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LilMissFavvy:
One of the things I don't like about my gender . Most women cant keep secrets. Better to send your brother a message and narrate things just as it happened because she may have twisted the issue when she told your brother. I don't see it as a bad thing to have asked for that exchange since you were helpless. What's her gain now that she has put you in trouble.

Datboredberry:
Proved me right... Did I insult you? Only retārds resort to insults during a civil confrontation...

Can you even define the word?

The way it's trending on Nairaland... Extremely shameful!

uyimen:
Good day,
Pls help me with ur advice , i know u wont be shy to tell me if am wrong.

I got married to my dream wife, she lived with a relative for 18yrs who she also called mummy, she have a biological mother, who saw her through school (university level) though she was living with this Aunty.

Problem started when i came to marry her , the Aunty was hostile, she kept coming up with issue to paint me bad. I was repeatedly called to come and explain irrelevant provocative issues sure as why i travelled to inform my wife biological mother of my wedding plans. After the bride price payment and rites duly performed, She still made me perform an additional party which she called a traditional marriage outing party in her compound. All these i did for peace sake. No one including family members, husband children or even my wife ,dear opposes her to caution her ..In all these my wife kept on saying *she stayed with her for 18yrs.*
Worst of all u latter gathered from friends that this said Aunty was laying curses on us during the marriage, that the marriage will fail and my wife will return to her with tales of martial wows.
Then she warned me to stop calling her mummy. In all these my wife was always in tears through the honeymoon.
I ignored just becos i knew after the marriage things will change. This Aunty feed my wife with all forms of manipulative desires to set us up. and even requesting feedbacks from her in some case, words here are not enough to explain all.

To my surprise two yrs into the marriage this said Aunty and her children are still key important figures in my wife live, they have access to her and my home at will, somethings they plan visits when am at work.

Each of there visits leave us in weeks of quarrels . now its me my wife blames.

Friends what do i do now, my wife insists that because of 18yrs of living with them so i should let go and pretend nothing ever went wrong.
Pls advise me.

Officialhorlah:
Guys, Don't take the role of husband while dating, You're his boyfriend jooor!

You give money

You give more money

You will still give massive money

Etc.

Know your limits as a boyfriend abeg.

If she gets too much from you she'll make you her ATM and you become a Simp

Guess what !!!

She will keep u as his boyfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

pregnantMan:
She lied that her dad was sick and she wanted visiting him in the village, not knowing that she was going to spend some days in another guy's house.. I later found out tho..
Sandra, dog will bite your ass

Baawaa:
90% of his congregation are poor,wonderful

Vinnie2000:
Is this Chronic Clout Chaser Owk?

Buying Luxury cars and showing Off like Dino Melaye!

I nor Blame am Though! because him Baba get Small money, him dey Misbehave anyhow!

BTW, Any Body dat Quotes me for Bashing, Your Father First!

SARSCoV2:
Small pikin…

You gave KWAM1 $4000, and still let it make the media pages

Smh….

Doubt nigga knows KWAM1.

WillyWonda1:
Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.

Lavisha:
Go back home bro.

That shitt is not for you.

2016 l, I got a 30k PA job in Opebi, Lagos.
The boss was an abusive rich brat, I quit after 2 weeks cos I just can't stand her bad mouthing all cos of a Job.

In 2017, I got a Job with Sumal Foods Ibadan as QC officer, makers of Biscuits and chewing Gums; never knew it was a fuckkin Indian Company.
The pay was 30k with 12hrs shifts, what broke the camel's back was I had to leave my Lagos to stay with a relative in Ibadan, it wasn't funny at all.
I lasted just 3 days ..

My dad disowned me cos of not wanting to do shitty jobs.

I kept on grinding for the right Job untill Dangote called!

Now I'm Papa's favourite!
I've overtaken Hunger, abuse, poverty and all those who doubted me.
I've got my own fam, and a sweet car too.
I may not have it all yet but in my mind- I am rich and I aint gonna settle for less.
Things worked for me maybe because I'm a typical "Cappy" and don't believe in forcing and rushing things.
Slow and steady won it for me.


Don't give up bro, you just need the right mentality.
Not everyone is fit for suffering, if you really think you belong to a better situation, Just hold on and keep grinding and praying, your turn will come.

If I can make it, you can too.

50pseamer:
I would like to share my current situation on this platform , and I will very much appreciate your mature advice on the issue.

I have been having issues with my wife after our first born, we married about 3 years ago, our first born is now about 2 years old, we have been having series of issues In the marriage, my wife argues with me a lot on flimsy issues at times, we do not have constant sex, although I started helping more in the house,I cook and and I do the laundry , and asked her to give me my share of the work, when she complained about work load,I am the only one really working now, and paying 98 percent of the bills.

