, my brother, have a rethink.

No matter how much you give her, someone might give more

Kriss216:
A broke man trying to advice a Billionaire on money matter should be treated as an act of terrorism in a sane country.

This is brutal

Is like I hear something about testing nuclear bomb in Nigeria

You are supposed to capture the results in your handheld device, once you get to the collation centre, it upload automatically because there is network in all the 774,000 LGA headquarters in Nigeria.

We know what to do, we just don't want to do it

What's so hard about organising about 3000 people and count them if not greed

Go to storage and check app

We already have it on Telegram since 1898

We even have free cloud space to save stuff
Useful when you sit on a foreign system and wishes to throw things out to get it later

garfield1:
It will even enable them to inflate more.that law does not stop rigging,it only transfer or changes the location of riggin from collation centres to polling units.politicians will now rig polling units by all means no more collation centres... Cc fergie001, kyase

Much better for now

Before, millions exchanged hands at the collation centres by less than 10 persons, now the millions will be spent at the polling units where thousands are waiting

My only concern is that, I hope the parasite infected NA will not approve for South and disapprove for North claiming insecurity and no network coverage

How did we get here?

Once Nigeria stopped encouraging production by allowing some parasites who think oil money is the only money to control politics

When we allowed Ibrahim who scored 5 out of 300 to get admission and proceed to become Director while Emeka who scored 255 is denied admission and later become a salesperson

They would do anything to make appear like "they are killing each other".
Ndigbo, open your eyes

That's why they are opposing the electronic transmission of result by INEC, it would reveal the true population of the desert North

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