I told my wife that I will like us to be eating together on the same plate to improve closeness, she refused, she sees arguement as normal discussion, sometimes we have sex once or twice in a month, I have told her I will like us all to attend the same church and pray together, but she still attends her Nigerian church online , where they are always seeing vision , and I do not like her attending that church.she also attends online services of my church with me, but I would like us to be attending one church even if it is not my church.
I asked her recently that we need to be praying together for our marriage even if it is 10 minutes every day, after weeks of no response from her,I approached her yesterday and scolded her about it, she cried and I comforted her, I later asked her at night to come for the prayer,and she said she is not coming.
We live abroad and my mum wants to pay us a visit,
She told me the kitchen is her's and my mum should not enter the kitchen, and I told her that it will be difficult, we can pre cook all our food, But she might need to make tea and I will like her to be able to do that by her self , but my wife refused.
In her church she is attending they already branded. My mother a witch. Even if my mother is a witch, we only need to pray against it, should we humiliate her when she visits us? I cannot make my wife my mother, she does not show me much love and does not show that she cares, neither does she respect me. My mum shows me love that I can feel.

Now we are living like neighbours in the same house.
Do you think she is interested in the marriage or has another plan?

Baloranking:
You're in pain. I advise you see a doctor.

fuckingAyaya:
u fit name ur daughter johny ?

isaiah4life:
Zuze.

How I arrived at my answer.

The second letter after the first letter are vowel letters. So, the first son has "A", the second son has "E", the third son has "I", the fourth son "O"and the fifth son will automatically have "U".

A E I 0 U

Therefore, the last son name will be ZUZE


Should I drop my account number to claim my prize? Abeg Christmas don set reach and sapa dey.

DropsMic:
NOAH..


I'd like to ask him how he managed to fit all the animals in the world including all the species of ants inside his Ark.

Amotolongbo:
I am still wondering why Solomon is said to be very wise.

If someone can tell me, I will gladly appreciate

paulolee:
omor....it seems F.G go extend this 1 week of mourning for haters to 1 month o.
haters n their wailing are becoming new every morning...
dis award has tinted all other 6 won by leo bt d one ur man stole from Ribery didnt tint his other 4 awarfs he letta won abi.
u too sabi ball jhare....this cr7 fans are getting too smart for me to comprehend..

obembet:
Lionel Messi may have won an unprecedented seventh Ballon d'Or this week but fans of Cristiano Ronaldo have found another way to show that the Manchester United man has the edge over the Argentina hero.

Ronaldo has won the gong five times himself - an incredible haul but ultimately now two less than Messi.

But remarkably, across the all-time history of Ballon d'Or voting Ronaldo has received 200 more votes than Messi - according to The Sun.
Messi has received 3,574 votes across his career while Ronaldo has amassed a total of 3,781 - over 200 more than the Paris Saint-Germain player.

Messi was crowned the winner in Monday's ceremony after a year where he finally won an international honour with Argentina - the Copa America - as well as lifting the Copa del Rey with Barcelona.

It turned out to be his final trophy at the club. Barcelona let him leave for free after being unable to offer him a contract extension due to their ongoing financial difficulties.

Ronaldo, meanwhile, endured a trophyless season at Juventus before heading back to Manchester United, where things aren't going much better.
Ronaldo has scored 10 goals in 15 games since being back at Old Trafford and will be back in action on Thursday when United meet Arsenal.

He was surprisingly left on the bench for the 1-1 draw against Chelsea on Sunday.

Source: https://dailypost.ng/2021/12/01/ronaldo-has-received-200-votes-more-than-messi-in-history-of-ballon-dor-voting/

victooman:
that by now would have make the award useless,, so you u are better and smarter than the millions of people criticizing this award this year?

Bigredmachine:
Eyah... Bro please listen to her... What ever role she wants u to play, pls play it well...

When ur eyes go clear say na substitute bench u dey, nobody go tell u to find another club



Nothing do u

Wawelexy:
Mumu..... Inferiority complex...

Christane:
Lewandowski was robbed of z Ballon dor all becus of Messi ..the Ballon dor award was cancelled last year all becus of the pandemic cus Lewandowski was suppose to win it .if Messi was d favourite to win it last year I bet u d ceremony will not be cancelled ...becus d organisers love Messi ...2021 Lewy deserve to win it bt it was awarded to Messi all becus he won Copa America ...the organiser love Messi Nd just give the award to who dey love not by merit .... Lewandowski was robbed

Kingcalls:
[s]They said its because of copa... so y dint suarez win it in 2011 , he won copa abd also had a brilliant season with Liverpool....it went to Messi, 2015 sanchez won it , also had a decent season with arsenal, he wasn't even nominated, Messi won it... lets bet it , if psg is knocked out in the round of 16 , and messi ends the season with 20 goals , and gets to the semi final of the world cup .... they will give it to him again .... this time , they will say he had a brilliant season despite joining a new team for the first time in his career , he won the league , French Cup and scored 20 goals in a season and also got to the semi of world cup .... then the winners of world cup will come second .... joke of an award[/s]

mascot345:
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U are very smart. I have a girlfriend who is 22.. She is in 400level pharmacy.

When I asked her marrying her or building a house.

She chose building a house.

But those ones wey done pass 25 years will say ... Marry first.

No wahala ... I will do as u say. Thanks alot Bro.

MadamVanessa:



Since sense is far from this one, I will still be here and read the news of your death. Because certainly this man will kill you one day.

toujurs:
No mind the guy, only him wan chop wetin him never pay bride price on. So him go knack the girls selfishly and drop her later. This one na selfish mumu.

WickedPisa:
but e pain you sha, no lie